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Raatrani Thursday, September 09, 2004 - 2:44 pm:      baIÊ pi~ka baGaNaM qaÜDM mah%vaacaM Aaho. karNa %yaavaÉna maanaisak isqatI doKIla samajau Xakto. maaJyaa naa%yaat eka maulaacao Asaca lagna JaalaM Ê pi~ka na baGata vagaOro. AaiNa baayakÜ maanaisak ÉgNa Aaho ho naMtr kLlaM. itcyaakDo baGauna AsaM vaaTthI navhtM² pNa Garcyaa laÜkaMnaa hLuhLu Asao AnauBava yaot gaolao. XaovaiT kLlaM kI itlaa hamaÜ-nala baalaonsa saazI itcyaa GarcyaaMnaI gaÜL\yaavar zovalaM hÜtM²³ Aata %yaacaa GaTsfÜT Jaalaa Aaho.´ itcaI pi~ka jaovha eka caaMgalyaa jyaÜitYaalaa daKvalaI ³ %yaa jyaÜitYaalaa hI pi~ka kÜNaacaI ho hI maahIt navhto.´ Ê %yaanao barÜbar saaMigatlao hI vya>I manaisak ÉgNa Aaho. inadana Aaplyaalaa puZo KTkNaaro vaOgauNya jar AaQaIca kLt Asaola tr tovhZ\yaapurtM ka hܚnaa pi~ka baGaayalaa hrkt naahI.

Anjali28 Friday, September 10, 2004 - 3:14 pm:      baIÊ pi~kolaa Krca farsa mah%va do] naka. Kasak$na tumacyaa bahINaIcyaa lagnaat [t@yaa ADcaNaI Aalyaa hÜ%yaa AaiNa Aata sava- kahI jauLto Aaho. maaJyaa maaihtImaQalyaa eka maulaacao Asaoca pi~ka caaMgalaI parKUna Gao]naÊ %yaaMcyaa gau$laa maulagaI daKvaUna vagaOro lagna Jaalao. pi~kotlao 32 gauNa jauLt hÜto. AaiNa lagnaacyaa ra~Ica kLlao kI maulagaI manaÜÉgNa Aaho² vaOVkIya iXaxaNa GaoNaaáyaa maulaI kDo pahUna vaaTthI navhto.. %yaa maulaanao %yaacyaakDUna lagna saavaÉna Gyaayacaa KUp p`ya%na kolaa. pNa kaihhI inaYpÙ Jaalao naahI. lagnaalaa 10 vaYao- JaalaI Aahot pNa ekUNa sahvaasa vaYa-Baracaa doiKla naahI...AaiNa Aata tI maulagaI GaTsfÜT dot naahI. ta%pya-Ê pi~kovaÉna svaBaava kLtÜca Asao naahI.

