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Ruma
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:34 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`jaIta...
maI tUmacaa sagaL vaacala..
yaavar malaa AjaUna ek ]paya saucavaavaasaa vaaTtÜ... tÜ jarI maayabaÜlaIvar naahI yao} Xaklaa trI %yaacyaa javaL pasa rahNaaro jao maayabaÜlaIkr tUmhalaa maihtI Aahot %yaaMcyaaXaI baÜlaUna vaoL pDlaI tr AÜLaK kaZUna tumhI ha p`a^blaoma saaMgaUna %yaavar kahI ]paya krta yaotÜ ka pha..


Limbutimbu
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:36 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

>>>>>>> eKaValaa Aaplyaa payaavar ]Bao rahU doNyaasaazI kQaIkQaI %yaa vya>Icao hat saÜDavao laagatat.

baIÊ prfo@T² ho AgadI Kr ho²

Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Thanks a lot Moodi.

KrMca malaa Kup barM vaaTlaM.
maI %yaalaa AaQaI psaUnaca Force krto AahoÊ lavakrat lavakr [kDo yaoNyaacaa. ³kayamacaM´ iXavaaya Aa<aa saQyaa pNa lavakr sau+I kaZUna yao mhNaUna pNa maagao laagalaI Aaho. tÜ yaa AaQaI mao maihnyaatca Baartat Alaa hÜta. saarKM saarKM yaoNaM pNa iktpt jamaola kÜNajaaNao.

KrMtr maI %yaalaa sahanauBautI dKvaUca Xakt naahIÊ karNa tÜ BayaMkr Self Respect zo}na vaagaNaara maaNaUsa Aaho.

Ata maaJaa Problem Asaa Jaalaya kI %yaanao kahI Sensitive ivaYaya kaZlao kI maI gaPpMca basato. puZo kahI baÜlatMca naahI. AXaamauLo AamacaM Conversation itqaoca KuMTtM. barM kahI baÜlaavaM kI tÜ icaDtÜ. maga maI naohmaI ivacaar krto kI jaa}do tÜ icaDNyaapoxaa maI gaPp rihlaolaM barM
AaiNa maI jarI kahI baÜlalao naahI tirhI %yaalaa ho maa~ na@kI maaihtI Aaho kI malaa %yaacyaa p`%yaok gaÜYTIcaa Concern Aaho.


Bee
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`jaItaÊ %yaalaa itqao ÉLta yaavao mhNaUna tU kahI idvasa %yaacyaakDUna ÔÜna vaa [maolacaI Apoxaa k$ nakÜsa. kdaicat ha ek AaQaaracaa Baaga Aaho mhNaUna tÜ yaa KorIja [tr~ mana vaLivaNyaacaa p`ya%na krIt nasaola. malaahI dÜna caaMgalao ijavalaga ima~ hÜto. naMtr %yaaMnaI mau_ama malaa maola ilaihnao saÜDUna idlao hÜto karNa %yaaMcaI šmaola maaJyaa saMvaadacao ekmaova saaQana hÜto. to nasalyaavar maI maihnaaBar KUp BarkTlaolyaa manaÁisqaitt idvasa kaZlao. savaya hÜt gaolaIÊ ijacyaavar malaa [qao vaYa- kaZta Aalao. maga baLjabarInao Aaplao CMd trI kaya Aahot ho XaÜQaayalaa gaolaÜ tr KUp kahI naivana gaÜYTI hatI laagalyaat jyaamauLo maI [qao AjaUna rahU XaktÜ Aaho. paNyaat AMga JaÜkUna idlao kI paya AapÜAap ijava vaacaivaNyaasaazI laTpTtat. tÜhI p`ya%na krIna. tU %yaalaa KUp attachment maQao yao] do] nakÜsa AaiNa KUp kaLjaIt pDU nakÜsa. dÜGaaMsaazI baro hܚla.

Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 10:07 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baIÊ iktI zrvalaM trI AsaM naahI krta yaotÊ kaLjaI vaaTt rhato... ho maa~ KrM Aaho ikÊ Aaplaa maaga- AapNa ija_I nao XaÜQaavaa laagatÜ...
[Md`jaItaÊ dÜGaaMna ekmaokaMcyaa maO~I ivaYaOyaI
confidence Aaho ho KUpca Cana... %yaatUnaca %yaacao mana vaLvaNao jaast saÜpo hܚla.
%yaanao jaast laÜkaMmaQao imasaLavao. vaacanaÊ saMgaIt ho pNa AitXaya madt krNaaro CMd Aahot...


Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 10:48 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ÉmaaÊ
ektr tÜ naa^na marazI AsalyaanaoÊ AaiNa iXavaaya AitXaya Reserve Asalyaanao naivana maO~I saQyaa trI Impossible Aaho.

baIÊ
maI %yaacyaakDUna Email caI Aijabaat Apoxaa krt naahI ]laT maIca %yaalaa idvasaatUna vaoL imaLola tsao maolsa tr krtoca iXavaaya drrÜja 2 vaoLa maI %yaalaa ÔÜna krto AaiNa ra~I ³%yaacaa idvasa´%yaacaa ÔÜna yaotÜ.
%yaalaa maaJyaiXavaaya Frustration AaiNa manaacaa taNa maÜkLa krNyaasaazI dusarM kÜNaMtca izkaNa naahI.
KrMtr %yaacyaa vaaZ%yaa Sensitivity mauLo tÜ idvasaoMidvasa %yaacyaa itqalyaa ima~aMpasaUna hI duravat caalalaa Aaho.
malaa BaItI vaaTto kI tÜ Depression maQao jaašlaÊ AaiNa %yaatUna inaGaNaM AitXaya kzINa kama Aaho. %yaatUna %yaacyaajavaL itqao kÜiNahI naahI.


Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 11:41 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`jaItaÊ maI AagaMtuk sallao doto AahoÊ Asao tr tumhalaa vaaTt naahI naaÆ

%yaacyaa AXaa manaÁisqatI caa laÜk Ôayada GaovaU XaktatÊ
both professionally and personally yaa gaÜYTIcaI Ëupyaa %yaalaa jaaNaIva k$na Va.... %yaacao kama Cana caalalao Asaola tr tI ek positive baaba Aaho Asao hI %yaalaa pTvata yaošla...

Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 12:41 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ikXaÜrI
unfortunately tÜ saQyaa Under Perform krtÜya Asa Ku_ %yaacaM svatÁcaM mhNaNaM Aaho.
AaiNa Aaja %yacao punha kihtrI ibanasalao Aaho. kaya maiht naahI.

Ìpyaa malaa kÜNaIhI AhÜjaahÜ k$ naka... AgaMca mhNaa...

ikXaÜrI tuJao sallao malaa Aijabaat AagaMtuk vaaTt naahI. ]laT tumha savaa-MmauLo mala ivacaar kryalaa vaogavaogaL\yaa Directions trI imaLtahot.

baI mhNao kI maI kLjaIt pDU nayaoÊ pNa ho AXa@ya Aaho AsaM mala vaaTtMya. karNa maaJyaaiXavaaya %yaacyaaXaI kÜiNaca baÜlat naahI. maI ek idvasa ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr tÜ icaDtÜ. ³svatÁhI ÔÜnavaarI BarpUr pOsao Kca- krtÜ´
mala puNa-pNao ho kLUna cauklao Aaho kI %yalaa saQyaa Ô> p`omaÊ Concern, Care AaiNa Attention hvao Aaho. baáyaacada malaa Office cyaa kamaatUna %yaalaa ÔÜna kryalaa ]iXar hÜtÜ ikMvaa Anya ADcaNaIMmauLo hI tsa hÜtM %yaacaa raga kayama itqaoca AsatÜ.
maaJyaabaabatIt tr ik%yaok vaoLolaa AsaM Jaalaya kI malaa hoca kLt naahI kI maaJaM kuzo cauklaM iktIhI ivacaara tÜ jaama tÜMD ]GaDt naahI. AaiNa mhNatÜ kI tula jar maihtca nasaola tr saaMgaNyaat kaya Point AahoÆ qaÜD@yaat %yaacaa Acceptance pNa kmaI Jaalaya.
pNa maaJaI Avasqaa bairca vašT hÜto maQalyaa maQao.
tÜ BayaMkr isolated Jaalaa Aaho. AaiNa maI htbala. malaa kahIca kLt naahI kI kaya krvaMÆ


Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:00 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maMDLI Aata saÜmavaarI BaoTU. ]Va AaiNa prvaa malaa sau+I Aaho.

Divya
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[Md`jaIta kuNaI %yaacyaa Garca naahI ka %yaacyaakDo jaa] XaktÆ tuJao vaNa-na vaacauna kÜNaItrI ivaXvaasaaca maaNausa %yaacyaa barÜbar paihjaocaÊ AgadI jaaNao prvaDNaar nasalao trI ih vaoL %yaacyaa saazI laaKamaÜlaacaI Aaho. pOsao kaya prt imaLvata yaotIla pNa naOraXya AaiNa vyasana jar laagala tr %yaatuna baahor pDta pDta dmaCak hÜto %yaa maaNasaacaI pNa AaiNa %yaacyaa barÜbacyaa-McaI pNa.

Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa KUp vaašT vaaTtM Aaho vaacatanaa sauwa.....
maanaisak isqatI AXaI Asaola tr kamaavar prINaama hÜNao sahaijak Aaho. KUp holp laosa vaaTtM AXaa vaoLI...
pNa %yaanao zrvaUna rÜja qaÜDI qaÜDI
improvement kravaI svatÁ maQao.. malaa trI AsaM vaTtM Aaho ikÊ Aa<a tÜ eKaVa h+I CÜT\yaa maulaa saarKa vaagatÜ Aaho... tuJaI kutrAÜZ laxaat yaoto Aaho... %yaalaa KUp unsecured vaaTtMya.. %yaalaa cheer up krÊ %yaacyaa kDo qaÜDM dula-xa kolaM trI tÜ laaMba Asalyaa mauLoÊ jar duravalaa tr %yaacaI samajaUt GaalaNao pNa Xa@ya naahI....
pNaÊ itqao rahNyaaca inaNa-ya %yaacaa ca Aaho AaiNa tÜ %yaanao yaXasvaIpNao par paDavaa Asa saMga %yaalaaÊ kamaa maQao jaast laxa idlaM tr [tr ivacaar kmaI hÜtIlaÊ tulaa saaMgaNyaa saarK kahItrI Cana %yaacyaakDo AsaolaÊ hLuhLU naOraXya kmaI hܚla naahI kaÆ
baI ikMvaa [tr mhNaalao tsao %yaalaa qaÜDo %yaacao %yaacao saÜDUna baGa... tuJyaa p`omaalaa gaRiht Qa$na kdaicat tÜ pravalaMbaI tr hÜt naaihyao naaÆ


Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:30 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

idvyaaÊ
tu mhNatosa to AgadI KrM kI %yaacyaajavaL kÜNaItrI %yaacyaa h@kacaM maaNaUsa hvaM pNa tÜ Asaa Client Location var gaolaa tr maagao rhaNaaáyaa maaNasaacaM kayaÆ maga %yaacao hala sauÉ hÜtIla. AaiNa saQyaa trI %yaacaI Aaš hIca itkDo jaa} Xakto karNa tÜ Unmarried Aaho.

ikXaÜrIÊ tu tr maaJyaa manaatlaMca baÜlalaIsa AgadI. Aa<aacaI isqatI hI %yaanao svatÁhUna jarI isvakarlaI AsalaI tirhI maI pNa toca baÜlauna daKvaNaM mhNajao %yaacyaa jaKmaovar maIz caÜLlyaasaarKM hܚla. karNa malaa maaiht Aaho tÜ Amaoirkolaa gaolyaapsaUna %yaacaM ÔÜnacaM p`maaNa GaTUna eka maaNasaalaa mhNajao malaa [tkMca rihlaM Aaho. Ata jar maI pNa [traMsaarKI vaagayalaa laagalaoÊ tr %yaanao kuzM jaavaÆ
iXavaaya maI maaJyaa manaalaa Anaokda bajaavaUna saaMigatlaM Aaho kI Aamha dÜGaaMnaa hI Ô> ekmaokaMkDo sagaLM kahI Share krayalaa Space Aaho. maga maI pNa jar %yaacyaavar icaDlao tr %yaanao kuzo jaavaMÆ inadana malaa trI baroca Options Asatat. pNa %yaalaa kÜNaIca naahI. Asaa ivacaar k$na k$na maI svatÁlaa kayama %yaacyaasamaÜr Surrender k$na Sorry mhNaUna maÜkLI hÜto. AaiNa saaMgato kI prt AXaI cauk krNaar naahI. baáyaacada tÜ inaraXaotÊ AaiNa ragaat Relationship Break krNyaaba_la pNa baÜlatÜ. vastuisqatIt krt naahI. pNa tÜ baÜlatÜ hI hI malaa duÁ#dayak AsatM
AXaavaoLI maaJyaa Frustration laa jaagaaca ]rt naahI. karNa tÜ Receiving Mode laa naaihca Aaho. maIca Aaho. %yaamauLo svatÁcaI icaDicaD AaiNa %yaacaI icaDicaD dÜnhIhI gaÜYTI malaaca Jaolaavyaa laagatat.


Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ikXaÜrIÊ
maI %yaalaa Cheer Up k$ Xakt naahI. karNa maI jar tsaM kahI baÜlaayalaa laagalao tirhI tÜ sarL ÔÜna zo}na dotÜ.
AaiNa mhNatÜ kI maI Asalyaa gaÜYTIMnaI naIT hÜNaar naahI. ÔalatU p`ya%na k$ nakÜ. Ata baÜla.
tÜ baÜlaNyaat BayaMkr Smart Aaho. iXavaaya ek gaÜYT malaa kayama jaaNavalaolaI mhNajao kI tÜ jao saaMgatÜ to barÜbar AsatM AaiNa malaa pNa pTtM. tovha tr maaJaI Avasqaa Ajauna vaašT Asato.


Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I can imagine, how you must be feeling.. kaLjaI k$ nakÜsa sagaLM kahI zIk hÜ[la... tuJaM vaagaNaM caukIcaM naahIyao Aijabaatca... tÜ KUp naajaUk Avasqao maQaUna jaatÜ Aaho KrMca.. %yaalaa japNaM AaiNa %yaacao DÜLo ]GaDNaM dÜnhI tulaaca kravaM laagaNaar Aaho...

Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

pNa maga %yaacaM mhNaNaM trI kaya AahoÆ AsaM vaaTtM Aaho kI tU itqao jaaÊ AaiNa caaMgalaI Jaap %yaalaa :-)
kQaI kQaI to pNa AÝYaQa AsatM naa gaMÆ


Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:46 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa jao manaatUna vaaTlaM to ilahIlaM gaM maIÊ ragaavaU nakÜsa...
kdaicat %yaalaa qaÜDa vaoL do... %yaanaI zIk hÜ[la tÜ..... AaiNaÊ tU naIT rhaÊ tuJaI AaiNa tuJyaa kamaacaI sauw AkaLjaI Gao :-)


Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 1:47 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

it was a typing mistake, ‘sauwa’ ilahayalaa gaolao AaiNa ‘kaLjaI’ cyaa AaQaI ‘A’ laagalaa...

Indrajeeta
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 2:12 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Thanks ikXaÜrIÊ

tuJyaa XabdaMnaI malaa Kup baL AalaM. karNa maaJyaasaazI hI Relationship Ôar mah%vaacaI Aaho. maI maaJaaM Aist%va ivasarlao Aaho %yaacyaasaazI.
dudO-va maaJaM kI maI itqao jaa} Xakt naahI. maI tsaa ivacaar kolaa hÜta KrMtr. pNa to Practically Ôar AvaGaD Aaho. ho malaa tovha jaaNavalaM.
AaiNa tU mhNaailasa %yaacaa raga malaa Aijabaat Aalaa naahI. AgadI KrM saaMgato. ]laT to sa%ya AahoÊ pNa gaÜcaI hI Aaho kI maI k$ Xakt naahI. [tkMca kaya maI %yaalaa ho caaMgalyaa Xabdat saaMgaU pNa Xakt naahI.
yaa gaÜYTIcaa maaJyaa hI maanaisak svasqyaavar pirNaama hÜtÜya. pNa malaa yaÜgya tÜ Space naahI.
saudOvaanao maaJaI A%yaMt javaLcaI maO~INa Ku_ Psycheatrist Aaho. %yaamauLo malaa bairca madt hÜto. %yaaiXavaaya maI baroca Counselling Gaotlao Aaho. ³baahorcyaa Da^@TrkDUna.´


Kishori
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 2:19 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maulaIÊ kaLjaI Gao gaM svatÁ caI..
naIT rhaÊ sagaLM kahI Cna hÜ[la..
AÜ koÆÆ KMbaIr bana...


