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Hitguj » Views and Comments » Relationships » नवरा, बायको, संसार, तडजोड इ. » Ideal संसाराच्या मझ्या कल्पना » Archive through May 13, 2002 « Previous Next » Madya Friday, May 03, 2002 - 5:17 pm:      vaa² kaya ]da<a ivacaar Aahot... svaralaInao naahI mhNata mhNataÊ sava- kamao Aaš baabaanaa laavalaI Aahot. tumhI Aaš baabaaMcaI kamao krta mhNajao %yaaMcyaavar ]pkar krt naahI. tumhI laÜk naÜkrI krta mhNajao kaya C~ptI naahI Jaalaat.. jaovha tumacaI pÜrM tumhalaa ]zta basata laaqaa baU@@yaa GaalatIla %yaavaoLI samajaolaÊ AapNa Aaplyaa Aaš baabaaMnaa idlaolyaa vaagaNaukIcaI hI ÔLo Aahot mhNauna. maaÔ kra AaXaI BaaXaa vaaprlaI mhNauna... but couldnt resist myself to talk like this... Swarali Friday, May 03, 2002 - 8:32 pm:      hi all, aai babana kinva sasu sasaryana kame lavali tar kay evadha vad, te tar apalech astat na, mag nokar chakran var evadha vishwas thevil ka koni, tya peksha aai babanni hi jawabdari uchalali tar evadhe kay zale..tyanan pan busy ani anandi nahi ka thevata yenar, tyana jitake busy thevu titake te anandi rahatil.. Shrini Friday, May 03, 2002 - 9:05 pm:      Swarali, your postings seem to suffer from two basic assumptions that you've made. 1) aai baba jevadhe busy rahatil tevadhe te anandi rahatil 2) gharatali kaame karayala laavane ha aai baba na busy thevayacha ekamev upay aahe. So you see, if either, or both of your assumptions are shown to be invalid, your arguement collapses! Saurabh Friday, May 03, 2002 - 9:05 pm:      Aa[­vaDIla ikMvaa saasau­saasaro ‘Aaplao’ Aahot mhNaUnaca %yaaMcyaa ]tarvayaat %yaaMnaa AaplaI kamao na laavaNyaacaI klpnaa kXaI vaaTtoÆ ‘AaplaopNaa’ ‘Aaplyaa’laa hvaa tsaa vaaprvaa kaÆ to AapNahÜ}na mhNaalaoca krtÜ kamao tr naahI mhNaayacaI garja naahI ho Kro AahoÊ pNa tumacaa saMsaar k$na Jaalaaya Aat Aamacaa kra Asao saaMgaNao pTt naahI. %yaa %yaa vayaat %yaa %yaa jabaabadaáyaa AapNa ]calaayacyaa Asatat. svatÁ cao saMsaar caalau Jaalao ik (apuZo AapNa Aa[­vaiDlaaMsaazI AahÜt ³[tkI vaYao- to AaplyaasaazI hÜto´ ho laxaat zovalao paihjao. otherwise Aa[­vaiDlaaMpasaUna vaogaLo rahNyaapoxaahI jaast ~asadayak hÜ[la ho %yaaMcyaasaazI² Storvi Friday, May 03, 2002 - 9:40 pm:      Shrini, I was about to say the same thing. swarali do you know for a fact that this how it keeps them happy? I doubt it. Utar vayat dukhi asnyache karan is precisely that, mula sambhalayla aai pahije, ervi amchi adchan hote... Swarali, It may not always be true, pun baryach velela, like u said kama naslya mule manat vichar yetat, ani baryachda trivial goshti far mothya houn bastat. tya sathi tyanna busy thevla pahije he manya, but not this way. Me mazhya aaila sangte, tu Social Service kar. tula ata vel milto, tu shalet shikshika hotis, ata jaun garib mulanna shikav. society madhlya mulanna gola karun goshti sang sanskar varga sarkhe kahi chalav. These are also ways to keep them busy, but they move away from the gharchi kaam kara approach. Like Saurabh said, ayushya bhar kela ani ata tumchyahi ayushyat karava kaay mhanoon? mhatarpani thoda aram hava asa watla tar tyat kahi chuk nahiye. I would like to see you put yourself in their shoes for once. Shrini Friday, May 03, 2002 - 9:59 pm:      Storvi, you just did! (w.r.t. the first statement in your last posting!) ;-))) Anupama Saturday, May 04, 2002 - 3:28 am:      >>tyanan pan busy ani anandi nahi ka thevata yenar, tyana jitake busy thevu titake te anandi rahatil..