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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 3:42 pm: |
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Indrajeeta, I think as a close friend, you need to make him forget about his worries. So instead of being too compassionate or too rigid about his problems, just start conversing about general things and some good experiences you might have had.. Start sharing jokes etc. That would change the atmosphere and the 'way of being' that you both have got into.. Many times, two people behave in a particular way with each other and then remain in that 'way of being' forever.. I am sure he will find some friends in the US and get out of this initial problems.
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Saanjya
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 4:05 pm: |
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Milya, Zelam, Yogibear, Tumha sarvancha salla chagala aahe pan to thoda jasticha riski aahe.. wishesha karun Indrajeeta la hi relationship tikawayachi asel tar.. Indrajeeta, Majhya mate tyala baherun funde/salle deun kahi vishesha farak padanar nahiye.. kahi tari karun tyachya swatacha aatma-vishwas jaga karayala hawa.. tyane swatachya manat problem tayar kela aahe tar solution pan tyachya manat tayar vhayala hawe.. tu tyala madat karu shakate pan yatun baher padanya cha prayatna tyachya kadun vhayala hawa.. Ata prashana asa ki he sagale vhawe kase? To jyaweli tyacha problem tula sangat asato tyweli tu tyala saang na ki, babare.. tu faktha problem cha vichar karato aahes, problems aahet ani pudhehi yetil pan tyatun baher kase padayache yacha vichar kar.. (kahi tari karun tyala swatala yatun baher kase padayache yacha vichar karayala law.. direct salle deu nako..) Tujhya Psychiatrist maitrinicha salla ghet raha.. and Keep the Faith.. (pan he karatana tu swatachi manasik tayari thew, karan he workout nahi jhale tar.., you need to leave this all behind and move on.., you have to draw the line somewhere.. ) ..Anahut salla, kshamaswa!!
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Mita
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 6:17 pm: |
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[nd`ijataÊKr tr ho sagaL vaacauna tuJaIca kaLjaI jaast vaaTayalaa laagalaI Aaho. maanya Aaho ik %yaalaa itkDo problems Aahot pNa mhNauna %yaanao tuJyaaXaI Asao vaagavao ho pTt naahI.tU mhNatosa %yaap`maaNao tÜ Kupca smart Asaavaa.%yaalaa p@ko samajalao Aaho ik tU %yaacaI KUp kaLjaI krtosa.AaiNa mhNauna tÜ %yaacao problems jara vaaZvauna tr saaMgat naaih naaÆ malaa vaTto tU %yaalaa jara ekTo saÜDavaosa.tU %yaacyaamaQao maanaisakrI%yaa
Kupca gauMtlaI Aahosa AaiNa tulaa ~asa hÜtÜ Aaho (acaI %yaalaa jaaiNava AsaavaI. maaJao mhNaNao evaZoca Aaho ik %yaacaI kaLjaI Gaotanaa tu tuJaa self-respect GaalavaU nakÜsa.tÜ tuj,yaa sahanauBaUtIcaa gaOrfayada tr Gaot naahI naa ho baGa.tÜ tulaa ga`uiht Qarayalaa
laagalaa Aaho Asao malaa vaaTto. (a relation caa tU DÜLsapNao ivacaar kr. maaJao ivacaar kzÜr vaaTlao AsatIla tr sorry ga.pNa AgadIca rhavalao naahI mhNauna ilaihlao.
