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Hitguj » Views and Comments » Relationships » नवरा, बायको, संसार, तडजोड इ. » It's her life anyway... (when it comes to marriages!) » Archive through May 12, 2005 « Previous Next » Shraddhak Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:24 pm:      It's her life anyway.... when it comes to marriages! puZcyaa cacao-saazI..... Tulip Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 4:09 pm:      elaayaJaa mhNato tsa lagna hI mauLatca ek traditional gaÜYTca Aaho AaiNa jarI tI iktIhI vaOyai>k baaba AsalaI trI ivaXaoYat : Baartasaar#yaa samaajvyavasqaomaQyao tI saamaaijak jaast zrto. maga to lagna zrNao Asaola ikMvaa maÜDNao. lagnaabaabat negative attitude vaaZlaa Aaho kaÆ tr hÜ.. baáyaaca p`maaNaat AaiNa Eawo tuJyaa lailat maQaUna to jaaNavatoya. ekT rahUna kirAr k$ phaNaaáyaa maulaIMnaa Krca ‘lagna’ (a sattcyaa caica-lyaa jaaNaaáyaa p`YNaamauLo irritate ca hÜto ho svaanauBavaavaÉna malaahI maanya Asalao trI Asa vaaTt kI kuzlahI compro. ikva adjustment krayalaa tyaar AsaNyaacaI maanaisak vaR<aIca Aamacyaa janaroXana maQaUna naahIXaI hÜt caalalaI Aaho AaiNa hard core careers pursue krtanaa Krtr lagnaanaMtr (aca gaÜYTIMcaI inataMt AavaXyakta Aaho. ho manaatUna ]magalyaamauLoca lagna [t@yaat nakÜca Asao vaaTt rhato. kirAr laa ijatk mah%va idla jaat ittkca irlaoXainXaPsa Dovalap krNyaakrta Vayalaa pahIjao pNa %yaakrta purosaa vaoL kuzUna kaZNaar. %yaapoxaa %yaa TaLlaolyaaca baáyaa mhNajao inaBaavaNyaacaI vaoLca yaayalaa nakÜ Asa kahItrI. Cana ivaYayaavar Cana pwtInao ilahIla Aahosa Eawa. Yogibear Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 4:23 pm:      Tulip: '%yaapoxaa %yaa TaLlaoyaaca baáyaa mhNajao.... ' <<< Dont you think, its running away from the situation!!! Not to make this BB as V&C... but just a thought. Tulip Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 4:42 pm:      Yes Yogi.. exactly toca. hÜta hܚla tovhZ pLayaca Deepanjali Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 5:40 pm:      lagna krNyaalaa objection naahIyao tr jyaa pQdtInao to eKadI vya>I prepared nasalaI trIhI laadlaM jaatM ³maulaIMvar jaastÆÆ´Ê %yaa saazI jyaa typical saacyaatUna jaavaM laagatM %yaalaa objection Aaho . jar ekada maulagaa mhNaalaa kI malaa career maQao settle Jaalaavar sa<aavaIsa ikMvaa A{vaIsaavyaa vaYaI- lagnaacaa ivacaar krayacaa Aaho tr kÜNaalaa kahI vaaTt naahI pNa hoca jar eKadI maulagaI mhNalaI tr itlaa jyaa p`karcyaa p`itËIyaa imaLtat %yaalaa objection Aaho ² eKadI tIXaIcaI maulagaI jar Aivavaaiht idsalaI tr itlaa pahUna Bauvayaa ]McaavaNaaáyaa laÜkaMcyaa reaction var objection Aaho ² yaa pUNa- system maQao AajahI maulaIMnaa jyaa p`karo treat kolaM jaatM %yaalaa objection Aaho ² XaovaTI lagnaacao saMskar hI commitment cyaa basis var Aahot. maga Ea naI ]dahrNa idlaolyaa ivainata saar#yaa eKaVa maulaIcaI live in relationship maQaohI AXaIca mutual commitment Asaola tr kaya gaOr Aaho Æ Good one EaQda² Rachana_barve Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 6:10 pm:      sahI Ea.. ekdma sauroK ilaihlayasa. lagna Krca krNa garjaoca Asat ka. Asaa p`XNa Aaplyaa maagacyaa ipZIlaa ivacaarla kI tu mhNatosa tsa A<aa sqaL yaotayat naMtr imaLNaar naahIt. naahItr sagaLI maula saMpuna jaatIla vagaOro AXaI ]<arca imaLtat pNa its her life anyway Asa kÜNaI mhNat naahI. lagnaasaar*KI vaOya>Ik gaÜYT Aaplyaa kDo barIca saamaajaIk Aaho. even lagna krtanaa to navara baayakÜ kmaI pNa [tr jaNaca jaast involve hÜtanaa idsatat. lagnaacaI ]daisanata vaaZt caalalaI Aaho espeicially maulaIMmaQao karNa Aata maulaI baáyaapOkI kmaava%yaaÊ svatM~ Jaalyaa Aahot. Aa[ baabaaMcyaa caÝkTIt rahUna ho sahja saaQya hÜ} Xakt naahI. samaajaacao dDpNa naahI mhMTlao trI Asatoca. ek maa~ Kr pNa Krca ka Aaplyaalaa jaÜDIdaracaa XaÜQa nasatÜÆ kI dusaáyaavar Takayacaa ivaXvaasa kmaI hÜt caalalaa AahoÆ Chandya Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 7:17 pm:      EaÊ mast ilaihlao Aahosa. RB cao XaovaTcao ivaQaana ivacaar krayalaa laavaNaaro Aaho. "fast" food AaiNa health "conscious" ipZIt lagnaacyaa laaDUcao AakYa-Na kmaI hÜNao svaaBaaivak vaaTto. ekuNa samaaja ha naivana badla isvakarayalaa qaÜDa vaoL jaašla pNa the change is inevitable . Karadkar Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 7:36 pm:      DJ - you always write carrier instead of career -- i noticed it on the BB you started about dream profession - please make note of this .. Anyway - carry on .. Najuka Tuesday, May 10, 2005 - 10:00 pm:      wow its really nicely written .... pNa mala ek ivacaarvasa vaTt ikÊ do you know any girls who really thinks " ok lets me get married, i am really prepared for it now ! ) .... naahI naa ... ... its very hard to know when you really are ready for marriage. settlement mhatli, tar that is relative, aani lagna aadhich sagla settle zala tar lagnanatar aayushyala kay arta... dogha milun ek ek goshta jama karavi, social naati develop karavit hech chaan nahi ka ..... anyways... Bee Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 1:50 am:      kQaIkQaI AapNa jyaalaa svaatM~\ya mhNatÜ tÜ eklaopNaacaa ek koivalavaaNaa Baaga AsatÜ. AašvaDIlaÊ Baa}Ê BaavajayaÊ baihNaIÊ AajaUbaajaUlaa Aaplaaca samaaja (aMcyaat rahUna AivavaahItpNao jaganao Xa@ya hÜt naahI. jaI vya>I lagnaacaa ivacaar k$na saMsaarat pDNyaacaa ivacaar krto tI XahaNaI Asao maaJao zama mat Aaho. AnauÉp jaÜDIdar jar imaLt Asaola %yaaMnaI Aaplao svaatM~\yaÊ $pÊ gauNa ho jara baajaUlaa saa$na AaNaKI dha pMQara vaYaa-naMtrcaa ivacaar kravaa. lagna na krNaaro saamaanya sqaratIla is~ puÉYa puZo krtat trI kayaÆ Limbutimbu Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:09 am:      baI naomako mat ho² lagna na krNyaacaI s~IyaancaI karNao puZIla p`maaNao Asatat / Asaaivat² CBDG 1. baáyaacada malaa kaya kuNaacaI garja naahIÊ maaJaI maI samaqa- hoÊ mangaLsau~aca AÜZNa iknvaa lagaama nakÜ yaa s~I svaatn%yaivaYayak AcaaT klpnaatuna lagnaaivaYaš naapsantIcao mat tyaar hÜto 2. ]cca iXaxaNa iknvaa Aaho %yaa iXaxaNaat ]cca maÜbadlyaacaa vyavasaaya imaLalyaanantr kÝiTmbaIk rhaNaImaanaaXaI farkt Jaalyaanao iknvaa tXaa rhaNaImaanaapoxaa vaogaLo ekokT\yaanao rhaNyaatlao t%kailak sauK va svaatn~\ya AnauBavaayaasa imaLalyaanao lagna hI baoDI vaaTUna lagna krNyaaivaYayaI itrskar inamaa-Na Jaalaolaa idsatÜ. 3. Aaš iknvaa GaratIla Anya ivavaahIt is~yaankDuna %yaanaa Jaalaolyaa saasaurvaasaacyaa khaNyaa eokayalaa imaLalyaanao lagna iknvaa kuTumba vyavasqaovarcaa ivaXvaasa ]Dlaolaa Asau XaktÜÊ Aqaa-t lagnaaivaYaO caukIcao duiYat pUva-ga`h inamaa-Na Jaalaolao idsatat 4. payaa pDNaoÊ baangaD\yaa BarNaoÊ kunkU laavaNaoÊ mangaLsaU~ GaalaNao AXaa ekndrIt ÉZI va irvaaja tsaoca Qaaima-k ivaQaInbaabat prakÜTIcaI ]daisanataca navho tr itrskar idsauna yaotÜ AaiNa baáyaacada ha itrskarhI %yaa %yaa ivaYayaancyaa KÜlaat jaavauna ivacaar na krta saw\yaacao pustkI vaO&ainak iXaxaNa GaotlyaamauLo Aalaolaa tÜ AaQauinak dRYTIkÜna ho Asaa gaÜD gaOrsamaja kÉna Gaovauna ha itrskar japlaa jaatÜ 5. BaartIya samaajaacaI ekndrItca ek~ jamaunacaI ]%savaip`yata mauLatca nasaola AXaa vya>Inaa lagna maunja ho ivaQaIÊ hI kayao-Ê AgadI gaNaptI basavaNao ho doiKla ZÜnga vaaTu laagauna %yaapasauna dur pLNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaa jaatÜ. 