gaaNao mhNaayalaa saaMgatatÆÆÆÆÆ
Kro kI kaya ²
malaa ho f> ihMdI movies maQao hÜto Asao vaaTt hÜto .
Qanya %yaa maulaIMcaI ²²
gaaNao hI hobby AsalaI mhNaUna kaya KP laa lagaoca gaayalaa saurvaat krayacaI Æ AaiNa to hI %yaa phayalaa Alaolyaa maulaa kDcyaaM cyaa saaMgaNyaa
va$naÆÆÆÆ
iktI trI excuses dota Alyaa Asa%yaa %yaa gaaNaaáyaa maulaIMnaa Ê Co imagine kolao trI HHPV hÜtoya !
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public, me raahulalaa bhetanyaaaadhi khoop KP anubhavatun gele aahe (6-7 tari). Pahilach anubhav kaayam lakshat raahilaa. (so is it like first love ;0)). kaahitari gondhal houn aamhi mulakade jannaar ka mulga aamchyakade yenaar hech kalale nahi. Doghehi aap-aaplya ghari ekmekanchi vaat baghat hote. sehvati babanne phone kela aani gairsamaj door jhala. Mulga aala. Very smart. obviuosly, aamahala aatlya kholit bolayala pathavale. Aamhi generally gappan marat hoto. Gane, movies, shevati eka taasane baherun aawaj...aare jhala ka tumcha...naaelaajaane baher jaoon basalo aani ha pathyaa bolayala tayar nahi. aat bad-bad aani baher maan khali ghalun basala hota. mala kalech na...ek shabda sudhdhaa nahi. normal chaha, pani jhala aani te gele. Mala tyacha te transformation khoopach vichitra vatala. eka tasaat tyancha phone aala. mulgi pasant aahe. pudhichi bolani karayala aamhi yeto. me ekunacha khoop uncomfortable hote. Babanna mhantala please mala tyachyaashii 2-3 tari boludya. Babanna patala. Tyannae tasa phone kela ke mulila parat bhetun bolachay tar hyanne mulgi forward aahe mhanun nahi sangitala!!!!!!!
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Milindaa
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 1:56 pm: |
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mulgi forward aahe mhanun <<<< kXaamauLo AsaM mhNaalaa Asaola barM tÜ Æ 
ilaMbaUÊ AXaI p`XnaavalaI doNao Xa@ya naahI. ek AnauBava Gao]naca yao pahU
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Lalu
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 2:17 pm: |
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tÜ ba^kvaD- Asaavaa. ..
Aaja punha [qao jaÜrat cacaa- idsato. Aalaoca maI.
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gaaNao mhNaayalaa saaMgatat. naXaIba saut dÜra AÜvauna daKvaayalaa saaMgat naahIt 
pNa Aajakala maulaM barIca mature Asatat. maI AjaUna kp caa AnauBava Gaotlaa naahI. ekca Gaotlaaya. tÜ pNa Acaanak zrlaolaa. %yamauLo maI Ôarca baosaavaQa hÜto.
%yaa maulaalaa AaiNa malaa jaoMvha Aat gaPpa maarayalaa pazvalao toMvha maI %yaalaa A@KI movie story saaMgaItlaI hÜtI. tÜ mhMTlaa kI Ajauna lahana Aahosa. pNa tÜ Krca maÜ{a hÜta maaJyaapoxaa. pNa we r still good friends AjaUnahI naivana movie Aalaa kI tÜ malaa story ivacaarayalaa ÔÜna krtÜ %yaamauLo AjaUna malaa kTu AnauBava Aalaolaa naahIyao. AajakalacaI maula barIca samajautdar Asatat. %yaaMcyaa
manaat clear idea Asato bahutokda kI na@kI kaya paihjao
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Keshar
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 7:02 pm: |
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rachana asatatch aas nahi !maza anubhav tar aasa aahe ki kahivela mul keval aai vadilansathi kahi sthal baghtat....tase maze kahi anubhav lihanar aahech ..aaj jara busy aahe!