Prajaktad
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 2:28 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`a²malaa tr ho sagaL vaacauna tuiJaca jaast kaLija vaaTtoya....%yaalaa naÝkir saÜDuna prt indiat yaayalaa saaMga..karNa tÜ kXaalaaca responce dot naaih Aaho..tuJa eokt nasaola tr %yaacyaa Garcyaanaa saaMga ...
Amaoirkocyaa lifestyle maQao tÜ basat naaih..]gaaca Ôar kala %yaanao svatalaa Aaina dusaryaalaa tir ~asa doNyaat kaya Aqa- AahoÆ.. i am not blaming him
sar salaamat tÜ pgaiD pcaasa²
maanaisak sauK ho Ôar ma*%vaacao...eKaV izkaina tuimh manaapasauna AanaMid nasaala tr baikcyaa luxury ica ikmat Xaunya...maaJao baÜlaNao AagaavaupNaacao AaiNa Ôarca spXT vaaTlao Asaola tr sorry


Bee
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 3:03 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa tr vaaTtM %yaanaI lagna kravao AaiNa baayakÜlaa saÜbat Gao}na Amaoirkot kahI kaL Gaalavaavaa. XaovaTI puZIla BaivaYyaacaa ivacaarhI krayalaa paihjao. lavakrca lagnakayaa-cao idvasa sau$ hÜtIla. kait-k javaL yaotÜ Aaho. ivacaar krayalaa kahIca hrkt naahI.

Zelam
Friday, September 09, 2005 - 3:31 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[Md`jaIta tulaa sagaLM iktI kzINa jaat Asaola yacaI klpnaa maagaIla posts vaÉna AalaI. pNa tU %yaalaa samajavtanaa svatÁcyaa manaalaa saaMBaaLNyaacaI pNa kLjaI Gao. 1´ %yaalaa hLUhLU pNa KMbaIr rahUna samajava. %yaacao Qyaoya Aa<aa pOsaa kmavaUna family problems solve krNyaacao AahI AaiNa ekda ka to saaQya Jaalao kI prt Baartat yaayalaa %yaalaa khI ADcaNa rhaNaar naahI ho %yaalaa saMga. ijat@yaa AanaMdanao tÜ kama krola ittka %yaacaa prt yaayacaa idvasa lavakr ]jaaDola.
2´%yaalaa AyauYyaacyaa positive sides daKva. jasa kI saunaamaIÊ katrina mauLo baoGar Jalaolyaa laÜkMcao duÁKÊ lahanapNaapasaUna Aaš­vaDIlaaMna AMtrlalyaaMcao duÁKÊ ApMga vya>IMcao duÁK [tko maÜzo Aaho pNa hI maMDLI Aaplyaalaa laajavaola AXaI kamao krt Asatat AaiNa AapNaca Aaplyaalaa [tka ~asa ka k$na Gyaayacaa to ivacaar.
3´tÜ svatÁca svatÁcaa maÜz Xa~U banat Aaho AaiNa tÜ ijatka negative ivacaar krola ittka %yaalaa jaast ~asa hÜ[la AaiNa tulaa %yaamauLo KUp vaašT vaaTola ho %yaalaa kLU do. tU [t@yaa laMba AsaUnahI you care for him a lot ho %yaalaa kLU do
4´Kr tr counselling ha best pyaa-ya vaaTtÜ pNa [qao p`Xna Aaho kI JaÜpocao saÜMga Gaotlaolyaalaa jaagao kÜNa krNaar or maaMjaracyaa gaL\yaat GaMTa kÜNa baaMQaNaar. AXaavaoLosa tUhI qaÜDo detached vhayalaa hrkt nahI. %yaacyaa sar#yaa icaDNyanao tulaa ~asa hÜtÜya ho %yaala kLalao tr tÜ kdaicat qaÜDa kmaI icaDola
5´ var khIMnaI caaMgalyaa sites saucavalyaa Aahot. tsaca kahI XaUnyaatUna var Aalaolyaa laÜkMcaI cair~ vagaOro ­ AaQaI tU vaaca AaiNa maga %yaala refer kr
I know sallao doNaM saÜpM AahoÊ pNa jao saucalaM to ilaihlaMÊ most important is tU svatÁkDopNa laxa doNao AaiNa saarKI kLjaI na krNaoÊ tÜ icaDlaa trI svatÁlaa ~asa na k$na GaoNao.


Saanjya
Saturday, September 10, 2005 - 5:22 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Indrajeeta,
Tujhya ya problem saathi baryacha weg-wegalya angane yilaj karawa lagel asa mala watat aahe. Ani te karanya saathi ya sagalyache mul karan kay he pan shodhayala hawe. Tu swatala he prashana vicharun paha..

1. Thyachay sadhya chay waganyala 'to US madhe ekata aahe he ekacha karan aahe ka? Bharatat asatana pan to adhe madhe asa wagayacha ka? Durase kahi to lapawato aahe ka tujhya pasun..

