Ruma
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:34 am: |
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[nd`jaIta... maI tUmacaa sagaL vaacala.. yaavar malaa AjaUna ek ]paya saucavaavaasaa vaaTtÜ... tÜ jarI maayabaÜlaIvar naahI yao} Xaklaa trI %yaacyaa
javaL pasa rahNaaro jao maayabaÜlaIkr tUmhalaa maihtI Aahot %yaaMcyaaXaI baÜlaUna vaoL pDlaI tr AÜLaK
kaZUna tumhI ha p`a^blaoma saaMgaUna %yaavar kahI ]paya krta yaotÜ ka pha..
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>>>>>>> eKaValaa Aaplyaa payaavar ]Bao rahU doNyaasaazI kQaIkQaI %yaa vya>Icao hat saÜDavao laagatat. baIÊ prfo@T² ho AgadI Kr ho²
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Thanks a lot Moodi. KrMca malaa Kup barM vaaTlaM. maI %yaalaa AaQaI psaUnaca Force krto AahoÊ lavakrat lavakr [kDo yaoNyaacaa. ³kayamacaM´ iXavaaya Aa<aa saQyaa pNa lavakr sau+I kaZUna
yao mhNaUna pNa maagao laagalaI Aaho. tÜ yaa AaQaI mao maihnyaatca Baartat Alaa hÜta. saarKM saarKM yaoNaM
pNa iktpt jamaola kÜNajaaNao. KrMtr maI %yaalaa sahanauBautI dKvaUca Xakt naahIÊ karNa tÜ BayaMkr Self Respect zo}na vaagaNaara maaNaUsa Aaho. Ata maaJaa Problem Asaa Jaalaya kI %yaanao kahI Sensitive ivaYaya kaZlao kI maI gaPpMca basato. puZo kahI baÜlatMca naahI. AXaamauLo AamacaM Conversation itqaoca KuMTtM. barM kahI baÜlaavaM kI tÜ icaDtÜ. maga maI naohmaI ivacaar krto kI jaa}do tÜ icaDNyaapoxaa
maI gaPp rihlaolaM barM AaiNa maI jarI kahI baÜlalao naahI tirhI %yaalaa ho maa~ na@kI maaihtI Aaho kI malaa %yaacyaa p`%yaok
gaÜYTIcaa Concern Aaho.
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Bee
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:56 am: |
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[nd`jaItaÊ %yaalaa itqao ÉLta yaavao mhNaUna tU kahI idvasa %yaacyaakDUna ÔÜna vaa [maolacaI Apoxaa k$
nakÜsa. kdaicat ha ek AaQaaracaa Baaga Aaho mhNaUna tÜ yaa KorIja [tr~ mana vaLivaNyaacaa p`ya%na krIt
nasaola. malaahI dÜna caaMgalao ijavalaga ima~ hÜto. naMtr %yaaMnaI mau_ama malaa maola ilaihnao saÜDUna
idlao hÜto karNa %yaaMcaI maola maaJyaa saMvaadacao ekmaova saaQana hÜto. to nasalyaavar maI maihnaaBar
KUp BarkTlaolyaa manaÁisqaitt idvasa kaZlao. savaya hÜt gaolaIÊ ijacyaavar malaa [qao vaYa- kaZta Aalao.
maga baLjabarInao Aaplao CMd trI kaya Aahot ho XaÜQaayalaa gaolaÜ tr KUp kahI naivana gaÜYTI hatI laagalyaat
jyaamauLo maI [qao AjaUna rahU XaktÜ Aaho. paNyaat AMga JaÜkUna idlao kI paya AapÜAap ijava vaacaivaNyaasaazI
laTpTtat. tÜhI p`ya%na krIna. tU %yaalaa KUp attachment maQao yao] do] nakÜsa AaiNa KUp kaLjaIt pDU nakÜsa. dÜGaaMsaazI baro hÜla.
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 10:07 am: |
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baIÊ iktI zrvalaM trI AsaM naahI krta yaotÊ kaLjaI vaaTt rhato... ho maa~ KrM Aaho ikÊ Aaplaa maaga- AapNa
ija_I nao XaÜQaavaa laagatÜ... [Md`jaItaÊ dÜGaaMna ekmaokaMcyaa maO~I ivaYaOyaI confidence Aaho ho KUpca Cana... %yaatUnaca %yaacao mana vaLvaNao jaast saÜpo hÜla. %yaanao jaast laÜkaMmaQao imasaLavao. vaacanaÊ saMgaIt ho pNa AitXaya madt krNaaro CMd Aahot...
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ÉmaaÊ ektr tÜ naa^na marazI AsalyaanaoÊ AaiNa iXavaaya AitXaya Reserve Asalyaanao naivana maO~I saQyaa trI Impossible Aaho. baIÊ maI %yaacyaakDUna Email caI Aijabaat Apoxaa krt naahI ]laT maIca %yaalaa idvasaatUna vaoL imaLola tsao maolsa tr krtoca iXavaaya
drrÜja 2 vaoLa maI %yaalaa ÔÜna krto AaiNa ra~I ³%yaacaa idvasa´%yaacaa ÔÜna yaotÜ. %yaalaa maaJyaiXavaaya Frustration AaiNa manaacaa taNa maÜkLa krNyaasaazI dusarM kÜNaMtca izkaNa naahI. KrMtr %yaacyaa vaaZ%yaa Sensitivity mauLo tÜ idvasaoMidvasa %yaacyaa itqalyaa ima~aMpasaUna hI duravat caalalaa Aaho. malaa BaItI vaaTto kI tÜ Depression maQao jaalaÊ AaiNa %yaatUna inaGaNaM AitXaya kzINa kama Aaho. %yaatUna %yaacyaajavaL itqao kÜiNahI naahI.
