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Hitguj » My Experience » कोणाशी तरी बोलायचंय » एक खरी व्यथा » Archive through September 09, 2005 « Previous Next » Gori Tuesday, July 05, 2005 - 3:04 pm:      maI ek maayabaÜlaIkrINa. AajaM manaatlaM kahI ilaihNaar Aaho. maI 29 vaYaa-caI ga`uihNaI. ek lahana maula. idvasaBar Garkama krNyaaiXavaaya dusara ]VÜga naahI. gaolao 3 vaYao- maI GarI Aaho maulaamauLo. navara saÜjvaL pNa kuTMbava%sala fNasa.. %yaalaa baayakÜlaa vaogaLo Aist%va Aaho yaacaI jaaNaca naahI. Kup vaoLa saucavauna paihlao pNa tÜ baQat naahI. pirNaaima malaa Kup naOraXya Aalao Aaho. kaya kÉ samajat naahI. AgadI Gar saMsaar saÜDavaasaa vaaTtÜ pNa maulaasaazI jaIva ADtÜ. Aata maI kaya kÉ Æ caar p`omaacao Ê AapulakIcao Xabd hvaot..kÜNaI baÜlaola kaÆ tumacaI gaÜrI Moodi Tuesday, July 05, 2005 - 3:23 pm:      Aro Asaa Aivacaar krayalaa na@kI Jaalaya trI kaya Aga tuca tr mhNatosa naa kI navara saÜjvaL AaiNa kuTuMbva%sala Aaho mhNaunaÆ maga Asao kaÆ naiXabvaana Aahosa kI ek CÜTo baaL doiKla AahoÊ Aga naÜkrI naahI mhNauna kaya JaalaoÆ eKada gaaNyaacaaʚtr klaocaa CMd laavauna mana rmava. AavaDt Asaola tr eKad CÜTa paT- Tašma kÜsa- kÉna naÜkrI baGaÊ naahItr svata baalavaaDI kIMvaa paLNaaGar caalavauna baGa rIkamao mana kQaI zovau nakÜsaÊ svatalaahI kmaI laoKu nakÜsa naÜkrI kolaIca pahIjao Asao kahI naahI GargautI ]VÜga mhNajao @laasaosa AaiNa štr ho kahI Asaolaca navaryaaXaI spYT pNao baÜlauna naÜkrI ikMvaa [tr CMdaivaYayaI baÜla maulaacao Baivatvya GaDvaNaarI tuca Aahosa maayabaÜlaIvar saMvaad saQato Aahosa naa maga Kro naava naahI tr kImaana tuJao iXa@XanaÊlagnaapuvaI-caa CMdÊ naÜkrI yaaivaXayaI Aamhalaa saaMga mhNajao puZo baÜlata yaošla Bee Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 3:46 am:      gaÜrIÊ malaahI maUDIcao pTlao. kahItrI vaoL jaašlaÊ AanaMd imaLolaÊ &ana imaLola Asao kahItrI k$na pha. malaa vaaTt tulaa inaYËIyapNaacaa kMTaLa Aalaa Aaho. tU svatÁlaa jamaola AavaDola sahja k$ Xakola Asao kahItrI XaÜQaNyaacaa p`ya%na kr. jar navara nasaola maanat tr %yaalaa saurvaatIlaa saaMgaU nakÜsa. pNa Gar dar saMsaar saÜDNyaacaa kahI ivacaar k$ nakÜsa. ha AgadI TÜkacaa inaNa-ya Jaalaa. navara jar tulaa sauKat zovat AsaolaÊ A%yaacaar krt nasaolaÊ Ôarsaa puÉYa AhMkarI nasaola tr Asalao ivacaar manaatUna kaZUna Tak. qaÜDI QaIT hÜÊ jaoMvha AapNa eKadI gaÜYT naivana naivana krtÜ toMvha tI [traMnaa jar pTt kLt nasaola tr qaÜDo loudly baÜlaavao laagato mhNajao AaplaI kL [traMnaahI laagato. Dakshina Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 5:35 am:      maUDIÊ baIÊ vaoL GaalavaÊ satt ibaJaI rha... ho sallao toca toca Jaalao Asa naahI ka vaaTt tumhalaa..Æ KrMtr gaÜrI cyaa Bauimakot iXa$naca itlaa na@kI kaya vaaTto yaacaa ivacaar kolaa paihjao... gaÜrIÊ malaa vaaTto ik tU samaUpdoXakakDo jaavaoÊ kQaI kQaI AapNa [t@yaa iWQaa manaÁisqatI maQyao AsatÜ kI [kDo AaD AaiNa itkDo ivahIr AXaI Avasqaa hÜ}na jaatoÊ AXaavaoLI mana ibalakUlaca rmat naahI... ha maaJaa svatÁcaa AnauBava Aaho... tulaa qaÜDa vaoL svatÁsaazI GaalavaNaM AavaXyak Aaho.... jyaat tU Ô> naÜkrIca kolaI pihjaosa AsaM naahI... eKadI gaÜYT jaI tulaa AavaDto tI tU iXakU XaktosaÊ jaoNaok$na tuJyaa manaalaa ]BaarI yao} Xakola. 