>>Swarali tyanna gharatil kame karayala lavun busy thevanyat tyanna anand aahe he tharavanare aapan kon??Tyanchya marjipramane tyanna rahu dyave ani tyanchi marji jar gharatil sarwa kame karanyat asel tar tase khare pan mhatarpani tyanche anand konate he aapan tharavane he mala mulich patat nahi. Dardi Saturday, May 04, 2002 - 3:58 pm:      svaralaI ... tulaa Aa%mapirxaNa krayacaI garja Aaho Asao malaa vaaTto²² baoisakila ‘tulaa naÜkrIhUna Aalyaavar Garkamacaa kMTaLa yaoNao AaiNa naÜkravar ivaXvaasa ksaa TakNaar ’ yaa tuJyaa svaaqaI- ivacaaralaa tU ‘Aaš vaDIlaaMnaa busy zovaUna ³AapNa´AanaMdI rhaNao’ Asao gaÜMDsa $p _ot Aahosa²²² tuJao ‘naÜkr zovaNyaa eovajaI Aaš­vaDIlaaMnaa hI kamao laavaavaI’ ho vaa@ya vaacalyaavar tuJao Aaš­vaDIlaaMba_la kaya ivacaar Aahot to kLlao AaiNa tuJyaaXaI vaad GaalaNyaat Krca Aqa- naahI Asao vaaTt Aaho. dova tuJyaa Aaš - vaDIlaaMcao AaiNa saasaU - saasayaa-Mcao Balao krܲ² Swarali Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 7:24 am:      ithe sarvanna mazya postings cha rag ala ahe karan sarvanni mazya post baddal gairsamaj karun ghetala ahe. mi parat sangate ki utarvayat sasu sasaryanni thakave ashi mazi ajeebat apexa nahi, mala fakta itakech mhanayche ahe ki tyanni apala vel mulanchya satkaranee lavava jyamule tyanna jast kashtahi ghyave lagnar nahit, tyanchya dainandeen jeevanat basnarich hi kame ahet, tumhala parat patavun dyayacha prayatna karate. 1] pahate uthayachi savay tyanna asatech mag tya vela madhe sun mulaga yanna daba karun dyava, tyan chya sathi chaha cofee che, nashtyache pahave, ya goshtitar tyanna karayachi savay asatech, tyana he kam vatnarach nahi. 2] morning walk la jayachi savay tyana asatech mag tya veli natwandanna shalet sodane, yetana bhaji anane hi kame tyatach houn jatil. 3] gharkamala tar kamwali bai ch yete, tyanna fakta tichya kamavar supervision karayachi ahe, far tar kapade washing machine madhe lavayache kam tyana karave lagel. 4] dupari swayampak kartana ratricha hi swayampak karava, mahanje kam sppe zale. 4] dupari t.v. pahata pahata bhaji nivadane, dhanye nivadane hi kame hotil. 5] natwandanna shaletun anane he kam ek konitari sahaj karu shakate, dupari abhays hi gheu shaktat. 6] bill baharne kinva grocery hi kame mahinyatun ekdach karavi lagtat, tyat grocery che kam mahanje fakta list banavun phone var order deunahi hote, mag tayt thakun jayacha prashnach yet nahi. 7] sandhyakali natwande khelayla jatil tevha tyanni firayla jave, yetana dusarya diwashiche dudh vagarie anave. 8] sadhyakali sun mule yayachya veli swayampak tar tayarach asel, mag fakta tyanna hatat garam chahacha cup dila ta tyanna kiti bare vatel.. mag jevayachi tate vadhane ani nantar ota , table awarane hich kirkol kame urali, ti hi te sahaj karatil. ata tumhich sanga yat ahe ka kahi vegale kashta karun kam karane, mala vatate ata mazya matashi lok sahamat hotil, mi taynchay hitachech pahat ahe, tyanna jitake busy thevu titaki tyanchi tabyet hi changali rahate, mi swat: examples pahili ahet. mazya baryach maitrini medical profession madhe ahet, taynche sasu sasare tyanna agadi panyacha glass suddha hatat anun detat. ani anandi rahatat, ek kam sampale ki dusare kam karaychya tayarila lagtat ani healthy rahatat. mi mhanate te chuk ahe ka, koni tari