6. mauLatca s~IsaulaBa Baavanaa jyaakI lajjaaÊ vaa%salyaÊ mamataÊ Aaš banaNyaacaI iknvaa p%naI va Aaš yaa naa%yaancaI jabaabadarI ]calaNyaacaI [cCa nasaola tr AiXa s~I lagnaabaabat ]dasaIna Asau Xakto 7. s~I puÉYa samaanatocyaa XaarIrIk mayaa-da samajauna na Gaota kahI AcaaT klpnaa jyaa puÉYaW\hoYTopNaacao Ép Gaovau XaktatÊ AXaa AsatIla tr AXaI s~I lagnaalaa ivarÜQaca krto 8. baa( jagaatIla s~Iyaanvarcao A%yaacaarÊ %yaancao XaÜYaNaÊ AyaXasvaI ivavaah yaaivaYašcyaa baatmyaa vaacaunaÊ khaNyaa eokuna svaaBaaivakir%yaa ek nakara%mak Bauimaka tyaar hÜvauna AXaI s~I lagna krNyaasa QaastavalaolaI Asau Xakto 9. laOingak iXaxaNaacaI saÜya Aaš iknvaa Anya is~yaankDuna yaÜgya vayaat JaalaolaI nasalyaasaÊ ekuNaca vaOvaaihk ijavanaatuna AnauBavaayacyaa AanandacaI puva- klpnaa nasalyaanao lagna Aqaa-t vaOvaaihk ijavanaaba_la ]daisanata AaZLto 10. far AaiNa far kmaI vaoLosaÊ laOingak svaatn~\yaacyaa jyaa kuTumbavyavasqaocyaa ivaÉw AahotÊ AXaa klpnaa AnaokivaQa karNaanaI manaat Éjalyaa AsatIla tr AXaI vya>I lagnaacyaa banQanaat ADkNyaacao TaLto. 11. ek~It vaa ivaBa> kuTumbavyavasqaaÊ %yaancao fayado ( Aqaa-t tÜTohI Asatat ) ]cca pustkI vaO&ainak iXaxaNa GaoNyaacyaa naadat Aalaolyaa vaOcaairk saacaoband ADaiNapNaamauLo jar najaroAaDca Jaalao AsatIla tr AXaa vya>Inaa vayaacyaa caaLIXaI nantr kaya ha p`XNaca pDt naahIÊ jaovha pDtÜÊ tovha vaoL inaGauna gaolaolaI Asato. 12. far kmaI vaoLosa pNa na@kIcaÊ AXaIhI ]dahrNao imaLtat kI GaratIla Aaiqa-k ADcaNaIncaa saamanaa krNyaasaÊ QaakT\yaa BaavanDanaa maagaI- laavaNyaasa kahI s~Iyaa svatÁcao AayauYya kovaL pOsao kmavauna Gar caalaivaNyaat vyaitt krtat. %yaavaoLosa %yaanaa lagna kÉna kayamacao navaáyaacyaa GarI jaavauna maahorcyaanaa vaaáyaavar saÜDNao psand pDt naahI. puvaI- AXaI ]dahrNao barIca idsaayacaI 13. varIla baara nambarcyaa pa^[NTmaQaIla ]llaoKavyaitir> lagna kÉna pNa trIhI saasarcyaanaa puva- klpnaa dovauna maahorcyaa jabaabadaáyaa ]calaNaarI ]dahrNao hllaI kmaI naahIt. 12 nambarcyaa ]dahrNaat AaQaI vya> kolaolaa nakara%mak Bauimakocaa vaaTa jaast ho kI saasarcyaanaI madt kÉ idlaI naahI tr kaya AaiNa puvaI-cyaa kaLalaa saajaoXaIca hI Bauimaka hÜtI jaI saw\yaa tovhDI nakara%mak raihlaI naahI ho. maa(a AlpmatIsa varIla karNao kLlaI hot cau. Bau. Va Gyaa. pNa Asao lagna na krNyaacao prINaama kaya Asau XaktIla yaasaazI svatn~ baIbaI ]GaDavaa laagaola. XaovaTI AayauYyaacao inaNa-ya jyaacao tÜca Gaot AsatÜ va pirNaamaanaa saamaÜro jaaNao p`aPt Asato pNa tÜ yaa baIbaI caa ivaYaya naahI. kuNaalaa varIla pÜsT maQao nyausansa iknvaa saayakIktocaa tsaoca vaakD\yaaÊ AarvaayaÊ yaÜgaÊ baIÊ kampÜ AXaa kuNaacaahI Baasa Jaalyaasa %yaanaI tsao iÔDba^k yaa baIbaIvar jaÉr kLvaavao ih ivanantI Shriramb Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:34 am:      EaQdaÊ caaMgalaa laoK² ivacaar krayalaa laavaNaara. It's her life anyways! yaabaabat kuNaacao dumat AsaU nayao. pNa lagnaabaabatcaI ]dasaInata ha maaJyaa mato icaMta krNyaasaarKa ivaYaya Aaho. Is it the workoholic lifestyle, or unnecessarily high career-objectives, or just dislike/hate for family life? baIÊ pMQara vaYaa-Mnantr Aaplyaa saÜbatIlaa kÜNaI nasaola yaasaazI jar eKaVanao lagna krayacaa inaNa-ya Gaotlaa tr tÜ %yaa baabatIt iktI ]%saahI Asaola ho ]GaD Aaho. naajaukaÊ jar maulaInaa ³ in general ´Ê AapNa lagnaasaazI tyaar AahÜt ³‘[cCuk’ AsaNao dUrca²´ AsaM kiQaca vaaTt nasaola tr pirisqatI KUpca gaMBaIr Aaho AsaM mhTla paihjao. I know that most boys (or men), in general, at some point of time, do decide that they want to get married. I have always been thinking that women in general dream more of the so called ‘sauKacaa saMsaar’Ê but I now realise that it's no more so; rather it's the other way round. Shriramb Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:37 am:      Excellent Analysis, LT! ... ... Lalu Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:37 am:      hmm.. ilaihlaMya caaMgalaM. hllaIcyaa caaMgalaM krIAr AsaNaaáyaa maulaI lagnaaba_la ksaa ivacaar krtat to qaÜDMfar samajalaM. tU ivacaarlaoyaa kahI p`XnaaMsaazI - ivanaIta saÜDlyaasa baakI jaNaIMcyaa kqaa kahI navaIna naahIt. pUvaI-hI sara-sa AaZLt. frk [tkaca kI yaa maulaI svatÁcyaa payaavar ]Byaa Aahot. %yaa hvaa tÜ inaNa-ya Gao} Xaktat. lagnaacyaa vayaalaa ³ivaXaoYtÁ maulaIcyaa´BaartIya samaajaat mah%va Aaho karNa itqao maulaM hI lagnaanantrca hÜtat. AaiNa lagna krayacaM zrvaNaaáyaa vya>Icaa sahsaa