Yog Friday, September 10, 2004 - 5:00 pm:      baroca AnauBava va cacaa- vaacaayalaa imaLtayat. malaa trI Asa vaaTat kI pi~ka jauLNao vaa na jauLNao hI ADcaNa Asato ikvvaa nasato. yaat caUk barÜbar kahI naahI. Kr tr ha jyaacyaa %yaacyaa ivaXvasaacaa p`XNa Aho. XaovaTI lagnaa nantr dudO-vaanao kahI vaašT GaDlao trÊ trI saangat hÜtÜ kI pi~ka baGaa Asa mhNaaNaaro ikvvaa pi~ka na baGata AgadI sava- sauKat caalala Aaho Asa mhNaNaaro ikvvaa sava- ATItTI pTvalyaavar lagna k$na maga yaa gaazI svagaa-tca jauLtat Asao mhNaNaarohI laÜk Aahot. tovha %yaa mataMnaa Ôarsaa Aqa- rhat naahI. XaovaTI jyaalaa krayacao Aaho %yaacaa yaavar iktI ivaXvaasa AahoÊ %yaacyaa GaratIla laÜk pi~kolaa iktI mah%va dotat yaalaa mah%va Aaho. var kahI manaÜ$gNa ikvva cancer pateint saar#yaa dudO-vaI GaTnaa idlyaa Aahot %yaahI pi~ka jyaalaa naIT kLto to %yaaba_la probablistic mat ikvvaa sallaa dovaU Xaktat. like any other science, horoscope or astrology is also probablistic science mhNaUnaca yaatIla jaaNakar laÜk iktI probablity Aaho yaavar AiQak Baar dotat. kahI ga`h va [tr gaÜiYTMva$na AXaa kahI Anapoixat vaa dudO-vaI gaÜYTI GaDU XaktIla vaa naahI evhDoca phata ikvvaa probablisticaly saaMgata yaoto. finally its not possible to get each and every detail of the person and the family. ekndrIt pirvaarat kuzlaohI genetic disease vagaOro naahIt naa [tko AapNa caÝkXaI k$ XaktÜ. ikMbahunaa mhNaUnaca pUvaI-pasaUna maaihtItUna Aalaolao sqaL ikvvaa Aa<ao maamao [%yaaidMcaI jaujabaI caÝkXaI vagaOro yaalaa mah%va hÜto. maulaalaa tsalao kahI rÜga vaa savayaI naahIt naa ikvvaa maulaIlaa tsalao kahI s~IrÜga vagaOro naahIt naa yaa baabaI caar caÝGaat ivacaarta yaot nahIt tovha pi~kotIla tsao reading vaa vaiDla maMDiLMXaI cacaa- [trankDUna maaihtI yaa AaQaaro inaNa-ya Gaota yaotÜ. problems kuNaalaa yaot naahIt Æ XaovaTI to TÜkacao yaoNaar naahIt naa [tpt phaNyaa saazI pi~kocaa vaapr kolaa tr AiQak ]pyau> hܚla Asao vaaTto. XaovaTI AaplaI EawaÊ ivavaok vaa bauQdI jao kahI AapNa maanatÜ %yaalaaca Qa$na rhayalaa hvao. naaihtr Aaja mhNaayacao pi~ka pahU va kalaaMtranao jamat naahI ikvvaa vaya jaatoyaÊ sqaLo jaatayat [%yaadI mhNaUna pi~ka phaNao nakÜ AXaI tDjaÜD kravaI laagato. ektr pUNa- ivaXvaasa zovaavaa ikvvaa maga zovaUca nayao. dÜnhI baabatIt puZo kuNaacyaa hatat kaya Aaho ho implicit sa%ya maanya Asaola tr Ôrk kuzo pDtÜyaÆÆ

Punyanagarikar Friday, September 10, 2004 - 5:49 pm:      yog tumacao sava- mau_o pTlao. kdicat maI jao ilaihto Aaho to [qao appropriate nasaolaÊ pNa pi~ka baGaNao (alaa Aajauna ek baajau Aaho. jyaanaa future ica iBait vaaTto to p`itkocaa AaQaar Gaotat. mhNajao ‘puZo kaya hÜ[la’ (aica iBait vaaTto. vastut puZo kaya hÜ[la ho kÜNaIca saangau Xakt naahI with or without pi~ka. tovha ho fear of the unkown saarKca Aaho. It is after all a statistical science. and all statistics should be taken with a pinch of salt. [qao malaa kuzlaa hI vaad Gaalaayaica [Ca naahIÊ maaJaa Asaa samaja AahoÊ evaZca. Asa samajalyaanaI dovaavar ivaXvaasa naahI vagaro conclude kÉ naka. Aajauna ek mhNajao sarL sarL nakar doNyaa po@Xaa ‘pi~ka jauLt naahI’ ho saingatla ik dÜnhI baajauncaa maana rhatÜ. baIÊ maI tumhalaa evaZca sangaInaÊ ik Ôar laÜkaM cao opinions Gaot basau nakaÊ tumhalaa p`%yaok jaNa vaogaLca kihtir saangaola. tumacaa AaiNa tumacyaa baihiNacaa ivaXvaasa AaiNa kla baGauna yaÜgya tÜ inaNa-ya Gyaa good luck.

Raatrani Friday, September 10, 2004 - 7:14 pm:      pi~kovaÉna svaBaava kLtÜca Asa naahI.....pNa kLt naahI AsahI naahI.² XaovaTI jao vhayacaM to hÜtca Asat. pNa inadana pi~ka baGauna kolaM tr naMtr pi~ka baiGatlaI AsatI tr barM JaalaM Asat Asa tr vaaTNaar naahI. baIÊ XauBaocCa.