mala seriously ghya, cheshta karu naka pls.. Swati2 Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 1:58 pm:      swarali dhanya ahe tuzi. >>mala fakta itakech mhanayche ahe ki tyanni apala vel mulanchya satkaranee lavava>> tyancha vel tyanni kasa satkarani lavava he tharavayacha adhikar tula kuni dila? Swatachi career/sansaar he jyane tyane apalya himatine ani jivansathichya sahakaryane karayache asate. Dusaryachya mulbhut hakkanvar gada anun naahi. Tuzya pahilya muddyala maze uttar ase: Swarali ya goshti karayachi savay as a adult tula kadhi laganar? tu mhatari zalyavar? bagh bai vichar kar. Pudhali pidhi juzya kadun tuzya sarakhich apeksha karanari asanar. tu apali atta pasun thodi thodi practice karayala laag mhanaje mhatarpani vel 'mulansaathi satkarani' lavu shakashil. tuzya dusarya muddya baddal : Morning walkchi vel ani shalechi vel ekach asel ase nahi. shala dupari asel tar 12 vajata morning walk la jayache ka. by the way weekend ha athavadyachya bhajya/grocery anayala, bhajya nivadun thevayala, laundry kapade press karane ya sathi asato. nusatya partya karayala nave. washing mashine madhun kapade kadhayache kaam tar pharach sope ase na mag te kay tu kinva tuza navara sahaj karu shakaal. gharatil mothyanni dupari donni velecha swayapaak karayacha tya peksha tu pahate uthun donhi velachya polya ani bhaji ka nahi karat. jamalyas navaryala cooker lavayala shikav. mag bhagh sandhyakali ghari alyavar garam garam chahacha cup pudhe yeto kini naahi te. jodila aai/sasu mayene pathivarun hat phiravun mhanel 'damalis na, bas jara vel nivant.' natvandanna shalet nenya ananya sathi riksha/school bus lavavi. bill check ne bharata yetat ka yachi choukashi karavi. extra charge ghevun bank dekhil asha prakarchi suvidha dete. dudhachi dilivary lavavi. Bhahutek aaji -ajoba natvancha abhyas ghetat pan vayomana pramane drushti adhu hote, aiku kami yeu lagate, vismaran hote. navya padhatine shikavatana honari damchaak vegalich. tenva te apan houn karat asatil tar gosht vegali anyatha hushar garaju asa college cha vidyarthi tutor mhanun thevava. and remember one thing after all your kid is your responcibility, not your parents'/inlaws'. apali career/hobby vagaire goshticha vichar karun mulancha nirnay couple ne ghyava. gharatil mothyanchi madat ghene mhanaje sarva jababadari tyanchya var takane nave. I don't know in which world you and your so called professional friends live but I am sure it's hell for senior citizen. It's time you grow up! Moderator: I am sorry if this posting is too personal. but this time I just can't help. Maitreyee Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 3:30 pm:      svaralaI did- mhNatÜ %yaap`maaNao tU Krca Aa%mapirxaNa kr Asao malaa vaaTto.. tuJaI ilasT mhNajao Aaš vaDIlaaMnaa ibaJaI zovaNao ha ek klamaI kaya-Ëma Aaho. pNa %yaaMcaa vaoL %yaaMnaI ksaa ‘ sa%karNaI’ laavaayacaa ho AapNa kÜNa %yaaMnaa saaMgaNaarÆ tU jyaa 'professional friends' caI ]dahrNao do}na samaqa-na krt Aahosa to %yaa va`uwaMcaa vaoL sa%karNaI laavat nasaUna %yaaMcyaa $pat ÔukTcyaa naÜkracao sauK svatÁ BaÜgat Aahot. tU jaÜ idnaËma %yaaMcyaasaazI idlaa Aahosa tÜ sagaLa Ô> ek AazvaDa Bar tU svatÁ follow k$na baGa. AaiNa maga [qao pÜsT kr tÜ va`uwaMsaazI iktI sauKacaa Aaho to. tU ‘%yaaMnaa kamaacaI savaya AsatoÊ %yaaMnaa ho AavaDto ’ ho ga`uiht Qart Aahosa. %yaaMnaI AayauYyaBar yaa