puZo maulaobaaLoÊ saMsaar Asaaca ivacaar AsatÜÊ tovha lagna hÜtanaa maulaIcaM vaya puZo maulaaMnaa saurixatpNao janma dota AaiNa saaMBaaLta yaoNyaa[tko Asaavao Asaaca ivacaar AsatÜ. itXaInantr yaa gaÜYTI AXa@ya naahI pNa AvaGaD Asatat ho Xaas~ca saaMgato. punha maulaaMca lagna krNyaacaM vaya vaaZlaMya ka to maaiht naahI. naahI AsaM samajalaM trÊ itXaI ]laTUna gaolaolyaa maulaIlaa AnauÉp maulaM available AsaNyaacaI Xa@yata kmaI. punha maulagaa maulaIpoxaa vayaanaM maÜza hvaa. maga kahI karNaanaI jyaancaI lagna raihlaI Aahot AXaIca maulaM AsaNyaacaI Xa@yata jaast. tI yaa maulaInpoxaa kahI baabatIt kmaI pDNaarI AsatIla.³gaItacyaa mato " Taka} " ²´ kuNaIÊ kuNaaXaIÊ kQaIÊ ksao lagna kravao ha vaOyai>k p`Xna Asalaa trI lagna na krta rahNaM ikMvaa puZo jaa}na lagnaaiXavaaya maulaM hÜNaMÊ ekpalak%va ho saamaaijak p`Xna tyaar hÜ} Xaktat. lagna ho AavaXyakca Aaho Asao naahI. saQyaa %yaanaa AayauYya enjoy krayacao Asaola tr ja$r kravaoÊ pNa %yaanaI puZcaa purosaa ivacaar kolaa paihjao AsaM vaaTtMÊ itqaohI adjustment kravaI laagaola. %yaacaI tyaarI Asaola tr maga p`Xnaca naahI. LT tumacaI karNao vaacalaI. ³barIca negative vaaTlaI. ‘yaÜgya jaÜDIdar saapDlaa naahI’ ho karNa %yaat naahI cbdg ´ hI karNaM AsaU Xaktat pNa yaa laoKaXaI evaZ\yaa sagaL\yaa karNaaMcaa saMbaMQa naahI. hllaIcyaa krIAirsT maulaI kaya ivacaar krtat Asaa p`Xna Aaho. Limbutimbu Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 4:21 am:      laalau barÜbar ho yaÜgya ApoxaanauÉp jaÜDIdar na imaLNaÊ iknvaa Apoxaa vaaiZva Asalyaanao na imaLNaÊ lagnaaca baGaayalaa kuNaIca nasaNaÊ kunDlyaa na jauLNaÊ rnga - Aaiqa-k p`aPtI - saÝndya- - ]ncaI - jaaDI - iXaxaNa AXaa Asan#ya karNaanao naapsand hÜNa iknvaa Aa^pÜiJaT sao@slaa naapsand krNa AXaI karNao Asau Xaktat pNa mauL ivaYaya kovaL s~Icyaa lagnaaivaÉw iknvaa baajaunao AsaNaaáyaa - hÜvau Gaatlaolyaa manaÜBaumaIkotIla badlaansambanQaI Aaho Asao vaaTlyaavaÉna baakI yaadI idlaI naahI EaIrama qa^n@yau vhorI maca² Bee Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 4:59 am:      EaIramaÊ pirvat-naavar maaJaa ivaXvaasa Aaho. lagna k$na Aa<aacao Anau%saahI tsaoca rahU Asao kXaava$na. tumacaa jaÜDIdar jar ]maodIcaa Asaola tr tumhIhI ]%saahanao saMsaar par paDala. AaiNa tsaohI lagna ho AayauYyaBaracaI saÜbat hvaI Asato mhNaUnaca naahI ka kolao jaat. lagnaanaMtr manauYya AapÜAap maagaI- laagatÜ AaiNa inaÉ%saahIcaa ]%saahI hÜ} XaktÜ. laalaU caaMgalao ilaihlaosa. XaovaTcyaa vaa@yaat tU (a cacao-caa ivaYaya saaMigatlaasa ho baro kolaosa. naahI tr [qao sagaLo general topic vaacaayalaa imaLtIla. Shraddhak Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 12:05 pm:      sagaL\yaaMcyaa p`itiËyaaMsaazI Qanyavaad. LT tuJyaa pÜsTmaQalao barocasao mau_o yaa laoKaXaI relate hÜ} Xakt naahIt AsaM malaa vaaTtM. EaIramaÊ lagnaaivaYayaIcaI ]dasaInata vaaZto AahoÊ ho KrM Aaho. ]da. ÌYNaacaM jaovha lagna zrlaM tovha tI ek Í,oXar hÜtI. saasarkDUna itnao ]XaIrapya-Mt qaaMbaUna kama krNaMÊ garja Asaola tr XainavaarÊ rivavaar Aa^iÔsalaa jaaNaM yaalaa ivarÜQa hÜta. %yaamauLo itcyaa DÜ@yaavar to TonXana AKMD AsatM. [qao Ô^imalaI laašÔ ikMvaa t%sama baabaIMba_la hatred na@kIca nasatÜ pNa ek vaya AsaMhI AsatM kI jaovha mau#yat : krIyarÊ ima~ maOi~NaIMbarÜbar enjoy krNaM yaavar jaast concentration AsatM. %yaa kaLat saMsaaracaI jabaabadarI nakÜXaI vaaTto. AaiNa varcyaa laoKat ApUvaa-caMhI ]dahrNa idlaM Aaho. p`pÜJala AalaM tovha itlaa manaapasaUna lagna krayacaM hÜtM AaiNa itnao tsaa decision Gaotlaa. tsaMca AaNaKI ek ]dahrNa TInaacaMhI dota yaošla. tI AaiNa itcaa baa^yaÍ,oMD ekaca ka^laojamaQalao AaiNa %yaaMnaI jaa^bacaI sauÉvaathI ek~ kolaI. tovhasauwa %yaaMnaI lagaoca lagnaacaa inaNa-ya Gaotlaa naahI. tI kamaainaima<a doXa ihMDlaIÊ It was a good time for IT, so itnao vyavaisqat opportunities utilize k$na PL banalaI. naMtr itnao lagna kolaM. They were well settled in every aspect when they