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 11:41 am: |
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[nd`jaItaÊ maI AagaMtuk sallao doto AahoÊ Asao tr tumhalaa vaaTt naahI naaÆ %yaacyaa AXaa manaÁisqatI caa laÜk Ôayada GaovaU XaktatÊ both professionally and personally yaa gaÜYTIcaI Ëupyaa %yaalaa jaaNaIva k$na Va.... %yaacao kama Cana caalalao Asaola tr tI ek positive baaba Aaho Asao hI %yaalaa pTvata yaola...
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ikXaÜrI unfortunately tÜ saQyaa Under Perform krtÜya Asa Ku_ %yaacaM svatÁcaM mhNaNaM Aaho. AaiNa Aaja %yacao punha kihtrI ibanasalao Aaho. kaya maiht naahI. Ìpyaa malaa kÜNaIhI AhÜjaahÜ k$ naka... AgaMca mhNaa... ikXaÜrI tuJao sallao malaa Aijabaat AagaMtuk vaaTt naahI. ]laT tumha savaa-MmauLo mala ivacaar kryalaa
vaogavaogaL\yaa Directions trI imaLtahot. baI mhNao kI maI kLjaIt pDU nayaoÊ pNa ho AXa@ya Aaho AsaM mala vaaTtMya. karNa maaJyaaiXavaaya %yaacyaaXaI
kÜiNaca baÜlat naahI. maI ek idvasa ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr tÜ icaDtÜ. ³svatÁhI ÔÜnavaarI BarpUr pOsao Kca-
krtÜ´ mala puNa-pNao ho kLUna cauklao Aaho kI %yalaa saQyaa Ô> p`omaÊ Concern, Care AaiNa Attention hvao Aaho. baáyaacada malaa Office cyaa kamaatUna %yaalaa ÔÜna kryalaa ]iXar hÜtÜ ikMvaa Anya ADcaNaIMmauLo hI tsa hÜtM %yaacaa raga kayama
itqaoca AsatÜ. maaJyaabaabatIt tr ik%yaok vaoLolaa AsaM Jaalaya kI malaa hoca kLt naahI kI maaJaM kuzo cauklaM iktIhI
ivacaara tÜ jaama tÜMD ]GaDt naahI. AaiNa mhNatÜ kI tula jar maihtca nasaola tr saaMgaNyaat kaya Point AahoÆ qaÜD@yaat %yaacaa Acceptance pNa kmaI Jaalaya. pNa maaJaI Avasqaa bairca vaT hÜto maQalyaa maQao. tÜ BayaMkr isolated Jaalaa Aaho. AaiNa maI htbala. malaa kahIca kLt naahI kI kaya krvaMÆ
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maMDLI Aata saÜmavaarI BaoTU. ]Va AaiNa prvaa malaa sau+I Aaho.
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Divya
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:05 pm: |
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[Md`jaIta kuNaI %yaacyaa Garca naahI ka %yaacyaakDo jaa] XaktÆ tuJao vaNa-na vaacauna kÜNaItrI ivaXvaasaaca
maaNausa %yaacyaa barÜbar paihjaocaÊ AgadI jaaNao prvaDNaar nasalao trI ih vaoL %yaacyaa saazI laaKamaÜlaacaI
Aaho. pOsao kaya prt imaLvata yaotIla pNa naOraXya AaiNa vyasana jar laagala tr %yaatuna baahor pDta pDta
dmaCak hÜto %yaa maaNasaacaI pNa AaiNa %yaacyaa barÜbacyaa-McaI pNa.
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:12 pm: |
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malaa KUp vaaT vaaTtM Aaho vaacatanaa sauwa..... maanaisak isqatI AXaI Asaola tr kamaavar prINaama hÜNao sahaijak Aaho. KUp holp laosa vaaTtM AXaa vaoLI...