jabaabadayaa- ]calalyaa Asatat mhNaUna %yaaMnaa savaya Asato. tumhI lagna krta mhNajao tuimh yaa jabaabadayaa- par paDayalaa laayak Asalaaca paihjaot. GaratlaI maÜzI maaNasao Aata inava`u<a vhayacyaa stage laa AalaolaI Asatat. tI navyaa jaÜDPyaalaa maaga-dXa-na ja$r krtIla pNa %yaa jaÜDPyaanao Aaplao professional AaiNa GarolaU life svatÁ ekmaokacyaa saaqaInao balance krayacao Asato. yaalaaca tr saMsaar mhNaayacao. tulaa evaZI kaLjaI Aaho %yaaMcyaa vaoLacaI tr %yaaMnaa inava`u<a AayauYyaat %yaaMcao CMd jaÜpasaayacaIÊ pUvaI- rahUna gaolaolyaa gaÜYTI krayacaI saMQaI do. %yaaMcyaa [cConao to jao kama krtIla tovaZoca k$ do. %yaaMcyaavar GaratlaI sava- jabaabadarI TakNao mhNajao AapNa AayauYyaBar ‘lahana’ rhaNao iknvaa ‘maÜzo hÜNyaacaoca naakarNao’ ..AaiNa tuJyaa yaa AXaa ivacaaraMXaI laÜk sahmat hÜtIla AXaI Apoxaa krtosa mhNajao Krca tulaa Aata ‘maÜzo’ vhayacaI garja Aaho Manya Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 3:41 pm:      (a BB caa mauL ivaYaya baajaUlaa pDlaaya Asa naahI ka vaaTtÆ Aaš vaiDlaaMnaI (In-laws naI´ Gar kamaat madt kolaI trca saMsaar sauKacaa hܚla kaÆ malaa vaaTt sagaLoca Aaš vaiDla Aaplyaa maulaacaa saMsaar sauKI vhavaa mhNauna svaralaInao saaMigatlaolyaa gaÜYTI krayalaa tyaar Asaitla. %yaaMcaa vaoL jaavaa mhNauna %yaanaa (a gaÜYTI kryalaa saaMgaNao ho kuNaalaahI na pTNyaasaarKoca Aaho. %yaaMcaa vaoL jaavaa ha jar hotu Asaola tr %yaasaazI Kailala gaÜiYT krta yaoitla %yaaMcyaa saazI vaogaLa TV AaNauna VavaaÊ %yaaMcyaa AavaiDcyaa cassettes, VCD/DVDs AaNauna VavyaaÊ jar to saamaaijak ivacaarcao Asaitla tr %yaaMcyaa saazI kuzo javaLpasa senior citizens caa k+aÊ vaacanaalaya Aaho ka phavaoÊ Qaaima-k Asaitla tr %yaaMcyaa saazI pujaa pazÊ yaa~a - sahla caI saÜya phavaI... AaiNa bayaa-ca gaÜYTI Aahot ih caoYTa naahI krt maIÊ Aaš vaiDlaaMnaaÊ ikMvaa saasau saasaáyaanaa sauKat zovaNa ³%yaaMcaa vaoL caaMgalaa jaašla (acaI kaLjaI GaoNa ´ hahI ek~ kuTuMbaaitla sauiK saMsaarcaa Baaga Aaho Aaplyaa saMsaaracaIÊ GaracaIÊ maulaaMcaI jabaabadarIÊ Aaplyaa jaÜiDdara saÜbat sahkaya- kÉna AapNaca GyaavaI ha sauiK saMsaarcaa ]<ama maaga- naahI kaÆ Abhijit Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 7:45 pm:      svaralaIÊ tU laÜkaMcyaa baÜlaNyaakDo Aaijabaat laxa nakÜ do}sa² %yaaMnaa mhNaavao kI BB cao naava AaQaI vaacaa² " klpnaa " mhNajao fiction, maga evaZo isairyasa kXaalaa hÜtat ho laÜk² haMÊ pNa jar ho tuJao Kroca ivacaar AsatIla tr maa~ hI pÜsT vaacat rha... tuJyaa AaQaIcyaa sagaL\yaa pÜsT vaacata vaacata maaJaI tr matIca gauMga JaalaI hÜtIÊ pNa XaovaTcyaa pÜsT maQalaI itemized list great!! var maVanao ilaihlyaap`maaNao tuJao ho " ]da<a " ivacaar tulaaca puZo jaD jaa} nayaot Asao vaaTt Asaola tr sagaL\yaaMcao replies prt ekda vaaca AaiNa ivacaar kr² maga Aaš / vaDIla AaiNa saasaU / saasaáyaaMnaI pNa tU AaiNa tuJyaa navaáyaasaazI AXaIca ek ilasT kaZlaI AsaolaÊ tI vaacaÊ maga tuJyaa ilasT maQalaI ekok klamao kmaI hÜt jaatIla² p`Xnaca imaTlaa² Deepanjali Sunday, May 05, 2002 - 10:10 pm:      aga swarali, dhanya ahes... ata pahate daba karun dene pan zale ka add, tuzi list kuthalya aai babanni vachali tar te chakkar yeun padatil !! kay ga swarali...gas cylinder che lihayache visaralis ga bai... ata ase pan mhan na ki tyanni fit rahanya sathi pathivar gas cylinder che oze pan vahun anave... Bhalya Monday, May 06, 2002 - 7:43 am:      Swarali, sasu sasaryanna nokri