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 4:06 am: |
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nauktaca maaJyaa maOi~NaIlaa Aalaolaa KP caa AnauBava... maulagaa UK maQyao AaiNa tÜ yao} Xakt navhta lavakr mhNaUna %yaacao Aa vaDIla itlaa ' phayalaa ' Aalaolao...
itnao pMjaabaI D/osa Gaatlaolaa tr to ca@k mhTlao " saaDI naosaUna yao. "
naMtr itcaI ]McaI %yaa maulaacyaa baihNaIXaI compare k$na paihlaI.
height mhNajao itlaa popr vaacaUna daKvaayalaa laavalaaÊ baÜlaNyaat kahI dÜYa naahI naa ho baGaayalaa²³ikMvaa
itlaa english vaacata yaotM ka ho baGaayacaM Asaola.´
to gaolyaavar tI saMtapanao AxarXa : rDt hÜtI.
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naMtr rDUna kaya ]pyaÜgaÊ Asalyaa laÜkaMnaI Asalao kahI krayalaa saaMigatlao AaiNa height mhNajao to itnao eoklao tovhaca sagaLo saMplao²
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Shraddhak
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 4:34 am: |
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naahI gaM DJ Ê %yaaMnaa ]laTUna baÜlalaI AsatI tr Aa vaiDlaaMnaI kahIca vaLNa laavalao naahIyao AsaahI Xaora maa$na
maÜkLo Jaalao Asato to laÜk² ]gaaca scene nakÜ create vhayalaa mhNaUna gaPp basalaI tI..
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hÜ ga pNa I guess itqaoca itnao %yaa maulaalaa saunavaayalaa paihjao hÜto. maaJyaa eka maOi~NaIlaa sarL sarL nakar idlaa
kI ek [Mca ]McaI kmaI pDto Aaho. hI kaya BaajaI maMD vaaTlaI kI kayaÆ 
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Shraddhak
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 8:10 am: |
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AgaM RB Ê maulagaa navhtaÊ Ô> Aa vaDIlaca Aalao hÜto... mhNaUnaca tr AsaM JaalaM naa. evaZ\yaa maÜz\yaa ³vayaanaoca
Ô>´ maaNasaaMnaa ksaM saunaavaNaarÆ
AaNaKI maaJyaa cousin saazI sqaL baGat hÜto tovhacaI gaÜYT.. itcaI ]McaI 5 - 2 saaMigatlyaavar maulaacao vaDIla mhTlao kI maulaIcaM vajana 55 iklaÜ ikMvaa %yaacyaahUna kmaI Asaola
trca daKvaNyaacaa kaya-Ëma k$... itcyaa vaiDlaaMnaI XaaMtpNao saaMigatlaM Aamhalaa tumacyaaXaI Aata baÜlaayacaI
sauwa [cCa naahI AaiNa ÔÜna zovalaa.. bahuQaa daKvaayalaa naolyaanaMtr %yaa maulaacyaa vaiDlaaMnaI itlaa
direct weighing machine var ]BaI kolaI AsatI...