pNa %yaanao zrvaUna rÜja qaÜDI qaÜDI improvement kravaI svatÁ maQao.. malaa trI AsaM vaTtM Aaho ikÊ Aa<a tÜ eKaVa h+I CÜT\yaa maulaa saarKa vaagatÜ
Aaho... tuJaI kutrAÜZ laxaat yaoto Aaho... %yaalaa KUp unsecured vaaTtMya.. %yaalaa cheer up krÊ %yaacyaa kDo qaÜDM dula-xa kolaM trI tÜ laaMba Asalyaa mauLoÊ jar duravalaa tr %yaacaI samajaUt GaalaNao
pNa Xa@ya naahI.... pNaÊ itqao rahNyaaca inaNa-ya %yaacaa ca Aaho AaiNa tÜ %yaanao yaXasvaIpNao par paDavaa Asa saMga %yaalaaÊ
kamaa maQao jaast laxa idlaM tr [tr ivacaar kmaI hÜtIlaÊ tulaa saaMgaNyaa saarK kahItrI Cana %yaacyaakDo
AsaolaÊ hLuhLU naOraXya kmaI hÜla naahI kaÆ baI ikMvaa [tr mhNaalao tsao %yaalaa qaÜDo %yaacao %yaacao saÜDUna baGa... tuJyaa p`omaalaa gaRiht Qa$na
kdaicat tÜ pravalaMbaI tr hÜt naaihyao naaÆ
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idvyaaÊ tu mhNatosa to AgadI KrM kI %yaacyaajavaL kÜNaItrI %yaacyaa h@kacaM maaNaUsa hvaM pNa tÜ Asaa Client Location var gaolaa tr maagao rhaNaaáyaa maaNasaacaM kayaÆ maga %yaacao hala sauÉ hÜtIla. AaiNa saQyaa trI %yaacaI
Aa hIca itkDo jaa} Xakto karNa tÜ Unmarried Aaho. ikXaÜrIÊ tu tr maaJyaa manaatlaMca baÜlalaIsa AgadI. Aa<aacaI isqatI hI %yaanao svatÁhUna jarI isvakarlaI
AsalaI tirhI maI pNa toca baÜlauna daKvaNaM mhNajao %yaacyaa jaKmaovar maIz caÜLlyaasaarKM hÜla. karNa
malaa maaiht Aaho tÜ Amaoirkolaa gaolyaapsaUna %yaacaM ÔÜnacaM p`maaNa GaTUna eka maaNasaalaa mhNajao
malaa [tkMca rihlaM Aaho. Ata jar maI pNa [traMsaarKI vaagayalaa laagalaoÊ tr %yaanao kuzM jaavaÆ iXavaaya maI maaJyaa manaalaa Anaokda bajaavaUna saaMigatlaM Aaho kI Aamha dÜGaaMnaa hI Ô> ekmaokaMkDo
sagaLM kahI Share krayalaa Space Aaho. maga maI pNa jar %yaacyaavar icaDlao tr %yaanao kuzo jaavaMÆ inadana malaa trI baroca Options Asatat. pNa %yaalaa kÜNaIca naahI. Asaa ivacaar k$na k$na maI svatÁlaa kayama %yaacyaasamaÜr Surrender k$na Sorry mhNaUna maÜkLI hÜto. AaiNa saaMgato kI prt AXaI cauk krNaar naahI. baáyaacada tÜ inaraXaotÊ AaiNa ragaat
Relationship Break krNyaaba_la pNa baÜlatÜ. vastuisqatIt krt naahI. pNa tÜ baÜlatÜ hI hI malaa duÁ#dayak AsatM AXaavaoLI maaJyaa Frustration laa jaagaaca ]rt naahI. karNa tÜ Receiving Mode laa naaihca Aaho. maIca Aaho. %yaamauLo svatÁcaI icaDicaD AaiNa %yaacaI icaDicaD dÜnhIhI gaÜYTI malaaca
Jaolaavyaa laagatat.
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ikXaÜrIÊ maI %yaalaa Cheer Up k$ Xakt naahI. karNa maI jar tsaM kahI baÜlaayalaa laagalao tirhI tÜ sarL ÔÜna zo}na dotÜ. AaiNa mhNatÜ kI maI Asalyaa gaÜYTIMnaI naIT hÜNaar naahI. ÔalatU p`ya%na k$ nakÜ. Ata baÜla. tÜ baÜlaNyaat BayaMkr Smart Aaho. iXavaaya ek gaÜYT malaa kayama jaaNavalaolaI mhNajao kI tÜ jao saaMgatÜ to barÜbar AsatM AaiNa malaa
pNa pTtM. tovha tr maaJaI Avasqaa Ajauna vaaT Asato.
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:40 pm: |
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I can imagine, how you must be feeling.. kaLjaI k$ nakÜsa sagaLM kahI zIk hÜ[la... tuJaM vaagaNaM caukIcaM naahIyao Aijabaatca... tÜ KUp naajaUk
Avasqao maQaUna jaatÜ Aaho KrMca.. %yaalaa japNaM AaiNa %yaacao DÜLo ]GaDNaM dÜnhI tulaaca kravaM laagaNaar
Aaho...
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:43 pm: |
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pNa maga %yaacaM mhNaNaM trI kaya AahoÆ AsaM vaaTtM Aaho kI tU itqao jaaÊ AaiNa caaMgalaI Jaap %yaalaa
kQaI kQaI to pNa AÝYaQa AsatM naa gaMÆ
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:46 pm: |
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malaa jao manaatUna vaaTlaM to ilahIlaM gaM maIÊ ragaavaU nakÜsa... kdaicat %yaalaa qaÜDa vaoL do... %yaanaI zIk hÜ[la tÜ..... AaiNaÊ tU naIT rhaÊ tuJaI AaiNa tuJyaa kamaacaI
sauw AkaLjaI Gao
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:47 pm: |
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it was a typing mistake, sauwa ilahayalaa gaolao AaiNa kaLjaI cyaa AaQaI A laagalaa...
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Thanks ikXaÜrIÊ tuJyaa XabdaMnaI malaa Kup baL AalaM. karNa maaJyaasaazI hI Relationship Ôar mah%vaacaI Aaho. maI maaJaaM Aist%va ivasarlao Aaho %yaacyaasaazI. dudO-va maaJaM kI maI itqao jaa} Xakt naahI. maI tsaa ivacaar kolaa hÜta KrMtr. pNa to Practically Ôar AvaGaD Aaho. ho malaa tovha jaaNavalaM. AaiNa tU mhNaailasa %yaacaa raga malaa Aijabaat Aalaa naahI. AgadI KrM saaMgato. ]laT to sa%ya AahoÊ pNa
gaÜcaI hI Aaho kI maI k$ Xakt naahI. [tkMca kaya maI %yaalaa ho caaMgalyaa Xabdat saaMgaU pNa Xakt naahI.
yaa gaÜYTIcaa maaJyaa hI maanaisak svasqyaavar pirNaama hÜtÜya. pNa malaa yaÜgya tÜ Space naahI. saudOvaanao maaJaI A%yaMt javaLcaI maO~INa Ku_ Psycheatrist Aaho. %yaamauLo malaa bairca madt hÜto. %yaaiXavaaya maI baroca Counselling Gaotlao Aaho. ³baahorcyaa Da^@TrkDUna.´
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Kishori
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 2:19 pm: |
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maulaIÊ kaLjaI Gao gaM svatÁ caI.. naIT rhaÊ sagaLM kahI Cna hÜ[la.. AÜ koÆÆ KMbaIr bana...
