AavaDIlaaMnaI career cyaa maagao laagaUna maulaaMnaa day care maQyao saMpUNa- vaoL zovaava kaÆ %yaavar kaya ]paya AahoÆ maulaaMvar kahI pirNaama hÜtÜ kaÆ AavaDIla emotional stress ksaa handle krtatÆ
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arch maI trI maulaalaa pUNa- vaoL Do koAr maQao zovaNyaacyaa ivaÉw Aaho.%yaamauLo maUla tr palakaMcyaa sahvaasaalaa mauktoca pNa AapNahI Aaplyaa maulaacyaa vaaZtanaa phaNyaat imaLNaayaa- AanaMdalaa mauktÜ.[qao prdoXaat tr maUla lahana Aaho tÜvar Aa baabaa pOik ekanao trI iknvaa dÜGaaMnaI AalaTUna palaTUna ³Xa@ya Asalyaasa´ maulaajavaL saMpUNa- vaoL Asalao paihjao. Aata laÜk mhNatIla Aa AaiNa vaDIla yaat kuNaI kiryar caa %yaaga krayacaaÊ pNa ho p`%yaok jaÜDPyaanao Aapaplao zrvaayacao Aaho.maulaavar saMskar krNyaasaazIÊ%yaalaa GaDvaNyaasaazI Aa baabaaMiXavaaya dusara pyaa-ya ekca tÜ mhNajao GartlaIca eKadI jyaoYz vya>IÊ ]da. AajaI.
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Arch, mala ya prashnawar lihayala awadale asate, pan AavaDIlaaMnaI career cyaa maagao laagaUna ya shabda prayogamule yethe honari charcha biased hoil ase watate.
jar tyamule honare fayade ani tote, apariharyata ani alternatives yacha uhapoh kelela chanar asel tar mala nakki bolayala awadel.
mi swata mazi bhachare sambhalali ahet; pan mazi mulagi day care madhech geli ahe. bolanyasarakhe barech kahi ahe. pan te tuzya apexet basanare nasel ase watate.
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2-4 tasa jaÉr zovaavao. maulaM tovhZIca [traMmaQyao imasaLtat.
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Jaar family Indiyaat aasel ter day care madhey 2-4 taas jaroor thevaave karan tithe due to social activity aani family culture parents r always in touch with there childrens. Pun jaar aapan desha baher especially US sarkhyaa thikaani rahat aasu ter mukhyata shakyaa zalyaas(depending on financial condition) parents paiki ekaane tari mulan barobaar rahaylaa haave atleast in there beginning years of childhood. Tyaacha faydaa yevdhaach aasel ki mule parents naa jashtaa attached rahatil wa at the same time tyanna changala sauskaar shikavtaa yetil aani arthaat aapale culture sudhaa tyanna samjhavtaa yeil :)
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XauBaaÊ tuJaa kaihtrI gaOrsamaja hÜtÜ Aaho. maI pNa naohomaI naÜkrI kolaI Aaho. maula lahana Asatana mhNjao 3 vaYaa-caI hÜ[pya-Mt GarI raihlao. to maaJa mat hÜt. %yaanaMtr maulao day care laa gaolaI. %yaamauLo puYkLda guilty vaaTt. mainly %yaaMcyaa saui+cyaa idvaXaI jaovhaM Aaplyaalaa sau+I nasato tovhaM. AajaarpNaat maI AaiNa navayaa-nao split iXaF,T kolyaa pNa trI maulaalaa saÜDUna jaaNa kzINaca Asat mhNaUna laÜkaMcao ivacaar eokayalaa ha p`XNa maaMDlaa.
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shubha, nahitari vichar saglyanchech have na. ekach prakarche vichar eiknyasathi arch ne ha bb suru kela ase mala nahi vatat.
tula kaay vatta te tu lihi. nahi avadla tar loka sangtil nahi avadla mhanoon. pun mata vyakta karayla kahich harkat nasavi.
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# paLNaaGarat jaaNyaasaazIcao yaÜgya vaya :
maUla 6 - 7 maihnyaaMcao AsatanaaÊ ikMvaa 2 1 / 2 vaYaa-naMtr. paLNaaGarat jaaNyaacaa mau#ya tÜTa mhNajao maulao GarI jaovaZ\yaa infections naa expose hÜtIlaÊ %yaapoxaa iktI trI AiQak infections naa expose hÜtat. inadana Baartat trI. [qao AajaarI maulaaMnaa yao} dot naahIt. pNa maulaacao AajaarpNa naohmaIca off duty-hours naa laxaat yaola Asao naahIÊ %yaamauLo Xa@yata rahtoca.