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tumha kÜNaacaoca baÜlaNao kzÜrÊ Agaa} AaiNa AnaahUt vaaTlao naahI. karNa maI svatÁ pNa baáyaaca vaoLolaa
yaa gaÜYTIcaa ivacaar kolaa hÜtaÊ pNa kayama maI eka izkaNaI maar Kallaa tÜ m*Najao maI svatÁlaa %yaacyaa
jaagaI zo}na ivacaar kolaaÊ kI maaJyaavar jar AXaI vaoL AalaI AsatI tr maI pNa hoca kolaM AsatM AaiNa
malaa pNa AXaaca eKaVa Space caI garja pDlaI AsatI. imalyaacaa sallaa malaa yaasaazI pTlaa kI jar %yaatUna kahI Workout naahIca Jaalao tr inadana Relationship caI Depth trI kLola. puZo ja}na Ajauna Qa@ko Ka]na ANaKI ~asa k$na GaoNyaapoxaa Aa<aaca kaya to qaaMbalaolao
baro naahI kaÆ karNa eKada maaNaUsa Aaho tsaa isvakarlaa tr to KrM naatM ikMvaa p`oma. maI %yaacyaa mhNaNyaanausaar svatÁlaa barMca Change kolaM. Asa baÜlat ja} nakÜÊ AsaM mhNat ja} nakÜ.³sagaLM baMd kolaM´ pNa idvasaoMidvaasa %yaacyaa maaJyaakDUna
Apoxaa vaaZtca caalalyaa Aahot. AaiNa %yaa malaa Handle krNaM AitXaya AvaGaD jaatya. KrMtr maI %yaalaa jar %yaacyaa %yaacyaa BarvaXaavar saÜDUna idlaM tr tÜ AsaM hI mhNaola kI maI [tk Problem maQao AsaUnahI tU malaa saÜDUna idlaMsa. malaa tuJyaakDUna hI Apoxaa navhtI. AaiNa maI saaMgaU kaÆ maI Emotional Fool Aaho. malaa Practicality ibalakUla jamat naaho. DÜ@yaanao ivacaarca krta yaot naahI. ek ek gaÜYTI kmaI k$na k$ma Aata baáyaaca vaoLolaa malaa ÔÜna kolaa kI kaya baÜlaavaM ha maÜ{a p`XnaM
pDtÜ.
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tÜ malaa gaRhIt QartÜya ho tr ]GaD Aaho. caUk Aqaa-t maaJaIca Aaho kI maI %yaalaa tXaI saMQaI idlaI. tÜ Egoestic pNa AahoÊ maI jar %yaalaa kzÜrpNao saaMigatlaM kI qaÜDo idvasa AapNa dUr rahUna ivacaar k$Ê tr tÜ %yaalaa
ivarÜQa tr krolacaÊ mhNajao tÜ %yaavar Ajauna kahI yau>Ivaad krolaÊ AaiNa malaa pTvaUna saaMgaola kI
maI kXaI caUk Aaho to. iXavaaya maaJaaM tÜMD prt kiQahI phaNaar naahI.
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maaJyaa A<aapya-Mtcyaa inairxaNaanausaar tÜ jaovha malaa saaMgatÜ kI tÜ kaya Face krtÜyaÊ tovha Aqaa-tca malaa vaaT vaaTayacaM maga maI %yaalaa saaMgaayacaI kI AsaM AsaM kr. maga tÜ icaDayacaa.
ÔÜna krayacaa AaiNa tasaMtasa baÜlaayacaaÊ AsaM baÜlatat kaÆ tsaM vaagatat kaÆ tulaa kahI maaihtI Aaho
kaÆ AsaM jyaa jyaa gaÜYTIMmauLo Aamacyaat BaaMDNaM hÜt gaolaI tsatXaI maI ek ek gaÜYTIMvar ÔUlaI maarlaI.
gaÜYTI saMplyaaÊ maaJyaa ÔUlyaa saMplyaa pNa %yaacyaa Apoxaa qaaMbalyaa naahIt. maI %yaalaa AnaahUt sallao doNaM baMd kolaÊ Ajauna barMca jao %yaalaa AavaDt naahI to baÜlaayacaM baMd
kolaM. AaiNa Aata %yaacaI naivana tËar AahI kI maI kahI baÜlatca naahI. ³mhNajao malaa %yaacyaaba_la kahI Concern ca naahI´ baáyaaca vaoLolaa malaa maaJyaa Personal life maQao pNa Probelms AsatatÊ to %yaalaa saaMgatanaa maI kQaIca AXaa Tone maQao saaMgat naahI kI malaa %yaavar Solution hvaya. But i just share it with him %yaamauLo %yacaM sva$pca vaogaLM AsatM. dusarI gaÜYTM mhNajao malaa pNa kahI Time Constrent AsaU XaktÜ ho %yaalaa maanya naahI. maI AjaarI AsalaoÊ tirhI tÜ Apoxaa krtÜ kI maI maaJyaa Cell va$na ÔÜna kryalaa hvaa. At any cost %yaacyaaXaI Communication naITca rihlao pihjao ha %yaacaa A+hasa AsatÜ.
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Ruma
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 5:33 am: |
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[nd`jaIta (a jar sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI tulaa pTtayat tr Aata tUca yaÜgya tÜ inaNa-ya GyaayacaI vaola AalaI
Aaho.. AapNaa javaLcyaa ima~a saazI KUp madt krayalaa tyaar AsatÜ pNaa %yaaca vaoLolaa ho pNa phayalaa hvao kI
%yaa madtIcaa tI vya>I gaOr Ôayada tr naahI naa Gaot.. naatI tuTNyaacaI BaItI p`%yaokalaaca Asato...
tI BaItI ikMvaa duK ho f> tulaaca jaast hÜNaaro kI tovhDoca %yaalaahI hÜNaaro ho pNa tU phayalaa hvaasa...
