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Arch
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 3:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Relationship varcao bb pahUna ha bb ]GaDavaasaa vaaTlaa. kaihjaNa nakLt saMsaarcyaa baabatIt unrealistic ideas zovatat AaiNa maga saMsaaralaa sauÉvaatca saMGaYaa-nao hÜto. tr AapNa Aaplao ivacaar maaMDlao tr [trjaNa Aaplyaalaa BaUtlaavar AaNaayalaa madt k$ XaktIla. maaJyaa kahI klpnaa

1. Xa@ya AsalyaasaÊ maulaanao AašvaiDlaaMpasaUna sauÉvaatIlaa vaogaLo rhavao.
2. (amauLo saMsaaracaI responsibility kaya Asato ho dÜGaaMnaahI iXakta yaoto
3. maulaIlaa Aaplaa saMsaar AapNa sajavaavaa hI hÝsa Asato
4. dÜGaaMnaahI ekmaokaMnaa adjust vhava laagat. %yaamauLo vaaid\vavaadat intrusion nasaNa mah%vaaca Aaho
5. laagaola toMvaa AašvaiDlaaMnaa AaiNa AašvaiDlaaMnaI madt kravaI
6. saMsaarat dÜGaaMnaahI sagaL\yaabaabatIt equality hvaI.


Teerkas
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 4:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

mulache aai vadil hech fact samsyanche mul aahe ka ? mulicha attitude chukicha nasatoch ka ? mulacha nakartepana sansarachya apayashala jababadaar tharatach nahi ka ? hava tenva aai vadilana madat karane ani tyanchi madat karane ha shudhha vyavahaar nahi ka ? aai vadilani kelelya palanposhanacha khastana asa pathi takun shudhha vyavahari drushtine baghane yogya aahe ka ? navya dampatyala sansaar sajavava hi haus asate tasech tyanchya aai vadilana to sajtana baghayala milava ashi apeksha asu naye ka ?

Arch
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 5:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

itrksaÊ

AašvaiDla samasyaaMcao maUL Asato Asa maI mhTlaca naahI. pNa vaogaL raihla tr tÜ p`XNa ]psqaItca hÜNaar naahI.

maulaacao AašvaiDla jasao %yaacao palana­pÜYaNa krtat %yaa p`maaNao maulaIcao Aa[vaiDlapNa itcao krt Asatat %yaamauLo [qao vyavaharacaa p`XNaca yaot naahI

AašvaiDlaaMnaa maulaaMnaI sajavalaolaa saMsaar %yaaMnaa AQaUna maQaUna BaoTUnapNa baGata yaotÜ. in fact maulaIcyaa AašvaiDlaaMnaapNa maga tovaZ\yaaca h@kanao baGata yaotÜ.

Savyasachi
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 5:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

teerkas, tu ugach fate fodto ahes asa mala vatata. ani nuste prashna takat basnya aivaji tuza tyavaril uttar lihilas tar jasta bara hoil.
arch, tuza mhanana mala patla. 'survatila' vegala rahav. kahi varsha tari. mag ekda doghancha changla julala ki parat ekatra yava. yaat vyavahari drushtikon vagaire nasun changlya sambandhansathi, changlya aaushyasathi keleli upayyojana ahe.


Teerkas
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 6:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch mazya prashnNmadhe fakt mulaNchyaa aai vadilaNbaddal mI kahI mhaTalele nahIye. "tyaNche" aai vadil hya shabdp[rayogamadhe mulache ani muliche aaid vadil donhi antarbhut hotaat ase mI gruhit dharale aahe.
ekdaa vegaLe rahilaat kI punha ekatra yenaare khiti udaharaNe samajaat adhaLataat. muLaat jar ekemekana, pakshi: ekemekaNchya pariwarala umagun gheu shakalaat tar sukhi sansaar ha vegaLe na rahataahI hou shakato. barechdaa hoNaryaa prakaraNmadhe aai-vaDil ha ekamev factor nasato. mulicha haTTI swabhaav aNI mulichyaa gharchyaNchI ashaa prakaraaNa asaNaari fooshi kaaraNibhut asate.