karaichi pan savai hotich ki..mag tyanna tujhya aivaji nokarivar pan pathavata yeil nahi..visarlischa bagh ! And I'm not joking..think about it seriously. Yogibear Monday, May 06, 2002 - 2:06 pm:      Manya: aapan admin laa sangun hyaa BB che naav change karuyaa kaa!!! ;o) Mitranno: BB che naav ' Ideal saMsaaracyaa maaJyaa klpnaa ' parat ekdaa vaacha....aani lets keep discussion to the point. Swarali Monday, May 06, 2002 - 2:09 pm:      bhalya, deepa, maitrayee , dardee, swati, sasu sasare nokari karat asatil ani mala job nasel tar hi ch kay ya peksha jast kame mi hi karen, atta sasu sasaryanchya vayaomana pramane hi light kame ch mi tyanni karavi ase suggest karat ahe. yache karan ase, ideal sansarat jawabdarya vatun ghene mahatvache asate, sun mulga nokari karat asatil tar gharkam A to Z in laws ni karave ani arthik jawabdari A to Z mulanni kinva je kon job karat asel tyanni uchalavi. ani ithe lok mazi nusati cheshta karat ahet, mala khatri ahe ki apalya aai babanchya age chya vyaktine maze posting vachale tar mala te nakkich support karatil. sangayla khed vatato ki tumhi sagale paramparik vicharan madhun baher padat nahi, mulga nokari karat asel tar to kuthe kadhi ghari yeun gharkam karato, ani karat asel tar kiti kami praman asate, mag sunene nahi kele tar itaka vad uthato..... nonsense ! mulihi mala support nahi karat, mi mhanate ki jar office madhun ghari yayla jar sade ath hot asatil, tar kase shakya ahe gharkam navra baykone karane ani parat dusarya diwashi pahate uthun office la jane kinva janya purvi daba karun nene... tyamule gharkamavar tari parinam hoil kinva officework var parinam hoil.. tya pekasha A to Z arthik jawabdarya apan uchalun A to Z ghar kam chya jawabdarya sasu sasaryanni ka nahi uchalayachya, tyanni fakta aram ani chhand jopasanyat diwas ghalvava ase tumache mhanae ahe kay ? tyanni chhand jopasayache kam kadhihi hote, sunday chi sutti ahech ki tya sathi, kinva gharkamatun vel kadhun te chhand jopasatil. tumhala he sagale khote vatate pan kharokhar mage lihilya pramane ase gharkam karun purn jawabdari uchalnare in laws mi kharokhar pahile ahet, ani roj pahate ahe. mazya maitrininche sasu sasare panyacha glass hatat neun dene paryant sagale kam kartat, itakech kay tar weekends na tyanni kam kele tar tyanna te hi karu dile jat nahi, tyanna tya diwashi fakta relax hoyla sangitale jate. gharkamat sasu sasare hatahi lavu det nahit, ase lok ya jagat ahet he tumhala mahitach nahi ka ? Prafull Monday, May 06, 2002 - 2:27 pm:      Swarli, Sasu sasre swatahun hausene jar gharkaamamadhe bhag gheu icchitat tar gosht vegali paN tu tar duty lavalyapramane tyana kaame lavun dili ahet. That is wrong and I guess most hitgujkars are against that. Your posting sounds as if sasu saryanche kartavya aahe above mentioned kaam karane and if they do not do that then are shying away from their duties. Tyanchyashi consult karave kiva tyanche mat pan vicharat ghyave ase nahi vatat ka? Asawari Monday, May 06, 2002 - 3:35 pm:      Hey swarali, kuthlyahee gharaat ayate basun khanare inlwas nastaat. agdeee 100%. Ani jar asel tar bhandene houn lok vegele rahaataat. Ani jar financial jababdaree navra bayko uchalt aahet tareehee gharateel kaame aai vadinlanee 100% karavee ase tu je mhanates ha mee taree swarthee vichar samajte. he maaze personal mat aahe. Jar 8:30 la yene ani pahate jaane