mhNaUna maUla 6 - 7 maihnyaacao AsaolaÊ tr %yaacaI immunity pNa vaaZlaolaI Asato AaiNa %yaalaa attachments inamaa-Na Jaalaolyaa nasatat. iXavaaya to breast feeding maQaUna baahor pDlaolao Asato. GarI zovalao tr ho Aajaar maulaalaa hÜNaar naahIt Asao navho. to GaratIla [tr vya>IkDUna yaotIla. yaaca naaNyaacaI dusarI baajaU AXaI kI paLNaGarat jaaNaáyaa maulaacaI p`itkar Xa>I lavakr ivakisat hÜto.
yaa naMtr maa~ %yaalaa attachments inamaa-Na hÜtat AaiNa 8 mahInao to 2 1 / 2 vaYao- maQao jar maulaalaa vaogaLo ³AgadI Aa eovajaI saasaUjavaL [tka ikrkÜL badla hI´ zovaNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaa tr na KaNaoipNao pasaUna insecurity tUna inamaa-Na hÜNaaro Anaok pirNaama idsaUna yaotat.
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maaJaM ek mat Aaho... pNa vaacaUna ekdma AÜrDU naka maaJyaavar.. basically day care caa option ]gavatÜ tÜ %yaamauLo hÜNaara inconvenience idsalyaavar... pNa jar day care maQyaoca pazvaayacaM Asaola tr janmaalaa AaNata kXaalaa to maUla. like.. i guess everybody knows what r they doing and what r they doing that for? if u know ur preferences(ur child or whatever else) very well it's not a hard decision to take. p`itkar Xa>I ivaYayaI baÜlaayacaa tr maaJyaamato it's nothing but an excuse. maI Ôarsaa experienced or knowledged naahI Aaho yaa ivaYayaat... pNa jao vaaTlaM to baÜlalaÜ.
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Aho Shriniwas,
Day care mhaNaje kahee kaLe paNee kinwa narak nahee agadee. Tyache fayade-toTe donhee asatat. Tasheech centershee changalee- waeet donhee asatat.
aNi day care ki mool ha option : he mhanaje dhekooN hoteel mhanoon ghar na bandhaNyatalach prakar ahe.
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varcyaa sava- ivacaaraMt paLNaaGar hI kahItrI naalaajaanao krayacaI gaÜYT Aaho Asaaca dRiYTkÜna idsatÜ. maaJyaa lahanapNaI Aa malaa maavaXaIkDo ikMvaa AÜLKIcyaa laÜkaMkDo zovaUna naÜkrIlaa jaat Asao. toMvha kirArÊ paLNaaGar Do koAr vagaOrocaI TUma navhtI ³ikMvaa pwt navhtIÊ saÜya navhtI Asao mhNaa paihjao tr´. saMsaaracaI garja mhNaUna naÜkrI AaiNa tI krta yaavaI mhNaUna ho saaro. Aqaa-t (atUna palakaMivaYayaIcao laagaobaaMQao qaÜDo kmaI hÜtat ho Kroca.
maa~ AilakDo AaÊ AajaI AajaÜbaa Asao sagaLo Garat AsaUnahI smaaT- hÜNyaasaazI maulaalaa paLNaaGarat zovalyaacao eoklao. tumhI tsao kQaI eoklao Aaho kaÆ
svatÁ Asao dusaáyaakDoÊ paLNaaGarat raihlaolao AaNaKI kuNaI Aaplao AnauBava saaMgaola kaÆ
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Beti,
mi tujhyashi agadi sahamat aahe. Majha swatahach anubhav: Majhi mulagi aata 16 mahinyanchi aahe. She is quite social. Pan jar mi aajubajula asen tarch! Mi telecommute karate. Kewal mulila bakichya lokanchi, itar mula-mulin madye misalnyachi savay vhavi mhanun tial eka school madye ghatale aahe. roj 3 tas. Nanatar majhi aai ji khas majhya mulila sambhalyala aali aahe, ticyakade baghate. Majhi aai aalya pasun va tila shalet ghatlya pasun majhya mulit khup pharak padala aahe. She is more social now. Mala chikatupana karat nahi. Aani baryach goshti shikali aahe. One very imp thing she has learned is sharing her toys with other kids.
Bayaka garaj asate mhanunch nokari karatat ase nahi. Shewati aapan je shikalo tyacha upyog vhava mhanun nokari karane ha dekhil manasik garajecha bhag jhala. I myself have gone through the frustration when I was not doing anything. Now with the help of my husbond, my mother I think I am taking good care of my child as equally good as when I would have been at home. But having your husbond's and family's support is also very imp. Aani Shubhangine pratikar shakticha jo mudda mandala tohi excuse nasun purna pane valid aahe.
