Bee
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| | Friday, June 18, 2004 - 5:29 am: | 
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kRupayaa hya BB'war'hee aapale mat maanDaawe.. khup upayogaache hoeel.
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puiva-cyaa rajaomharajaanacyaa svayanvarasaarko kaya hܚla t bagaa
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Bee
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| | Friday, June 18, 2004 - 8:36 am: |
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LT-- I did not open this BB for making fun. I indeed need help on this topic, hence I started it. I hope you got what I mean!
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baI myaa baI Ôna krIt nhaya ro
puNyaamaMdI vaQauvarncao maoLavao Bar%yaatI. itqa AaxaI svayanvaraprmaaNaI Asa%yao baga kunaalaabaI [ccaaÉna²
Aapuna naaya gaolaÜ kid qat
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baIÊ kÜNatahI BB ]GaDtanaaÊ ijanao tÜ BB ]GaDlaa AahoÊ %yaa vya>Inao toqao AaQaI svatÁcao mat maaD,Nao Apoixat Aaho.
%yaatUna yaoqao AaQaIca yaa ivaYayaavar ek BB Aaho KP kaya-Ëma . %yaacaa vaapr kravaa hI ivanaMtI.
ilaMbaUiTMbaUÊ ijakDo itkDo Tamapasa kÉ naka. ivaYayaaXaI saMbaMiQat mato maaMDayacaI AsatIla trca yaoqao
ilaha
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Moderator_7
yassa sar²
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Bee
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| | Friday, June 18, 2004 - 9:57 am: |
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maa^DroTrÊ Qanyavaad. pNa tÜ baIbaI irkamaa Aaho. AaiNa baIbaIcao XaIYa-khI naIT naahI.
mala ithe wegawegaLee mate hawee aahet, related to paahaNeechaa karyakram. sarwasaadhaarapaNe mulagaa waa mulagee baghayala gelo kee chaha pohe aaNi mag bolaNee ase karyakramache swaroop asate. hyapekSha aaNakhi kaahee wegaLaa ritiriwaaj tumhee kuThe paahilaa kaa.. kinwa tumachyakaDe aahe kaa? BB'la anusarun aapale mat-wichar-anubhaw maanDaa itakeech apekSha aahe. dhanyawad!
PS- V&C chya BB war mee generally faarasaa lihit naahee karaN mee tithe tokaDaa paDato. paN niyameet waachat maatra asato. tenwha mee ughaDalelya BB'che mahattwa kamee hoNar naahee... hee aaNakhi ek apekSha!
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Ajjuka
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| | Saturday, June 19, 2004 - 7:02 am: |
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Moderator,
KP cha karyakram kasa asava asahi ek BB nukatach ughadala gelay. ha BB ani to BB ya donhicha uddesh ekach aahe tevha donhi BB ekatra karayala harakat nahi. nahi ka?
nothing against you Bee!
baki ya vishayavar comment karanyasarakhe mazyakade kahi nahi karan yatun mi kadhihi gele nahiye.
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Ajjuka
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| | Saturday, June 19, 2004 - 7:09 am: |
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ajun ek Bee, If you dont mind! KP che anubhav hi ithe mandale gele tar... I mean kasa asato... yatunach kaay nasave ani kaay asave he milu shakate na... bar KP cha kaaryakram he lagn nahi nahi tyamule pratyek gosht tharavata yeilach asehi nahi... bagh vichar karun...
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Bee
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| | Monday, June 21, 2004 - 2:01 am: |
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Ajjuka, harkat nahi. KP'chya karykramache anubhaw liha hehee mee war lihile aahech. aani ekada wishay suru jhala kee tyachya donhee baajuwar charcha hotech.. negative side, positive side..
tu jaree hyatun gelee nasel pan taree tujhe kahi khaas anubhaw asateel. te jar tula ithe lihayala jamale tar bare hoeel.
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Ajjuka
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| | Monday, June 21, 2004 - 3:36 am: |
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Bee,
ya sandarbhat majhe khas/ a-khas ase kahich anubhav nahit. mazyasathi sthale baghayala kadhi suruvaat ch zali nahi. shikshan, changalya sandhi, career, struggle etc etc mule aaibabanni mazyapudhe kadhi 'ata lagnacha baghayala hava!' asa baagulubuva kadhihi ubha kela nahi. They have supported me all along. ani he sagale chalu asatana mi eka project var Sandeep la bhetale. tithe aamache jamale. tya kahanicha ya BB shi kahich sambandh nahi ani publicaly share karanyachi mazi ichha nahi.