3 vaYa-M Garat kaZlyaanaMtr malaa naahI vaaTt kI tU pTkna naÜkrImaQyao gauMtXaIla. ]laT %yamauLo naivana samasyaa nakÜt inamaa-Na vhayalaa naahI kaÆ pNa ek gaÜYTM maa~ KrI Aaho ik saolÔ eisTma baUsT krNyaasaazI naÜkrI saarKo dusaro jaailama AÝYaQa naahI. baakI sava- baajaUnaI tU ³mhNajao Aaiqa-kÊ saamaijak´ KUYa AsaiXala AaiNa Ô> naOraXya Aalao Asaola tr %yaasaazI samaUpdoXak tulaa nai@kca madt k$ Xakola. maaJyaa XauBaocCa tuJyaabarÜbar Aahotca. Dakshina Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 5:40 am:      By the way Goree... tuJaI ÔovairT kÜT Ôar Cana Aaho gaM. Moodi Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 6:59 am:      dixaNaa Ê tuJao mhNaNao yaÜgya Aaho pNa pihlyaaMda maI itlaa tÜca samaupdoXanaacaa ]paya saucavaNaar hÜtoÊ pNa %yaa tsaoca maanasaXaas~ yaa xao~aivaYayaI laÜkaMcao Ôar gaOrsamaja Aahot pNa [tr CMdÊ naÜkrItuna imaLNaara h@kacaa pOsaa³jyaamauLo baayakanaa navayaa-var AvalaMbauna na rahIlyaacaa Aa%maivaXvaasa yaotÜ´yaatunaca inaraXaotuna baahor pDta yaotoÊ jar lagnaapuvaI- naÜkrI kolaI Asaola tr Aata dusayaa-kDo maga tÜ navara ka Asaonaa pOsao maagaayacaI laaja vaaTto tulaa kaya hvao to malaa saaMgaÊ maI AaNauna dotÜ yaatunaca Aaplao AstI%va kuzo hrvalao tr naahInaa yaa jaaNaIvaonao s~I saOrBaOr hÜto AaiNa yaatunaca p`caMD inaraXaotuna jaIva do} ka Asao mhNanyaapya-Mt majala jaato Asao hÜvau nayao mhNaUna mao itlaa varIla sallaa idlaa Bee Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 7:13 am:      gaÜrIÊ tU kaya saucavaUna paihlaosa tuJyaa navaáyaalaaÆ %yaacyaa p`itiËyaa kXaa hÜ%yaa.. ho jar naIT saaMigatlaosa tr kdaicat kahI saaMgaNao Xa@ya hܚla. AaiNa tU Amaoirkot Asatosa naaÆ Chioo Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 7:50 am:      Gori, tu mhanalis ki tuza navara 'fanas' aahe. Mhanaje aatun god pan baherun kate. Yacha arth tula tyache gun nakkich mahit asatil. Tehi sangashil ka? Mhanaje tyachya swabhavachi kalpana yeil. Aani tyala tuze swatantr asttitv aahe hech kalat nahi mhanaje nakki kay? Arthik swatantry nahi, ekhada salla ghetana tula vicharat nahi, tula nehamich gruhit dharato, charchaughansamor hila kahi kalat nahi ase saral saral kinva aadun suchavato ki aanakhi kahi? Tu yasathi tyala kay sangitales? Geli 3 varshe ghari ahes mhanaje tyachya aadhi nokari karat hotis ka? Konatya prakarachi? Navara gharkamat, mulachya sangopanat kiti madat karato? Tumhi tighech rahata ki tyache aai-vadilhi aahet? Te kinva itar natevaik kiti frequently yetat? Tula asttitv nahi he samajne he fakt tuzya navaryala vatate ki itar natevaikanapan? Tyache bhau-vadil-kaka etc tyanchya bayakanshi kase vagatat? Mi tula khoopch prashn vicharate aahe pan tuzi nakki samasya lakshat yeil aani aamhi kahi madat karu shaku. Moodi Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 9:24 am:      ica} p`Xna naIT maaMDlyaaba_\la mhNajao ivacaarlyaaba_\la AaBaar Ê naomako hoca malaa ivacaarayacao hÜto pNa tuJyaasaarKo naIT Xabdat naahI ga saucalao.baGauyaa gaÜrI kaya mhNatoya to Dakshina Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 9:47 am:      ica}Ê tu KUp Cana ilaihtosa...pNa jara dovanaagarIt ilahIt jaa naa.. Chioo Wednesday, July 06, 2005 - 11:49 am:      Dakshina, thanks ga. Pan mi tashi maybolivar navin aahe. Aani post karanepan nukatech suru kele aahe. Mi devnagarit lihayacha prayatn kela. Pan mala ajun vicharanchya vegat devanagarimadhe lihita yet nahi. Mhanun mi sadhya mingrajit lihite. Mazi practise chaluch aahe. Gori, atta tuze post parat vachale. Tuze shevatache vaky vachun khoop vait vatale ga. Aamhi sarv ithe tuze mitr-maitrini aahot. tula je kahi vatate te agadi mokalepanane bol. Swatala mulich ekati samaju nako. Dakshina Thursday, July 07, 2005 - 4:22 am:      hÜ gaÜrIÊ tu KrMca svatÁlaa ekTM samajaU nakÜsa. AamhI sagaLo AahÜtÊ tuJyaabarÜbar. Moodi Thursday, July 07, 2005 - 9:42 am:      izk Aaho izk Aaho pNa jyaa maayabaÜlaIkrINanao ha baIbaI sauÉ kolaa tI Aaho trI kuzoÆ Apoxaa Aaho kI Aata trI Kra p`Xna kÜNata Aaho to kLola gaÜrI ikmaana AamhI savaa-MnaI jao tulaa ivacaarlaya %yaacaI trI ]<ar do kI AamhI tulaa ekdma gaÜMQaLat tr paDlaola naaihnaaÆ Indrajeeta Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 3:32 am:      