got married. Aajakala priorities na@kIca badlatahot. jaovha career var laxa VayacaI [cCa Asato tovha jar satt lagnaacaa QaÜXaa laavalaa tr lagnaaivaYayaI ]dasaInata vaaZola ho na@kI² karNa hI gaÜYT maI AaiNa maaJyaa krIyarcyaa maQyao yaot Aaho AsaMca vaaTNaar. Divya Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 12:50 pm:      Eawak caaMgalaa laoK ilahIlaasa badla%yaa samaajamanaacao vaNa-na krNaara. laalaU caI mato mau_osaud Aahot pNa Asa Asau Xakola ka ik yaa maulaIMnaahI pTtya ik lagna krayalaa pahIjao pNa AXyaa kahI gaÜYTI Aahot jyaamauLo lagna na krta Asaca rahIlaola %yaapo@Xaa caaMgala (a matavar %yaa Aalyaa. malaa vaaTt puÉYa p`Qaana saMsËutI ba_la caI naarajaI hI sauQda ittkIca karNa AsaavaI malaa qaÜD\yaa idvasaaM puvaI- Jaalaolaa ek ikssaa AazvatÜya [qao maayabaÜlaI var pNa %yaacaI cacaa- JaalaI hÜtI puNyaatIla eka saQana sauiXaxaIt kuTumbaatIla Da^@Tr saunaonao maahoÉna pOsao AaNaavao mhNauna hÜNaayaa- ~asaala kMTaLuna 3 yaa- majalyaa vaÉna ]DI maaÉna Aa%mah%yaa kolaI hÜtI kdaicat karNa vaogaLo hI Asaola pNa itcao hI malaa vaaTt p`omaivavaah hÜta AaiNa svata Da^@Tr Asauna tI yaa inaNa-yaalaa ka AalaI tI manaanao kmajaÜr AsaavaI mhNauna tI yaa inaNa-yaalaa AalaI Asaola tr itcyaa Aa[ vaDIlaaMnaI itlaa vaaZvatanaa cauk kolaI kaÆ pustkI iXaxaNaa barÜbar yaa laÜkaMnaa ksa saamaÜr jaayaca (aca ixaxaNa doNa jaast jaÉrI hÜt saÝMdyaa-laa idlao jaaNaaro mah%va %yaamauLo maulagaI psant pDo pya-nt eqao daKva itqao daKva AaiNa var varpxaacaI kahI izkaNaI caalaNaarI AroravaI maaJyaa eka maavasa baihNaIcao lagna jamavatanaa Ôar ~asa Jaalaa hÜtaÊ iXaklaolaI caaMgalaI vaiklaI krt hÜtI idsaayalaa hI caar caÝiGa saarKI Ô> ]McaI kmaI hÜtI mhNauna jamat navhto itlaa ekoizkNaI daKvayalaa naolyaavar iKD\kItunaca p`Xna ivacaaÉna maulagaI naÜkrI krto kaÆ vaiklaI krto tr maaisak p`aPtI iktIÆ tr maga psaMt naahI saaMgauna inarÜp idlaa hÜta kaya vaaTlao Asaola itlaa Krca AXaI hI laÜk Aahot AaiNa lagnaa naMtr jaast tDjaÜD s~Icyaa vaaT\yaalaa yaoto ho hI ittkoca Kro.kahI gaÜYTI samaajaacyaa naavaaKalaI s~I var p`oXar AaNatat jasa lagnaanantr saasar hoca itcao Gar Asato s~I mhnjao tMbaUcaa maQalaa KaMba Aaho itnao sahna krayalaaca paihjaoÊ idvyaaKlaI AMQaar ha AsaayacaacaÊ saasau hI AXaIca Asato var tuhI ]Va saasau Jaalyaavar AXaIca vaagaXaIla ksaahI vaagalaa trI tÜ navara Aaho baa[laa pDt Gyaavaca laagat hI sava- saamaanya pNao AaZLNaarI vaa@ya Aahot nagarcao idpa inasaLcao gaajalaolao p`krNa hI yaaca gaÜYTIcaI Aaz\vaNa kÉna doto tI AaQaarasaazI maahorI Aalyaavar samajaut Gaalauna prt pazvalao kaya Jaalao XaovaTIÆ eKadI gaÜYT ]jaoDat yaoto AXyaa izkizkaNaI iktItrI gaÜYTI GaDt Aahot jyaa baahorhI yaot naahIt lagna zrvatanaa baÜlaNaI krtanaa caalaNaarI GaasaaGaIsa baGaItlaI ik Asvasqa vhayalaa hÜt Deepanjali Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 3:01 pm:      [qao kahI laÜkaMnaI ivacaarlaya kI maulaI kQaI svat : hUna tyaar hÜtat ka lagnaalaa ... tr na@kIca hÜtatÊ maulaIMnaahI vaaTtoca ‘ This is the right time to get married/ settle down in life..etc..etc..' %yaa kQaIca tyaar nasatat vagaOro kahI Kro naahIÊ f> in general jao maulagaI phaNyaacao typical program hÜtat³ parents samaÜr´ hI concept maa~ Aajakalacyaa majority public laa na@kIca AavaDt naahI ² laalaunaI maaMDlaolaa maulaM hÜNyaacyaa dRYTInao yaÜgya vaoLot lagna krayacaa mau_a logical Aaho pNa again ’maulaM hÜNao‘ hI main priority Aaho ik naahI ikMvaa maulaM hÜNao hI gaÜYTca eKaVa maulaIlaa iktI important vaaTto yaavar pNa maulaIMcao vaogaLo opinion Asau Xaktat. As shradhda says, 'It's her life anyway Ê ho malaa trI pTtM . AsaÜÊ EaÊ tuJaa BB Krca V&C Jaalaya Eliza Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 5:36 pm:      english maQyao title AaiNa lagna ha ivaYaya mhNajao AgadI killer combination ga Ea. malaa Ea cyaa laoKat puZIla mau_o Aahot AsaM vaaTlaM : 1. samaja vyavasqaotIla badlaa mauLo minding your own business and/or self centered va`u<aI tyaar hÜto Aaho AaiNa mah%vaacao inaNa-ya Aaplao AapNaca Gao} XaktÜ tI Baavanaa vaaZt caalalaI Aaho. 2. lagnaacyaa baabatIt AajahI varpxaalaa idlaI jaaNaarI vaca-svaacaI vaagaNauk %yaacyaahuna kuzlyaahI baabatIt kmaI nasaNaayaa- maulaIMnaa AavaDt naahIyao. 