Shewati pratyek ghoshtiche fayade aani tote asatat. It is up to you how you accept it.
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keya .... tu jo job karate ahes tya prakarachya job chi mala mahiti havi ahe mazya bayako sathi.maza email id mazya profile madhe ahe.tu mala please email karashil ka?
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mahoXaÊ maI pUvaI- mhTlyaap`maaNao maaJaI Baacao maMDLI saaMBaaLlaIÊ karNa tovha iXakt hÜto AaiNa malaa vaoL doNao Xa@ya hÜto. pNa maaJaI maulagaI paLNaaGarat gaolaIÊ to naalaaja mhNaUna navho. KUp vaoLa maUla AajaI saaMBaaLto tovha %yaaMnaa ADkUna pDlyaasaarKo hÜto. vayaamauLo dgadga saÜsat naahI. pNa baÜlaNyaacaI saÜya nasato. jar AavaiDlaaMnaa samaja nasaolaÊ tr yaa vyavasqaocaa AvaajavaI gaOrÔayada Gaotlaa jaatÜ. maJyaa AÜLKIcyaa ik%yaokaMcaI maulao Aa[vaiDlaaMpoxaa AajaIAajaÜbaaMkDoca rahat. paLNaGaramauLo vaoLocao baMQanaÊ Baana mhNaa hvao tr AapÜAap yaotoca. maulao social hÜtat ho hI Kro. [qao tr maulaaMnaa english yaavaoÊ [qalao ]ccaar kLavao mhNaUna hI day care maQao pazvaNao sayaui>k AahoÊ mhNajao maUla XaaLot maagao pDNaar naahIÊ karNa AapNa kahI GarI english Ê to hI american baÜlat naahI
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rshubha,
tuza mhanana agadi khara ahe. lok aaple aaji aajoba ahet mhanun saral sodun jatat ghari poranna. pan por kiti tras deto he hi pahayla pahije. ekhada shant por asel tar tyatlya tyat thik ahe. pan barich por eka jagi mhanun basat nahit. tyanchya mage dhavne aaji aajobanna hot nahi he mulanni samjun ghyayla pahije. mhanun palanagharat thevle pahije. ani amercan englishcha saraav hoto, american mulanbarobar vavarne hote hehi ahech.
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Dardi,
I could not find your e-mail add in your profile.
Anyway I am working in Web Devlopment. But now days I work part time from home and I go to the office for few hrs everyday. I can do this because my co is small and we have a very good understanding between my boss and other colleagues. I don't know the situation in other big cos.
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sorry keya ...my email id is vupasani@yahoo.com
my wife has exp in web dev.and she wishes to work from home because our son is 18 mths old.do u have any idea where can we find such type of job oppo. similar to yours??pl mail me if possible.
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varIla sava- mato pTtatÊ pNa malaa ek p`XNa AahoÊ kI day care maQao kuNaalaa discrimmination jaaNavalao Aaho kaÆ mhNjao American baaLaMkDo jaast la@Xa dotat AaiNa BaartIya ikMvaa [tr alien babies caI hoLsaaMD hÜto Asaa kuNaalaa AnauBava Aaho kaÆ especially after the Sept 11th attacks, has anybody explicitly experienced discrimmination in the day care centers - maybe very subtly ??
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Jyoti,
Majhi mulagi eka pre-school madye jate. Tithe varvar tari te lok neet vagtat. Shivay divsatun fakta 3 tasch ti tithe asate. Tyamule ajun tari mala ase kahi janavale nahi. But there is a possibility that it can happen in the Day Care. And about the discrimmination, you can never tell where, when you will face it.
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Jyoti, the problem I faced was about food. I used to give snacks with my daughter to eat after school. They didn't allow it, as it's unfair to other children. their rule was all children should be eating whatever is provided by day-care. In India, everybody'll have their own milk, lunch, snacks; which would be kept in fridge and heated up before giving it to child if needed.
The other problem was because our children are mentally more developed, so they tend to make friendship with elder children.
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Shubha,
What if we do not want our child to eat non-veg ? Do they have any alternative veg food ?
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Majhya mahititlya kahi families ne aase day care shodhale jithe u can provide snacks which will be given to your child, arthaat he facility sarva thikaani upalabdhaa aaselaach aase nahi :(
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Aparna, I don't know. My daughter was old enough and she had to stay only for 2-3 hours, after school. I used to give her cookies or apple; which she could eat on / before boarding the bus. but it would be difficult if child is staying for entire day. I guess, they give PB&J sandwitches and do take into consideration your dietary preferences within limit.