'Ideal' saNasaaraamadhe ekemekaNche aai vaDil antrabhut asaavet asaa majhaa ek samaj asalyaamuLe ha upadyvaap. saNsaar haa phakt doghaNchaach asato asaa ek samaj navIn pidhImadhe ruDh hou pahaat aahe.
paTata nasel tar soDUn dyaa.

Maitreyee
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 6:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

1.malaa ho pTto kI vaogaLo raihlyaanao jabaabadarI Kyaa- Aqaa-nao samajato.pNa yaa dÜGaaMcyaa vaogaL\yaa Garat %yaacyaa AaiNa itcyaahI Aaš vaiDlaaMnaa kovhahI h@kanao yaavaosao vaaTlao pihjaoÊ mhNajao tsao sagaL\yaaMcao saMbaMQa raihlao AaiNa iTklao paihjaot.
2.dusaro mhNajao Aata dÜGao naÜkrI krNaar Ê tovha Garatlyaa kamaacaI ivaBaagaNaI tr AsaavaI pNa to krtanaa ‘ho kama maaJao Aaho AaiNa to kama maaJao naahI’ hI va`u<aI AaD yao] nayao.]dahrNa Vayacao tr bank Êibalao BarNao hI kamao puÉYaacaI AaiNa maulaalaa BarvaNaoÊ%yaacaI AaMGaÜLÊXaIÊXaU vagaOro kamao baayakÜ caI Asao bahutok vaoLa Asato .maga navara TUr var gaolaa Asaola tr ibalao BarayacaI tairK ]laTuna jaato AaiNa maulaalaa XaU laagalaI tr baap TV baGat Asalaa trI Aaš nao hatatlao kama Takuna yaavao laagato²² tr saaMgaayacaa mau_a Asaa kI Amauk ek kama Balao itcao Asaola pNa %yaalaa vaoL Aaho AaiNa to kama idsala tr %yaanao itcaI vaaT na phata to k$na Takyalaa paihjao.
3.dusayaa-caa ivacaar krNaoÊ dusayaa-laa AanaMd doNao yaasaazI kahI Ôar kYT pDt naahIt. CÜT\yaa CÜT\yaa gaÜYTItUna tumhI jaÜiDdaralaa dXa-vaU Xakta how much u care about him/her . jasao itnao AazvaNaInao %yaacyaa AavaDIcaI eKdI iDXa banavaNao iknvaa %yaanao yaotanaa itcyaa AavaDIcao ice cream iknvaa cassete [. AaNaNao. AXyaa CÜT\yaa gaÜYTIca dÜGaatlao banQa d`uZ krtat.
4.dusayaa-cyaa mataMcaa Aadr krNao.maga to Aaplyaalaa naahI pTlao trI.p`%yaok vaoLI kahI dÜGaaMcao ek mat hÜt naahI. p`%yaok AavaD jauLtoca Asao naahI. AXyaa vaoLI saMBaavya saMGaYaa-cao p`saMga dÜGaaMnaI samajaUtdar pNao TaLayacao Asatat.

AsaÜ.Aa<aa [tko puro²² [t@yaa ideal gaÜYTI ekdma ilahuna AaiNa vaacaUna malaaca gaihvarayalaa hÜt Aaho ²² :-) :-)



Jojo
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 6:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Teerkas: Tu mhantos ki tu fakt mulache kinva muliche aaivadilaanbaddal bolat navhtaas, pan kaay re, ashaa kiti families aahet jithe navraa-bayako doghanchyaahi aai-vadilaanbarobar rahataat, when you say you are not for "vegle rahane" obviously you mean that the couple should live with the husband's parents, right ? So, why not with the wife's parents then ? Tujhe statement:
Mulichaa Hatti swabhaav ani mulichya aai-vadilaanchi foos, hyaavarun tari ase vatat naahi, that you were talking abt living together with either set of parents...

Teerkas
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 7:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

jojo archne vegaLe rahaNyaache ek karaN mulaaNchya aai vaDilaanshI suruwaatichyaa kalaamadhe hoNaaraa sangharsha he dile aahe. arthaat yaamadhe nav vivahit daMptya muLaakaDe rahaat aahe he gruhit dharalele aahe. tyaamage fakt muLaachech aai vaDil sadaiv jabaabdaar asataat ase naahI he sangataanaa mI varil vidhaan kele aahe he lakshaat ghyaave.