AXyaa naa%yaat kahI vaoLolaa AapNa naustoca use JaalaÜ ho far ]XaIra kLt.. AaiNa naUsatoca BarDlao jaatÜ..
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Sayonara
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 6:17 am: |
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[Md`ijataÊ malaahI AsaMca vaaTtya kI tuJyaa caaMgaulapNaacaa jara jaastca fayada Gaotlaa jaatÜya. AaiNa
kdaicat hI relationship tulaa jara jaD jaala AsaMhI vaaTtya³ tuJyaa varcyaa pÜsT vaÉna´. jaÜ ekMdrIt svaBaava tU vaNa-na krto
Aahosa tÜ naMtrhI badlaNaM jara kzINaca idsatMtya tovha inaT ivacaar kr.tulaa kahI idvasa kuzo baahor
jaata yaoNaM Xa@ya Asalyaasa jaa mhNajao XaaMtpNaanao ivacaar krta yaola. karNa ha p`a^blaomaÊ ~asa %yaalaa
ekT\yaalaa nasaUna tuJyaahI DÜ@yaalaa Aahoca. %yaalaa %yaacyaa GarcyaaMpOkI kuNalaa baÜlaavaNaM Xa@ya
Asaola tr tsaMhI krayalaa saaMga. %yaamauLo %yaacaahI ekTopNaa kmaI hÜla.
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Bee
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 6:57 am: |
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[nd`jaItaÊ tuJaI kasaavaIsa Avasqaa JaalaI Aaho. AmaoirkotUna Kro tr %yaanaI tulaa ÔÜna krayalaa hvaaÊ
tU %yaalaa ÔÜna k$na [tko Épyao Kca- krNao [qao kuNaalaaca pTNaar naahI. jar (a maO~Icao puZo naa%yaat
ÉpaMtr Jaalao tr %yaapasaUna tulaa AaNaKI ~asa nakÜ (acaI jara iBatI Aaho. karNa [qao tulaa sagaLoca saaMBaaLavao
laagato Aaho Asao idsato. tulaahI AaQaar AaiNa p`omaacaI garja Asaola to tulaa %yaacyaakDUna imaLt Aaho
Asao Aijabaat vaaTt naahI. [traMmaQao vaOcaarIk patLIvar badla GaDvaUna AaNaNao [tko saÜpo kama naahI.
tuJaa ima~Ê pirpUNa- tuJyaavar AvalaMbaUna rahU [cCItÜ Aaho AaiNa vaÉna tuJyaavar tabaahI imaLivatÜ Aaho.
tU svatÁ KUp samaMjasa AahosaÊ p`omaL AahosaÊ ekda naahI dhada ivacaar kr kI tU kaya kravao. tU jara QaIT
hÜ AaiNa kahI kaL %yaalaa ekT\yaalaaca %yaacao p`Xna saÜDvaU do. %yaalaahI tU p`amaaiNakpNao saaMgaUna
Tak kI tU Asao ka krto Aahosa. naahItr ha attachment/possesiveness caa KoL Asaaca caalaU rahIna. p`oma ho AaMQaLo Asato ta ...
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Kishori
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 7:39 am: |
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[Md`jaItaÊ malaa AsaM vaaTtM kIÊ KrMca kahItrI zrva.. kdaicatÊ qaÜDo idvasa Aapaplao rahIlaat trÆ mhNajao
AsaM kIÊ qaÜDa vaoL do svatÁ laa AaiNa %yaalaa sauwa... maga %yaa naa%yaacyaa mayaa-daÊ ikMva ]NaIvaaÊ
ikMvaaÊ %yaacaM ABaMga%va sauwa kLola malaa vaaTtM... svatÁ laa vaoL do AaiNa parKUna baGaÊ svatÁ laa
kaya hvaM AahoÊ AaiNa tÜpya-Mt %yaalaa hI vaoL imaLola kdaicat.. tulaa samajaUna GyaayalaaÊ ikMvaa svatÁ
laa saavarayalaa... navaIna idXaa XaÜQaayalaa...