2. Tyachya drushtine tyacha nakki kay problem aahe ase tyala watate? tyane tula spastapane tase kadhi sangitale aahe ka?

3. In general aayushyat tyala kay mahatwache watate? US baddal kay aapekha hotya tyachya? Ani Nakki Kay aapeksha aahet tyachya tujhya kadun. Tyala tu kashi wagaleli havi aahes?

4. To kitihi apayashi tharala tari tu tyala dur lotanar nahis yachi tyala khatri aahe ka? Tu kadhi tyala tase sangitale aahes ka?

5. Tujhya baddal athawa itar kuna baddal (e.g. aai, bahin vaigere) tyala kiti prem/kalaji aahe. Tyane kadhi tula/tyana aadhar dila aahe ka?

6. Tu tyachya war kiti awalambun aahes yachi tyala kalpana/janiw aahe ka?

7. Jar ka tula kahi problem aahe ase tu tyala sangitale tar to swatah-chya adachani visarun tula madat karayacha/aadhar dyayacha prayatna karel ka? Uttar jar hokararthi aset tar tu tujha ekhada khoto problem taryar karun saang tyala. Kadachit tula adhar dyayachya prayatnat to swatala sawaru shakel.

8. Phone, e-mail ewaji tu chat kar tyachya barobar.. phone war sambhashan tutayachi shakyata asate ani, e-mail madhe sambhashan kami padate.. chatting madhe sambhashan hotecha pan wichar karun uttar dyala thoda wel pan milato. Tujhya Psychiatrist maitrinila chat karu det tyachya shi tujhya watine..

Indrajeeta
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 4:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

p`aja>aÊ ikXaÜrIÊ baIÊ JaolamaÊ saainayaa... maI Aaja maayabaÜilavar Log-In krNyaacaI Aaturtonao vaaT phat hÜtoÊ karNa tumha savaa-Mcaa AaQaar malaa imaLtÜ AahoÊ Aata AaXaa vaaTtoya kI kaihtrI maaga- inaGaola.

baáyaaca vaoLolaa maI %yaalaa AayauXyaacyaa Positive Sides daKvaNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaaÊ pNa vyaqa-. malaa AsaM vaaTtM kI tÜ jara jaastMca XahaNaa Jaalaa Aaho pirisqatInaM %yaamauLo %yaalaa eKaVa maulaasaarKM BaulavaUna caalaNaar naahI.

Jaolama mhNato %yaap`maaNao malaa Aata ek XaovaTcaa ]paya kravaasaa vaaTtÜ tÜ mhNajaoÊ %yaalaa spYT saaMgaavaM kI maalaa ivacaar krayalaa qaÜDa vaoL hvaaya. I think i am not a right female for you pNa maI to iktpt k$ Xakona to maaihtI naahI. karaNa yaa AaQaI maI jaovha AsaM daKvaayacaa p`ya%na kolaa kI malaa raga Aalaaya AaiNa tÜ jaI khI vaagalaaya to malaa mauLIca AavaDlaolaM naahIÊ AXaavaoLa maaJaM rihlaM bajaulaacaÊ pNa tÜ %yaacao Problems ca [tko tIva` k$na saaMgatÜ kI Aaplyaalaa baÜlaayalaa tÜMDca rhat naahI.
malaa ho Ôar AvaGaD jaato. baáyaaca vaoLolaa ragaacyaa Barat tÜ baroca kahI Asao baÜlaUna jaatÜ jao manaalaa Kup laagatM pNa maI p`%yaok vaoLolaa to saÜDUna doto. karNa maI eka gaÜYTIcaI KUNagaaz baaMQaUna zovalaI Aaho kI malaa At any cost %yaacyaaXaI [traM saarKM vaagaUna caalaNaar naahI.


Ruma
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 5:45 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`jaIta..

tu mhNatosa %yaap`maaNao hI
relationship tulaa far mah%vaacaI Aaho to kLtya.. maga tU tuJyaaprInao p`ya%na kravaosa tIqao jaayacao.. AaiNa naahI tr %yaacyaa GarcyaaMnaa ivaXvaasaat Gao}na sava- gaÜYTI kanaavar Gaalaavyaat AaiNa %yaacyaa Aašlaa tIqao jaayalaa saaMgaavao...
location var gaolaa tr %yaa maaNasaanao kaya kravao.. ha p`XNa Aahoca.. pNa Aplyaa javaLcyaa maaNasaasaazI kÜNaIhI %yaatUna %yaacaI Aaš tr nakIca tIqao jaayalaa tyaar hÜ[la...