3. lagnaalaa ‘tyaar’ nasaNaM AaiNa ‘lagnaacaI garja na vaaTNaM’ (a dÜnhI vaogavaogaL\yaa gaÜYTI Aahot. Ea nao dÜnhI p`karcaI ]dahrNaM idlaI Aahot. %yaaMcaI gallat na krta tI address kolaI pahIjao. lagnaa baabatcaa inaNa-ya GaoNyaapUvaI- tumhI svataÁca svataÁlaa kahI kahI p`XNa ivacaarvao AaiNa parents barÜbar %yaacaI saaMgaÜpaMga cacaa- kravaI. 1. tumhalaa jaÜDIdar hvaa Aaho kaÆ ksaaÆ 2. kÜNata maaga- tumhalaa yaÜgya vaaTtÜÆ love, arranged, live-in Æ kaÆ 3. maulaM hvaI Aahot kaÆ kQaIÆ iktIÆ 4. career AaiNa personal life maQyao tumhalaa ksaa samanvaya saaQata yaošlaÆ %yaabaabat tumacaI jaÜDIdara kDuna kaya Apoxaa AahoÆ 5. jaÜDIdaracyaa kuzlyaa gauNaaMba_la tumhI tDjaÜD k$ XaktaÆ XaovaTI maI mhNaonaÊ ‘yaÜgya’ vya>I BaoTo pya-Mt manaacaI Gaalamaola caalaola AaiNa tI BaoTtaca sagaLM badlaola... so be open. Punyanagarikar Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 5:55 pm:      mau_a 3 ha sagaL\yaat mah%vaacaa Aaho Asa malaa vaaTtM. šlaayaJaaÊ tU tÜ maaMDlaa pNa caMgalaa Aahosa. Rachana_barve Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 7:46 pm:      elaI pNa Aga ho sagaL kala saapoxa Asat ga. Aaja maI Balao mhNato kI malaa [tkI [tkI maula hvaIt pNa 2 vaYaa-nao mat badlaU Xakt. career AaNaI personal life ho doiKla kalasaapoxa Asat. %yaa AnauXaMgaavar inaYkYa- kaZNao AvaGaD vaaTto. 4 vaYaa-puvaI- malaa jao maaJyaa career ba_la vaaTto to Aaja naahI. even personal life pNa badlalaola Aaho maaJa. maga AvaGaD Aaho AXaa mau_\yaaMvar yaÜgya jaÜDIdar XaÜQaNa Lalu Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 8:06 pm:      DJ cyaa pÜsT saazI - barÜbar AahoÊ ha ‘daKvaNao’ vagaOro p`kar jar maulaInaa AavaDt naahI tr %yaanaIca %yaacaM svaÉp badlaayalaa hatBaar laavaayalaa paihjao. ya iXaklyaa savarlaolyaaÊ naÜkrI krNaaáyaa maulaInaI ho naahI krayacaM tr kÜNa krNaarÆ ³yaa laoKatlaI ‘vaaNaI’Ê ‘gaIta’ ´tumhIhI tovha maulaalaa ‘baGaayalaa’ jaat Asataca Asaa ivacaar kravaa. jaÜDIdar ksaa hvaa yaabaabat maulaacyaa priorities AgaÜdrca ivacaaÉna Gyaavyaat mhNajao kÜNaacaaca ApoxaaBaMga nakÜ. Xa@ya Asaola tr svatÁca jaÜDIdar XaÜQaavaa. maulao AsaNao / nasaNao yaabaabatIt inaiXcatca maulaIcao svatÁcao mat Asato. tovha ijacaI ‘maulao’ hI priority nasaola itnao jaÜDIdar XaÜQatanaa %yaalaahI maulaaMcaI Apoxaa naahI ho phavaM. ‘maulao nakÜt’ hI sava-saaQaarNa ivacaarsarNaI naahI %yaamauLo Asao puÉYa kmaI AsatIla. %yaatUna %yaanaa inavaD kravaI laagaola AaiNa Aqaa-tca kahI tDjaÜD. maaJyaa maagacyaa post maQao maI mhTlaMca AahoÊ kuzUnatrI tumhI tDjaÜDIlaa tyaar Asaala tr kahIca p`Xna naahI. karNa 'It's my life' mhNaUna inaNa-ya Gaotlaa trI tDjaÜD ATL Aaho. Eliza Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 8:08 pm:      KrM saaMgaU ka.. there is no such thing as ‘yaÜgya’ jaÜDIdar. to .. ‘pdrI pDlaoÊ piva~ Jaalao’ Asaca Aaho. pNa mau_a kaya Aaho ‘Aaja maaJao AayauYya iktI Cana calau Aaho why shd I give it all up for marriage?' hI jaI va`u<aI Aaho tI address krNyaasaazI to p`XNa Aahot AaiNa maulaa maulaIMnaa to equally laagaU pDtat. Shrini Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 8:58 pm:      elaayaJaaÊ caaMgalaa saaraMXa kolaasa. ivaXaoYatÁ itsara mau_a. %yaavarca qaÜDM ilahavasaM vaaTtM ³ho maulao / maulaI dÜGaaMnaahI ]_oXaUna Aaho´. lagna na krta AayauYyaBar ekTo rahNaoÊ AaiNa tohI AanaMdanaoÊ hI saamaanya gaÜYT naahI. %yaamauLo lagna na krNyaacyaa inaNa-yaamaagao kahI zama karNao nasatIlaÊ tr lagnaacaa inaNa-ya Gyaavaa Asao malaa vaaTto. AaiNa ekda ha inaNa-ya GaotlaaÊ kI maga %yaa dRYTInao p`ya%na krNao AÜGaanao Aalaoca. barÜbarIcyaa