By the time I was ready to leave for US for higher studies, my parents had an idea about me and Sandeep. 3 years later, I finished my MFA programme at UGA and came back. Few months after that I got married to Sandeep.
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Bee
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| | Monday, June 21, 2004 - 3:50 am: |
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Ajjuka, chhan! tujhyawishayee waachun bare waaTale.
tu kinwa itar kuNee, swat:che anubhaw lihaa ase naahee.. itar kunache tyannee tumhalaa saangitalale..tumhee aikalele.. tumhee abhaasalele.. bagha jamel tase..
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malaa Aaca-nao %yaa lagna ksao Asaavao BB var maaMDlaolaa mau_a AavaDlaa. Xa@yatÜ maulaanao AaiNa maulaInao AaQaI BaoTavao. e@maokaMba_la Ka~I pTlaI
kI AaiNa trca Aa vaDIlaaMnaa BaoTvaavao. Aqaa-t %yaaMcao mat Gyaayacaoca naahI Asa naahI mhNat maI. pNa
Aajakla maula maulaI enough mature Asatat Asao malaa vaaTto.
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rcanaaÊ pNa AavaiDlaaMMnaa saangaunaca yaa BaoTI zrvaayalaa laagatat AaiNa pihlaa KÜ toca Gaalatat.
maaJyaa maavasabaihNaIcyaa baabatIt tr maulagaa saarKa itlaa maola pazvatÜ ho doKIla %yaacyaa Aalaa
AavaDt navht. %yaancaa hotU caangalaa AsaolaÊ mhNajao puZomaagao ho naat naahI jauLla kahI karNaanao tr
maulaInao maulaat iknvaa maulaanao maulaIt jaast gauntU nayao Asaa sauivacaar Asaola. maga kaya krayacaÆ
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Bee
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| | Tuesday, June 22, 2004 - 6:28 am: |
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malaa trI vaaTtM samaMjasa JaalyaanaMtr maulaamaulaIMnaa sara-sa BaoTu Vavao. Aaplaa jaÜDIdar inavaDtanaa
tÜ / tI Aaplyaalaa maaihtI AsaNao ho AiQak mah<vaacao as compared to what your parents know about him/her and their family. malaahI Aamacyaa AÜLKIcyaa javaLcyaa laÜkaMnaI sa> takId idlaI Aaho kI Aamhalaa ivacaarXaIla kuzo kahI
baÜlaNaI krtanaa.. maI mhNaalaÜ naahI maI itkDoca sagaLo zrvaUna yaotÜ 
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Orchid
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| | Tuesday, June 22, 2004 - 6:55 am: |
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Aamhalaa lagna zrvanyaapuiva- 4to5 vaoLa
BaoTNyaaica prvaanaiga
doNyaat Aaila hÜit.
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Orchid
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| | Tuesday, June 22, 2004 - 6:57 am: |
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%yaamauLo Aamhlaa Kup maÜkLopNaanao baÜlata Aalao.
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Orchid
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| | Tuesday, June 22, 2004 - 7:00 am: |
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gammat mhnajao ima maaJyaa
navayaa-la phayalaa gaolao
hÜto.
majhya likhanat shuddhalekhanachya farach chuka ahet.
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Orchid,
Xa@yatÜÊ Aaplao ivacaar kmaIt kmaI pÜsT maQyao maaMDa jyaayaÜgao jaast laÜkaMcao ivacaar yaoqao vaacaayalaa
imaLtIla ³35 pÜsT naMtr 1 archive tyaar hÜto´
dovanaagarI ilaihtanaa kahI ADcaNa AalaI tr yaoqao baGaa Formatting
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Giriraj
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| | Thursday, July 15, 2004 - 11:57 am: |
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itkDcaa p`Xna kDo TaktÜya...
KP mhNajao kayaÆ
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Aro igarIÊ KP mhNajao kaMdo pÜho.. maulagaI baGaNyaacyaa kayË-maat hmaKasa Asatat to...
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Keshar
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| | Thursday, July 15, 2004 - 11:09 pm: |
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Aani te bahutek vela mulikadchya lokani karyache...karan mulichya ghari karyakram asto...mulachya ghari asel tar aani mulga punyacha (kutahlihi peth aso) asel tar..pani hav ka? ithunch survat tevha phoe khup lamb mhanje vanyakadech rahile...
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Orchid,Aajakala maulaakDcao laÜkca baáyaaca vaoLa %yaancyaakDo baÜlavatat³ha maaJyaavaoLcaa AnauBava nasauna
Aa<aacaa tajaa AnauBava Aaho´ saQyaa maI maaJyaa maavasabaihNaIcyaa inaima<anao ho AnauBava Gaotoya.
%yaamauLo kandpÜhoÊ ka^ÔI vagaOro toca krtat. maaJaa svatÁcaa p`omavao[vaah AahoÊ trI pNa maaJyaa navaáyaanao
p`pÜja krNyaaAaQaI maI ha AnauBava ekda Gaotlaolaa Aaho³tÜ pNa puNyaatÊ saumaaro satra vaYaa-puvaI-´ pNa
it was a not a bad experience. As Orchid said maIca maulaalaa baGaayalaa gaolao hÜto.³kakakakUbarÜbarÊ malaa jabardstInao saaDI naosaNyaasa Baaga
paDlao hÜto AaiNa ibanabaa(ancaa blaa}ja Asalyaanao dÜnhI KanVavar pdrÊ klpnaa kÉna Aata KUp hsaU yaotya´.
maulaacao AavaDIlaca malaa maulaapoxaa jaast AavaDlao³maulagaa AavaDlaa naahI ho spYTca Aaho´. to Kup
Cana baÜlat hÜto. Gar vagaOro daKvaayalaa Aat baÜlaavaUna barÜbar caalatanaa maaJaI }ncaI AajamaavaNyaacaa
ek p`ya%na saÜDlaa tr sava- kahI izk Jaalao hÜto. AaiNa itqauna baahor pDlyaavar lagaoca kakU malaa mat
ivacaa$ laagalaI. maI mhnTla malaa Asa lagaoca saangata yaoNaar naahIÊ tr mhNaalaI kI baGa sqaLancyaa
]D\yaa pDtayat %yaacyaavar³manaat mhnTla maga maI kaya k$Æ´. kakakakU maaJyaa saar#yaa gairba baapaivanaa
vaaZlaolyaa pÜrIvartI evhZa ]pkar krt hÜto AaiNa maulagaI paha kXaI baodrkar Aaho Asaa havaBaava %yaancyaa
caoháyaavar hÜta. kovaL EaImant kuTumba Aaho mhNauna maI hÜ mhNaava AXaI %yaancaI Apoxaa hÜtI AaiNa nantr
jaonvha maI vagaa-tlyaaca maulaaXaI lagna krayaca zrvalaya Asa samajalyaavar p`%yakacyaa p`itiËyaa vaaKaNaNyaasaar#yaa
hÜ%yaa. karNa tÜ maaJyaasaarKaca iXakt hÜta Ajauna naÜkrIcaa p<aa navhta. nantr AamhI svabaLavar Aamaca
saundrÊ AanandI ivaXva inamaa-Na kolyaavar hIca laÜk tÜ maI navhoca Asao p`dXa-na krt hÜtI. sahja Aazvala
mhNauna ilaihla.
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Bee
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| | Friday, July 16, 2004 - 8:44 am: |
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Keshar, saheech .. ..
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Keshar
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| | Friday, July 16, 2004 - 10:35 pm: |
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bee ..are anubhavache bol aahet...arrange marriage chya...routine madhun aalyane..gav tashi manse aani vaykti titkya sanskruti anubhavalya aahet..barech bochare,nakharel,nako te,...pasun agdi premal anubahv hi ghetale aahet...vel milala ki share karel..
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Bee
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| | Saturday, July 17, 2004 - 4:12 am: |
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Keshar, nakkee kar.. tu mhanate aahes te khare aahe..
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Globeguy
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| | Monday, July 19, 2004 - 7:17 pm: |
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keshar:looking forward to read your experiences
Abhishruti: your narration is indeed interesting. As such, things haven't changed a lot in 17 yrs - and nor has the recipe of 'kanda-poohe'. )
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U R absolutely right! There is not much change in the procedure as well as both the sides. I still remember as the boy was not asking me questions(not ready to communicate) I asked him few questions about his education. And in return when they wrote a letter to my mom, they said maulaIcyaa manaat maulaacyaa iXaxaNaaivaYayaI Xanka idsatat² maI kpaLavar hat maa$na Gaotlaa.
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Bee
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 6:18 am: |
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Abhi LOL asehee hote kaa ag??? dewaa .. kase hoNaar
mala waTate purwee sarakhee itakee paristitee rahilee nahi. mula muleennaa changale tonD war karun ekamekaanshee bolata taree yete.. nahitar purwee muleelaa kuthe options asayachee.. mulala mulagee pasant tar zale saawadhaan. mag ghar ek ghar. paN hallee muleennaa baL aale aahe. tya chhan puDhakar ghetat. tu tya patrache uttar diles kee nahi mag?