Indrajeeta
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 5:54 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJao ÔÜnavaarI tr maihnyaakazI iktI pOsao jaatat yaacaa ihXaÜba tr maI zovalaolaaca naahI.
%yaalaa maaJaa kÜNatahI sallaa AnaahUt vaaTtÜ.
tuJyaabarÜbar maI AahoÊ Xairranao nasalao trI manaanao Aaho AsaM mhNalaM trI tÜ mhNatÜ Don't talk nonsense AsaM kiQahI hÜ} Xakt naahI.
AaiNa KrMtr malaa svatÁlaa AsaM vaaTtM kI maI jar p`%yaxa kÜNaacaI kaLjaI Gao} Xakt nasaonaÊ AaiNa itqao ]pisqat nasaonaÊ tOhI- malaa %yaa maaNasaacyaa Problem maQao sahBaagaI vhayacaM Aho mhNajao mala %yaalaa sahanauBaUtI ikMvaa dyaa daKvaavaI laagaola. jao malaa manaapsaUna AavaDt naaho. barM kahI Positive baÜlaavaM trI tÜ ]laTM baÜlatÜÊ Negetive baÜlaayacaI tr saÜyaca naahI.
maI kQaI upset hÜ}na ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr mhNatÜ kI tu jar maaJyaajaagaI AsatIsa tr tuLa kLlaM AsatM kI kaya hala hÜtat to. maga tulaa kÜNaI ekTM TaklaM AsatM tr kLlaM AsatM. yaa var kaya baÜlaavaM to kLtca naahI. mhNajao Aapna %yaacyaa vaagaNyaavar naaraja AahÜt ho saaMgaNyaasaazI tÜ Aplyaalaa vaoLca dot naahI. ]laT Aplaaca saaMgatÜ.
emails, Phones, yaalaa tr Aajakala kahI p`maaNaca rihlaM naahI Aaho. pNa malaa %yaalaa saarKa ÔÜna krNaM prvaDt nasaUnahI maI krto. %yaacaa tÜ kQaIca ivacaar krt naahI. maajyaa ik%yaok pT pOsao tÜ kmavatÜ. pNa Aqaa-t tÜ Kca- hI krtÜca. maga maI pNa ivacaar krt naahI pOXaaMcaa. pNa %yaalaa kuzotrI mayaa-da hvaIca. ekda AsaMca BaaMDNa Jaalyaavar maI %yaalaa ÔÜna kolaa. baÜlata baÜlata %yaalaa Baanca rihlaM naahI AaiNa maaJaM ibala 700­ la jaa}na kQaI iBaDlaM to kLlaMca naahI. jaovha %yaacao Xabd saMplaoÊ Frustration qaÜDM kmaI JaalaM tovha %yaalaa jaaiNava JaalaI kI Aata ibala Kup JaalaM AsaNaar. %yaanao malaa ivacarlaM kI pOsao Aahot kaÆ
pNa maI mhNato kI jar eKadI gaÜYTM Aaplyaalaa jar At last accept ca krayacaI AsaolaÊ tr %yaacyaavar evhZo vaad - ivavaad AaiNa r> kXaalaa AaTvaayacaMÆ ho %yaalaa hI kLtM pNa vaLt naaho.


Indrajeeta
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 5:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJao ÔÜnavaarI tr maihnyaakazI iktI pOsao jaatat yaacaa ihXaÜba tr maI zovalaolaaca naahI.
%yaalaa maaJaa kÜNatahI sallaa AnaahUt vaaTtÜ.
tuJyaabarÜbar maI AahoÊ Xairranao nasalao trI manaanao Aaho AsaM mhNalaM trI tÜ mhNatÜ Don't talk nonsense AsaM kiQahI hÜ} Xakt naahI.
AaiNa KrMtr malaa svatÁlaa AsaM vaaTtM kI maI jar p`%yaxa kÜNaacaI kaLjaI Gao} Xakt nasaonaÊ AaiNa itqao ]pisqat nasaonaÊ tOhI- malaa %yaa maaNasaacyaa Problem maQao sahBaagaI vhayacaM Aho mhNajao mala %yaalaa sahanauBaUtI ikMvaa dyaa daKvaavaI laagaola. jao malaa manaapsaUna AavaDt naaho. barM kahI Positive baÜlaavaM trI tÜ ]laTM baÜlatÜÊ Negetive baÜlaayacaI tr saÜyaca naahI.
maI kQaI upset hÜ}na ÔÜna kolaa naahI tr mhNatÜ kI tu jar maaJyaajaagaI AsatIsa tr tuLa kLlaM AsatM kI kaya hala hÜtat to. maga tulaa kÜNaI ekTM TaklaM AsatM tr kLlaM AsatM. yaa var kaya baÜlaavaM to kLtca naahI. mhNajao Aapna %yaacyaa vaagaNyaavar naaraja AahÜt ho saaMgaNyaasaazI tÜ Aplyaalaa vaoLca dot naahI. ]laT Aplaaca saaMgatÜ.
emails, Phones, yaalaa tr Aajakala kahI p`maaNaca rihlaM naahI Aaho. pNa malaa %yaalaa saarKa ÔÜna krNaM prvaDt nasaUnahI maI krto. %yaacaa tÜ kQaIca ivacaar krt naahI. maajyaa ik%yaok pT pOsao tÜ kmavatÜ. pNa Aqaa-t tÜ Kca- hI krtÜca. maga maI pNa ivacaar krt naahI pOXaaMcaa. pNa %yaalaa kuzotrI mayaa-da hvaIca. ekda AsaMca BaaMDNa Jaalyaavar maI %yaalaa ÔÜna kolaa. baÜlata baÜlata %yaalaa Baanca rihlaM naahI AaiNa maaJaM ibala 700­ la jaa}na kQaI iBaDlaM to kLlaMca naahI. jaovha %yaacao Xabd saMplaoÊ Frustration qaÜDM kmaI JaalaM tovha %yaalaa jaaiNava JaalaI kI Aata ibala Kup JaalaM AsaNaar. %yaanao malaa ivacarlaM kI pOsao Aahot kaÆ
pNa maI mhNato kI jar eKadI gaÜYTM Aaplyaalaa jar At last accept ca krayacaI AsaolaÊ tr %yaacyaavar evhZo vaad - ivavaad AaiNa r> kXaalaa AaTvaayacaMÆ ho %yaalaa hI kLtM pNa vaLt naahI.