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hÜ malaahI tsaMca vaaTtya. baasa BaItI yaacaI vaaTto kI tÜ jar Aaho %yaapoxaa pNa kÜlamaDUna pDlaa trÆ
AaiNa %yaalaa jar AsaM vaaTlaM kI maI %yaalaa %yaacyaa vaaT kaLat saÜDUna gaolao... tr tI baÜcaÊ AaiNa tÜ gaOrsamaja kÜNa inavaarolaÆ maI Kup vaoLolaa ivacaar kolaa hÜta kI qaÜDo idvasa vaogaLM rhavaM pNa maI to kiQaca k$ Xaklao naahI.
pNa Aata tI vaoL AalaI Aaho AsaM vaaTtya. AaNaKI kahI p`Xna malaa pDtat kI %yaacyaat pNa KrMca kahI gaÜYTI KUp caaMgalyaa AahotÊ %yaa tr maI dula-ixat
krt naahI naaÆ malaa [qao tumha savaa-McaI madt imaLtoyaÊ itqao %yaalaa kÜiNa p`omaanao jaovalaasa ka
mhNaUna trI ivacaart Asaola kaÆ maI KUp svaqaI-pNaanao ivacaar krtoya kaÆ kahI maahIt naahI. %yaacaI kaLjaI pNa KUp vaaTto. %yaalaa ekTM saÜDU nayao AsaM vaaTtM pNa Aata pyaa-ya naahI Asao idsatoya.
baGaU kaya hÜtya to. naahItrI tumhI sava-M Aahatca maaJyaapazIXaI.
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Sayonara
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 8:24 am: |
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[Md`ijataÊ AaNaKI ek sallaa. tU AaQaI kuzotrI ilaihlaM hÜtMsaM naaM kI tuJaI javaLcaI maOi~Na psycheatrist Aaho mhNaUna. maga itcyaaXaI sagaLM baÜlaUna tXaI pavalaM kaM ]calat naahIsa mhNajao kÜNatI sTop GaotlaI
kI %yaacyaavar kaya pirNaama hÜla vagaOro. itnao AXaa Tapcao poXaMTsa paihlao AsaNaar AaiNa %yaacyaa
manaacao KoL ksao caalatat hohI itlaa maaiht AsaNaar mhNaUna ho saaMgaavaMsa vaaTlaM. KrMtr doXaatUna baahor pDlyaavar qaÜDa far ekTopNaa savaa-Mnaaca jaaNavatÜ AaiNa %yaavar kXaI maat kravaI
hohI p`%yaokanao svatÁca iXakayacaM AsatM. %yaamauLo %yaanao evaZa baa} kÉ nayao AsaM maaJaM mat. na pTlyaasa
saÜDUna do. tU maa~ mana XaaMt zova. karNa (a sagaL\yaacaa tuJyaa kamaavarhI na@kIca pirNaama hÜt AsaNaar.
BTW Ê ho sagaLMÊ i mean this relationship Ê tuJyaa GarI maaiht Aaho kaMÆ Asaola tr %yaaMcaM kaya mhNaNaM Aaho yaavarÆ
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Bee
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 8:32 am: |
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[Md`jaItaÊ tumacaI maO~I iktI vaYaa-MpasaUna AahoÆ ]<ar naahI Vayacao Asaola tr rahU do.. maI Aaplao
kahI analysis krNyaacyaa dRYTInao ivacaarlao Aaho.
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Kishori
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 8:35 am: |
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hÜ [Md`jaItaÊ tU svatÁ caI kaLjaI Gao.. naIT rhaÊ mana KMbaIr AaiNa XaaMt zova.. %yaacyaaXaI tU tÜDNaar
qaÜdIca AahosaÆ tulaa jao vaTtM Aaho to vatNaM sahaijakca Aaho.. saayaÜnaara mhNato Aaho %ya p`maaNaoÊ
tuJyaa maOi~NaI caa sallaa Gao.. %yaalaa tuJaM mhNaNaM tU XaantM AaiNa saÝmya XabdaMmaQao saaMgaU XaktosaÊ
%yaanao gaOrsamaja k$na Gaotlaa tr %yaalaa kaya [laaja AahoÆ kdaicat kahI kaLanao tU %yaalaa %yaacaI caUk
kLUna yaolaÊ tÜ positively ivacaar k$na puZo jaayacaa maga- XaÜQaU Xakola..