Wakdya Saturday, September 11, 2004 - 3:05 am:      Yog tumacao mau_o sausaMgat pTNaaro Aahot

Bee Thursday, March 03, 2005 - 11:11 am:      kLivaNyaasa A%yaMt AanaMd hÜtÜ Aaho kI gaolao pMQara vaYa- AamhI maaJyaa tašcyaa punaiva-vaahasaazI ksaÜiXanao p`yaasa krt hÜtÜ %yaalaa yaXa Aalao. 24 tarKolaa itcao lagna AanaMdanao par pDlao. maayabaÜilakraMkDUna imaLalaolaI madtÊ sahanaUBautIÊ AaQaarÊ XauBaocCa -- (a sagaL\yaaMba_la maI %yaaMcao manaÁpUva-k AaBaar maanatÜ. ek saaMgaavaosao vaaTtoÊ ho sqaL jaoMvha Aalao hÜto %yaavaoLI taš AaiNa GaratIla AamhI sagaL\yaa jaNaaMnaI ek inaQaa-r kolaa hÜta. Aaš AaiNa taš šXvarajavaL ]Bao rahUna mhNat hÜ%yaa .. bassa ha Aata XaovaTcaa p`ya%na. maIhI sagaL\yaa AaXaa saÜDlyaa hÜ%yaa. pNa šXvar AMt pahtÜ to (alaaca mhNatat ka ho lagna XaovaTI jauLUna Aalao.

Abhishruti Sunday, April 03, 2005 - 4:56 am:      baIÊ manaapasaUna tumacao AaiNa tumacyaa tašcao AiBanandna² itcyaa ivavaahIt jaIvanaasaazI XauBaocCa²

Bee Sunday, April 03, 2005 - 5:39 am:      [qao ilahayalaa ]iXar hÜta Aaho pNa manaapasaUna tumacyaa XauBaocCaMba_la maI manaÁpUva-k AaBaarI Aaho.

Ameya007 Wednesday, April 06, 2005 - 7:44 am:      Hi friends. maza kahi divasanpurwi lagna tharala ahe and tevapasun me ani mazi fiancee amhi bhetat ahot. char pach vela amhi bhetlo ahe ani ek divs aad phonecalls hotat. pan itke divas hovun sudha ajun mala tichyabaddal jast kahi feelings vatat nahi. prem lagech honar nahi he samajta ahe. amhi ekmekanna bhetato teva fakta physical attraction aste pan emotionaly kahi attachment ahe kimva hote ahe asa vatat nahi. anekwela amhi bhetlo tari amhi ekmekanshi jast bolat nahi. it's not that i dont like her, pan ti barobar asli tari jast gappa maraychi iccha hot nahi. ekhadi goshta sangavi asa vatat pan tari bolali jat nahi. tichya barobar kantala pan yet nahi pan kahi bond develope hoto ahe asa kuthe vatat nahi and so i am worried. me tichyashi ya vishayawar bolalo teva tila pan asach hota asa ti mhanali. arranged marriages madhe saryvanche asach hote ka? or he kahi odd ahe? amhi lagna karnyabaddal punha vichar karayla hava ka?

Sayonara Wednesday, April 06, 2005 - 9:28 am:      arranged marriage ba_la malaa kahI AnauBava naahI pNa bahuda AsaMca hÜt AsaavaM. XaovaTI p`oma ho sahvaasaanao vaaZtM. AaiNa tumhI Aa<aapya-Mt iktI vaoLa BaoTlaa AahatÆ karNa tÜDNaM saÜPpM AsatM AaiNa jaÜDNaM kzINa. %yaamauLo Asaa TÜkacaa inaNa-ya GaoNyaapUvaI- qaÜDa vaoL Va.

Bee Wednesday, April 06, 2005 - 2:05 pm:      Amey- mala nahi waTat tu punha wichar karawas mhanun. ulaT asa wichar kar kee kay karawe jeNekarun doghanchee maitree waDhel. tyasathi Sayonara sangate tyapramane prem he sahawasane waaDhate.. mee ase mhaNel te sahawasane aaNi susanwadane adhik waDhate. pati patni madhe aakarshan asane hee baab atyant mahattwache asate je tumha doghat aahe. tula tee awaDate .. haLuhaLu maitree hoeel .. ekamenbaddal prem aaNi wishwas waaDhees lagel.. arrange marriage madhe ase ghaDane khup sahajik aahe. tu tila "tulahee asech waTate kaa...?" ase wicharayala nako hote. tujhyapeksha teech aataa wicharat sapaDalee asel. tasa mee bachelor aahe, rahawale nahi mhanun lihito aahe. abhinandan aaNi shubhechchha, doghannaahee!