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Prajaktad
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 2:28 pm: |
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[nd`a²malaa tr ho sagaL vaacauna tuiJaca jaast kaLija vaaTtoya....%yaalaa naÝkir saÜDuna prt indiat yaayalaa saaMga..karNa tÜ kXaalaaca responce dot naaih Aaho..tuJa eokt nasaola tr %yaacyaa Garcyaanaa saaMga ... Amaoirkocyaa lifestyle maQao tÜ basat naaih..]gaaca Ôar kala %yaanao svatalaa Aaina dusaryaalaa tir ~asa doNyaat kaya Aqa- AahoÆ..
i am not blaming him sar salaamat tÜ pgaiD pcaasa² maanaisak sauK ho Ôar ma*%vaacao...eKaV izkaina tuimh manaapasauna AanaMid nasaala tr baikcyaa luxury ica ikmat Xaunya...maaJao baÜlaNao AagaavaupNaacao AaiNa Ôarca spXT vaaTlao Asaola tr sorry
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Bee
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 3:03 pm: |
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malaa tr vaaTtM %yaanaI lagna kravao AaiNa baayakÜlaa saÜbat Gao}na Amaoirkot kahI kaL Gaalavaavaa. XaovaTI
puZIla BaivaYyaacaa ivacaarhI krayalaa paihjao. lavakrca lagnakayaa-cao idvasa sau$ hÜtIla. kait-k javaL
yaotÜ Aaho. ivacaar krayalaa kahIca hrkt naahI.
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Zelam
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| Friday, September 09, 2005 - 3:31 pm: |
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[Md`jaIta tulaa sagaLM iktI kzINa jaat Asaola yacaI klpnaa maagaIla posts vaÉna AalaI. pNa tU %yaalaa samajavtanaa svatÁcyaa manaalaa saaMBaaLNyaacaI pNa kLjaI Gao. 1´ %yaalaa
hLUhLU pNa KMbaIr rahUna samajava. %yaacao Qyaoya Aa<aa pOsaa kmavaUna family problems solve krNyaacao AahI AaiNa ekda ka to saaQya Jaalao kI prt Baartat yaayalaa %yaalaa khI ADcaNa rhaNaar naahI
ho %yaalaa saMga. ijat@yaa AanaMdanao tÜ kama krola ittka %yaacaa prt yaayacaa idvasa lavakr ]jaaDola.
2´%yaalaa AyauYyaacyaa positive sides daKva. jasa kI saunaamaIÊ katrina mauLo baoGar Jalaolyaa laÜkMcao duÁKÊ lahanapNaapasaUna AavaDIlaaMna AMtrlalyaaMcao duÁKÊ ApMga vya>IMcao
duÁK [tko maÜzo Aaho pNa hI maMDLI Aaplyaalaa laajavaola AXaI kamao krt Asatat AaiNa AapNaca Aaplyaalaa
[tka ~asa ka k$na Gyaayacaa to ivacaar. 3´tÜ svatÁca svatÁcaa maÜz Xa~U banat Aaho AaiNa tÜ ijatka negative ivacaar krola ittka %yaalaa jaast ~asa hÜ[la AaiNa tulaa %yaamauLo KUp vaaT vaaTola ho %yaalaa kLU do.
tU [t@yaa laMba AsaUnahI you care for him a lot ho %yaalaa kLU do 4´Kr tr counselling ha best pyaa-ya vaaTtÜ pNa [qao p`Xna Aaho kI JaÜpocao saÜMga Gaotlaolyaalaa jaagao kÜNa krNaar or maaMjaracyaa gaL\yaat GaMTa kÜNa baaMQaNaar. AXaavaoLosa tUhI qaÜDo detached vhayalaa hrkt nahI. %yaacyaa sar#yaa icaDNyanao tulaa ~asa hÜtÜya ho %yaala kLalao tr tÜ kdaicat qaÜDa
kmaI icaDola 5´ var khIMnaI caaMgalyaa sites saucavalyaa Aahot. tsaca kahI XaUnyaatUna var Aalaolyaa laÜkMcaI cair~ vagaOro AaQaI tU vaaca AaiNa
maga %yaala refer kr I know sallao doNaM saÜpM AahoÊ pNa jao saucalaM to ilaihlaMÊ most important is tU svatÁkDopNa laxa doNao AaiNa saarKI kLjaI na krNaoÊ tÜ icaDlaa trI svatÁlaa ~asa na k$na GaoNao.