'Ideal' saNsaar ha vegaLe rahaNyaane hou shakato he farase paTat naahI he malaa saNgayache aahe. VegaLe mag te mulaachya aai vaDilaanpasUn aso kiNvaa mulIchyaa.

Arch
Friday, March 29, 2002 - 7:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maO~oyaIÊ tuJao point number 3 AaiNa 4 Krca Ôar caaMgalao Aahot. iktI saaQyaa gaÜYTIMmauLo AapNa dusaáyaalaa AanaMdI k$ XaktÜ naahIÆ.

itrksaÊ prt ekdaÊ maI kuzohI mhTla naahI kI maulaacao AašvaiDla saMGaYaa-laa karNaIBaUt Asatat. infact ek~ raihla kuzohI tr AašvaiDla vaadat involve vhayacaa chance AsaU XaktÜ. maaJa mhNaNa yaovaZca Aaho kI navaIna couple nao AaplaI jabaabadarI AapNaca saMBaaLayalaa iXakla paihjao AaiNa %yaasaazI vaogaL rhaNa caaMgala.

Mvdeshmukh
Saturday, March 30, 2002 - 11:34 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

>>>>>>>>>maitrayI, tujhe point number 3 aaNi 4 kharacha chaaMgale aahet <<<<<<<<
mhanaje kaay point no. 1 and 2 vait aahet ?

~D

Nivant
Saturday, March 30, 2002 - 7:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

basically, Chago ni mhanalele
"Ghar doghanach asat doghani savarayach
Ekane pasaraval tar dusaryane avarayach"
He kalale ani typramane vagale ki zale.
"To err is human" pan tyacha viparyas kela nahi ki sansar sukhache hotat.
Amen!

Yogibear
Monday, April 01, 2002 - 1:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Arch: tujhya varchya posting varun tujha haa mudda ki "shakya aaslyaas aai vadilan pasun separate rahaane" somehow nahi patlaa. 1st of all mumbai sarkhya shaharaat teh sahasa shakya nasta aani dusra mhanje separate rahane cant be the solution....Isnt it?

Savyasachi
Monday, April 01, 2002 - 3:50 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch, tuza survatila seperate yachya magcha artha kalat nahiye asa distay. tenva tu ya pt pasun seperate ho baghu..:-):-)

Panipuri
Monday, April 01, 2002 - 4:18 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch mala tuza wegla rahanyacha mudda ekdam barobar watato. personal example dyayche tar mazya aaji-ajobanni swathahunch mazya aai-wadilanna lagna nantar wegle rahalya sangitle. ajoba hayat ase paryant amche sarwa san waar ekatra aaji chya ghari hot. ajoba gelya nantar suddha aaji weglich rahat hoti pan saNanna amchya kade jewayla yaychi. mazya attya amchya kadech rahaychya. aaji ajobanchya aajarpanat mazya aai wadilanni tyanchi sagli sewa keli. tyamule wegle rahanyane aai wadilanbaddal chya kartavyat kami hote ase mala ajibat watat nahi. me lahan astana mala sambhalyala bai thewali hoti. pan tya bai mazya aaji chya ghari yaychya. mhanje tashi me aajichyach ghari asayche pan aaji-ajobanna swatantrya hote kuthe jayche yayche asel tar. sandhyakali aai-baba mala amchya ghari gheun jayche. ya sarwa goshtinmule mazya aai madhe aani aaji madhe kadhihi binasle nahi aani mala hi aaji-ajobancha sahawas milala.
farach lamban lawli ka me??!! aso...

Arch
Monday, April 01, 2002 - 8:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

yaÜigaÊ Aro Xa@ya Asalyaasa vaogaL rhaNa Krca caaMgala Asat. sagaL\yaaMnaaca svaatM~\ya imaLt.

