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Upas
Monday, July 14, 2003 - 4:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Exactly Ashish.. jara vakya BOLD madhye kar.. purepur anubhavatoy.. :-)

Madhavdesh
Sunday, August 24, 2003 - 3:07 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message



maO~yaIÊmanyaaÊAaiNa banQaunaÜ

Asao Aaho ÊAaplyaalaa zrvaayacao Aaho ik ksao jagaayacao²²maI maaJao ivacaar saangatÜ Aaho.

jar lagnaat ih AapNa saÜya baGat Asau tr ha tr ek QanQaa Jaalaa.ksaila saÜyaÆp`omaa caa AaiNa saÜiyacaa kya sambanQaÆhaÊjar tiXa vaoL Aaila tr saÜduna Va. pNa p`oma mhNauna kaya Aaho ik naaihÆ

p`oma kravao sagalao saÜDuna.kÜiNa mhNaola ik ho vyavahaya- naaih.maga kaya vyavahaya- AahoÆÆksao ih jagaaÆÆÆnaaih ima~anaܲ² p`omaatunaca AaPlyaalaa samaaQaana laaBato.Áe sava-Ùa AnauBavaasa yaoto.Kro ik naaihÆnavara AiNa baayakÜ p`qama e@maokanvar p`oma kritla trca to savaa-Ùa p`oma do] Xakitla AiNa %yatca saar Aaho Asao mala vaaT%yao.AaiNa kaih qaÜD\yaa far gaÜXaiT GaDtca Aasatat.%yaa kDo p`omaasaaiz dula-@Xya krayacao.

AsaÜ.tumh savaa-Ùa namaskr^huk Baula maÔ kra .





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Raja
Thursday, January 08, 2004 - 10:23 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

lagnaM hI gaÜXT KrMca kÜNaItrI mhTlyaa p`maaNao AXaI Aaho..ik Kllaa trI pXcaa<aap AaiNa naahI Kallaa trI pXcaa<aap. pNa ek maa~ KrM kI Ka}na pXcaa<aap krNyaa poxaa na Kata kolaolaa bara...karNa pXcaa<aap ha naohmaI pXcaat hÜtÜ ²

Rshubha
Tuesday, January 13, 2004 - 6:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

lagna krNyaacaa fayaDa evaZaca kI tumacyaa vaOvaaihk jaÜiDdarabarÜbarcyaa XaairrIk saMbaMQaasa va %yaatUna ]%pÙa hÜNaaáyaa saMttIsa samaaja maanyata Asato.

baakI sava- gaÜYTI vaOvaaihk jaÜiDdaraMcyaa prspr saamajasyaavar AvalaMbaUna Aahot ³AaiNa lagna krNao ikMvaa na krNyaanao %yaat kahI frk pDU nayao´. ;)

Limboni
Tuesday, January 13, 2004 - 6:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aro vaa² ca@k Rshubha yaa BB varÆ AlaBya laaBa.

Dhondopant
Tuesday, January 13, 2004 - 11:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AhÜ lagna kravao kI kÉ nayao ha p`Xna jar pDlaa Asaola tr jaÉr kravao....