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Bee
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 9:47 am: |
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gaolyaa AazvaD\yaat eka maulaIcaI maola AalaI. itlaa maaJaa email ID maaJyaa baihNaInao idlaa. tI Aamacyaa caste maQalaI hÜtI. malaa AaQaI maaJyaaba_la ivacaarlaoÊ maga baihNaIMba_la ivacaarlaoÊ naMtr %yaaMcao yajamaana
kaya krtatÊ maga taMcyaa maulaaMba_laÊ naMtr saasaU saasaáyaaMba_la ivacaarlao. (at jar kuzo kahI kmaI
pDlao kI tI punha vaOtagaUna maola ilahayacaI kI maI Amauk Amauk maaihtI naIT idlaIca naahI. Kro tr maaJyaa
kuTuMbaaba_la [tko Barmasaaz maI kQaIca ilaihlao naahI kI kQaI kuNaalaa saaMigatlao naahI. tIna caar panaaMcao
]<ar idlao trI %yaat itlaa ksar vaaTo. evhanaa malaa itcyaa p`Xnaacao laaMbalacak ]<ar Vayacaa caaMgalaa
saravahI Jaalaa hÜta. maI itlaa XaaMtpNao punha ekca ekca p`Xna ivacaarlaa kI AapNa kÜNa AaiNa ho lagnaaba_la
mhNat Aahat tr tI maulagaI kÜNa itcyaahI ba_la malaa saaMgaa. naMtr itnao AaNaiK p`Xna ivacaarlao AaiNa
dusaáyaa idvaXaI punha itcaI maola AalaI kI Aa mhNato maulagaa Cana Aaho pNa Aaplyaat %yaaMcao AaDnaava
AaiNa Aaplao AaDnaava imasaLt naahI mhNauna ho sqaL nakÜ. maI mauga igaLuna gaPp basalaÜ AaiNa prt kahI
ilahavaosao vaaTlaoca naahI. prt jara kuNaacaI caÝkXaI kaZaNaarI maola AalaI kI malaa hIca bayaa Aazvaola.
malaa jaata jaata Cana mhNaUna gaolaI ho Kup baro Jaalao
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Sahoo
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 11:36 am: |
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(ava$na kMpnaItIla maaJyaa eka ima~acaa AnauBava AazvalaaÊ
ha ima~ mauMbacyaa baahorcaa hÜta AaiNa tovha isaPJa Aa^ÔIsa maQao hÜta.%yaacyaa Garcao %yaalaa sqaLaMcaI
maaihtI kLvaayacao AaiNa maga saucavalaolaI maulagaI jar isaPJa iknvaa javaLpascyaa Aa^ÔIcao maQao Asaola
tr ha maulaIcyaa Aa^ÔIcaomaQao fÜna vagaOro k$na BaoTNyaacaI vaoL AaiNa jaagaa zrvaayacaa³bahutokda isaPJacyaa
gaoTvarca´ AaNaI maga e@maokanaa AÜLKta yaavao mhnauna maga specifications like mao kÜNata XaT- Gaatlaa Aaho etc.
(acaI KP caI AavaDtI jaagaa mhNajao sauQaa ivahar hÜTola ³jao isaPJa cyaa baahorca Aaho´ . 5:30 laa baGaNyaacaa kaya-ËmaasaazI baahor AaiNa 6:30-6:45 pya-nt prt Aa^ÔIsamaQao snacks saazI hjar. %yaathI maulagaI jar p`qamadXa-ina psant Asaola tr A/C maQao jaaNaar naahItr NonAc maQao
bahuda %yaacaa baayakÜlaa jaovha pihlyaaMda BaoTayalaa gaolaa tovha bahutok tuMgaa maQao gaolaa Asaola.
tovha tr AamhI %yaalaa mhNaayacaÜ kI evhanaa tr %yaa hÜTola nao tuJyaasaazI eKadI concession scheme vagaOro caalau kolaI Asaola.
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EaQdaÊ
malaa vaaTto jara saBya BaaYaot nakar Vayalaa hvaa hÜta itnao saaDI naosaayalaa mhNajao puZcaa scene TLlaa Asata.
AaiNa Aa vaiDlaaMnaI kaya vaLNa laavalaya vagaOro Xaora maartIla [tkI %yaaMcaI care krNyaa saazI to laÜk AaQaI itlaa 1% sauQda AavaDlao nasatIla yaacaI itlaa na@kIca Ka~I AsaolaÊ AXaa type cyaa laÜkaM kDUna to kaya mhNatIla yaacaI prvaa k$ nayao XaovaTI ²
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Lovevin
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 6:53 pm: |
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maajaa ek ima~ nauktaca BaartatUna prt Aalaa. tÜ saangat hÜta ik %yaanao puNyaat lagnaa saazI kahI maulaI
baiGatlyaa. %yaatlyaa ekInao (alaa yaa karNaa saazI nakar idlaa ik itlaa Amaoirkot Ô> dÜna vaYa-ca
rhayacaya %yaapo@Xaa jaast naahI. maaja,a ima~ mhNat hÜta ik %yaalaa A<aaca na@kI ho saangata yaoNaar
naahI ik %yaalaa ikit vaYa- Amaoirkot rhavao laagaola to.