Aata baaš jar naÜkrI krNaarI AsalaI tr itlaa vaaTt kI calaa AaijaAajaÜbaa GarIca Asatat %yaaMnaIca maulaaMnaa saMBaaLava. pNa maga svat : cyaa maulaaMnaa vaaZvalyaavarhI %yaaMcyaa jabaabadaáyaa saMptca naahIt.

pp mhNato %yaap`maaNao ekmaokaMnaa Qa$na rhava. pNa ekmaokat pDU nayao hoca sauKI saMsaarca rhsya Asat

Yogibear
Monday, April 01, 2002 - 9:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Arch: "ekmaokat pDU nayao hoca sauKI saMsaaraca rhsya Asat " <<< hey mala sudhaa patatta pun mhanun kay joint family aasu naye kaa??? Aani joint family ter sodach ethe ter aapalech aai-wadil aahet.....tevha tyanchya sangtit rahul sukhi sansaar nahi karta yenaar kaa? Hey manya aahe ki thoda tras hou shakel pun "no gains without pains". Faqta mula sambhalaylaa aaji aajoba havet kaa!!!

May be I am looking from a different perspective....

Tush
Tuesday, April 02, 2002 - 10:13 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aata ha BB joint family - pros and Cons hÜNaar Aaho kaÆ AsaÜ.
maO~oyaI Ê tuJaM posting Krca Cana hÜtM. understanding is the crux of happy married life . dusarI mah%vaacaI gaÜYT mhNajao transperancy Ê malaa eKdI gaÜYT pTlaI naahI tr maI tsaM saaMgatÜ baayakÜlaa Ê AaiNa tI pNa saaMgatoÊ at least %yaanaI ekmaokaMcyaa AavaDI inavaDI kLtat.

jaÜjaÜÊ paNaIpurI Ê iktI idvasaaMnaI idsatahat Æ jaÜjaÜÊ tuJyaa ivavaah maMDLatuna maaJaM naava kaZUna Tak gaM Aata ²

arch Ê AaplaI jabaabadarI AapNaca AÜlaKuna rhayalaa hvaMÊ pTlao ² pNa Aajakala baáyaaca laÜkaMnaa ekTM rhayacaI AjaIbaat savaya nasato. in that case kahI idvasa Aa[ vaDIlaaMnaI yao}na saMsaarat madt kolaI tr caaMgalaM AsatM AsaM malaa AaTtM. After all, you don't have time to commit all those mistakes yourself , and learn from those!

Yogibear
Tuesday, April 02, 2002 - 2:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Tush: last para....well said :o)

Maitreyee
Tuesday, April 02, 2002 - 3:01 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tush Aro lagna kQaI JalaM tuJaMÆ maaihtca navhto²²
you don't have time to commit all those mistakes yourself , and learn from those! >>>
anyway tuJyaa post vaÉna tulaa Happy Married Life vagaOro XauBaocCa VayacaI garja naahI Asao idsatya²² :-) trI pNaÊ best wishes!!

Nivant
Wednesday, April 03, 2002 - 5:48 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tush la swanubhavache bol sangayachee sandhee dili mhanoon tujhe kautuk suru ahe bara ka Maitrayee :-)
(Tush, diva ghe re! WYHML)
Ani, jojo vivah maNdal chalavate ka? he navinach eikale.

Ajjuka
Wednesday, April 03, 2002 - 6:04 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ideal Sansar...
1.H & W's minds work in unison.
2. both share a lot many things with each other, other than physical and material things. and also share all the responsibilities equally
3. nobody feels the burden of the relation even for a bit, not even as a joke. "lagna zale ani sample ayushya" types comments are a big no no
4. ILs either dont stay under some roof or if they do they are just wonderful.. (wonderful - no hangups like ya gharanyat/aamachyat etc, no imposing their thoughts and faiths on the new generations, no nagging abt issues from mangalasutra/jeans to having kids )
5. better communication between Parent ILs and Son-DIL
6. the kids should come at a very appropriate time and in a planned way instead of them becoming an 'apariharya' part



Tush
Wednesday, April 03, 2002 - 6:50 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maO~oyaI Ê Qanyavaad ²
AadXa- saMsaarat sava-p`qama navara baayakÜ ekmaokaMcao ]<ama ima~ Asaayalaa hvaot. barocada eKadI gaÜYT AapNa GarcyaaMnaa saaMgat naahI pNa javaLcyaa ima~alaa / maO~INaIlaa saaMgatÜ. to relation jaÜDIdaraXaI hvaM.