Divya Thursday, April 07, 2005 - 7:57 pm:      Bee salla dyayla married asalach pahije kay? Tashi mi hi unmarried aahe mhana....pan rahavala nahi mhanun sangte.....Ameya.... tumhi Dil Chahta hai baghitala na... tyat Sameer aarange marragela sahamat nasto...pan tari tya Pooja chya premat padto..... Tumachi personality agadi sameer sarkhi nasali tari "jise dhundtahu mei...woh ladki hai yahaan" paryant nakki jal Facta tichyashi tharvun bola mhanje tila kay aavadte khayla karayla baghayla eikayla tumachya aavadi tila sanga. Movie baghayla gheun ja, garden la nya zoo asel ter zoo la sudha, masta icecream khayla ja, bhel khayla nya, fun fair la gheun ja,tumhi rahata tithe firay sarkhi thikane ji vishesh couples firaysathich famous aahet tithe gheun ja mag bagha kay jadu hote te tumhala tichyashivay karamnarach nahi.... Ani he divas kharach aayushya bharachya sweet memories astat band kupitalya attara sarkhya

Nakshatra Thursday, April 07, 2005 - 8:39 pm:      Sorry for writing a long post in english...no time for devnagari today... Since so far no married person has written so far, I take the opportunity to pitch in. I have a decent amount of experience in this area (5 years of marriage arranged). I am quite delighted to know that you accept the fact that you can’t just grow love one fine day for a stranger it takes time and I am going to disagree here with Bee and say that I think you did a smart thing by discussing this with your fiancé. And I am glad that you have this issue out in open now and you guys are working together to do something rather than hiding the reality. Generally all girls like to do romantic things. We girls have been brainwashed by the society such that going to a nice cozy restaurant, getting flowers, getting romantic gifts makes us feel loved and we start reciprocating it. Take advantage of that. I am not asking to fake your emotions, just giving you tips that might help you to create a bond. Talk to her and get to know her interests, find common things to do, common interests that you can talk about spend time with your/her family (That’s very important I can’t stress the importance enough...it's not just romantic things but families also help to create a bond...a feeling of togetherness...espcially in Indian culture) and I can assure you that you’ll definitely start feeling something special I have to warn you here that even after doing things together and being together for a considerable amount of time if you don’t feel anything, or don’t find common interest, or don’t find each other interesting to spend time with or talk too reconsider it’s always good to reconsider before the marriage than entering into a bad marriage knowing that she’s not the one But, GIVE IT SOME TIME. Arranged marriages are harder than love marriages. You are not used to the other person who might have different nature than yours. So keep that in mind and don’t give up too easily. It’s definitely worth the effort That’s all I can say Good Luck

Lalu Friday, April 08, 2005 - 3:58 pm:      Nakshatra, .. Good one!

Prajaktad Friday, April 08, 2005 - 8:56 pm:      nakshatra! tu yaÜgya ilahlasa²Amaoya gaÜMQaLu nakÜ ro baabaa²pNa p`%yaok inaNa-ya Gyaayaica ek vaoL Asato AaiNa maagao hTnyaaica pNa²..tu pNa baÜla.. hÜnaaryaa baayakÜlaa baÜlat krÊtuJya GaraivaYaiyaÊGaratlyaa laÜkaMivaYaiya %yaaMcya svaBaaivaYaiya saaMga. tuJyaa AavaiD inavaiD ... etc points nakashatara nao saaMigatlao Aaho%ca²tI pna baÜlait hÜ[la²Ôar AvaGaD naaih ro² good luck lagnaalaa baÜlava²

Afriend Tuesday, April 12, 2005 - 2:03 am:      Ameya , Nakshatra is right. Tumhala doghanna ekmekana thoda wel dila pahije. itkyat prem develop hona kathin aaahe. jevaha aranged lagna jamta te mostly practical points war jamta..muliche shikshan, tiche ghar her looks etc..and vice versa.. tyamule ekmekan baddal prem watna itkya lavkar kathin aahe, thats perfectly normal .First try to become good friends. It is really nice that you have opened up to each other. not many people can do that during first days of arranged marriage.one thing i had realised in so many years is that mulinche romance baddal che funde mulan peksha wegle astat. Let some time pass by and you both will start to develop feelings for each other. You are about to embark upon a beautiful journey of your life. Trust me you will cherish these precious moments for years to come... Best Luck and God Bless you both..!!