Indrajeeta
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 6:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

saainayaaÊ

malaa tuJao barocasao Points mah%vaacao vaaTlao.
1. tÜ itqao ekTa Aaho ho tr maUL karNa Aahoca AahoÊ pNa %yaatUna hatatU inasaTt caalalaolaI naatIÊ maO~IÊ Home Sickneess, Homelessness yaa hI baabaI Aahotca. Baarat tÜ hÜta tovha Amaca naatM Ôar naivana hÜtM %yaamauLo %yaacyaa svaBaavaacao barocasao pOlaU maI naMtrca AnauBavalao. [qao AsatanaahI tÜ icaDt AsaoÊ pNa [tko naahI.
2. %yaacaa naa@kI Problem %yaanao malaa baáyaaca vaoLolaa saaMigatlaa Aaho. tÜ itqao ekTa AahoÊ KNaMipNaM naahIÊ imat naaiht. Frustration ekTopNaa.. iXavaaya yaa sagaL\yaaMcaa pirNaama hÜ}na ZsaLt gaolaolao kamaatlao laxaM. maaJyaaba_lacaI mau#ya tËar mhNajao. malaa Amaoirkotlyaa Procedures maaiht naahItÊ %yamaulao maI itqao Baartasar#yaa Systems Aahot Asa samaJaUnaca %yaala kihtrI saucavaayalaa jaato AaiNa AamacaI BaaMDNaM hÜtat.


Kishori
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:06 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

namaskar [Md`jaItaÊ

kXaI Aahosa tUÆ
varcaM vaacaUna vaaTlaM kI tÜ svatÁ cyaa duÁKa mauLo Aa%makoMd`It Jaalaa Aaho. %yaat %yaacaI caUk naaihÊ karNa jaovha AapNa ekTo AahÜt AsaM vaaTtM tovha Asa vaTtM kI baakIcao KUp sauKat Aahot Aaplyaa poxaa AaiNa maga maaNaUsa Ô> svatÁ caa ivacaar krtÜ... pNa %yaalaa kahItrI k$na samajaavalaM paihjao krNa kuNaacyaahI sahnaXa>I laa mayaa-da Asatat. jar tuJyaa baabatIt AsaM JaalaMÊ tulaa sahna krNaM AXa@ya hÜ}na tu jar tÜDlaMsa tr tÜ %yaacyaa saazI Ôar maÜza AaGaat Asaola... (a sagaL\yaatUna baahor pDyacaIÊ AaiNa ]maodInaI AayauYyaakDo baGaNyaacaI %yaanaI manaacaI tyaarI krayalaa hvaI Aaho. tU %yaalaa spYT saaMga. %yaala na duKavata to karNaM qaÜDM AvaGaD AahoÊ pNa ho krayalaa hvaMca Aaho... tumha sagaL\yaaMcaI maanaisak ÔrÔT caalalaI Aaho... tumacyaa dÜGaaMcaM naatM pNaalaa laagaayacaI vaoL yaayacyaa AaQaI naIT %yaalaa saaMga... saQyaa trI tulaa itqao jaaNaM Xa@ya nasalaM tr %yaacyaa barÜbar manaanaIca %yaacyaabarÜbar rahU Xaktosa AsaM %yaalaa saaMga... AaiNa to doKIla Ôar mah%vaacaM Aaho.. icaDNyaanaI p`Xna sauTNaar naahIt naa..... kLtM Aaho kI saaMgaNaM saÜpM AahoÊ pNa trI ]paya hI naahI naa dusara kahI...
vaad hÜNyaa saar#yaa gaÜTI
email maQaUna samajaavaUna ilahI... ÔÜnao var pOsao KrMca KUp jaatat. baÜlaNyaacaI gaÜYT vaogaLI ho sagaLM maanya... baÜlaUna jaast Cana vaaTtM ... trIhI...

Moodi
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:29 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[Md`jaIta tuJao problems kmaI hÜNyaa eovajaI vaaZt jaat Aahot. dusaro maaNausa jar tuJaI Baavanaa samajauna Gyayalaa tyaar nasaola tr tu qaÜDo svatakDo pNa laxa do.
maO~I AsaÜ vaa p`oma yaa naa%yaaMmaQyao p`%yaok vaoLa s~Inaoca tDjaÜD krayalaa paihjao ha ivacaar Ana hI ÉZI tUca dur kr.
malaa baI mhNatÜ to pTtya. tU laaK pTvauna %yaacaa ekTopNaa tÜ lahana maulaasaarKa japt Asaola tr kizNa Aaho.
Ana jar %yaacyaa GarcyaaMXaIhI tÜ tsaaca vaagat Asaola tr maga tuJaa ha sava- KTaTÜp vyaqa- jaašla. %yaapoxaa jara svatacaohI krIArÊ štr CMd yaakDo laxa do. jaÜ maaNausa p`vaahat pDunahI pÜhayalaa iXakt naahI %yaalaa puZo tr maga idXaaca ]rt naahIt.
AmaorIkot tulaa jaaNao kizNa Aaho tr maga %yaalaa [kDo yao}na qaÜDa vaoL GaalavaNaoca AavaXyak Aaho.

Ana yaabaabat tu hI qaÜDa kzÜr inaNa-ya Gao iknvaa naIT prKDpNao tuJyaa BaavanaaMcaI jaaNaIva kÉna do. %yaamauLo tÜ tulaaca f> gaRhIt QartÜya Asao malaa vaaTtya.
tuJyaa AayauYyaacaa inaNa-ya tulaaca Gyaayacaa Aaho.KMbaIr banaayacaa tu p`ya%na kr.