Ksha
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 4:24 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa vaaTto ik lagna hI saMklpnaa samaajaacyaa garjaosaazI inamaa-Na JaalaI AahoÊ Rshubha mhNatoya to AgadI barÜbar Aaho. polygamy ha manauYyaacaa AgadI saahijak svaBaava AahoÊ %yaavar qaÜDo inayaM~Na rhavao yaasaazI lagnaacaa pyaa-ya puZo AaNalaa gaolaa Asao mhNata yaošlaÊ jyaayaÜgao dÜna ( ikMvaa jaast !!) vya>I ekmaokaMXaI baaMQaIla rahtIla AaiNa samaajavyavasqaa saÜpI rahIla.
pNa eKaVa vya>Ilaa AXaa samaajarcanaot rsa nasaola tr maga .. ?
tr maga sau$ hÜtat Anaok p`vaad .. ADcaNaI .. AgadI XaMka kuXaMkasauwa !!
" Aaš vaiDlaaMcyaa ApoxaaMcaa kahI ivacaar kolaayasa ?? "," Aata saÜpo vaaTtoyaÊ mhatarpNaI kLola !!"," kaihtrI problem Asaola hÜ.. %yaaiXavaaya ka !! "
ek naa Anaok .. satt kanaavar hI vaa@ya AadLt rahtat ..
yaa XaMkaMcaa Ê yaa p`vaR<aIcaa vaoQa GaoNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaa tr yaacaI maoK Aaplyaa saamaaijak jaIvanaat Aaho Asao idsaUna yaošlaÊ ivaXaoYatÁ BaartIya jaIvanapwtI.. vaOyai>t jaIvanaaba_la ivacaar na krta .. Aqavaa kmaI k$na ‘samaaja kaya mhNaola’ AaiNa ‘samaajaalaa AamhI kaya ]<ar do}’ yaa p`XnaaMcao ]<ar XaÜQaNyaatca Aaplyaa AayauYyaacaa baracasaa vaoL jaatÜ.
AaiNa [t@yaa KÜla Éjalaolyaa ivacaaraMmauLo Asao inaNa-ya GaoNaaáyaa maulaacao ikMvaa maulaIcao svasaMbaMiQahI ApoxaaBaMgaacyaa gato-t iBarkavalao jaatat .. kahI jaNa isvakarNyaacaa p`ya%na krtat .. pNa kahIjaNa XaovaTpya-Mt hI klpnaa pcavaU Xakt naahIt ..
yaaMt tumacao Aaš vaiDla samaMjasa AsatIla tr zIkÊ naahItr baáyaaca ADcaNaI yaoNaar ho na@kI .. %yaaMnaahI Aaplyaa maulaacao / maulaIcao lagna vhavao AaiNa ÉZaqaa-nao %yaaMnaI sauKI jaIvana jagaavao Asao vaaTNao saahijak Aaho. yaaMt tumacyaa klyaaNaacaI [cCa AahocaÊ pNa kahI AMXaI " maaJyaa maulaacao / maulaIcao sava- kahI iktI saurLIt caalalao Aaho " ho jagaalaa daKvaUna doNyaacaI ]maI- Asato ho sauwa naakarta yaoNaar naahI. manauYyasvaBaavaca Aaho mhNaa tÜhI.
‘tumacyaa maulaacao / maulaIcao AjaUna jamalao naahI ka hÜ ??? ’ ( yaaMt AjaUna var nakÜ [tka jaÜr ) ha kucakT p`Xna kuNaalaa AavaDola ??
AsaÜ ..
ha inaNa-ya mhNajao ek AitXaya vaogaLyaa vaaTovar jaaNyaasaazI ]calalaolao pa}la Aaho .. yaa vaaTovar fulao AsaNyaacaI Xa@yata kmaIca .. pNa kaTo far baÜcaU nayaot evhZIca Apoxaa !!

Savyasachi
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 6:21 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

XauBaaÊ AgadI barÜbar baÜlalaIsa... yaa samaajaat lagna garjaocao Aaho samaajamaanyatosaazI. eKaVa samaajaat nasaolahI. ha BB %yaa live in relationship BB barÜbar saMbaMQaIt Aaho.

Bee
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 1:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ksha, changale lihile aahe aaNi sagaLe kahi paTale. Shubha, tujhehee barobar aahe.

Robeenhood
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 4:30 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

lagna k$ nayao.. ivaXaoYata pstIXaI nantr tr mauLIca k$ nayao...


Dhondopant
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 4:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

karNa trI kLu Va²²

Vinaydesai
Wednesday, January 14, 2004 - 5:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Kca- far hÜtÜÊ dusaro kaya Æ :-)

Zeepri
Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 1:30 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

me tar mhanate pastishi nantar karawe karan tarun panat je anubhawayche freedom aaahe te lagnazalyawar mhanawe tase milat nahi freedom barobar jara jastach responsibility yetat..akali mhatarpan aalya sarkhe watate ..tyapeksha mhatarpani mhatarpan aalele bare nahika

Madya
Thursday, January 15, 2004 - 8:16 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

hya freedom chi defination kalu shakel ka?