namaskar maayabaÜilakrÊ maI maayabaÜlaIcaI inayaimat vaacak AahoÊ pNa Registration Aa<aaca kolao. [t@yaa sagaL\yaa idvasaat yaa BB nao maaJaM laxaM saarKM vaoQaUna GaotlaM hÜtM karNa malaahI tumacaI madt hvaI Aaho. imaLola kaÆ Indrajeeta Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 6:59 am:      maaJaaM ek AitXaya javaLcaa ima~ U.S.A maQyao kama krtÜ. puvaI- tÜ %yaacao ima~Ê ekaca kMpnaIt Asalyaanao AaiNa ek~Mca rhat Asalyaanao Ôar ekTopNaa navhta. drmyaanacyaa kaLamaQyao %yaanao tI naÜkrI saÜDUna idlaI AaiNa Aata tÜ eka Amaoirkna kMpnaIt jaa^ba krtÜya. kamaasaazI satt iÔravaM laagat Asalyaanao tÜ BayaMkr vaOtagalaolaa AahoÊ%yaacaI icaDicaD vaaZlaI AahoÊ AaiNa A%yaMt xaullak gaÜYTIMmauLo tÜ Frustrate hÜtÜ. ho inavvaL %yaacaM ekTopNa AahoÊ manaasaarKM jaovaayalaa imaLt naahIÊ AaplaI BaaYaa baÜlaayalaa imaLt naahI. sagaLM jagaNaMca vaogaLM Aaho. %yaacaI Sensitivity BayaMkr vaaZlaI Aaho. [tkI kI sava-saamaanyapNao laÜkaMcaI Relationship maQyao insecurity vaaZto AaiNa BaaMDNaM hÜtat. pNa [qao ]laTM Aaho. %yaacaM ekTopNaÊ jaovaNaÊ kama yaaba_la baÜlaayalaa laagalaM kI hmaKasa BaaMDNa Jaalaca mhNaUna samajaa. barM yaa ivaYayaaMvar baÜlaU nayao tr %yaalaa Rejected vaaTolaÊ Concern nasalyaasaarKM vaaTolaÊ pNa tirhI yaa naa %yaa krNaaMnaI BaaMDNaM AaiNa vaad hÜtatca. malaa itqalyaa baáyaaca Procedures maaiht navh%yaa tovha tr p`caMD tNaava Asaayacaa. ³AjaunahI baáyaaca maaihtI naahIt.´ %yaacaM Frustration malaa kLtMya. AaiNa malaa ek CÜTa p`ya%na krayacaa Aaho %yaalaa yaatUna baahor kaZNyaacaa. pNa maaga- saapDt naahI. maI %yaalaa Counselling laa jaa AsaM saucavalaM tovha hI AmacaM BaaMDNa Jaalaa hÜt. tumhalaa kaya vaaTtM kI %yaanao kaya kravaMÆ yaa sava- gaÜYTIMcaa pirNaama %yaacyaa kamaavar AaiNa tbyaotIvar hÜtÜya. Deepstambh Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 7:33 am:      qaÜDM ivanaÜdI vaaTola pNa AgadIca tsaM naaihyaM.. %yaalaa maayabaÜlaI jaa^šna krayalaa saaMga.. %yaatlyaa %yaat isaMhgaD baIbaI var jaayalaa saaMga.. Indrajeeta Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 7:42 am:      dIpÊ malaahI to saaMgaayalaa AavaDlaMca AsatM pNa tÜ naa^na marazI AahoÊ AaiNa A%yaMt Reserve Aaho. pTkna %yaacaI kÜNaaXaIhI maO~I hÜt naahI. Moodi Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 8:14 am:      satt ifrava laagatya naÜkrIkrta ho %yaalaa jaacak vaaTtya kaÆ tI naÜkrI dusara pyaa-ya naahI mhNaunaca svaIkarlaI kI AavaD mhNaunaÆ jar AavaD nasaola trI %yaanao yaa Xahratuna dusaáyaa Xahrat jaatanaa toqaIla navaIna izkaNaaMcaI maaihtI Gao}na rIkamyaa vaoLat p`oxaNaIya izkaNao baGaayalaa kaya hrkt AahoÆ laÜkaMnaa tI pNa saMQaI imaLt naahI. XanaI - rvaIvaar Aaho kI %yaasaazI. %yaacyaa Xahrat jar marazI iknvaa Anya maMDLÊ clubs AsatIla tr to join kravao %yaanao. counselling caa pyaa-ya ekdma kuNaalaa saaMgau nayao karNa laÜkaMmaQyao maanasa Xaas~ AaiNa yaa ivaYayaacaI caaMgalaI maaihtI Ajauna jaÉr ittkI ÉjalaolaI naahI. tumacaa eKada svatM~ group Asaola tr %yaalaa hLu hLu %yaat saamaavauna GaoNyaacaa p`ya%na kra. %yaalaa AavaDt naahIt to ivaYaya TaLuna %yaalaa baÜlato krNyaacaa p`ya%na kra.%yaacyaahI AavaDIinavaDI jaaNauna to share krayalaa saaMgaa. maayabaÜlaI tr %yaanao join kravaIca. pNa dIp I am sorry tu jasaa dusaáyaalaa samajaavauna GaotÜsa tsao sava- AsatIla Asao naahI. p`ItInao jaovha join krNyaacaa p`ya%na kolaa tovha itcaI kXaI ]DvalaI to baGaItlaya.itnao bahutok saÜDlaI maayabaÜlaI. p`ItI tr lahana Aaho pNa ha maulagaa maÜza Asalyaanao %yaalaa jar itqao samaavata Aalao naahI tr %yaalaa AaNaKI frustration yaošla. ekmaokanaa samajaavauna Gao}na qa+a masakrI savaa-naa AMgavaLNaI pDlaIya pNa navaIna maaNausa ho sahna krIla kI naahI ho maaiht naahI. Ana maI ho [qao baÜlalao