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Eliza
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| | Wednesday, July 21, 2004 - 8:48 pm: |
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lovevin, hyaa muddyavar anek lagna julta-julta rahili aahet. malaa khanta ekach aahe kee muli ameriket na yeoon suddha hya babtit aapali mata banavatat. ethe pretyek gaav vegla, loka vegli. tumahala kashi sandhi milte, tumhi eetheli pressures kashi handle karta hyavar khoop avalambun aahe. loka avastav mahatva detat eethe rahanyaalaa.
Haa decision khoop dynamic aahe. Majha mavas bhau 'dot-com' cha eke kali DON hota. eethe 13 varsha rahun, citizenship gheoon, swatha ubhaarleli company partner la vikun to shevati punyala gela (mula 6-3 varshachi). This is b4 dot-com collapse. To mhanala me eethe kayam rahayachya hetune aalo hoto, pan jashi mula shalet jaoo lagali tasa mala parat javasa vatu lagala...its wasn't easy to wrap up a big business and start all over again in India.
tar ekun kaay, hya muddyavar tumhi ek-mekanshi charcha jaroor kara pan decision gheoon naka. aani tumahala jar asa koni bhetala kee jyala/jilaa aata tumchya kadun eethe rahayachi/parat jayachi commitment haviye tar tyanna hyatil asthirta daakhavun dyaa aani haa mudda kiti chukicha aahe he samajavun sanga.
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Eliza i think it is not proper to label anything as "wrong" or "right" as far as staying away from your country is concerned.
Pardon my memory, but just few days ago, i read on one of the BBs related to marriage, that a girl did not want to go any place where, her parents wont be able to come if they wish to meet her. I feel this is a very valid idea
Secondly, to what culture u are attached to is such an extremely personal issue. some people can adjust to a different place easily, others cannot, few others can put up with a foreign land for a short while, others cannot.
ho barÜbar Aaho kI itqao jaa}na AalyaaiXavaaya inaNa-ya GaoNao zIk naahI. pNa jaayalaa chance imaLalaa nasaola AaiNa lagnaanaMtr AapNa itqao sauKI rahU ka naahI yaacaI Ka~I nasaola tr " hÜ " mhNaNyaamaQao kaya Aqa- AahoÆ
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Bee
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| | Thursday, July 22, 2004 - 4:10 am: |
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baáyaacada malaa Asao vaaTto prdoXaat jaaNyaacaI saMQaI imaLta jaaNyaacaa inaNa-ya ijatka sahja Gao] XaktÜ
ittka prt maayadoXaI yaoNyaacaa inaNa-ya Gaota yaot naahI. ek dÜna vaYa- rahUna Gaota yaotÜ pNa ekda saat
Aaz vaYa- ]laTlaI kI maga kzINaca hÜto inaNa-ya GaoNao... AsaÜ.. ha mau_a [qao nakÜ pNa varcao pÜYT vaacauna
ilahavaosao vaaTlao.
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Eliza
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| | Thursday, July 22, 2004 - 1:16 pm: |
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aarti, looks like u have missed the point completely...(or may be I was not clear enough). All I was trying to say is that this is not something of a make or break issue when it comes to marriage.