Mruda Sunday, April 17, 2005 - 4:46 am:      Hi All Nakshatra ne sarva bajunni wichar karun lihilay. Ekdam sahi..! "Shadi KArane ke liye pyar karana jaruri hota hai" he DCH madhala filmy wakya sampurna khara nasala tarihi bhawanik "koradepan" kinwa fakta physical attraction ( jasa Ameya007 ne lihila ahe) he long term sathi kadachit frustrating thraranyacha sambhav rahato. Karan lagna nantarchi nawi nawalai sampali ki sharira pekshahi manane jawal asana faaaar jasta mahatwacha. PAn ek mahatawachi gosta mhanaje Ameya he tichyashi bolu shakal ani tinehi he expression +vely ghetala. So ek mhanata yeil ki tumhi ekmekala samjun gheushakal hi shakyata khup jast ahe....so keep it up...All d best...!

Athak Sunday, April 17, 2005 - 6:28 am:      Amaoya Ê malaa lavh ma^rojacaa naahI pNa Aronja ma^rojacaa AnauBava ³ekca ro baabaa ´ . tu lakI Aahosa Aatapya-Mt 5 vaoLa BaoTlaasa Ê AamhI lagnaacyaa maMDpat dusaáyaaMda ekmaokalaa baGat hÜtÜ Ê AamhI kuzo ..laÜkca baGat hÜtI ‘lavh AaFTr ma^roja’ho Xa@ya Aaho Ê kahI kaLjaI kÉ nakÜsa Ê TÜkacaa inaNa-ya jaÜ tu krtÜsa tÜ tr mauLIca manaat AaNau nakÜsa . XarIr AaiNa mana yaaMnaa ek~ zova. XarIr [qao Ana mana dusarIkDo Asaola tr kqaIhIÊ lagna Jaalyaavar sauQda sausaMvaad GaDNaar naahI. life is beautifull , meaningfull jaovha AapNa ekmaokalaa samajauna GaotÜ . lagna JaalyaavarhI p`omasaMvaad naohmaIca hÜtat AsaohI nasato Ê AQaunamaQauna BaaMDNaanao gaÜDI vaaZto ho ivasaÉ nakÜsa .

Divya Sunday, April 17, 2005 - 11:51 am:      Aqak AgadI barÜbar ilahIlao Aaho Kup AÜLK jarI lagnaa naMtr nasalaI trI Asalaolao XaarIrIk AakYa-Naatunaca sahvaasaanao p`oma inamaa-Na hÜto AaiNa to kQaI ksao hÜto ho kLt naahI jasa zrvauna p`oma krta yaot nahI tsaa p`oma vhava yaasaazI Ôar ivaYaoXa p`ya%na kravao laagat nahI AgadI manaaivaÉQd lagna Jalao trca p`oma inamaa-Na hÜNyaat ADcaNa yaoto Aamaoya tuJyaa hÜNayaa- bayakÜlaa tu psaMnt Aahosa tulaa tI psant Aaho maga Aamacyaat p`oma inamaa-Na hÜ[la k naahI yaacaa tu jaast ivacaar kÉ nakÜ to hÜ[la hÜNaar ho hI na@kI ³AaNaI %yaa baabatIt Ait jaagaÉk AsaNayaa-nao p`omaat pDlyaa iXavaaya lagna kÉ nayao

Megha16 Monday, November 14, 2005 - 3:10 am:      puZarI maQao Cana laoK Aalao Aaho Ê maanapana AaNaI maulagaI m*Najao KoLNa navho. tÜ jaovha vaacalaa %yaavaoLI malaa yaa baIbaI caI Aazvana JaalaI m*nauna [qao ilaMk dot Aaho . jaÉr vaacaavaa sagaL\yaaMnaI . puZarIcyaa ksturI yaa ivaBaagaat Aaho . http://www.pudhari.com/

Kishya Monday, November 14, 2005 - 2:23 pm:      http://in.rediff.com/getahead/2005/nov/14wedding.htm ­­ ­­ ­­ ­­