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saayaÜÊ baIÊ maaJaI %yaacyaaXaI 2 vaYaa-MpasaUna AÜLK Aaho. AaiNa ho maaJyaa Garcyaa laÜkaMnaa maaihtI naahI. AaiNa maaihtI hÜNyaacaa p`Xna pNa Aalaa naahI karNa
AamacaM communication ho ÔÜnavarca hÜtM. javaL javaL saurvaatIpasaUnaca tÜ Amaoirkot Aaho.
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ek p`XNaÊ tumhI dÜGa kovaL fÜnavaÉnaca ekmaokanaa AÜLKta kI kQaI p`%yaxa BaoTlaa AahatÆ jar p`%yaxa BaoTlaa Aahat tr iktI va kÜNa%yaa kalaKnDat p`%yaxa BaoTIgaaZI JaalyaaÆ tuJyaa p`XNaacao naomako svaÉp samajaNyaasaazI yaa gaÜYTI samajaNyaacaI AavaXyakta ho² saangata yaoNyaat ADcaNa vaaTt nasaola trca saangaÊ Aaga`h naahI² 
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AamacaI saurvaatIlaa 4 / 5 maihnao AÜLK hÜtI. naMtr maO~I JaalaI. tovha 2 maihnao BaoTayacaÜ. tÜ saaQaarNa jaanaovaarI 04 maQao
gaolaa AaiNa Sept. 04 laa sau+I Gao}na Aalaa. tovha 4 idvasa hÜta tovha p`%yaxa BaoTlaÜ. %yaanaMtr prvaa May maQao...tr Ô> 2 idvasa hÜta. Anyaqaa baakI sava- vaoL AamhI ÔÜna ikMvaa Mails thru communicate krtÜ.
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ok maI ivacaar krtÜ ho² tumhIpNa kravaa kI jasa Aamhalaa maayabaÜlaIca vyasana laagalyaagat Jaalaya² vyasana ha Xabd AvaGaD vaaTt Asaola tr savaya
mhNaaÊ tr maayabaÜlaIvar yaovauna kahItrI ilaihlyaaiXavaayaÊ vaacalyaaiXavaaya idvasa gaolaa tr sauna
sauna vaaTt² e@Ja^TlaI tumacyaa irlaoXana maQalaa sanvaadatlaa tpXaIla vagaLlaa tr tumacyaa irlaoXana maQyao malaa
var ]llaoKlaolyaa savacaa Baasa hÜtÜ ho² tumhI vaNa-na kolaolaa tpXaIlaca kovaL samaÜr zovauna varIla ivacaar maI krtÜ ho² ijat@yaa sahjapNao naoT var Baavainak jauLvaNauk baainQalakI inamaa-Na hÜvau Xakto itt@yaa sahjapNao tumha
dÜGaancyaa vaOyai>k garjaopÜTI tI inamaa-Na JaalaI AsaavaI maa~ %yaasa inaKL maO~I vaa p`oma vaa duYmanaI
Asao kÜNatoca Ép maanaNao malaa trI Xa@ya hÜt naahI² yaacaa Aqa- yaovhDaca kI t%kalaIk Baavainak garja mhNauna sambanQaat Aalaolao iknvaa sampka-t Aalaolao
va %yaamauLo inamaa-Na Jaalaolao naato iktI p@ko Asau Xakola va %yaavar iktI gaimBarpNao ivacaar kravaa
yaacaI malaa Ka~I dota yaot naahI ho² baakI kuNaI yaa ivacaarQaarovar mat p`diXa-t kÉ Xakola kaÆ varIla ivavaocana cacaa-%mak mhNauna GyaaÊ tumacyaa pirisqatIcao ivaXlaoYaNa naahI pNa ivaXlaoYaNa hÜNyaasaazI
ha mau_a maanDlaa ho² 
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Meggi
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 9:53 am: |
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Indrajeeta tU kaihtrI steps Gaotlyaa paihjaosa ha problem solve krayalaa. tU steps Gao maga AamhI sagaLo tulaa guide/help k$. naaihtr ho discussion Asaca sau$ raihla tulaa solution na imaLta.
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malaa AsaM vaaTt naahI ilaMbaU..