If you are saying yes/no to someone just because they are/are not in India then its wrong. uda. tumhi mulga amerikechaa aahe mhanun lagna kelat aani udya tyacha lay-off houn to indiat aala tar tumhi tyala sodun denaar ka? tasach indiatala mulga udya project saathi eethe aala tar tumhi aai vadil bhetnaar nahi mhanun tyala sodnaar ka? majha ekach mhanaha aahe lagna hya muddyavar tharavu naye. u can have preferences, like shakyato indiatala mulga hava. aani this is the beauty of arranged marriage, kee tumhi asa preference thevu shakata. Majha evhadhach mhanana aahe kee when u guys r compitable, eethe kay aani teethe kay, whatever life serves you, you will be content. now again, without getting into whats right or wrong...I have expressed my openion and u r entitled to yours.
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Eliza, sorry if i have missed your point!
yes, it is true that it is not proper to make the decision of marriage based on whether is/is not staying in india.
But since it is arranged marriage, and u find that the 2 people are compatible, but still one wants to stay permanently in the US, and the other does not want to, then how to solve it?
In case of love marriage probably you have other stronger points, more of emotional involvment, u know how the other person is, and in all likeliness, you have decided how to sort of any issues between the 2 of you.
But in case of arranged marriage, when there is not much to bias you FOR a marriage (because it is probably only first/second meeting), based on what do you make the decision? It is a difficult decision to make. That is why i had said it becomes an extremely person specific issue.
About going abroad after marriage, agreed that you cannot avoid that, but at that time, in all likeliness the decision to stay or not is (at least supposed to be!) made by both, husband and wife.
NOw i hope I have made myself clear!!!
hope no hard feelings anywhere.
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Eliza
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 1:42 pm: |
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hey arti, no hard feelings. But I do feel very strongly about 'location' driven marriage (and again thats just me). In todays situation, arranged marriage is even more complicated than ever. Girls are equally or even more carrier orientated than boys. If somenone has a gr8 carrer in India and wants to pursue it, then will they give it up for someone frm US.
I also faced the same question when I met this guy frm B'lore. My first point was, why meet him if I am not gonna move to 'blore. What if he says yes and I say no (coz I am already biased). Is it wrong to expect him to move to Pune (his family is here anyways). So even before meeting him I had several doubts. This is where my cousin opened my eyes. She said that don't write him off just for this reason. Meet him, if you really like him, may be you will go to b'lore and have equally good job. May be he will decide to move here. Openess is very important. its important to think about possibilities than to think about hinderances. aani equally important to talk about it when u meet each other for those few important hours. She said, when you meet him, then only you will know if you give him and yourself a chance.
Majha ek mitra geli anek varsha eethe aahe aani sadharan dar don varshani to Indiala jato muli baghayala (rather jayacha as he is married now). He was telling me, mala je kahi 3-4 aathavade miltat indiat, tyat me pahile 2 aathavade muli baghato. time is already against me 15/365 x 2 is surely not good enough. So when I meet someone I atleast expect that she is open to explore life in US. After meeting the girl if she says, well I have come here only for aai-baba and I am really not interested in going to US then its just killing me. So he tells them b4 coming (if he has their email or contact), I will meet you if you are open enough as I can not garuntee a lifetime in US or in India (I wonder if he is open enough to move to India for a girl as he expects a gril to move to US with him).
Finally 'ho' kiva 'nahi' mhanana he poornapane tya don vyaktinvar avalambun aahe. If you are very sure that u don't want to go to US, don't meet someone who is in US or wants to live there. Meeting someone, emonationally exhausting yourself and them for hours and finally telling them, hey u r a gr8 guy/gal pan I don't want to go US is hrad on everyone.
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Arch
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 3:07 pm: |
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college maQyao maaJyaa vagaa-t ek maulagaI hÜtI. lagnaacyaabaabatIt itcaI ek AT hÜtI maulagaa pdvaIQarÊ QaOya-QarÊ
laxmaIQar vagaOro hvaa mhNaUna. XaovaTI eka businessman XaI lagna kola jaÜ pdvaIQar nhvata. toMvha mhNatoÊ Aga laxmaIQar Asalyaavar pdvaIQarcaI kahI garja naahI.
gaMmat mhNaUna ha ikssaa saaMigatlaa. XaovaTI maula maulaI kXaakDo baGaUna lagna
krtIla saaMgata yaot naahI
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Paragkan
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 3:17 pm: |
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Aamacyaa AÜLKItlyaa eka maulaInao maulagaa caaMgalaa Aaho pNa baoDkIhL\LI ³kI tsaca kahItrI´ AaDnaava
kahItrIca Aaho mhNaUna nakar idlaa hÜta.