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Saanjya
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| Saturday, September 10, 2005 - 5:22 am: |
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Indrajeeta, Tujhya ya problem saathi baryacha weg-wegalya angane yilaj karawa lagel asa mala watat aahe. Ani te karanya saathi ya sagalyache mul karan kay he pan shodhayala hawe. Tu swatala he prashana vicharun paha.. 1. Thyachay sadhya chay waganyala 'to US madhe ekata aahe he ekacha karan aahe ka? Bharatat asatana pan to adhe madhe asa wagayacha ka? Durase kahi to lapawato aahe ka tujhya pasun.. 2. Tyachya drushtine tyacha nakki kay problem aahe ase tyala watate? tyane tula spastapane tase kadhi sangitale aahe ka? 3. In general aayushyat tyala kay mahatwache watate? US baddal kay aapekha hotya tyachya? Ani Nakki Kay aapeksha aahet tyachya tujhya kadun. Tyala tu kashi wagaleli havi aahes? 4. To kitihi apayashi tharala tari tu tyala dur lotanar nahis yachi tyala khatri aahe ka? Tu kadhi tyala tase sangitale aahes ka? 5. Tujhya baddal athawa itar kuna baddal (e.g. aai, bahin vaigere) tyala kiti prem/kalaji aahe. Tyane kadhi tula/tyana aadhar dila aahe ka? 6. Tu tyachya war kiti awalambun aahes yachi tyala kalpana/janiw aahe ka? 7. Jar ka tula kahi problem aahe ase tu tyala sangitale tar to swatah-chya adachani visarun tula madat karayacha/aadhar dyayacha prayatna karel ka? Uttar jar hokararthi aset tar tu tujha ekhada khoto problem taryar karun saang tyala. Kadachit tula adhar dyayachya prayatnat to swatala sawaru shakel. 8. Phone, e-mail ewaji tu chat kar tyachya barobar.. phone war sambhashan tutayachi shakyata asate ani, e-mail madhe sambhashan kami padate.. chatting madhe sambhashan hotecha pan wichar karun uttar dyala thoda wel pan milato. Tujhya Psychiatrist maitrinila chat karu det tyachya shi tujhya watine..
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p`aja>aÊ ikXaÜrIÊ baIÊ JaolamaÊ saainayaa... maI Aaja maayabaÜilavar Log-In krNyaacaI Aaturtonao vaaT phat hÜtoÊ karNa tumha savaa-Mcaa AaQaar malaa imaLtÜ AahoÊ Aata AaXaa vaaTtoya
kI kaihtrI maaga- inaGaola. baáyaaca vaoLolaa maI %yaalaa AayauXyaacyaa Positive Sides daKvaNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaaÊ pNa vyaqa-. malaa AsaM vaaTtM kI tÜ jara jaastMca XahaNaa Jaalaa Aaho pirisqatInaM
%yaamauLo %yaalaa eKaVa maulaasaarKM BaulavaUna caalaNaar naahI. Jaolama mhNato %yaap`maaNao malaa Aata ek XaovaTcaa ]paya kravaasaa vaaTtÜ tÜ mhNajaoÊ %yaalaa spYT saaMgaavaM
kI maalaa ivacaar krayalaa qaÜDa vaoL hvaaya. I think i am not a right female for you pNa maI to iktpt k$ Xakona to maaihtI naahI. karaNa yaa AaQaI maI jaovha AsaM daKvaayacaa p`ya%na kolaa
kI malaa raga Aalaaya AaiNa tÜ jaI khI vaagalaaya to malaa mauLIca AavaDlaolaM naahIÊ AXaavaoLa maaJaM
rihlaM bajaulaacaÊ pNa tÜ %yaacao Problems ca [tko tIva` k$na saaMgatÜ kI Aaplyaalaa baÜlaayalaa tÜMDca rhat naahI. malaa ho Ôar AvaGaD jaato. baáyaaca vaoLolaa ragaacyaa Barat tÜ baroca kahI Asao baÜlaUna jaatÜ jao manaalaa
Kup laagatM pNa maI p`%yaok vaoLolaa to saÜDUna doto. karNa maI eka gaÜYTIcaI KUNagaaz baaMQaUna zovalaI
Aaho kI malaa At any cost %yaacyaaXaI [traM saarKM vaagaUna caalaNaar naahI.
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Ruma
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 5:45 am: |
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[nd`jaIta.. tu mhNatosa %yaap`maaNao hI relationship tulaa far mah%vaacaI Aaho to kLtya.. maga tU tuJyaaprInao p`ya%na kravaosa tIqao jaayacao.. AaiNa naahI
tr %yaacyaa GarcyaaMnaa ivaXvaasaat Gao}na sava- gaÜYTI kanaavar Gaalaavyaat AaiNa %yaacyaa Aalaa tIqao
jaayalaa saaMgaavao... tÜ location var gaolaa tr %yaa maaNasaanao kaya kravao.. ha p`XNa Aahoca.. pNa Aplyaa javaLcyaa maaNasaasaazI kÜNaIhI
%yaatUna %yaacaI Aa tr nakIca tIqao jaayalaa tyaar hÜ[la...