karNa tuJyaa samajautIcyaa 4 gaÜYTI inadana sava- na@kIca eoktat. %yaamauLo navaIna vya>Ilaa inadana sahanauBautInao p`vaoXa imaLola Asao vaaTtya. . . Sayonara Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 8:24 am:      AgaM pNa tÜ jar marazI nasaola tr %yaalaa maayabaÜlaIba_la kXaakrta AapulakI vaaTolaÆ XaovaTI %yaacaI maayabaÜlaI marazI naahI naaMÆ AXaa baabatIt malaa vaaTtM p`%yaokanao XaaMt basaUna Aaplyaalaa kÜNa%yaa gaÜYTI AanaMd dotat ho caacapDUna phaNaM garjaocaM Aaho. var maUDI mhNaalaI %yaap`maaNao tumhI %yaacao caaMgalao ima~ Asaala tr %yaalaa activities maQyao saamaavaUna Gyaayacaa p`ya%na tr na@kIca kÉ Xakala. %yaanaohI %yaacyaakDUna kahI interest daKvaayalaa hvaa maa~. Indrajeeta Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 9:22 am:      KrMtr malaa maaJaa p`XnaM ilaihtanaa Ôar Tension AalaM hÜtM pNa Aata AsaM vaaTtya kI maI hLUhLU tumhalaa %yaacyaaba_la jaast saaMgaU Xakona. maUDIÊ naÜkrIsaazI satt iÔravaM laagaNaM ho tr %yaalaa jaacak vaaTtyaM ho AgadI Kr. karNa %yaamaulao %yaacaM rahtM Xahr sauTlaM ima~ sauTlaoÊ AgadI eklakÜMDa hÜ]na tÜ dusaáyaa State maQao pDlaaya. ho naÜkrI %yaanao Aqaa-tca pyaa-ya mhNaUna inavaDlaI Aaho. %yaacao kahI ³Aaiqa-k´ Family Problems AahotÊ Anyaqaa %yaalaa Baart saÜDUna jaaNyaatca rsa naahI. tÜ saQyaa ijaqao kama krtÜ itqao 4 Days Week Aaho. pgaar BarpUrÊ sagaL\yaa Facilities pna manaÁXaaMtI naahI. %yaalaa p`oxaNaIya sqaLMÊ Clubs ikMvaa maMDlaM Asalyaa gaÜYTIt Interest naahI. tÜ kQaI kQaI malaa saaMgatÜ kI maI Aaja idvasaBar ekhI Xabd kÜNaaXaIhI baÜlalaÜ naahI. maI Aavaak hÜto. Counselling caa pyaa-ya saaMgaayalaa maI Ôar Gaaš kolaI AsaM malaa vaaTt naahIÊ karNa tovha pya-Mt baraca vaoL gaolaolaa hÜta. tÜ svatÁ Psychology AaiNa Counselling ba_la Bias Aaho. [tr laÜkaMp`maaNao %yaalaa vaaTto kI ‘vaoDo’ laÜk Counsellor kDo jaatat. AaiNa Aamacaa svatM~ Group AsaNyaacaM karNaMca naahI. karNa tÜ inavvaL maaJyaaXaIca baÜlatÜÊ to hI ÔÜnavar. maaJaa Group Asalaa tirhI tÜ [qao Baartat Aaho. %yaamauLo %yaalaa %yaacaa kaihca ]pyaÜga naahI. maI tr %yaalaa nakÜ to ivaYaya TaLtocaÊ pNa pihlyaaMda jaovha malaa to kLayacaM naahI tovha Ôar BaaMDNaM vhayacaI AamacaI. saayaÜnaaraÊ Aata %yaacyaa AMgaat [tkMhI ~aNa raihlaM naahIe kI tÜ svatÁlaa AavaDNaaáyaa gaÜYTI caacapDUna paihla. Moodi Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 10:07 am:      Aata maga malaahI kahI ]<ar saucat naaihyao. maga Kro tr %yaanao pOsao saazvaunaÊsvatacao Ana GarcaI kjao- Ana [tr AaqaI-k problems imaTvauna Baartat prtNao ho ]<ama. prdoXaI AnauBavaacaa Baartat fayada hܚlaca. ho far maÜzo dudO-va Aaho kI Aaplyaa laÜkaMcaa ha dRYTIkÜna kI vaoDo laÜkca maanasaXaas~&akDo jaatat. manaalaa pNa XarIrasaar#yaa vyaaQaI Asatat hoca maaNasao maanya krIt naahIt Ana KMgauna idvasa kaZt rhatat. jar AayauYyaacaa ]pBaÜga ekTopNaat jamavauna Gyaayacaa Asaola tr laayaba`rIÊ BaTkNao %yaatuna navaIna maaihtI Ana ima~ banavaNao ha samaRw AnauBava jamavaNao hoca mah%vaacao Aaho. Limbutimbu Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 11:11 am:      [nd`ijataÊ mauDI... maI kdaicat cauk Asaona pNa .. .. varIla laxaNao hI barIcaXaI gamaavat caalalaolyaa Aa%maivaXvaasaacaI Aahot Asao vaaTto² AaiNa jaÜ Aa%maivaXvaasa Xaabaut rahIlaolaa AsatÜ tÜ AhMBaava Xaabaut zovaNyaat KcaI- pDtܲ AXaI Avasqaa hÜNyaacao karNa AnapoixatpNao [ma^ijanahI na kolaolaI sankTo iknvaa pirsqaItI mhNau hva trÊ Angaavar yaovauna pDtat AaiNa Xaant ica<aana ivacaar krayalaahI AvaiQa imaLt naahI² AXaa vaoLosa kaya kravaÆ eKaVacaa Aa%maivaXvaasa prt ksaa imaLvauna VavaaÆ Kupca kzINa Aaho² AhMBaavaca Xaabaut zovaNyaasa JagaDa kravaI laagaNaarI vya>I dusaáyaa farca kmaI jaNaanvar ivaXvaasa qaovau Xakto Asao maaJao