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vaacaa
paLNaaGar AaQauinak saugarNaIcaa KÜpa ² laÜksa<aa
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mahoXaÊ laÜksa<aasaazI kuzcao fonts paihjaotÆ malaa vaacata yaot naahI
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yaoqao jaa AaiNa itqalyaa duvyaavar izcakI maa$na puZo kaya hÜto to kr. ADcaNaI Aalyaa tr ja$r kLva.
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Radha_t
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mahesh chhan link dilis 
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Swarali
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hi all,
apan busy asu, gharee ushira yet asalyamule kinva itar karananni mulan kade laxa deta yet nasel kinva medical sarakhe higher education ghet asatana mule zali, tar tyanna sambhalayla vel nsato, asha veli ek kuthali tari goshta sodun dyavi lagel,tya peksha tyanna day care madhe thevane ha sopa marg ahe, kinva in lawas var hi jawabdari takavi, tyanchi tyamule eka changalya ani healthy profession shi olkah hoil, apalya mulanna sambhaltana te ' day care centre' ugahdu shaktat ani itarahi mulanna sambhalu shaktat.
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Sonalin
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he jara atich hota aahe ... sagalya BB var ka in laws in laws ??? are ithe 'mulanna Day care madhe thevav ka' asa vishay aahe na ki 'in-laws ne day care centre ughadave ka' asa aahe ????
mazya mate day care madhe mulanna thevale tar mula jevha infant asataat (under 1 year old) tevha tyanna aai chi garaj jaast asate. ashya veli aai ek varsh jar ghari asali tar mulanna nakkich fayada hoto. tyach barobar after 1 year mula mothi asataat, tyanna tyanche mitra have asataat ashya veles nakkich mulanna day care madhe maja yeil. arthat he mazya swatachya anubhavavarun sangate aahe. mala 6 mahinyachi mulagi aahe aani mi ti janmhachya veles job sodala aahe. I think I will start working again once she is 1 year old ...
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Dardi
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ha ha ha .. svaralaI .. ho tuJao posting Aajacaa navaa jaÜk yaa sadrat ka naahI ilahIt Æ inlaws naI vaoL ksaa Gaalavaavaa Asaa navaa BB ]GaD nahI tr...
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Anupama
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Swarali,dev tujhya in laws che bhale karo!!Tu Dardine sangitalya pramane kharech ek vegala BB ughad pratyek BB var sasu-sasaryancha hastkshep jara atich hot aahe.
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khi khi khi khi.......ha ha ha ha! 
it's really fun reading some posts on hitguj. keep it up guys!!!!
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Storvi
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| | Friday, May 17, 2002 - 6:29 pm: |
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Building a child's immune system lokaho he vacha.. kahi diwasanpurvi me vachla hota he..
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Sasuli
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swarali...
in laws var hi jababdari taknya peksha mi mhanto swatachya aai-bapanni ka sambhalu nayet g mule tya karta in-laws kade ka jayla have...
by the way tuze in-laws che day-care centre kuthe ahe.. patta deun thev.. pudhe mage kamala yeil... karan mala nahi vatat mi mazya in-laws na tras dein.. te mhantat na.. apan ekdam sanktat sapadlo ki 'ohh my god' kinva 'are deva' mhanun aplya devala tras denya peksha 'ohh jesus' kinva 'ya alla' mhanun tyanchya devanna kamala lavave... same applies to them too
-S
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Swarali
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| | Saturday, May 18, 2002 - 7:13 am: |
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Lokaho,
Mala kona baddal personaly lihayla awadat nahi pan tumhi sagale pratyek vela mhanata ki ' dev tuzya sasu sasaryanche bhale karo'..
Mi he khoop vela eikun ghetale ahe,
ithe admin ne kiti tari vela ya baddal lokanna sangitale ahe.
anyway, tumhi sagale personaly ch bolnar asal tar ekda uttar dete, maze inlawas he atishay adhunik matanche ahet ani tyanchya age chya manasanni kase busy asave ani mulan sathi retirement nantar kasa purn vel dyava ya vishayi te nehami bolat asatat, khoop lokanna tyanni he patvunahi dile ahe !
Te doghehi doctor ahet ani mi MBBS karat ahe, maze sasu sasare atta punyat ahet, mazya navaryachi ithe mumbai madhe swat: chi practice ahe ani to ani mi doghehi busy asato.
Mi je kahi in laws na busy thevanya babat lihite tya tyanchyach pramukh ideas ahet, retire zalyavar amachya gharachi A to Z sagali kame karayachi idea tyanchich ahe,
So, punha ekda sagalya maaybolikaranna sangate mazya var personal boltana jara tond sambhalun !
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