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maaJao ÔÜnavaarI tr maihnyaakazI iktI pOsao jaatat yaacaa ihXaÜba tr maI zovalaolaaca naahI. %yaalaa maaJaa kÜNatahI sallaa AnaahUt vaaTtÜ. tuJyaabarÜbar maI AahoÊ Xairranao nasalao trI manaanao Aaho AsaM mhNalaM trI tÜ mhNatÜ Don't talk nonsense AsaM kiQahI hÜ} Xakt naahI. AaiNa KrMtr malaa svatÁlaa AsaM vaaTtM kI maI jar p`%yaxa kÜNaacaI kaLjaI Gao} Xakt nasaonaÊ AaiNa itqao
]pisqat nasaonaÊ tOhI- malaa %yaa maaNasaacyaa Problem maQao sahBaagaI vhayacaM Aho mhNajao mala %yaalaa sahanauBaUtI ikMvaa dyaa daKvaavaI laagaola. jao malaa
manaapsaUna AavaDt naaho. barM kahI Positive baÜlaavaM trI tÜ ]laTM baÜlatÜÊ Negetive baÜlaayacaI tr saÜyaca naahI. maI kQaI upset hÜ}na ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr mhNatÜ kI tu jar maaJyaajaagaI AsatIsa tr tuLa kLlaM AsatM kI kaya hala hÜtat
to. maga tulaa kÜNaI ekTM TaklaM AsatM tr kLlaM AsatM. yaa var kaya baÜlaavaM to kLtca naahI. mhNajao
Aapna %yaacyaa vaagaNyaavar naaraja AahÜt ho saaMgaNyaasaazI tÜ Aplyaalaa vaoLca dot naahI. ]laT Aplaaca
saaMgatÜ. emails, Phones, yaalaa tr Aajakala kahI p`maaNaca rihlaM naahI Aaho. pNa malaa %yaalaa saarKa ÔÜna krNaM prvaDt nasaUnahI
maI krto. %yaacaa tÜ kQaIca ivacaar krt naahI. maajyaa ik%yaok pT pOsao tÜ kmavatÜ. pNa Aqaa-t tÜ Kca-
hI krtÜca. maga maI pNa ivacaar krt naahI pOXaaMcaa. pNa %yaalaa kuzotrI mayaa-da hvaIca. ekda AsaMca
BaaMDNa Jaalyaavar maI %yaalaa ÔÜna kolaa. baÜlata baÜlata %yaalaa Baanca rihlaM naahI AaiNa maaJaM ibala
700 la jaa}na kQaI iBaDlaM to kLlaMca naahI. jaovha %yaacao Xabd saMplaoÊ Frustration qaÜDM kmaI JaalaM tovha %yaalaa jaaiNava JaalaI kI Aata ibala Kup JaalaM AsaNaar. %yaanao malaa ivacarlaM
kI pOsao Aahot kaÆ pNa maI mhNato kI jar eKadI gaÜYTM Aaplyaalaa jar At last accept ca krayacaI AsaolaÊ tr %yaacyaavar evhZo vaad - ivavaad AaiNa r> kXaalaa AaTvaayacaMÆ ho %yaalaa hI kLtM pNa vaLt naaho.
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maaJao ÔÜnavaarI tr maihnyaakazI iktI pOsao jaatat yaacaa ihXaÜba tr maI zovalaolaaca naahI. %yaalaa maaJaa kÜNatahI sallaa AnaahUt vaaTtÜ. tuJyaabarÜbar maI AahoÊ Xairranao nasalao trI manaanao Aaho AsaM mhNalaM trI tÜ mhNatÜ Don't talk nonsense AsaM kiQahI hÜ} Xakt naahI. AaiNa KrMtr malaa svatÁlaa AsaM vaaTtM kI maI jar p`%yaxa kÜNaacaI kaLjaI Gao} Xakt nasaonaÊ AaiNa itqao
]pisqat nasaonaÊ tOhI- malaa %yaa maaNasaacyaa Problem maQao sahBaagaI vhayacaM Aho mhNajao mala %yaalaa sahanauBaUtI ikMvaa dyaa daKvaavaI laagaola. jao malaa
manaapsaUna AavaDt naaho. barM kahI Positive baÜlaavaM trI tÜ ]laTM baÜlatÜÊ Negetive baÜlaayacaI tr saÜyaca naahI. maI kQaI upset hÜ}na ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr mhNatÜ kI tu jar maaJyaajaagaI AsatIsa tr tuLa kLlaM AsatM kI kaya hala hÜtat
to. maga tulaa kÜNaI ekTM TaklaM AsatM tr kLlaM AsatM. yaa var kaya baÜlaavaM to kLtca naahI. mhNajao
Aapna %yaacyaa vaagaNyaavar naaraja AahÜt ho saaMgaNyaasaazI tÜ Aplyaalaa vaoLca dot naahI. ]laT Aplaaca
saaMgatÜ. emails, Phones, yaalaa tr Aajakala kahI p`maaNaca rihlaM naahI Aaho. pNa malaa %yaalaa saarKa ÔÜna krNaM prvaDt nasaUnahI
maI krto. %yaacaa tÜ kQaIca ivacaar krt naahI. maajyaa ik%yaok pT pOsao tÜ kmavatÜ. pNa Aqaa-t tÜ Kca-
hI krtÜca. maga maI pNa ivacaar krt naahI pOXaaMcaa. pNa %yaalaa kuzotrI mayaa-da hvaIca. ekda AsaMca
BaaMDNa Jaalyaavar maI %yaalaa ÔÜna kolaa. baÜlata baÜlata %yaalaa Baanca rihlaM naahI AaiNa maaJaM ibala
700 la jaa}na kQaI iBaDlaM to kLlaMca naahI. jaovha %yaacao Xabd saMplaoÊ Frustration qaÜDM kmaI JaalaM tovha %yaalaa jaaiNava JaalaI kI Aata ibala Kup JaalaM AsaNaar. %yaanao malaa ivacarlaM
kI pOsao Aahot kaÆ pNa maI mhNato kI jar eKadI gaÜYTM Aaplyaalaa jar At last accept ca krayacaI AsaolaÊ tr %yaacyaavar evhZo vaad - ivavaad AaiNa r> kXaalaa AaTvaayacaMÆ ho %yaalaa hI kLtM pNa vaLt naahI.