mat² %yaamauL %yaa vya>Icyaa ijacyaavar ivaXvaasa vaa Eawa Asaola itqauna tI vya>I ]paya isvakaÉna kÉ laagaola² kÜnato ]paya Asau XaktatÆ tr Aa%maivaXvaasa gamaavaNao mhNajao kaya ho tpasauna baGaavao laagaola² nava inaima-tI iknvaa kahI rcau XakNyaacaa svatÁba_lacaa ivaXvaasa kahI karNaanao DLmaLIt Jaalaa tr AXaI vya>I kQaI kQaI tÜla jaavauna inaraXaocyaa KÜla gato-t GarngaLu laagato² yaavar ]paya ekca kI AXaa vya>Ilaa satt kXaat naa kXaatÊ caangalyaa kmaa-t gauntvauna zovaNao jaoNaokÉna %yaasa inaraXaocaa ivacaar krNyaasahI savaD imaLu nayao² yaatunaca nantr svatÁ kÉ Xakt Asalaolyaa ivaivaQa inaima-tIncao Baana yaovauna AhMBaava jaÜpasaNyaa eovajaI ÌtIiXalata jaÜpasaNyaakDo kla vaaZu laagatܲ maa~ ho krtanaa dr vaoLosa p`a^D@TIvh iknvaa maako-T vh^lyaU Asalaolaoca kahI inamaa-Na kravao iknvaa hܚla Asao naahI AaiNa tXaI sa>IhI kÉ nayao² ekdakaÊ AjaunahI AapNa navyaanao kahI kÉ XaktÜÊ navyaanao kahI iXaku XaktÜ ha ivaXvaasa manaat inamaa-Na Jaalaa kI %yaacaI puZcaI payarI mhNajao AapNa saamaÜáyaa Aalaolyaa kÜNa%yaahI pirisqatIsa iktItrI ivaivaQa p`karo tÜnD dovau Xaku ha Aa%maivaXvaasa jaaga`ut hÜvauna inaraXaocyaa AnQaarI drItuna vya>I baahor pDto² hI sava- Baavaavasqaa farca gauntagauntIcaI va naajauk Asato² maI tr yaa Baavaavasqaolaa taplaolyaa kacaocaI ]pmaa došna. sahanauBautIcyaa hLuvaar qanDgaar sampka-nao doKIla hI kaca tDku Xakto² tovha AXaa vaoLosaÊ caala Zkla kÉna AaiNa sava-ca p`XNaanaa ]<aro XaÜQauna svatÁcaa Ana %yaa%yaa vya>Icaa gaÜnQaL ]Dvauna na dota kalahrNa krNao ha ]<ama ]paya Asatܲ varIla ivavaocana kovaL icantna yaa svaÉpat kolao Aaho² yaa p`karo icantna kolao karNa %yaa vya>Icyaa Ana tumacyaatIla sampk- kovaL fÜnavarIla samBaaYaNaaWaro Aaho² %yaamaula p`canD p`maaNaat mayaa-da Aahot² AaiNa XaarIrIk gaÜL\yaancao vagaOro ]pcaar GaoNyaasa saucavaavao kI naahI yaacaa kahIca Andaja laavata yaot nasalyaanao varIla ivavaocana kovaL cacaa-%mak samajauna GyaavaoÊ ]pcaara%mak navho² AajacaI maaJaI pÜsT na. baara kI toraÆ Moodi Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 11:32 am:      ilambyaa %yaacaa Aa%maivaXvaasa gaolaa Asaola Asao naahI vaaTt malaa. naahItr tÜ kama kÉca XakNaar naahIÊ Ana kamaca kolao naahI tr tÜ kuTuMbaacyaa AaqaI-k jabaabadaáyaa saÜDvau ksaa XakolaÆ tovaZo Baana tr %yaalaa AsaNaar ho na@kI. %yaalaa BaoDsaavatÜya tÜ ekTopNaaÊ kuTuMba Ana ima~aMpasauna duravalaolaI isqatI. šMd`jaIta yaavar ek dusara ]paya tulaa ivaica~ vaaTola pNa maaJyaa mato dusaáyaa navaIna counsellor laa ca navaIna ima~ banavauna %yaacyaapuZo ]Baa krNao Ana hI samasyaa saÜDvaNao. ho jara filmi vaaTtoya pNa hrkt kayaÆ Limbutimbu Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 11:46 am:      mauDIÊ cacaa- mhNauna... Aa%maivaXvaasa va %yaatuna ]%pnna hÜNaaro ivacaarÊ AaiNa kt-vya Baavanaotuna krIt rahIlaolyaa ÌtInmaagaIla ivacaar yaat baraca frk ho² maaNausa kt-vya krIt rahIlaaÊ baa(a%karI kma- krIt rahIlaa trI AntrI tÜ ekTa pDlaolaa vaa inaraXa nasaolaca Asa saangata yaot naahI² %yaacabarÜbarÊ baa(a%karI A%yant ]%saahanao mausamausalaolaa AntrI inaraXaocyaa kaLÜ#yaa AnQaarat caacapDt nasaola AsaohI saangata yaot naahI² inaraXaa baahor vya> hܚla AsaohI naahIÊ iknvaa inaraXaa baahor vya> kolyaanao tI vya>I inaraXaopasauna sauTka imaLvau Xakola AsaohI naahIÊ inaraXaa mhNajao kahI Pyaalaatlao paNaI naahI kI nakÜ vaaTlao tr idlao maÜrIt AÜtuna² %yaamauLocaÊ %yaa %yaa vya>Icyaa manaacyaa Antrngaat caalalaolyaa vaOcaairk vaadLancaa hLuvaar maagaÜvaa Gaot hI vaadLo ka ]d\BavalaI to baGauna magaca ksalyaahI inaYkYaa-pya-nt yaoNao Baaga pDto. manaÜBauimakocaI hI ivaivaQa AngaoÊ ivaivaQa isqa%yantratuna jaDt GaDt vaa ibaGaDt Asatat² p`%yaok p`XNaacao svaÉp va ]paya iBanna AsatatÊ va %yaaMsa