he nehemeeche schedule aahe ani shakya asel tar saral gharkamaala baai lavaavee. ani jar tehee shakyta nasel mhanje arhteek sthitee itkee vaaeet aahe tar kashta ghyayachee tayaree thevaavee nahee ka. aai vadeel madat karteel pan madat mhanun sarva kahee tech karteel gharatle ase nahee. Ani kon kunala ayushyabhar purale aahe. Aai vadilanantar gharatle kon karnaar. mag teva karaal na swataha swatahache tar mag atta ka naahee. te anandane karteel tevadhe madat ghyaa naa. Maitreyee Monday, May 06, 2002 - 4:48 pm:      svaralaI.. [qao maulaoÊga`uihNaIÊkirAirsT maulaI sagaLo Aahot pNa kuNaIhI tulaa sapÜT- kolaolao naahI tovha %yaaMnaa ‘ nonsense ’ mhNaNyaa AaQaI tu ekTI ka pD\tIyaosa AaiNa [t@yaa sagaL\yaaMnaa tuJao ivacaar cauikcaoca naahI tr hasyaaspd ka vaaTt Aahot yaacaa ivacaar kr naa²² 1. [qao kÜNa%yaahI maulaanao vaa maulaInao ‘Ô> baayakÜnao Garatlao kama kravao’ Asaa sallaa idlaolaa naahI. Gar AaiNa Aaiqa-k yaa dÜnhI jabaabadayaa- navara baayakÜ dÜGaaMnaI imaLUna ]calaavyaa Asaoca sagaLo mhNat Aahot. %yaamauLo parMpairk ivacaartUna baahor yaoNao vagaOro tuJyaa mhNaNyaalaa Aqa- naahI. 2. saMsaar navara baayakÜcaa Aaho.%yaat A to Z Aaiqa-k nabaabadarI ]calaavaI yaat kahIca ivaXaoYa naahI. pNa ]rlaolyaa AQyaa- mhNajao Garacyaa jabaabadarItUna tumhalaa mau> hÜta yao[la AXaI Apoxaa caukIcaI Aaho. saasaU saasaro Aata inava`u<a hÜNyaacyaaca vayaacao Asatat.%yaaMcyaa saMsaarat %yaaMnaI Gar AaiNa Aaiqa-k dÜnhI AaGaaD\yaa saMBaaLUna Jaalyaa Asatat. maga maulaaMcyaa saMsaaracaI AQaI- jabaabadarI %yaaMnaI ka ]calaavaIÆ %yaaMnaa ivarMgauLa mhNaUna %yaaMnaI madt krNao izk Aaho. %yaamauLo A to Z jabaabadarI yaacaa Aqa- Gar AaiNa Aaiqa-k AXyaa GaraXaI saMbaMiQat sagaL\yaa jabaabadayaa- Asaa Asaayalaa hvaa. 3. tuJaa ekmaova AaQaar Aaho tÜ tU paihlaolao to kuNaIsao hatat paNaI AaNaUna doNaaro saasaU saasaro. pNa Asao bahusaM#ya Aaš vaDIla Aahot jyaaMna vayaÜmaanaamauLo manaat Asalao trI maulaaMcyaa saMsaarat tU saaMigatlyaa [tkI kamao krta yaot naahIt. AaiNa jarI kahI kaL kolaI trI to kaya AyauYyaBar purNaar naahIt. %yaaMcyaa naMtr kayaÆ tovha tr ya naustIca ‘Aaiqa-k jabaabadarI ’ ]calaU XakNaayaa- jaÜDPyaacyaa jabaabadyaa- tr vaaZlyaa AsatIla AaiNa Garkama krNaaro in laws hI raihlao naahIt tr ho jaÜDpo kaya krolaÆ AsaÜ. Aata AaNaKI kaya ilaihNaarÆ AaiNa toca toca ilahayacao trI iktI vaoLa²² Aata malaa vaaTto yaa mau_\yavar cacaa- pNa krayacaI garja naahI. navaa mau_a Asaola tr baÜlaavao. kLavaoÊ cau. BaU . Va. Gyaa. ... Arch Monday, May 06, 2002 - 4:53 pm:      svaralaIÊ p`%yaokacyaa ideal saMsaaracyaa klpnaa vaogaL\yaa Asatat. pNa lagnaanaMtrÊ maula JaalyaanaMtr jabaabadáyaa vaaZt jaatat AaiNa %yaa svat : par paDNyaatpNa AanaMd AsatÜ AaiNa AapNa iXakt AsatÜ. Aaplyaa maulaaMnaa iXakvat AsatÜ kI navaI Aavhana kXaI GyaayacaI AaiNa kXaI par paDayacaI. tuJao varcao ivacaar vaacaUna vaaTla Aga maga maulapNa mhNaU XaktIla maI XaaLot jaa}na AByaasa krtÜca maga maaJao GarI idlaolao projects Aaš tU ikMvaa baabaa naaihtr AajaI AajaÜbaa kra. tumhI vacation var gaolyaavar AašvaiDlaaMnaI GaotlaolaI jabaabadarI vaogaLI AaiNa tumacaa saMsaar %yaaMš caalavalaolaa vaogaLa. maga lagna kXaasaazI krayaca AaiNa maula kXaasaazI hvaIt jar jabaabadarI nakÜ tr. maulaaMnaapNa AapNa Garat madt krayalaa lahanapNaapasaUna iXakvat AsatÜ. AamhI tr lahanapNaapsaUna Aašlaa Garat madt krt AsaU. %yaamauLo saMsaaracaI jabaabadarI saasaU saasaáyaaMnaI GyaavaI Asa kQaIca vaaTla naahI. ]laT AamhI %yaaMnaa saaMgatÜ AaiNa saaMgaayacaÜ tumhI enjoy kra. jara travel kra. jaÜpya-Mt hatpaya caalatayat tÜpya-Mt iÔ$na Gyaa. ³Aamacyaa GaratlaI kama kra Asa naahI.