ima~maOi~NaIMcaa sahvaasa Asaola tr saVÁisqatIt lagnaacaI garja vaaTNaar naahIÊ pNa hI isqatI kayama rahNao far kzINa Aaho. hLUhLU yaatlao ekokjaNa gaLt jaašla. kuNaI eKadI vya>I AavaDlaI mhNaUnaÊ kuNaI AašvaDIla mhNaalao mhNaUnaÊ kuNaI [tr kahI karNaanaoÊ Asao lagna krtIla. AaiNa AapNa ekTo ]rlyaavarÊ %yaa ekTopNaacao inayaÜjana ksao krayacao yaavar AaplyaakDo kahI AnauBavaisaw maaga- nasatIla tr ho ekTopNa KrÜKr Kayalaa ]zola. yaavaoLI Aaplao vaya vaaZlaolao AsaNaar ho ]GaDca Aaho. AaiNa saamaanyatÁ vaya vaaZlao kI caaMgalaI sqaLo yaot naahIt ho doKIla sa%ya Aaho. yaamaagacaI karNao barIca AsatIlaÊ pNa %yaanao hI vastuisqatI [t@yaat trI badlaNaar naahI. maga vaaZlaolyaa vayaatÊ jaÜDIdaracaI garja Baasat Aaho mhNaUna baáyaaca tDjaÜDI kÉna lagna kolao tr kQaIkQaI ‘AapNa pUvaI-ca lagna kolao Asato tr AiQak caaMgalaaÊ Aaplyaa ApoxaaMcyaa AiQak javaL jaaNaara jaÜDIdar imaLalaa Asata’ ha ivacaar doKIla CLU XaktÜ. iXavaaya maulao hÜNaoÊ %yaaMcao saMgaÜpna š. vyaavaharIk mau_o Aahotca. sababaÊ AapNa lagna krNaar AahÜtca ho maahIt AsaolaÊ tr kovaL ‘yaa xaNaI lagnaacaI garja Baasat naahI mhNaUna maI maulao / maulaI pahNaar naahI’ ha ivacaar AprIp@va AaiNa shortsighted vaaTtÜ. pahIlaolyaa phIlyaaca sqaLabarÜbar lagna jamaNao far @vaicat GaDto. ‘phayalaa’ laagalyaapasaUna to lagna jamaopya-Mt 1Ê2 vaYao- sahja jaa} Xaktat. tÜpya-Mt lagna krNyaacaI garja inamaa-Na hÜNao AgadI sahjaXa@ya Aaho. iXavaaya xaNaBar gaRhIt Qarlao kI eKado sqaL AavaDlao pNa Aaplyaalaa [t@yaat lagna krayacao naahIÊ tr dusaáyaa pxaacyaa saMmatInao lagna 1Ê2 vaYaa-MnaI krNao Xa@ya AahoÊ ikMvaa Aaplyaasaar#yaaca ivacaaraMcaI ³jyaaMnaa lagna krayacao Aaho pNa [t@yaat naahI´ sqaLo XaÜQaNao doKIla Xa@ya Aaho. BF/GF Aaho pNa tÜ / tI lagnaalaa [t@yaat tyaar naahI Asao Asaola tr %yaaMnaahI BaivaYyaacaI hI jaaNaIva kÉna doNao AavaXyak AahoÊ AaiNa %yaaMcaI commitment p@kI nasaola tr %yaaMnaa inarÜp do}na dusara jaÜDIdar XaÜQaNao AiQak caaMgalaoÊ Asao malaa vaaTto. XaovaTIÊ Aaplyaa AašvaDIlaaMnaa Aaplyaapoxaa baraca AiQak AnauBava AsatÜÊ AaiNa to saaMgatat to sava-saaQaarNa Aaplyaa BalyaakrtacaÊ ho laxaat zovaNao garjaocao Aaho. mhNaUnaca %yaaMcyaa baÜlaNyaavar ivacaar kravaaÊ to lagaoca ]DvaUna laavaU nayao Asao malaa vaaTto. Dhondopant Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 9:10 pm:      pdrI pDlao piva~ Jaalao AXaa rItInao pahNyaapoxaa jao imaLalao Aaho %yaakDo AapNa naIT ka baGat naahIÆ.. kÜNa%yaa Apoxaa Asatat Aaplyaa ho XaovaTpya-Mt Aaplyaalaaca zavauk nasaavao... svaanauBava navho pNa saaMgaÜvaaMgaI eoklaolao.. kI lagna Jaalyaavar kuzuna AapNa hIcyaaXaI lagna kolao Asao navarÜbaanaa vaaTu laagato.³AaiNa ]laT\saulaT.´ Aata kÜvaL\yaa vayaat p`oma AaiNa %yaanaMtr lagna Asao kahI jar Jaalao tr tÜ Baaga vaogaLa... ... pNa baroca jaNaaMcao ksao hÜto... p`oma vaaTlaolao Asato ekaXaI Ana AgadI manaat na@kI Asato kI yaacyaaXaI lagna kravao.. pNa to jauLt naahI Ana maga manaat inaraXaa yaoto. Aata AalaolaI hI inaraXaa JaTkuna punha Aaplyaa AayauYyaat jaI vya>I yaoto itcyaaXaI samarsauna jaaNao ho mah%vaacao naahI kaÆ tr to rahIlao baajaulaa Ana maga " pdrI pdlao piva~ Jaalao " Asao vaaTuna GaoNyaacaI paLI yaoto... Aamacaa saaMgaNyaacaa p`ya%na kaya Aaho kI p`oma inamaa-Na krta yaoto... jaÉr inamaa-Na krta yaoto... gaolaolyaa gaÜYTIcaa pazpuravaaca jar krt basalaÜ tr hatI QaupaTNaohI naahI yaoNaar yaa baabatIt... dusarI gaÜYT %yaaMcaI kI jyaaMcaa lagnaalaa ivarÜQa Aaho AaiNa jao Asao maanatat kI AivavaahIt AayauYyaca baro.. kuzo lagnaacyaa fMdat pDayacao... AgadI KNaKNaIt sallaa dotÜ AXaanaa ... raga nasaavaa .... pNa evhZ\yaa KNaKNaItpNao AamhI baÜlat naahI kQaI... pNa rahvat naahI mhNauna..... lagna na krta rahIlaat tr AayauYyaacyaa saazIt tumhalaa XaMBar T@ko yaacaa pXcaatap hܚla. naa tumacaa gaÜtavaLa Asaola.. naa tumacaI maulao AsatIla.. naa tumhalaa tumacyaa prIvaarat sqaana Asaola... mauLat tumacaa