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maI kaya mhNatÜ kI maulagaa maulagaI bagaacyaa AaQaI toncaa ÔÜTu bagat AsatIla naaÆ kI Dayaro@T bagaayalaaca
jaatatÆ
maaJyaaÔuD yaogaLaca p`ENa hayao. samajaa ÔÜTut maulagaI barI vaaTlaI Aana maulagaI bagaayalaa gaolyaavar
naapsand JaalaI tr to saangaayaca ksaÆ mhnjaI irjao@Xanacaa karNa kaya VacaaÆ
Aana maulaakDIca kaya-Ëma hvaa mhnjaI maulaIlaa huba AayauYya ijaqa kaZayaca to Gar ksa hayao to bagata
yao[la. hÜ kI naahIÆ
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lol ABaIXaRtI... maaJyaa eka maOi~NaIcyaa KP p`Üga`^malaa maulaanao ivacaarlao kI kahI p`XNa Aahot ka tulaa tr itnao kahI na ivacaarlyaamauLo %yaaMcaa
ÔÜna Aalaa hÜta kI vaaTlao naahI maulaIlaa Ôar kahI interest Aaho Asao. %yaamauLo preference dusarIlaa idlaa hÜta.
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Orchid
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 7:33 am: |
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Abhishruti,
Qanya Aaho %yaa laÜkancaI²
maaJaI tr HHPV Jaaila
AaiNa hÜ 17 vaXaa-nantr Ajaunaih AXaIca AacarT karNao do]na lagna maÜDlao jaato.
maulaiga baGaNyaacyaa kya-Ëmaat savaa-t irritating gaÜXT mhNajao mauilalaa gaaNao mhNaayalaa laavaNao. ha kaih manaÜrnjanaacaa programme Aaho kÆmaaJyaa ik%yaok maOi~inanaa ha AnauBava Aalaolaa Aaho.
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Milindaa
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| | Tuesday, July 20, 2004 - 10:16 am: |
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ksalaa CMd Aaho yaa p`Xnaalaa gaaNaI mhNaNao Asao jar ]<ar Aalao tr AsaMca hÜNaM svaaBaaivak Aaho.
]<arM kaya VayacaI ha ivacaar krayalaa nakÜ ka maulaInaoÆ naÜkrIcyaa maulaaKtIlaa jaatanaa ksaM zrvaUna
jaata kI kaya baÜlaayacaMÊ kaya naahI... tsaMca Aaho ho. XaovaTI tumhI svatÁlaa toqao ksaM saadr krta
yaavar AvalaMbaUna Aaho ho.
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imailanda malaa yaok saanga AaQaI kI p`ENa ksalao ksalao ivacaarayacao AsatatÆ yaadI do baGau mhnjaI maga
]<aro pNa tyaar kÉ
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Limbutimbu, tumhalaa pDlaolyaa p`XNaacao ]<arÊ maulagaI ÔÜTÜsaarKI idsat nasaola trÊ mhNao ekda ÔÜTÜ pahuna AavaDlaI
mhNauna maulagaa maulaIlaa phayalaa gaolaa AaiNa %yaa maulaIlaa imaXyaa hÜ%yaa³mhNajao AÜzavar qaÜDIXaI
lava´tr tÜ sarL gaaNa mhNau laagalaa jaÜ baat tuJamao hOÊ torI tsavaIr mao nahI². Jokes apart, I think looking at the photo should be the initial step before actually meeting the person. Here point is not only the outer beauty but certainly after seeing the photographs u can match it with ur idea of ur partner. Again outer beauty is not everything and no one should give first priority to that, but in arrange marriages that is what u get to see first so u have no choice. Meeting, roaming, chatting comes after that.
Orchid, malaa %yaa maulaacyaa GaÉna nakar yaola Asao vaaTlao pNa Aalaa naahI. tÜ AaiNa maI mhNajao AgadI Amaavasyaa
pÜiNa-maa AXaI jaÜDI idsalaI AsatI. trI maaJyaa Garcao laÜk KuXa Jaalao AaiNa malaa ]%saahanao ivacaarayalaa
AalaoÊ maga maI baa^mbasÔÜT kolaa kI maaJa ABaIvar p`oma Aaho² puZo kaya Jaala Asaola to tumhIca klpnaa
kra.
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