Pradnya_us
Monday, January 19, 2004 - 6:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ek nakki, Lagna ha waiyaktik (personal) anubhav ahe...pratyekacha wegla..Tyala karan kadachit ase asawe..pratyekacha lagna karnyamagcha hetu wegwegla asto.Kunakarta samajik,kautumbik dabaav tar kunakarta jeevansathicha shodh .Again expectations and individual perception play their roles in deciding successful / unsuccessful marriages.


Dhondopant
Monday, January 19, 2004 - 6:57 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

iJaip`...
tumhalaa na@kI kaya AiBap`ot AahoÆ...
maVa AaiNa p`&a.. tumhI dÜGao dovanaagarIt ilahayalaa kaya GyaalaÆ.

Pradnya_us
Monday, January 19, 2004 - 7:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

kaya dotayaƲ² Á ´´ aare jamlach ki!!

Mrudu
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 6:59 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

XauBaacao mat pTlao. xa cao inairxaNahI pTlao.

lagna na krta ek~ rahNaaáyaaMnaa Aaplao laÜk kmaI laoKtat ina nausatoca ekTo rahNaaáyaaMcaI ‘ibacaaáyaaMmaQao’ gaNanaa to kayama duÁKI AsaNaar AXaI [traMnaa Ka~I Asato.

jao ‘laÜk’ ‘laÜkaMcaa’ ivacaar krt naahIt %yaaMnaa lagnaacaM far kahI ivaXaoYa vaaTt nasaNaar. %yaaMcyaa saazI lagna ek kayadoXaIr baaba mhNaUna mah%vaacao. tovhZa ek fayada ikMvaa tÜca tÜTa²

Rachana_barve
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 7:11 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

lagna saMsqaa inamaa-Na (acyaaca saazI kolaI gaolaI kI jara baodUMQaXaahIlaa AaLa basaola. Aajakalaca vaaZt divorce p`maaNa baGaUna kItI ha ]_oXa saÔla Jaalaa Aaho kÜNa jaaNao.

Storvi
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 7:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Rachana I disagree.. lagna hya sansthela purvi tari kay ga artha hota? polygamy sarras chalat hoti, baal-vivah, sati pratha, hunda, ek na don hajar problem hotech ki, tenva lagna hi sanstha bedhundashahi la ala ghalnyasathi asel, tar paryayi sanstha baghne kramaprapta ahe... karan this hasn't worked yet....

Rachana_barve
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 8:21 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

sTÜ Aga maI %yaahUnahI puvaI-cyaa ba_la baÜlatoya. jaoMvha lagna hI saMsqaa navhtI. hÜNaarI maulao kÜNaacaI ha p`XNa pDo etc etc %yaalaa naMtr ivaÌt svaÉp Aala ha p`XNa Alaihda

Pavi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 3:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

eka drustine ameriketali system changali watate, ekatra rahane ani patale tar lagna karane nahitar lagna adhi vegale hone. ayushya ekdach milate te na patnyarya jodidara barobar kashala kadhayache?

Prasadp77
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:18 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Barobar aahe Pavi, Swedes yala mhantaat 'taking a driving test before buying a car' (they usually don't buy this "car" b'coz it is unflushable)
Keys -
Unflushable - can't get rid of
Unflushable b'coz divorce in Sweden is good for a woman as she becomes entitled for alimony and child support (if any, usually they produce children and then get married) where the guy usually goes bankrupt or left with nothing for another woman

Rachana_barve
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 4:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Co Amaoirkna laÜkaMcao kaya barÜbarÆ to lagnaaiXavaayaca rhatat. AsaÜ AaplahI barÜbar naahI mhNaa kahItrI maQyama maaga- pahIjao.

Storvi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 5:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tyat kay vaeet ahe rachana? lagna kelyane farak kay padto? I agree with Pavi.

lagna hi ek formality ahe, tyahun adhik mahatva dyaycha karanach kay? asa avajvi mahatva dilyanech anek probs udbhavtat...

ha ata mulanna rights milat nahit, tyanna inheritance cha problem yeto vagaire he law system che tote ahet lagnache fayde navhet.. recognition cha problem ha samajik ahe, tyacha lagnashi kahi sambandha nahi.