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PK Ê
hI AT maa~ rast Aaho hÜÊ AayauYya Bar to AaZ\naava laavaavao laagaNaar mhNajao ........ . malaa maaJaa navara BaoTayacyaa AaQaI Aa baabaaMnaI maulao phayacaI zravalaI tovha maI hI AaZ\naavaÊ
address sagaLo eokayalaa discent hvao AXaI AT GaatlaI hÜtI .
mhNaUna maga Aanao vaOtagaUna maaJao malaaca XaÜQaayalaa saaMigatlaa navara²
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Paragkan
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 3:46 pm: |
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itcaMhI XaovaTI toca JaalaM. tUca tr navhosa naa tIÆ
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Arch
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 3:55 pm: |
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pragaÊ tU kola Asatsa baoDikhLiLkrXaI lagnaÆ
maaJyaa eka CanaXaa mhNajao idsaNa vaagaNaÊ baÜlaNa Cana AsaNaaáyaa maOi~NaInao maulagaa mallaKaMba krtÜ
mhNaUna naahI mhTla. ih ih ih. Krca
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AsalaM kahI saaMgat nakÜ jaa}sa gaM Aaca-² jaya QaÜMDIbaa²
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Eliza
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:04 pm: |
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this issue dosen't bother me karan me majha naav badalala nahiye...me tar mhanate...tya bedakee ka kay te..she lagna karun tyacha naav ka badalu naye muline
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Lalu
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:12 pm: |
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way to go Eliza! maI pNa naahI badlalaM AaDnaava. maaJyaa maahorcyaa AaDnaavaapoxaa kuzlaMca AaDnaava malaa AavaDlaM nasatM.
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Arch
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:16 pm: |
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Eliza Ê laalaUÊ tumacaI maula kÜNaaca AaDnaava laavatatÆ just a curiosity
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Yogibear
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:23 pm: |
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qaÜD ivaYayaaMtr....
ekca kuTuMba pNa p`%yaokacao vaogaLo AaDnaava... Is it worth it with all probs you have to go thru in regular day to day life when it comes to authenticate documents/etc!!!
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Eliza
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:27 pm: |
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i don't have any kids...jhali kee bahgu. Pan me santacruz la astanna medha patkar barobar swathala samaj karyat jhokun dilela ek kutumba aamchya shejari hota. Tyancha mulicah naav manaswini shalaka. no adnaav...just first name aani aaicha naav..I liked it a lot.
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Mvelanka
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:34 pm: |
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nakar imaLNao ikMvaa naapsaMtI kLNao ho vaaT ikMvaa kmaIpNaacao ka samajalao jaatoÆ
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Arch
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| | Friday, July 23, 2004 - 4:36 pm: |
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ivaYayaaMtr hÜt Aaho. pNa Aa maulaalaa janma doto %yaava$na Aa kuzcaI to nai@k kLt pNa vaiDlaaMcyaa
baabatIt tsa nasat mhNaUna vaiDlaaMca naava laavat Asaavaot. Just a guess.
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hehehe PK,
naahI Ê tI maI navhocaÊ tuJyaa AÜLKItlyaa maulaInao maulagaa caaMgalaa Aaho Asaa Xaora maarlaa mhNajao
itnao atleast maulagaa paihlaa Asaola ikMvaa photo trIÊ maaJaI tI hI tyaarI navhtI.
Aaca-Ê mallaKaMba
maaJaI Ajauna ek strong AT hÜtI XaaKot jaaNaara maulagaa nakÜ mhNaUnaÊ iXavaaya GarI laUMgaI naosaNaara maulagaa nakÜ hI pNa
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