´ %yaaMnaI %yaaMcaa saMsaar kolaa AapNa Aaplaa kravaa. mhNaUnaca Aaplyaa puva-jaaMnaI 4 AaEama kolao AsatIla Asa naahI vaaTtÆ Savyasachi Monday, May 06, 2002 - 5:25 pm:      lokaho, swaraliche mhanane ti sodun konalach patale nahiye ani patel asehi vatat nahi. parat parat techtech lihun kahi upayog ahe ka? sarvanni tila sangun zalay ani tarihi tila tyanche mudde patat nastil tar sodun dya. bb la uddeshun charcha pudhe chalu kara. Yogibear Monday, May 06, 2002 - 5:31 pm:      Savya: "bb la uddeshun charcha pudhe chalu kara" <<< agadi barobaar bolallas re baba.... Swarali Tuesday, May 07, 2002 - 2:35 pm:      thik ahe, konala maze mudee nahi patat.. yachi kahi karane asu shaktat.. ek tar ithe baryach muli ya housewives ahet kinva koni full time busy life style jagat nahi kinva jagat asel tar tyanna ghari yeun gharkamat ' time killing' karanyachi savayach lagali ahe, asha mulech in laws kinva gharatil itar nokari na karanarya vyakti inactive ani sust bantat karan tyanna mahit ahe nokaree che kashta zale ki ghratale urale surale karaylahi sun mulga ahetach..mag tyanna zopa kadhane, t.v. pahane kinva char choughin sarakhe shejari pajari jaun apalya sune baddal chahadya karane asha anek nirarthak goshtin sathi velach vel asel ! mandali, mala mazya posting madhun konavar personal attak karayache navate kinva mazya ideal sansarachya kalpana kewal ek vad kinva controversy mhanun ithe mandayachya navatya. mi mazya parine in laws ni kasa dinkram thevava yache anek prakar lihile ahet. he dinkram khaokhar kasht denare nahit tarihi vel satkaranee lavnare ahet, ekhadi part time nokari karunahi jamanare ahet. tevha eka jari vyaktine , kadachit apalya aai baban chya pidhitil vyaktine he dinkram vachale tar te mala support ch kartil yachi mala khatri ahe. Boli Tuesday, May 07, 2002 - 4:16 pm:      I think it is ones own perspective. If in-law are happy and insist on doing that work, then some people might feel lucky. But personally mala mazha sansar karaila jasta awadel. Rojachya kamat interest gheNe, might be aaghadiwar rahun kaam karaNe jara jastach chaan. If elderly people are there at home, I think tyancha anubhav aaplya upayogi yeto ani toch jasta mahatwacha. aapaN tyanche opinions ani madat ghevu shakto. paN purNa responsibility tyanchyawar takaNe, personally I will not like it. I mean sharing the responsibilities is a part of it. But I would like to share and be a part of ghar-kaam also, while I am working and earning member. Arch Tuesday, May 07, 2002 - 5:01 pm:      maI tumacyaa AašbaabaaMevaZI na@kIca naahI. pNa malaa ek maulagaa AaiNa maulagaI Aaho. %yaaMcaI lagnao Jaalyaavar maaJyaa sauKI saMsaaracaI maaJaI klpnaa AXaI Aaho 1. %yaaMnaI Aapaplao saMsaar Aaplyaa majaI-nausaar vaogaLo qaaTavao AaiNa Aapaplyaa jabaabadaáyaa ]calaavyaat 2. garja laagalaI tr AamacaI madt GyaavaI AaiNa AamhI tI nai@kca dovaU pNa p`%yaok baabtIt Aamacyaavar AvalaMbaUna rahU nayao 3. tumhalaa break mhNaUnaÊ iknvaa ADcaNaIcyaavaoLI tumacaI maula AamhI nai@kca saMBaaLU 4. AamacaopNa retirement naMtrcao plans Aahot %yaat tumacaa saMsaar saMBaaLayacao plans naaiht. madt krNyaacaa plan Aaho 5. eka