Aa%maivaXvaasaÊ AhMBaava vagaOro Xabdancyaa kÜndNaat Xaas~Iya dRYT\yaa basaivaNao AXa@yap`aya nasalao trI Kupca AvaGaD kama ho² %yaamauLoca maaJyaa pÜsT maiQala ivacaar tulaa kdaicat pTNaar naahIt² baakI tumacao caalau Va² .. Limbutimbu Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 12:05 pm:      maaJyaa mato maaNausa inaraXa tovhaca hÜtÜ jaovha p`Pt pirisqatIt manaajaÜgato badla GaDvauna AaNaNyaacao svatÁcao saamaqya- Apur ho iknvaa sampla ho Asa Baasat tovha² e@klakÜnDopNaaÊ ifrtIcaI naÜkrI iknvaa irJavh-D ivaXvaat vaavarayacaI vaR<aI hI sava- baa(a%karI karNao hot Asao maaJao mat ho² p`XNa Asaa ho kI ektr hI pirisqatI maanya kÉna kalahrNa krNao jyaacao %yaalaa jamalao pahIjaoÊ va jyaacaa Aa%maivaXvaasaÊ svaktu-%vaavarIla vaa dova Qama- AašbaapÊ pap puNya AXaa ivaYayaanaa QaÉna puropur kaya-rt AsatÜ %yaa vya>I badlalaolyaa pirisqatIXaI ektr t%kailak jauLvauna trI Gaotat vaa kalahrNa krIt krIt pirisqatI badlavaayacaa p`ya%na krIt rhatat² baroca ivaWana saangatat kI BautkaLat rmaNao Kasa kÉna ihndU [ithasaacyaa baabatItÊ pap hoÊ GaÜD caukIca ho² tumhI [ithasa kurvaaLIt basauna vat-maana va ]jvala BaivaXyaakDo dula-xa krta hat² maI %yaapuZ jaavauna saangatÜ kI ivaiXaYz pirisqatIt BautkaL kurvaaLt basauna kma-hIna hÜNao jasao caukIca ho AgadI tssaca caalau vat-maanakaLÊ %yaat ]d\BavaNaayaa- ADcaNaI vagaOro baabaI kurvaaiLt rahIlyaanao Aa%maivaXvaasa gamaaivaNyaasa nakLtpNao madt hÜto² tovha p`XNa pirisqatIcaa nasauna prisqatIlaa tÜnD Vayalaa laagaNaaáyaa manaÜBauimakocaa ho jyaacao dusaro naava Aa%maivaXvaasa² pTt ho kaÆ hI vat-maana kaLat manaalaa gauntuna paDnaarI pirisqatIÊ kovaL Ana kovaL puiZla ]payaanaI dur hÜvau Xakto² 1. BautkaLat ta%purto rmaa² 2. vat-maanakaLatIla Anaok caangalyaa sauKdaš gaÜYtInmaQyao rmaa ( ho kizNa jaato ) 3. ]jvala BaivaYyaacaa ivacaarÊ vaoL pDlaI tr manaÜrajyao rcauna doiKla kra² pNa kahIhI kÉna baÜcaNaaáyaa KupNaaáyaa vat-maanakaLalaa kurvaaLuna Ga+ QaÉna basau nakaÊ %yaalaa [gnaÜr kraÊ %yaalaa ivasara² ho saangaNa saÜp hoÊ ÌtIt ]trvaNa kizNa ho² varIla hoca ivavaocana va ]payaÊ BautkaLat vaa BaivaYyakaLat rmalaolyaa va %yaamauL manaÁsvaasqya gamaavauna basalaolyaa vya>Inaa laagau pDtat² maI kala hÜtÜÊ Aaja AahoÊ ina ]Va AsaNaar ho ho maI jaovha bajaavatÜÊ tovha to dusaáyaa kuNaalaa nasauna maaJao malaaca maoiDToXana ( barÜbar ho naa XabdÆ ) kÉna Gaot Asatܲ AaiNa tsaohI [qa bajaavaayalaa SG Road trI ho² ( Balao kÜNa bajaavalaola eokuna GaoNaar nasalao trIhI ) %yaa ibacaaáyaalaa tsalao kahI nasaNaar² %yaamauL %yaacaI pirisqatI gaimBar AsaNaar yaat Xanka naahI² baakI ]Va² Dineshvs Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 12:13 pm:      šMd`jaIta. jao laÜk svatÁ maanasaÜpcaar krNaaáyaa DÜ@TraMcaI madt Gyaayalaa kcartat. %yaaMcyaasaazI baaK yaaMcyaa puYpÝYaQaI ]<ama Aahot. ho AÝYaQa %yaa vya>Ilaa na kLt dota yaoto. pNa %yaa vya>Icyaa satt saMpka-t AsaNao AgadI garjaocao Aaho. Divya Thursday, September 08, 2005 - 12:50 pm:      malaa Asa vaaTt ik tumacao AaQaIcao AayauYya ksao gaolao AaiNa naMtr tumhalaa pirisqatI kXaI samaÜr AalaI tovha %yaa badlalaolyaa pirisqatIlaa jauLvauna GaoNao jaovha jaD jaayalaa laagato tovha tI manaacaI GasargauMDI caalau hÜto ¤mana Kcaayalaa sauÉ hÜto¥. malaa svatalaa bayaa-cada jaD gaolao Aaho AajahI jaato trI manaalaa ]BaarI hI AapNaca VayacaI. pNa kuzotrI ek KuNagaaz p@kI baaMQaayacaI ik Aaja Aaplyaa manaasaarKI pirsqaItI naahI trI tI ]Va na@kIca hÜ[la Asaa AaXaavaad svatacyaa manaalaa satt bajaavaayacaa ih phIlaI payarI. jaovaZa Aaplyaalaa Aaja ~asa hÜtÜ tovaZI %yaacaI Barpa[ hÜNaarca yaatuna maaJao caaMgalao hÜNaar Aaho ha vaoL Ô> kaZayacao saamaqya- maaJyaat yaavao. inasaga- inayamaa p`maaNaoca maaNasaacyaa AayauYyaathI caZ ]tar AsatatcaÊ jasaa ra~I nantr idvasa zrlaolaa tsaaca badla AaplyaahI AayauYyaat hÜNaar. ha AaXaavaad QaIr Vayacao kama krtÜ. pmao-Xvaravar EaQda Asaola tr ]<amaca pNa nasaola tr Aaplyaa vaaT\yaalaa Aalaola kma- naIT krNyaa kDo laxa koind`t krayacaa p`ya%na kravaa. Deepstambh Friday, September 09, 2005 - 3:12 am:      [Md`jaIt.. %yaalaa khI motivational and inspirational sites jaXaa kI.. http://www.inspirationpeak.com AaiNa http://www.dobhran.com/inspire/index.htm yaa vaacaayalaa saaMga.. pNa tU ho mau_amahUna krt Aahosa Asao saaMgaU nakÜsa.. AgadI k^jyaulaI %yaalaa yaa saašT\saba_la saaMga.. %yaatlao ivacaar KUp baL do}na jaatat.. malaa vaaTto %yaanao svaÁtalaa far kÜMDUna Gaotlao Aaho.. AXaavaoLI AaQaI %yaacao mana qaÜDo maÜkLo krNao p`Xast zrola.. Bee Friday, September 09, 2005 - 6:22 am:      Indrajeeta, this is a case of culture shock. I have experienced it, six yrs before when I landed up to S'pore. It was nearly same like u described but I was very much conscious as to what going on with me. I was well aware about the fact that this is only due to I am new in this alien place. Then my friend's friend, Rani, has helped me by keeping at her home for 3 days. She had very big friends group, all south Indian. I was not willing to mix with them. They took me to Hindi movies and Indian restaurants. I was not at all flexible to move/talk/eat with all of them. But it was better to be with them than alone in those Chinese/Malay guest house. Culture shock, is not new to this world now since many foreign talent are moving from one country to other country. At least, I do not agree with taking him to some counselor. If he get same kind of atmosphere like in India, he will manage to stay more in present country where he is. Indrajeeta, if u could invite him to your place or rather u go and meet him, he may feel better. Since, he calls u up many times in a day, it means, he like ur company. So, why don't u help him some more to keep under ur supervision. Once he comes out of the stage, u can explain him that this is golden opportunity for him to work abroad. U can give him my example. I was running away from this country during the very first month, not giving me time to settle here. The moment I reached to Change Air Port, I gone down with the thought, oh no.. where did I come! Then my friend Nikhil, has told me do not miss this golden opportunity. U try to motivate him. If u take him to counselor, he may get conscious that something wrong going with him. Bring him back to peaceful mental condition. Since he does not get Indian food, lack of sufficient appetite leads to depression. Indrajeeta Friday, September 09, 2005 - 8:31 am:      baIÊ maUDIÊ ilaMbaUÊ dIpstMBaÊ idvyaaÊ idnaoXa tumha sagaL\yaaMcao AaBaar maanaavaot ittko kmaI Aahot. dudO-vaanao ho Kro Aaho kI %yaacaa Aa%maivaXvaasa par tLalaa gaolaa Aaho. Ô> naašlaajaanao tÜ Amaoirkot rahtÜ Anyaqaa %yaalaa itqao rhaNyaat Aijabaat rsa naahI. AaiNa Aa<aa %yaacaI Avasqaa AitXaya AvaGaD Aaho. AaiNa ho hLUhLU Jaalao Aaho. mhNajao ek ek gaÜYT %yaanao gamavalaI. pihlyaaMda puvaI-cyaa kMpnaItUna Resign kolaMÊ %yaamauLo naivana colligues AaiNa ima~ pNa karNa tÜ jaunyaa Colligues barÜbarMca rhat hÜta. naivana naÜkrIt iÔrNaoÊ mhNajao vaogavaogaL\yaa Client Locations var jasao jasao Projects AsatIla tsao iÔrayacao. ima~ ima~ imaLUna GarI banavaayacao qaÜDMÔar pNa [qao KaNyaacaohI hala. %yaatUna XaakaharI.. mhNajao Ajaunaca ADcaNa. maga ekTopNaa. Reserv Minded Asalyaanao kÜNaaXaIhI pTkna maO~I k$ca Xakt naahI tÜ. baI nao saaMigatlyaap`maaNao Culture Shock cao %yaacyaabaabaittcao ]da. mhNajaoÊ Baartatlao Team Work k$na %yaalaa savaya hÜtI. itqao hI Concept naahI