Rachana_barve
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 5:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aga sTÜ pNa (a laÜkaMkDo iktItrI problems Aahot kI. evhZI lahana maulao gaunhogaar Asatat to %yaaMcao family life successful naahI mhNaunaca naa.

Storvi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 7:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

aplya kade nastat kay lahan vayatli gunhegari? lahan vayat gunhegari he vivahbahya apatyaprapti peksha, economic conditions, lack of education, aai/baap ya paiki konitari drugs/alcohol addict asne, lack of attention hya mule astat, ani hi aplyakadehi sarras distatach ki.


Nirakar
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:00 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

American lok ase asatat he saral sot mhanane chuk aahe. Maza jevadhya American lokanshi sambandha ala tyache family life uttam aahe ani sanskar pan atishay chhan aahet.
Everybody Loves Raymond koni baghata ka? bahutek sushikshit familya tashyach aahet, charch madhe janare pan khup aahet. Bahutek vela apan American lok mhanje Mac madhe burger flipper ashi kalpana karato pan tase sagalech naheet ase mala vatate

Rachana_barve
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:03 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

everybody loves raymond hI ek šTailayana family Aaho. inarakar mao sarsakT sagaL\yaa Amaoirkna families AXaa Aahot mhNat naahI. pNa
caca- maQao jaaNao vaogaLo AaiNa janmaBar maulaaMsaazI mhNauna adjust kÉna rhaNao vaogaLo. ho caukhI Asaola kI maulaaMsaazI mhNauna tDjaÜD kolaI mhNaunaca kdacaIt Aajakala maulaaMcaI lagnao Jaalyaavar AaplyaakDo vaZlaola divorce ca p`maNa. pNa ekMdrItca svatahacyaa sauKasaazI Aajakala jagatanaa idsatat.
sTÜ AaplyaakDo pNa Aaho ga gaunhogaarI pNa baLjabarInao ka AsaÜ tulaa Asao vaaTt naahI ka family life AaplyaakDo jaast caaMgalao AahoÆ

Nirakar
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Rachana: everybody loves raymond he ek udaharan dile hote (Italian family asali tari pidhyan pidhya te Ameriket aahet asech dakhavale aahet) pan mazya mulachya shaletale america mullanchi aai bap apalya sarakhech astat ase janvate. Pan ethe mulansathi adjust karun rahane vagaire concept nahi he khare karan mazya project madhalya ekane tyachyach mulala $100 loan dilele pan mala mahiti aahe.



Rachana_barve
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

inarakar [Tailayana ipZ\yaana ipZ\yaa rhat Asalao trI Amaoirkna naahI hÜ] Xakt. jasao caayainasa AaiNa AapNahI. qaÜDa Ôar Ôrk pDola pNa AgadI Amaoirkna banaNao mauXkIla.
AsaÜ ivaXayaaMtr krt naahI maI.

Arch
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 10:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

jyaaMnaa commitment krayacaI Aaho AXaaMnaIca lagna krava. jao commitment laa Gaabartat to living-to-gether caI pL\vaaT kaZtat. mhNajao I want my cake and eat it too.

Abedekar
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 11:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch: commitment to what? staying together for the rest of your lives? then, on what basis would that be?? because of what you know of the person from a few dates?

an important question: is a "live together" arrangement improper because it assumes s**? would it be more acceptable,if it was purely platonic? or would it still be looked down upon as an inability to make a commitment?

Storvi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 11:54 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

and who's to say that marriage is more commitment? Even in India I have seen in married couples where husband/wife have extramarital affairs , or any other issues, drinking problems, carreers and they get split up

and then there is the other extreme of commitment, where I have seen couples where husband has an affair and the woman continues to live with this guy 'coz that's what's expected of her. so how is one system any better than the other?

Parijat
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 12:04 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

storvi,

"husband/wife having extramarital affairs , any other issues, drinking problems, careers etc ."these issues could be a cause of splitup for couples living together without getting married too.
just think about the advantages of getting married.. in an ideal situation .
I agree with rachana kee lagnashivay bedhundashahee majel..








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