gavaat AsalaÜ tr inayamaIt BaoTava AaiNa nasalaÜ tr kahI vacations ek~ Gyaavyaat. jyaanausaar we will not be in each other's way 5. AamhI invalid JaalaÜ tr AamacaI vyavasqaa retirement home maQyao kra. tumacyaavar baÜja, vhayacaa ivacaar naahI AaiNa %yaap`maaNao AamhI trtUd k$na zovaNaar AahÜt. Bhalya Wednesday, May 08, 2002 - 5:56 am:      Arch :- Gruhashtasram te vanprasthasram ! Good thoughts ! Yogibear Wednesday, May 08, 2002 - 1:21 pm:      Arch, Bhalya: nice one......bahutek aaplya college aani Universititun parat ekdaa hey sarva shikavaylaa haave......since ppl tend to forget fast.... Rewa Wednesday, May 08, 2002 - 1:56 pm:      gharat aai wadil mulga sun ase astana maza maza sansar karne kase hou shakte he mala samjat nahi. gharatlya important decisions madhe sagle involved astat. amcha sansar amhi baghun gheu asa hot nahi tya weli. mhanje importance, attention matra saglyana ani jababdarya/kama matra apla sansar tar apanach uchalalya pahijet. he fair watat nahi. arthat aplya saglyanchyat he sagla itka bhinla ahe ata ki thodasa jari wegla vichar manat ala tari aplach chukat asnaar asa watata. pahilyandach views and comments war lihit ahe. chu. bhu.dya ghya. :-) Langotius Wednesday, May 08, 2002 - 2:05 pm:      aaplya college aani Universititun parat ekdaa hey sarva shikavaylaa haave >>> some things are beyond the realm of a college/university education... these things are lessons of life, which you learn at home and the world around you as you move along in life... one cannot teach these things in school..... but that is just mho Archananj Wednesday, May 08, 2002 - 5:07 pm:      Arch: 2 thumbs up! Rewa: I totally agree with you Shyamal Monday, May 13, 2002 - 7:05 pm:      svarailaÊ jar 60 vaYyaa- cyaa Aaš baabaa kDuna part time naÜkrI sakT (a sagaaL\yaa ica Apoxaa jar AapNa kÉ XaktÜ tr tIca kamao 2530 vaya vaYaa- cao AapNa ka kÉ Xakt naaihÆ Swarali Monday, May 13, 2002 - 9:31 pm:      shyamal, part time nokari tyanche man ramave ya sathi, tyachi arthik apeksha na thevata, tyanan hi sagali kame sanagne asha sathi ki apan full time nokari karato ani tyamule gahratil ya mahatvachya kama n kade durlaksha hote. nokar chakar thevu shakato, jar aai babanna kame hot nasatil tar, pan tya sathihi aai babanchi supervision tyan var havich..shivay nokaran var nako tevdha vishwas thevane kiti ayogya ahe he sarvannach mahit ahech ! tya peksha jamatil ti kame tyannich karavit ashi mazi suggestions ahet. aram karayla kay weekends ahetach, tya veli suna-mule-in laws sagalech aram karatil, ekatra enjoy karatil , trips , hotelling sagalyacha anand ghetil kinva fakta aram karatil. Savyasachi Monday, May 13, 2002 - 10:02 pm:      agadi barobar. in laws/gharatil mothi mandali yancha man satat kashat tari guntvun thevne atishay garajeche ahe ani te navra baykone manavar ghetlech pahije. hi sagli kama in vadildhari karu lagle ki mag tyanchya ugach chambhar chaukasha chalnar nahit ani navra baykochi baher affairs honar nahit. nahitar mhantat na, rikamya dokyat saitaan nachato, tasa asta ya mothya lokancha. arch, ashi affairs hou nayet mhanun tu lagnanantar vegla rahava asa suchavla hotas ka? aga pan mag gharatli 'futkal' kama kon karnar? Abhijit Monday, May 13, 2002 - 11:56 pm:      Savyasachi, tula he posting yaach BB var karaayache hote na?!

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