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saainayaaÊ malaa tuJao barocasao Points mah%vaacao vaaTlao. 1. tÜ itqao ekTa Aaho ho tr maUL karNa Aahoca AahoÊ pNa %yaatUna hatatU inasaTt caalalaolaI naatIÊ maO~IÊ
Home Sickneess, Homelessness yaa hI baabaI Aahotca. Baarat tÜ hÜta tovha Amaca naatM Ôar naivana hÜtM %yaamauLo %yaacyaa svaBaavaacao
barocasao pOlaU maI naMtrca AnauBavalao. [qao AsatanaahI tÜ icaDt AsaoÊ pNa [tko naahI. 2. %yaacaa naa@kI Problem %yaanao malaa baáyaaca vaoLolaa saaMigatlaa Aaho. tÜ itqao ekTa AahoÊ KNaMipNaM naahIÊ imat naaiht. Frustration ekTopNaa.. iXavaaya yaa sagaL\yaaMcaa pirNaama hÜ}na ZsaLt gaolaolao kamaatlao laxaM. maaJyaaba_lacaI
mau#ya tËar mhNajao. malaa Amaoirkotlyaa Procedures maaiht naahItÊ %yamaulao maI itqao Baartasar#yaa Systems Aahot Asa samaJaUnaca %yaala kihtrI saucavaayalaa jaato AaiNa AamacaI BaaMDNaM hÜtat.
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Kishori
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:06 am: |
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namaskar [Md`jaItaÊ kXaI Aahosa tUÆ varcaM vaacaUna vaaTlaM kI tÜ svatÁ cyaa duÁKa mauLo Aa%makoMd`It Jaalaa Aaho. %yaat %yaacaI caUk naaihÊ
karNa jaovha AapNa ekTo AahÜt AsaM vaaTtM tovha Asa vaTtM kI baakIcao KUp sauKat Aahot Aaplyaa poxaa AaiNa
maga maaNaUsa Ô> svatÁ caa ivacaar krtÜ... pNa %yaalaa kahItrI k$na samajaavalaM paihjao krNa kuNaacyaahI
sahnaXa>I laa mayaa-da Asatat. jar tuJyaa baabatIt AsaM JaalaMÊ tulaa sahna krNaM AXa@ya hÜ}na tu jar
tÜDlaMsa tr tÜ %yaacyaa saazI Ôar maÜza AaGaat Asaola... (a sagaL\yaatUna baahor pDyacaIÊ AaiNa ]maodInaI
AayauYyaakDo baGaNyaacaI %yaanaI manaacaI tyaarI krayalaa hvaI Aaho. tU %yaalaa spYT saaMga. %yaala na
duKavata to karNaM qaÜDM AvaGaD AahoÊ pNa ho krayalaa hvaMca Aaho... tumha sagaL\yaaMcaI maanaisak ÔrÔT
caalalaI Aaho... tumacyaa dÜGaaMcaM naatM pNaalaa laagaayacaI vaoL yaayacyaa AaQaI naIT %yaalaa saaMga...
saQyaa trI tulaa itqao jaaNaM Xa@ya nasalaM tr %yaacyaa barÜbar manaanaIca %yaacyaabarÜbar rahU Xaktosa
AsaM %yaalaa saaMga... AaiNa to doKIla Ôar mah%vaacaM Aaho.. icaDNyaanaI p`Xna sauTNaar naahIt naa.....
kLtM Aaho kI saaMgaNaM saÜpM AahoÊ pNa trI ]paya hI naahI naa dusara kahI... vaad hÜNyaa saar#yaa gaÜTI email maQaUna samajaavaUna ilahI... ÔÜnao var pOsao KrMca KUp jaatat. baÜlaNyaacaI gaÜYT vaogaLI ho sagaLM maanya...
baÜlaUna jaast Cana vaaTtM ... trIhI...
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Moodi
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:29 am: |
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[Md`jaIta tuJao problems kmaI hÜNyaa eovajaI vaaZt jaat Aahot. dusaro maaNausa jar tuJaI Baavanaa samajauna Gyayalaa tyaar nasaola
tr tu qaÜDo svatakDo pNa laxa do. maO~I AsaÜ vaa p`oma yaa naa%yaaMmaQyao p`%yaok vaoLa s~Inaoca tDjaÜD krayalaa paihjao ha ivacaar Ana
hI ÉZI tUca dur kr. malaa baI mhNatÜ to pTtya. tU laaK pTvauna %yaacaa ekTopNaa tÜ lahana maulaasaarKa japt Asaola tr kizNa
Aaho. Ana jar %yaacyaa GarcyaaMXaIhI tÜ tsaaca vaagat Asaola tr maga tuJaa ha sava- KTaTÜp vyaqa- jaala. %yaapoxaa
jara svatacaohI krIArÊ tr CMd yaakDo laxa do. jaÜ maaNausa p`vaahat pDunahI pÜhayalaa iXakt naahI %yaalaa
puZo tr maga idXaaca ]rt naahIt. AmaorIkot tulaa jaaNao kizNa Aaho tr maga %yaalaa [kDo yao}na qaÜDa vaoL GaalavaNaoca AavaXyak Aaho. Ana yaabaabat tu hI qaÜDa kzÜr inaNa-ya Gao iknvaa naIT prKDpNao tuJyaa BaavanaaMcaI jaaNaIva kÉna do.
%yaamauLo tÜ tulaaca f> gaRhIt QartÜya Asao malaa vaaTtya. tuJyaa AayauYyaacaa inaNa-ya tulaaca Gyaayacaa Aaho.KMbaIr banaayacaa tu p`ya%na kr.