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Moodi
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 9:58 am: |
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ilambaucaa p`Xna barÜbar Aaho. pNa malaahI ek XaMka Aaho kI ho naato inaKL maO~Icaoca Aaho kI %yaalaa
tuJyaakDuna iknvaa tulaa %yaacyaakDuna puZIla jaIvanaacaI pNa Apoxaa AahoÆ jar tu tuJyaa AayauYyaabarÜbar GarcyaaMcyaahI ivacaar Ana cCa yaanaa maana dot AsaXaIla tr yaa ivaYayaI
tulaa zama inaNa-ya Gyaavaaca laagaola. maO~ImaQyao AapNa tovaZ\yaapurtoca ivacaar kÉna dusaáyaacyaa [cCa Ana Apoxaa yaa Aaplyaa jaIvanaalaa baaQak
tr naahIt naa ho AÜLKuna tDjaÜD krIt AsatÜÊ pNa jar tulaa %yaacyaaivaYayaI tsao mhNajao AayauYyaacaa jaÜDIdar
mhNauna jar kahI vaaTt nasaola Ana tuJyaa klpnaa jar vaogaL\yaa AsatIla tr tr ek ima~ mhNaunaca maO~I
zova. jaast gauMtuna %yaalaa Ana svatlaa paMgaL banavau nakÜsa. ho Asao ivacaarlao mhNauna ragavau nakÜsaÊ karNa XaovaTI %yaacyaapoxaa tuca jaast BaÜgat Aahosa Asao vaaTtya.
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Kishori
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:01 am: |
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kuzlyaa hI naa%yaalaa qaÜDI space laagatoca.. savayaI caa Baaga tr AsatÜca naa naa%yaamaQao... ekamaokaMcaI wavelength jauLlyaa naMtrÊ saMvaad GaDtÜ AaiNa maga savaya hÜt jaatoÊ gaÜYTI share krNyaacaI.. jaovha eKaVa naa%yaamaQaoÊ gaÜYTI maQao comfort zone inamaa-Na hÜtÜ tovha ho Apirhaya- ca AsatM naahI kaÆ jar to naatM maga kuNaI trI ek jaNa gaRhIt Qa$na
caalaayalaa laagalaMÊ tr maga itqao jaaNaIva k$na doNyaacaI vaoL yaoto.. pNa jar qaÜDa vaoL idlaa gaolaa
tr sagaLM zIk sauwa hÜ} XaktMÊ ho samajaUna GaoNaM maa~ AavaXyak...
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Indrajeeta
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:05 am: |
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ragavalao naahI gaM maUDI pNa maI KrMca yaa gaÜYTIMcaa Seriously ivacaar Ajauna kolaolaa naahI. %yaamauLo tuJyaa p`Xnaalaa maaJyaakDo kahIca ]<ar naahI.
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Indrajeeta
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:08 am: |
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tuJaM mhNaNaM pTtya ikXaÜrI. Aata Ô> QaOya- gaÜLa krtoya %yaalaa saaMgaNyaasaazI.
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Limbutimbu
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:16 am: |
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mauDI malaa tÜ p`XNa ivacaarNyaasa maaJyaa puiZla kahI gaRihtkanaI Baaga paDla² yaa gaRihtkanaa Apvaad
Asau XaktIla maa~ maaJyaa mato.... 1. kÜNatahI puÉYa jyaasa svatÁcyaa puÉYaaqaa-caI jaaNa ho tÜ %yaacao vaOya>Ik manaacyaa kÜpáyaat dDvalaolao
p`XNa jagaapuZo rahudocaÊ p`%yaxa Aa baap iknvaa baayakÜsamaÜrhI Xa@yatÜ maanDNaar naahI va XaovaTpya-nt
%yaa %yaa p`XNaanXaI AantrIkir%yaa ekakI Jaunja Gaot rahIlaÊ AXaa JaunjaIt tÜ p`%yaxa vaa Ap`%yaxa [trancaI
madthI GaolaÊ pNa madtIkrta karNaimamaansaa saangaNaar naahI² var [nd`jaIta saangat Asalaolyaa vya>Ibaabat kovaL [nd`jaItacyaa saangaNyaavar ivaXvaasa zovauna inaYkYa-
kaZayacao mhNalao tr tÜ maI AaQaIca saaingatlaa ho kI Aa%maivaXvaasa gamaavauna basaNyaacyaa payarIlaa
pÜhÜcaNao maa~ varIla puÉYaaqaa-caa mau_aÊ jaÜ kI %yaa vya>Isa tI prdoXaat jaavauna rahuna naÜkrI ]VÜga krIt
hoÊ tIsa baáyaaca maÜz\yaa p`maaNaat laagau hÜt Asalyaanao tI vya>I Aa%maivaXvaasa ZasaLuna basalaI