mhNao. AaiNa AasalaI tirhI itqao Indians naa iktpt samaaivaYT k$na GaotlaM jaatM kÜNajaaNao. idnaoXaÊ sagaL\yaat maÜzI ADcaNa mhNajao maI Baartat AaiNa tÜ Amaoirkot Aaho. AaiNa tÜ itqao puNa- ekTa AahoÊ %yaamauLo AsaMhI hÜ} Xakt naahI kI mao %yaacyaa kÜNaa ima~laa pkDUna hI AÝYaQaM Vayalaa saaMgaU. Indrajeeta Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:02 am:      maI %yaalaa ekda kuzotrI 2 idvasa iÔrayalaa jaa AsaM saaMgaayacaa p`ya%na kolaaÊ pNa %yaanaMtr jao JaalaM %yaacaM naava toca. %yaanao malaa AazvaDaBar ÔÜnaca kolaa naahI. maQao %yaalaa GaXaalaa Severe Infection JaalaM hÜtM. %yaanaMtr %yaalaa 2nd Check up saazI 2 maihnyaaMnaIAjaayacaM hÜtM ha maaNaUsa Ajauna gaolaa naaihe. maI %yaalaa saaMgaUna qaklao. pNa tÜ jaatca naahI. AavaDtca naahI mhNao Da^@TrkDo jaayalaa. AaiNa %yaalaa raga tr Ôar lavakr yaotÜ. saarKM %yaacyaa AavaDIcaM baÜlaayacaM ho sagaLM KrM Asala tirhI kahI gaÜYTI yaa %yaacyaa gaLI ]trvaNaM garjaoca AsatMÊ to ksaM kravaM hoca kLt naahI. maga tÜ icaDtÜ AaiNa AazvaDa AazvaDa ÔÜna krt naahI. Kishori Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:05 am:      namaskarÊ ho KrM Aaho kI baahor Aalyaavar KUp ~asa hÜtÜ... AaiNa maga KUpca ekTM vaaTtM [Md`jaItaÊ AsaM hÜ} Xakola ka kIÊ Aaho %yaa kamaatUna sau+I Gao}na qaÜDo idvasa tÜ Baarta maQao Alaa tr %yaala qaÜDa badla imaLolaÊ prt jaatanaa qaÜDa fresh hÜ]na tÜ prt jaa} Xakola.... sagaL\yaat mah%vaacaM ho Aaho ik %yaacyaa manaÁisqatItUna baahor pDNyaacao p`ya%na %yaanao svatÁ ]maodI nao kolao pahIjaot. Bee Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:17 am:      maI [qao AalyaanaMtr caar maihnyaaMnaI Baartat baihNaIcyaa ivavaahakrIta jaavao laagalao. malaa KUp baro vaaTlao hÜto. mhNaUna vaaTtoÊ ikXaÜrIcaa sallaa caaMgalaa Aaho pNa Amaoirkocaa tÜca tr ek p`Xna Aaho kI Aaplyaalaa tI KUp dUr pDto. saVa sanaasaudIcao idvasa AahotÊ %yaalaahI AanaMd lauTta yaošla. %yaacyaat pirvat-na GaDUna AaNaNyaasaazI ha ]paya caaMgalaa Aaho. [nd`jaItaÊ eKaValaa Aaplyaa payaavar ]Bao rahU doNyaasaazI kQaIkQaI %yaa vya>Icao hat saÜDavao laagatat. tU %yaacyaakDo laxa AsaU do pNa tÜ AaNaKIca dubaLa hܚla [tkIhI sahanaUBautI daKvaU nakÜsa. Moodi Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:17 am:      nice ikXaÜrI maI pNa hoca mhNaNaar hÜto. Baartat yao}na tÜ tumha sava- ima~ maOi~NaIMbarÜbar Ana Aaš vaDIlaaMbarÜbar rahuna jara ÍoXa hܚla Ana maga tumhI sava- jamalao tr %yaalaa tovha baÜlato kÉna baGaa. maaJaa dIr Aaho baÜlaka pNa XaakaharI Asalyaanao KaNyaacaI pMcaašt Jaalyaanao japana maQauna 3 maihnyaat inaGauna Aalaa. pNa us laa tr Kro ADcaNa yaayalaa nakÜ sava- tr imaLto. Aqaa-t ho gaÜro %yaalaa iktpt samaavauna GaotIla ha p`Xna Aaho karNa AaQaIca tÜ frustrate Jaalaaya Ana maga naahI tÜ yaa laÜkaMmaQyao samaavau Xaklaa tr %yaalaa AaNaKI ~asa hܚla . %yaa poxaa qaÜD\yaa rjaovar %yaalaa yaayalaa saaMgaÊ mhNajao tumacyaa poxaa Aaš vaDIlaaMnaI %yaalaa ivacaarayalaa pihjao sau+Iba_la. Ana tu Aamacao AaBaar ksalao maanatosaÆ tu AaplaI vyaqaa [qao h@knao maaMDu Xaktosa kovhahI. Kishori Friday, September 09, 2005 - 9:29 am:      Qanyavaad maUDI AaiNa baIÊ %yaalaa KrMtr ho saaMgaayalaa hvaM ikÊ Aaho %yaa pirisqatI maQao saQyaa trI badla krNaM Xa@ya nasalaMÊ mhNajao naÜkrI saÜDUna Baartat kayamacaM prt yaoNaMÊ tr to naIT face krayalaa hvaMÊ itqao tÜ ekTa AsalyaamauLoÊ svatÁ caI kaLjaI svatÁ Gyaayalaa hvaI. maaNaUsa XaairrIk ir%yaa naIT Asalaa tr Aalaolyaa p`saMgaalaa samaqa- pNao tÜMD Vayalaa madt hÜto. Baartatlyaa %yaacyaa naatovaaškanaa AaiNa %yacyaavar p`oma krNaaáyaa ima~ maOi~NaInaa kaLjaIt TakNao iktI barÜbar AahoÆ inadana %yaaMcyaasaazI trI %yaanao KMbaIr rhayalaa hvao.....

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