Athak
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 8:51 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[Md`jaIta Ê sagaL\yaaMnaI tulaa Cana maaga-dXa-na kolao Ê ]paya saaMigatlao %yaat qaÜDI maaJaI Bar Ê raga maanau nayao .
AaQaI ek p`Xna .
tÜ hLvaa hÜta / Aaho ka Æ QyaoyavaadI Aaho ka Æ AayauYyaat QaDpD krayacaI jabardst [cCa Aaho / hÜtI ka Æ
%yaaca Asa vaagaNaM ho dur raihlyaamauLo Ê KaNyaaipNyaacaI AabaaL Ê javaLkuNaI naahI AXyaanao Jaala ho qaÜDsa pTt naahI Ê Asa Asat tr tÜ jaast hLvaa Jaalaa Asata Ê tuJyaaXaI baÜlataMnaa %yaalaa tovhDIca sahanauBautIcaI garja BaasalaI AsatI Ana tI %yaanao tumacyaa saMvaadatuna Ê correspondance maQauna imaLvalaI AsatI. %yaaca frustrate hÜNaM Ê icaDicaD ÊCullak gaÜYTIvaÉna pNa fÜnavar ragaavaNao ho kuzotrI ego iDvacalyaa gaolyaamauLo ikMvaa manaat zrvalyaap`maaNao gaÜYTI hÜtM nasatIla tr hÜNao Xa@ya Aaho.
tulaa %yaacyaa bawlacaI kaLjaI AamhI samajau XaktÜ . AaNaKI ek Ê %yaalaa pNa tuJaI tovhDIca kaLjaI vaaTto ka jaXaI tulaa %yaacaI vaaTto Æ tu qaÜDo kzÜr hÜvauna kahI idvasa saMpk- TaLuna ikMvaa Asaoca kahIsao karNa daKvauna %yaacaI p`caItI Gaovau XakXaIla kaÆ leave him alone for some time ha pNa ]paya hÜ] XaktÜ . svatacaI kaLjaI Gao .


Milya
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 9:27 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I might sound very harsh pNa Asao vaaTtoya kI tuJyaa ima~alaa duÁK kurvaaLt basaayacaI savaya laagalaolaI Aaho AaiNa toca %yaalaa baro vaaTtoya. %yaalaa kzÜr Xabdat jaagao krayacaI vaoL AalaI Aaho. %yaalaa jagatIla %yaacyapoxaa jaastI duÁKI laÜkaMcaI ]dahrNao do]na tÜ iktI sauKI Aaho ho pTivaNyaacaa p`ya%na kr AaiNa (a Avasqao baahor yaayacao Asaola tr %yaacao %yaanaoca p`ya%na krayalaa hvaot ho inaxauna saaMga. %yaalaa vaaTtat tovhZI %yaacaI duÁKo maÜzI naahIt hohI spXTpNao %yaalaa saaMga
%yaalaa hohI saaMga kI jar %yaacaa tuJyaavar ivaXvaasa Asaola tr %yaanao tuJao eoklao paihjao. AaiNa tÜ jar tuJaI care krt nasaola tr tohI %yacyaa laxaat AaNauna do. tuJyaa caaMgaulapNaacaa tÜ gaOÔa-yada Gaot Aaho Asao malaa vaaTto. laxaat zova Qaagaa taNalaa kI tÜ tuTtÜca.

this solution is very risky prINaama ekdma ]laTa pNa hÜ] XaktÜ. tevha use your jdgement AaiNa tsao vaaga.


Indrajeeta
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 11:37 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Sorry maI baraca vaoL meeting maQyao hÜtoÊ %yaamauLo baroca kahI ilahayacao hÜtoÊ ilahU Xaklao naahI.

malaa imalyaacaa sallaa caaMgalaa vaaTtÜ. pNa malaa AsaM vaaTtya ik qaÜDM Discussion ³tumha savaa-MXaI´ k$na maI %yaalaa ho saaMigana.


Zelam
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 12:14 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[nd`jaIta malaapNa imalyaacao mhNaNao pTto Aaho. tuj,yaa ima~alaa duÁK kurvaaLnyaacaI savaya laagalaI Aaho AiNa %yaacaI AXaI expectation idsato kI tupNa toca krvaosaÊ %yaalaa saarKa iktI ~asa hÜtÜ hoca baÜlaavao AaiNa pyaa-yaanao %yaacao duÁK AjaUna kurvaaLavaosa. pNa ho caaMgalao naahIÊ %yaacyaasaazI AaiNa tuJyaasaazIhI Asao malaa vaaTto AaiNa qaÜDo spYT baÜlaayacaI vaoL AalaI Aaho. pNa imalyaa mhNatÜ tsao pirNaama ]laTa pNa hÜ} Xakola %yamauLo AaQaI tuJyaa manaacaI tyaarI kr. caaMgalyaa AaiNa vaašT dÜnhI pirNaamaaMcaa tuJyaa d`uYTInao ivacaar kr. ask yourself, if you would be ready for anything and then proceed .

Yogibear
Monday, September 12, 2005 - 12:29 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Milyaa: AgadI barÜbarÊ malaahI tsaoca kahIsao vaaTlao.... Its about time to awake someone....

Indrajeeta: AaiNa AsaohI vaaTlao kI jyaa vaoLI tu kzÜr hÜ]na %yaalaa caar Xabd saunavaayalaa hvao hÜto itqao narma rahuna ]laT %yaacaoca nauksaana Jaalao Asaavao. kQaI kQaI Aist%vaacaI jaaiNava kÉna doNa garjaoca Asat... naahI ka²²²

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