Apoxaa : ivaXaoYatÁ arranged marriages maQao Ê jaovha tumacaI inaTXaI AÜLK JaalaolaI nasato Ê tovha jaÜDIdarapasaUna Avaastva Apoxaa zovaayalaa nakÜt. tumacyaa jaÜDIdaralaa purosaa vaoL Vayalaa hvaa. karNa trasition from bachlorhood to a married one is bit difficult. ivaXaoYatÁ jao laÜkM baraca kaL GarapasaUna dUr raihlaolao Aahot %yaaMcyaasaazI. I was not at all used to come home at a particular time, because it was more than a decade, I was staying alone.

Arch
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 5:50 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ideal saMsaarat kahI gaÜYTI Ôar mah%vaacyaa Aahot

1. Mutual Understanding
2. Open Communication
3. Respect for each other
4. Adjustment

Yogibear
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 6:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aaca- Agaid barÜbar mhNailasa.

tsaoca BaaMDNa Jaalyaavar dÜGaaMpOkI ekanao trI XaaMt rahuna Aaplyaa jaÜDIdaralaa saaMBaaLuNa Gaotlao paihjao.

va.pU. cyaa eka kqaa kqanaatlao vaa@ya. saMsaarat ekanao trI jamaInaIvar paya Ga+ rÜvauna ]Bao Asaavao va AakaXaat BararI maarNaaáyaa jaÜDIralaa jamaInaIcaa AaQaar Vavaa.

Milindaa
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 9:59 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aaca-Ê tuJyaa pihlyaaca pÜsTIMga maQyao tU mhNaalaI Aahosa kI maulaanao Aaš vaiDlaaMpasaUna dUr rhavao AaiNa naMtr tUca saaMgato Aahosa kI %yaamauLo vaad TLtat. yaa dÜna gaÜYTIMva$na AsaM inaYkYa- sahja inaGatÜ kI maulaacao Aaš vaiDla ho vaad hÜNyaacao ek karNa Aaho.

dusaro mhNajao vaogaLo raihlyaanao vaad TLtat mhNaUna vaogaLo rahNao yaalaa kahIca Aqa- naahI. ha pLpuTopNaa Jaalaa. %yaa poxaa ek~ rahUna vaad na hÜ] dota saMsaar krNao yaat jaast samaaQaana Aaho Asao maI maanatÜ.

kahI vaYao- svatM~ rahUna maga ek~ rahNao inavvaL AXa@ya kÜTItlaI gaÜYT Aaho. yaat naÜkrIinaima<a dUr rahNyaacaa samaavaoXa naahI. ekda svatM~ rahNyaacaI savaya laagalaI kI maga tr saasaU saasaáyaaMsaÜbat rahNao iktI jaNaIMnaa jamaola yaacaI XaMka Aaho. ‘jaNaIMnaa’ yaasaazI mhNaalaÜ kI AjaUna AaplyaakDo maulaIcyaa Aaš vaiDlaaMbarÜbar rahNyaacaI ]dahrNao KUpca kmaI Aahot.

maaJyaa mato samajaUtdarpNaa AaiNa sausaMvaad saaQaNyaacaI hatÜTI ho far mah%vaacao AMga Aaho saMsaaramaQyao.

Arch
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 10:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

imailaMda maI mhTla Aaho kI AašvaiDlaaMpasaUna dUr raihla tr svat : responsibility Gyaayalaa iXakta yaot. vaad ho p`%yaok saMsaarat hÜtat toMvha p`qama ekmaokaMnaa samajavaUna GaoNa mah%vaaca Aaho AaiNa AXaavaoLI dusar kÜNaI maQyao pDNyaapo@Xaa Aapapsaat vaad imaTvaayalaa iXakNa mah%vaaca Aaho. maI kuzohI mhTla naahI kI maulaacao ikMvaa mauilacao AašvaiDla vaadaca karNa Asatat.