ho Asao mhNaNao maaJyaa jaIvaavar yaot Aaho² AaiNa %yaamauLocaÊ [nd`jaItacyaatfo- hI Baavainak gauntvaNauk ektfI- iknvaa Baasamaana AXaa svaÉpacaI
naahI ho naa ho baGaNyaasaazI maI varIla AaiQacaI pÜsT kolaI ho² yaat Qa@ka dayak kahIca naahIhoÊ kdaicat
tÜ %yaacao AayauYya toqao sauKnaOva jagat Asaola maa~ %yaacao ba_lacao kaLjaInaoÊ Anaukmponao BaaravalyaamauLoÊ
iknva p`omaapÜTI jao [nd`ijatalaa jaaNavato Aaho to saucaNao ho Baasato Aaho kI kaya yaavar ivacaar vhavaa²
[nd`jaItanao Xantica<aanao tÜ svatÁ kravaa² ho saangaNyaamaagacaa ]_oXa Asaa kIÊ itlaa kahI p`XNa pDtahotÊ %yaancaI tI ]<aro XaÜQau pha%yao² pNa
to p`XNa kovaL Baavainak naaiht kXaavaÉnaÆ iknvaa dusaáyaa XabdatÊ %yaa p`XNaasa AapNa saap saap samajauna
Bau QaÜpTIt naahIyaÜt naaÆ yaacaa inaKL va ~yasqa hÜvauna [nd`ijatanao ivacaar kolaa pahIjao Asao vaaTto² maI f> idXaa idgdXa-na kÉ XakonaÊ %yaa baajaunao idXaonao ivacaar krNao ho [tranaI saamBaaLavao²
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Limbutimbu
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:28 am: |
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AaiNa ek mah%vaacaoÊ maaJyaa pÜsT\sa icantnaa%makÊ svagata%mak Asatat² %yaa jaXaacyaa tXaa ]calauna vaapÉ
naka² %yaacaa kIsa kaZa² Ana magaca vaocauna vaocauna pTlao trca ivacaar ]calaa² tohI svatÁcyaa jabaabadarIvar²
hI ivanantI² 
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Indrajeeta
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 10:34 am: |
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hÜ ilaMbaUÊ maaJaI AnaukMpaÊ Baavainak gauMtvaNaUk hI tr AahocaÊ pNa tuJaa pihlaa mau_a pNa malaa pTlaa.
maÜDona pNa vaakNaar naahI AXaatlaa p`kar Aaho %yaacaa..
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Maitreyee
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 12:42 pm: |
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malaa pNa saayaÜ saarKo vaaTlao. [nd`jaItaÊ tulaa ho naato naus%yaa maO~Ipoxaa jaast kahI Aaho Asao vaaTto.
yaa maulaalaa as a boyfriend, life partener mhNaUna phat Aahosa kaÆ tsao Asaola tr yaa relationship maQalao kahI +ve points [qao Aamhalaa naahI trI inadana svatÁ laa pTvaU Xaktosa kaÆ sorry, tulaa kzÜr vaaTolaÊ pNa tulaa ho naato iTkvaNyaacaI [tkI ka garja vaaTtoyaÆ Asaa malaa p`Xna pDlaa varcao
sagaLo vaacaUna²² sagaL\yaat p`qama mhNajaoÊ [qao Amaoirkot Aaho naa tÜÊ [qao bahutok izkaNaI BarpUr doXaI AsatatÊ ima~
imaLNao AvaGaD naaihyaoÊ doXaI dukanao AsatatÊ Aaplao food imaLtoÊ movies imaLtatÊ lifestyle hI AitXaya saÜiyaskr AahoÊ office maQao tr kahIca p`a^blaoma nakÜ yaayalaa² yaalaaca Asao ka AgadI svaBaava extreme badlaNyaa[tko ekTo vaattoyaÆ ³kI samasyaa dusarIca kahI AahoÆ ´ %yaanao ÔÜna var icaDicaD krNao AaiNa tU %yaatUna tk- laavaUna kaLjaIt pDayacao yaanao kahI saaQya hÜNao
AvaGaD Aaho. (a naa%yaat saaQaa sausaMvaad doiKla idsat naahI malaa.. %yaacyaaXaI saaQao baÜlatanaa
tulaa ivacaar k$na baÜlaavao laagatoya.. hI healthy relationship vaaTto ka tulaaÆ .. maaJyaa mato tU vaoLIca Baanaavar yaavaosa² %yaalaa %yaacyaa svatÁ cyaa BarvaXaavar
saÜDUna do .. yaat guilty vaaTNyaasaarKo kahI naahI. evaZa tÜ lahana baaL naahIyaoÊ smaaT- Aaho Asao tUca mhTlayasa. maga yao} do
yaatUna %yaalaa svatÁlaaca baahor. tÜvar tulaahI kLola yaa naa%yaat iktI Aqa- Aaho
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Tulip