prIvaarca kuzlaa AalaayaÆ... AaiNa tumhI AgadI ekTo vhala. punha inasagaa-nao dIlaolyaa Xa>Icaa AapNa vyaya kolaa kI kaya Asaa saMXaya tumacyaa manaat yaovauna tumhI AiQakca inaraXa vhala.... %yaa vaoLI maga tumhalaa vaaTola ... Aroro... tI dusarI hÜtI saaMgauna AalaolaI tIcyaaXaI lagna kolao Asato trI Aaja hI prIsqaItI AalaI nasatI... %yaa vaoLI tumhalaa vaaTola... p`oma AyaXasvaI JaalaI mhNauna kaya Jaalao .. punha kuNaaivaYayaI trI vaaTlao Asato.. Ana vaaTlao hÜtoca kI²²² %yaavaoLI tumhalaa vaaTola... krIyarpayaI lagna naahI kola pNa trIhI kuzotrI ]NaIva Aaho... %yaavaoLI hoca vaaTola kI lagna kolao Asato tr baro Jaalao Asato... %yaamauLo ima~maO~INaInaÜ yaabaabatIt Aamacao kahI dumat naahI... lagna kraca. 30 31 ³ho saala nasauna vaya Aaho.´ pya-Mt lagna kÉna maÜkLo vha.. .. vaaTlao Asao kI kÉ nayao ... trI kra... haM²... pNa ek maa~ ... KrÜKr vaOragya Asaola ... tr lagnaÊ samaaQaana yaa gaÜYTI kQaIhI inaraXaa inamaa-Na krNaar naahIt. AXaa laÜkaMcao jaIvana vaogaLo Asato AaiNa %yaanaa lagna kravao kI naahI Asalao p`Xna pDt nasatat.. kLlao naa Aamhalaa kaya saucavaayacao Aaho to.. saMsaaramaQaI eoXa Aapulaa ]gaaca BaTkt fIÉ nakÜ. Shrini Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 9:26 pm:      jara Aaga`hIÊ pNa caaMgalao ilahIlao Aaho hÜ pMt² Naatyaa Wednesday, May 11, 2005 - 10:37 pm:      shrini, good post.. .. Eliza Thursday, May 12, 2005 - 1:00 am:      AhÜ pMt to ‘pdrI....’ seriously Gao} naka. caoYTa kolaI hÜtI. At the same time AsaM na maanata laÜkM Aaplyaa jaÜDIdaratIla %yaaMnaa na AavaDNaarI svaBaava vaOiXaYz\yao badlaNyaat AayauYya Kca- krtat. Sorry, topic laa AnausaÉna naahIyao pNa ilahavasaM vaaTlaM. Deepstambh Thursday, May 12, 2005 - 6:26 am:      pMt mhNat Aahot to Kro Aaho.. saaQaarNa vaya vaYao- 30 pya-Mt AapNa svaÁtalaa kirAr maQyao JaÜkUna idlaolao Asato... tÜpya-Mt ka^laojacao ima~.. Aa^ifsacao ima~ Aaplyaa saÜbat Asatat.. GF/BF nasalao trIhI vaoL Aaramaat jaatÜ... AayauYyaacaa jaÜDIdar (acaI yaa vayaat trI garja vaaTt naahI.. pNa hLUhLU kaL badlatÜ.. naÜkrImaQyao baáyaapOkI isqarsqaavar JaalaolaÜ AsatÜ.. ka^laojacao ima~ tr tuTlaolaoca Asatat.. (a saÜ ka^lD Aa^ifsacyaa ima~aMmaQyaohI AgadI jaIvaaBaavaacaa kÜNaI nasatÜ... eka Aa^ifsamaQyao f> 1 - 3 vaYao- raihlyaavar kaya hÜNaarÆÆÆ ³[qao Xa@yatÜ IT vaalao AiBap`ot Aahot..´.. kÜNaI ima~ AsaolahI trI %yaacaI vaogaLI f^imalaI sauÉ JaalaolaI Asato.. tÜ %yaat puNa-pNao vyast AsatÜ... tÉNapNaI ÉmamaoTsa mhNaUna rahNao izk Aaho.. pNa vaya Jaalyaavar kaya krNaar..ÆÆ bahUtok jaNa svaÁtacaa Fla^T Gao}na ekTo rahU laagatat.. GarI gaolyaavar ekTopNa Kayalaa ]zto.. tÜ / tI inaraXavaadI hÜ} laagatat.. AjaUna kÜNaI AÜLKIcaa AivavaahIt tÜ / tI Asaola trI tÜ %yaacyaa vaogaL\yaa kÜYaat gaurftUna rahNao psaMd krtÜ.. %yaamaULo tumhI AgadIca eKaVa caaMgalyaa samaaja kayaa-saazI saMpuNa- AayauYya JaÜkUna doNaar nasaala.. tr ivavaah TaLU naka.. pXcaatap hܚla.. Live-in relationship mhNajao dÜna GaDIcaa pahUNaa Aaho.. karNa eKaVa vyaa>IbaabatcaI AavaD AXaarItInao janmaBar iTkNao kzINa Asato.. AaQaI iktIhI ]%kT p`oma Asalao trIhI kalaaMtranao to kmaI hÜt jaato... XaarIrIk BaUk hI naMtr gaÝNa baaba banato.. lagnaacao tsao nasato... ek kimaTmaoMT Asato tI.. TÜkacyaa baabatIt GaTsfÜT hÜtat.. naahI Asao naahI.. pNa tI evhZI saÜPpI gaÜYT nasato.. lagnaacaa ek~ rhuna maÝjamajaa krNao evhZaca Aqa- raht naahI.. jabaabadaáyaa vaaZtat.. Garat navyaa ipZIcaI iklaibalaaT vaaZU laagatÜ.. lahanapNaI %yaaMcao saMgaÜpna krtanaa sava- icaMta - kYT yaaMcaa ivasar pDtÜ.. f> ek sallaa došna.. lagna krtanaa saÝdyaa-laa Avaastva mah%va do} naka.. tÜ igaTar Cana vaajavatÜ.. tI Cana gaato... (a gaÜYTIMnaa BaulaU naka.. tumhI %yaacyaa / itcyaa var jaovhZo p`oma krta tovhDoca p`oma tÜ / tI Aaplyaavar krola kaÊ (acaI maa~ na@kI Ka~I kra.. naaihtr lagna mhNajao ek narkyaa~a hܚla..

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