AaiNa svatM~ raihlyaanaMtr ek~ rhaNa ka AXa@ya AahoÆ AašvaiDlaaMcyaa ³mauilacao ikMvaa maulaacao´ ]tr%yaa vayaat tumhI %yaaMnaa saMBaaLala toMvha tumacaI hopefulley manao jauLlaI AsatIla karNa tumhI ekmaokaMnaa samajaUna Gaotla AsaolaÊ tumacaI maturity vaaZlaI Asaola. %yaamauLo ek~ rhaNyaat AXa@ya malaa vaaTt naahI.

Yogibear
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 10:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Milindaa: tula 100% sahamaat aahe me.

Asawari
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 11:17 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

mala ase vatate lagnanantar ekatra rahavayacha prayatna jaroor karava.
Ani tyaat adhalale ke nahee jamat tar saral vegale rahave. pahilyapasunach vegale rahayaha sur dharu naye ase aple mala vaatate.
jar sasu/sasre khasht asel tar saral vegale vaave ani jar sun khasht asel tar sasu/sasryanee avashya mulala sangave vegala raha baba.
shevatee ekatra rahilyashivaay swabhaav kalnaar kasa. ani lagnanatar sarvaneech thodee faar adjustment chee tayaree thevavee.
Arthaat pratyek case vegalee aste jar navrach mhanat asel vegale rahave tar theek aahe karan he knows better kee hya gharaat naveen manus adjust hoil ka, pan if he is confident kee kahee problem yenaar nahee tar mala vaatate ekatra rahane nakeech try karave.

Asawari
Thursday, April 04, 2002 - 11:20 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ani ho ek mahatvache mhanje navryanehee baykochya aai vadilan babat responsibilty ghetlee pahije. kee tyanchya adlya padlyala baykola aai vadilana gharee anayala lagle athava kahee diwas tyanchya barobar rahayala lagle taree tyanee hya babteet poorna sahakarya kelech pahije.

Beti
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 2:13 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AsAwaree, malA wATate ekatra rahAyache ki nAhee te Adheech Tharawawe. Ekatra rAhoon mag kaTutA yeoon wegaLe hoNyApekshA door rAhoon goD rAhilele jast chAngale.

Milindaa, yogi, mulAche Aee-waDeel wAdAche kAraN asatat ase archne mhaTale nAsale taree 99% mulee uThoon sAsaree rahAyalA jAtAt mhaTalyawar they could be one added dimension to clashes na? Please look at it practically. mulAche kAy kinwA muleeche kAy Aee-wadilAnA Apalech mool barobar ase wATate. paN "mAzyA engg. mulAla (roj rAndhA, wADhA, uShTee kADhA karaNaree Engg./ govt. officer etc.) soon swayampAkat madat kinwA sAfsafAee kaerayalA lAwate" hyA-itakAch, " AmachA jAwaee bhalA Ahe , Aj amhee sagaLe jewayalA hoto tar swayampAkAt madat karat hota ho AmachyA lekeelA!" hA soor common nasato kA?
AtA shodhooch gelat tar apawAd sApaDateelach donhee bajoona paN I am sure, te minorityt asateel.

Arch, swatantra rahANyAche kharech khoop fAyade asatAt kharech! malAhee nahee wATat ki ekada swatantra rAhile ki mg ekatra rahANe jamat nAhee. ulat mAzyA pahAnyat ase Ale ki wegaLe rahoonahee (kinwA mhaNoonach?) sAsoo-sAsaryAnshee changale sambandh rahilyAne garaj paDalyAwar soon adhik premAne tyanche karate and vice-versa. Unfortunately, itake kaShTa sAsarchyAnsAThee soDAch paN swatahachya Aee-bAbAnsAThee gheNAre mulage mAtra malA kwachit ADHaLale :-(. itakech nAhee tar mAherchyansAThee kaSHTa ghyAwe lAgale tar bahudhA (note this word) nArAjeechA sookshma soor nighooch shakato. He ammaL wiShayantar zale. sorry. paN as Asawaree said, sukhee sansArAsAThee sunene ANi jawaYanehee resp. sasarchyanshee Adar aNi more imp. Apulakeene wAgawe ashee ek apekshA karayalA harkat nAhee.