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 12:50 pm: |
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malaa pNa kLt naahIya. svat : cao Asao emotional exploitation ka hÜvaU dotoya hI maihnaÜnamahInaoÆ
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Sayonara
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 12:57 pm: |
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ilaMbaUcaM mhNaNaM pTtMya. [Md`ijataÊ sava-p`qama hI relationship tulaa nausatI ima~ (a naa%yaanao mah%vaacaI Aaho kI tulaa AayauYyaacaI saÜbat mhNaUna tU %yaakDo phato
Aahosa ho AaQaI svatÁXaI clear kr AaiNa maga %yaacyaaXaI. ho jar Aajavar tulaa naIT kLlaM nasaola tr rÜja tasanatasa fÜnavar baÜlaNyaat
ikMvaa maolaamaolaI krNyaat kahI Aqa-ca rhat naahI.tU %yaacaa jaÜ svaBaava vaNa-na kolaa Aahosa A<aapya-Mt
%yaacaa tulaa puZo maanaisak ~asa hÜla AsaM maaJaM mat. %yaamauLo saQyaa trI tumacyaa communication var jara mayaa-da AaNa mhNajao tuJaMhI DÜkM qaÜDM XaaMt hÜla. rÜja toca toca baÜlaUnaÊ eokUna AaplaM
DÜkM naIT ivacaar krt naahI navho Aaplyaalaa sausaMgat ivacaar krtaca yaot naahI. AaiNa tulaa svatÁlaa
caacapDUna phayacaM Asaola tr (a iXavaaya kahI ]payahI idsat naahI malaa. tuJyaa priorities AaQaI clear hÜ} dot.
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Sayonara
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| Tuesday, September 13, 2005 - 1:01 pm: |
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T\yauÊ maI (alaa emotional exploitation poxaa emotional abuse mhNaona.
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Indrajeeta
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| Wednesday, September 14, 2005 - 7:11 am: |
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maI yaa sagaL\yaacaa ivacaar kolaa naahI Ajauna.. AaiNa Ajauna ek gaÜYT mhNajao tÜ jaovha [qao hÜta tovhaÊ iXavaaya %yaacao AmaorIkotlao saurvaatIcao idvasa..
mhNajao javaL javaL 1 vaYa-M tÜ Asaa navhta. These are the sudden changes
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jaovha sagaLo samajaavaUna saaMgaNyaacao maaga- saMptatÊ tovha bayaa-cada kzÜr ]paya kamaasa yaotat.
jar tÜ tumacyaabarÜbar 8 idvasa baÜlaNao qaaMbavaU XaktÜ tr tumhI ka naahIÆ baGaa ekda p`ya%na kÉna. kdacaIt
tumhalaa iBatI vaaTola ik tÜ kaih trI kÉna GaolaÊ pNa tumacyaa ilaKanaavaÉna tÜ AXaI vya>I vaaTt naaih.
Ëupyaa ha ]paya svajabaabadarI var kravaa. ha Ô> ek sallaa Aaho.
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jaovha sagaLo samajaavaUna saaMgaNyaacao maaga- saMptatÊ tovha bayaa-cada kzÜr ]paya kamaasa yaotat.
jar tÜ tumacyaabarÜbar 8 idvasa baÜlaNao qaaMbavaU XaktÜ tr tumhI ka naahIÆ baGaa ekda p`ya%na kÉna. kdacaIt
tumhalaa iBatI vaaTola ik tÜ kaih trI kÉna GaolaÊ pNa tumacyaa ilaKanaavaÉna tÜ AXaI vya>I vaaTt naaih.
Ëupyaa ha ]paya svajabaabadarI var kravaa. ha Ô> ek sallaa Aaho.
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Anurag_bh
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| Thursday, September 15, 2005 - 4:59 am: |
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mi tumache sagalyanche dilele vachale.. malaahi asach vatatay ki jara kathor vagane ashyavelela jasta changala.. ani tehi kharach samorachya vyaktila apan asa vagalyamule kai pharak padato ka he pan samaju shakel aasa vatatay.. mi navin asalyane ajun marathit lihinyache dhadas nai karu shakalo tari samaun ghya..
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