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Athak
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:51 am: |
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[Md`jaIta Ê sagaL\yaaMnaI tulaa Cana maaga-dXa-na kolao Ê ]paya saaMigatlao %yaat qaÜDI maaJaI Bar Ê raga
maanau nayao . AaQaI ek p`Xna . tÜ hLvaa hÜta / Aaho ka Æ QyaoyavaadI Aaho ka Æ AayauYyaat QaDpD krayacaI jabardst [cCa Aaho / hÜtI ka Æ %yaaca Asa vaagaNaM ho dur raihlyaamauLo Ê KaNyaaipNyaacaI AabaaL Ê javaLkuNaI naahI AXyaanao Jaala ho
qaÜDsa pTt naahI Ê Asa Asat tr tÜ jaast hLvaa Jaalaa Asata Ê tuJyaaXaI baÜlataMnaa %yaalaa tovhDIca sahanauBautIcaI
garja BaasalaI AsatI Ana tI %yaanao tumacyaa saMvaadatuna Ê correspondance maQauna imaLvalaI AsatI. %yaaca frustrate hÜNaM Ê icaDicaD ÊCullak gaÜYTIvaÉna pNa fÜnavar ragaavaNao ho kuzotrI ego iDvacalyaa gaolyaamauLo ikMvaa manaat zrvalyaap`maaNao gaÜYTI hÜtM nasatIla tr hÜNao Xa@ya Aaho. tulaa %yaacyaa bawlacaI kaLjaI AamhI samajau XaktÜ . AaNaKI ek Ê %yaalaa pNa tuJaI tovhDIca kaLjaI vaaTto
ka jaXaI tulaa %yaacaI vaaTto Æ tu qaÜDo kzÜr hÜvauna kahI idvasa saMpk- TaLuna ikMvaa Asaoca kahIsao
karNa daKvauna %yaacaI p`caItI Gaovau XakXaIla kaÆ leave him alone for some time ha pNa ]paya hÜ] XaktÜ . svatacaI kaLjaI Gao .
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Milya
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 9:27 am: |
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I might sound very harsh pNa Asao vaaTtoya kI tuJyaa ima~alaa duÁK kurvaaLt basaayacaI savaya laagalaolaI Aaho AaiNa toca %yaalaa
baro vaaTtoya. %yaalaa kzÜr Xabdat jaagao krayacaI vaoL AalaI Aaho. %yaalaa jagatIla %yaacyapoxaa jaastI
duÁKI laÜkaMcaI ]dahrNao do]na tÜ iktI sauKI Aaho ho pTivaNyaacaa p`ya%na kr AaiNa (a Avasqao baahor yaayacao
Asaola tr %yaacao %yaanaoca p`ya%na krayalaa hvaot ho inaxauna saaMga. %yaalaa vaaTtat tovhZI %yaacaI
duÁKo maÜzI naahIt hohI spXTpNao %yaalaa saaMga %yaalaa hohI saaMga kI jar %yaacaa tuJyaavar ivaXvaasa Asaola tr %yaanao tuJao eoklao paihjao. AaiNa tÜ
jar tuJaI care krt nasaola tr tohI %yacyaa laxaat AaNauna do. tuJyaa caaMgaulapNaacaa tÜ gaOÔa-yada Gaot Aaho Asao malaa
vaaTto. laxaat zova Qaagaa taNalaa kI tÜ tuTtÜca. this solution is very risky prINaama ekdma ]laTa pNa hÜ] XaktÜ. tevha use your jdgement AaiNa tsao vaaga.
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Sorry maI baraca vaoL meeting maQyao hÜtoÊ %yaamauLo baroca kahI ilahayacao hÜtoÊ ilahU Xaklao naahI. malaa imalyaacaa sallaa caaMgalaa vaaTtÜ. pNa malaa AsaM vaaTtya ik qaÜDM Discussion ³tumha savaa-MXaI´ k$na maI %yaalaa ho saaMigana.
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Zelam
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 12:14 pm: |
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[nd`jaIta malaapNa imalyaacao mhNaNao pTto Aaho. tuj,yaa ima~alaa duÁK kurvaaLnyaacaI savaya laagalaI
Aaho AiNa %yaacaI AXaI expectation idsato kI tupNa toca krvaosaÊ %yaalaa saarKa iktI ~asa hÜtÜ hoca baÜlaavao AaiNa pyaa-yaanao %yaacao duÁK
AjaUna kurvaaLavaosa. pNa ho caaMgalao naahIÊ %yaacyaasaazI AaiNa tuJyaasaazIhI Asao malaa vaaTto AaiNa
qaÜDo spYT baÜlaayacaI vaoL AalaI Aaho. pNa imalyaa mhNatÜ tsao pirNaama ]laTa pNa hÜ} Xakola %yamauLo
AaQaI tuJyaa manaacaI tyaarI kr. caaMgalyaa AaiNa vaaT dÜnhI pirNaamaaMcaa tuJyaa d`uYTInao ivacaar kr.
ask yourself, if you would be ready for anything and then proceed .
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Yogibear
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| Monday, September 12, 2005 - 12:29 pm: |
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Milyaa: AgadI barÜbarÊ malaahI tsaoca kahIsao vaaTlao.... Its about time to awake someone.... Indrajeeta: AaiNa AsaohI vaaTlao kI jyaa vaoLI tu kzÜr hÜ]na %yaalaa caar Xabd saunavaayalaa hvao hÜto itqao narma
rahuna ]laT %yaacaoca nauksaana Jaalao Asaavao. kQaI kQaI Aist%vaacaI jaaiNava kÉna doNa garjaoca Asat...
naahI ka²²²
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