Psg
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 6:01 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ithe apan 'ideal' sansara baddal boltoy ani 'sopya' sanasarabaddal nahi! :-) tyamule mala vatta ki sasu-sasryanbarobar (tyachya/ tichya) rahun sukhanI sansar karne he ideal picture asel. vegla rahun fakta navryabarobarch adjust karaycha asta. mhanun te jast sopa jail asa vatta mala!

ani jababdaryanchi janiv honyasathi vegla rahne...jevha navya sansarat dhadadhad angawar ekek jababdari padte, tevha apan aai-vadilanna (tyachya/ tichya) madatila bolavtoch na! mag tya peksha tyanchya barobarch rahun, halu halu shikun ani mag thodya kalani sarva jababdarya totally aplya khandywar ghena he sahaj shakya ahe.

arch mhanli tasa mulanchi jababdari sahajpane sasu-sasryankade takli jate.. pan mul kitihi aji-ajobankade asla tari tyala aai-baba have astatach. ti jababdari aai-baba talu shakat nahitach! :-)

Tush
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 6:15 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

well Said PSQ ²
malaa kQaI kQaI AsaM vaaTtM kI saunaocyaa manaat ApÜAapca ek defensive approach tyaar hÜtÜ saasauba_la. maga saasau kaihhI baÜlalaI kI saunaolaa vaaTtM kI itlaa judge krNyaat yaotMya.maga tI react krto.

Ideal saMsaarat saasau saunaocaM naatM Aaš AaiNa maulaIsaarKM AsaavaM. ** maI ideal saMsaaraba_la baÜlatÜya **

Bhalya
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 10:13 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ho sagaLo vaacauna malaa tr TonXana yao} laagalaya.gauZgyaacao baaiXaMga pNa kaZuna zovalao Aaho..:-)

maMDLI ]dahrNa do]na spYT kra.

Ajjuka
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 5:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

psg,
ideal sansaar hi ocncept vyaktiganik badalate. ekhadyala sopepana ideal vatu shakato. hardship doesnt have to be the most ideal thing. BB chya navatach mazi kalpana ase aahe. pratyekala kasa sansaar havasa vatato ideally he aahe. mag yaat sope panachi apeksha dharali tar bighadale kuthe?

Prafull
Friday, April 05, 2002 - 6:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

1. puÉXaacyaa d`uiXTnao ideal sansaar
GarI Aalao kI baayakÜ darat caha Gao}na tyaar. Aaš baabaa naatvanDanaa KoLvatatÊ %yaancaa AByaasa Gaotat. baayakÜ rÜja caangalao caungalao Kayalaa doto. naohomaI hsatmauK Asato. GarI yaayalaa ]XaIr ka ja,alaa to ivacaart naahI. ra~I kama AavaÉna ja,alyaavar qakuna gaolaI AahoÊ DÜko duKt Aaho Asao mhNat naahI. grocery, bills, maulaancyaa XaaLocyaa fees Ê %yaancaa ga`uhpaz ho p`kar saamBaaLuna Gaoto. saasaU saUna gauNyaagaÜivanVanao rahtat. lagnaacaa vaaZidvasaÊ baayakÜcaa vaaZidvasa ivasarlaa trI baayakÜ samajaUna Gaoto. AadL AapT krt naahI.


1. s~Icyaa d`uiXTnao ideal sansaar
saasaU saasaro separate rahtat. ga,rja Asatana baÜlaavaUna Gaotlao tr Qaavat pLt yaotat. navara naohomaI Aa&omaQao AsatÜ. GarcaI sagaLI kamao na saangata krtÜ. maulaanaa saamBaaLtÜÊ %yaancaa AByaasa GaotÜÊ %yaanaa gaÜXTI saangauna ja,ÜpvatÜ. " DÜko duKt Aaho " Asao ekdaca saaingatlao ik %yaalaa kLto.
dr idvaXaI kahI naa kahI gifts AaNaUna surprise dotÜ. lagnaacaa vaaZidvasaÊ baayakÜcaa vaaZidvasa ivasart naahI.

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