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Trishanku
Sunday, January 18, 2004 - 12:56 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baayakÜ Ayauvao-idk Da@Tr Aaho. ima yauesa gaolyaa paca vaXaa- pasauna rhat Aaho. lagna AaQaI Asao zrlao hÜto ik yau esa maQao dÜna tIna vaXa- rhuna pOsao saacvauna prt jaayacao. Aata maalaa Asao vaaTto ik [qao rhanao caangalaoÊ pna bayakÜ mhnto ik prt jayacao krna itla [qao jaÜba krt yaot naih Aina it iÔlD pna caonja kryacao naih mhnato. itcya bayaa-ca @lasmaTosa [qao yao]na saÜF,%vaoAr maQao iXaF,T ja,alyaa AahotÊ pna ih tyar naihÊ dr vaiXa- 6 maihÙo Baaratt jaato pna Ô> majaa kÉna prt yaotoÊ jaÜba kirt naih. it itcyaa Aa[ vaiDla Baa] baihna yaanaa Kup A%yacD Aaho. mala Asao vaaTto ik itlaa %yaancyaa saÜbat rhyacao Aho. %yaasaaiqa it Asao krto. kaya kravao saucat naaih. Baartat jaÜba saÜDuna jaavao tr saarKo vaa[T vaaTola ik yau esa maQala caangalao laaeÔ saÜDuna AalaÜ Aina manaaivaÉQa rhavao lagaola. yau esa maQao raihlaÜ tr baayakÜ saaqa dot naihÊ saariK Baartat jaato.
kaya kravaoÆ kaih saucat naahI AnauBavaI maayabaÜlaIkr kaih tÜD\gaa ikvaa sallaa dovau XaktIla AXaI Apo@Xaa Aaho.

Trishanku
Monday, January 19, 2004 - 11:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaja,a p`Üblaoma Krca KUpca kÜimPlakoToD idsatÜya. kÜinaih Ajauna sallaa dovau Xakt naaih²
kÜnaI samaduKI Aaho ka [qaoÆ Asaola tr malaa š maola paz\vaa.

Shilpapotnis
Monday, January 19, 2004 - 11:55 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

trishanku,
mi Us madhe gele 4 - 5 mahine zhale ali ahe. mi H1 var ahe. tyamule mi job karate...pan mi anek couples ithe ashi pahili ji hyach problem madhe asatat....
tula pahila he tharavaycha ahe ki tula kashala importance dyaycha ahe...karan hya sagalya goshtin madhe tu ani tuzhi bayko he doghahi involved ahat. mala asa vatata ki kuthala hi nirnay ghyaycha asel tari tula bayko shi discuss karava laganar..
spashta sangaycha tar amhala kahi ek adhikar nahiye tula salla denyacha...karan tulach mahiti ahe ki tula kay mahatvaha ahe.
tu asa vatat asel ki ithe paisa ahe ani ayushya pan chan ahe..tar mag tu tuzhya bayko la busy thevayla alternatives shodhayla havyat....
ti kuthalya field madheli ahe...tyacha ithe kahi pudhe shikshan ahe ka? hyachi chaukadhi karu shakato...ani nantar tila tichyach field madhe pudhe jana he nahi ka shakya? mala tari asa vatata ki tu tichyashich charcha karavi ani hyacha todga kadhava.


Trishanku
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 1:10 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

iXalpaÊ

QanyavaadÊ baro vaaTlao tuja,a irplaaya baGauna. Aina Aamacyaa saariK bairca jana Ahot ho eokuna jara iQar Aalaa²

Aamacyaa kDo ga`Ina kaD- AahoÊ %yaamaulao baayakÜ kuqaoih naÜkir kÉ XaktoÊ pna it mhnto itlaa Ayauvao-d maQaoca kama kryacaoÊ izk Aaho pna yau esa maQao Ayauvao-idca saaqaI XaI@Xana pna naih Aina it Ayauvao-idca maQao kama p`i@Tsa kÉ Xakt naih. ima itcyaiXa barocda baÜlalaÜ pna kaih ]PyaÜga hÜt naih.

maaija, pihila p`ayairiT F,yaaimalaI Aaho mhnauntr evaQaa ivacaar krtÜ... pna %yaacaa Aqa-
Asaa navho ik bayakÜ mhnaola tsao vaaganaoÊ ima itla barca pTivanyaacaa p`ya%na kolaaÊ pna it mhnato Ayauvao-d maQaoca kama krnaar. iqak AhoÊ pna it vaXaa-tlao saha maihnao Baartat Asato itcyaa Aa[Ê baabaana barÜbar iÔrtoÊ maj,yaa krtoÊ pna P`yaai@Tsa kirt naih knTaLlaI ik [qao prt yaoto. [qao Aalyaavar prt pihlao paZo sauÉ ... Bartt jaa]na rahyacao.ÊÊÊ [qao maja,o baroca maÜzo ima~ manD\L AahoÊ pna it %yanmaQao imasaLyalaa tyaar hÜt naaih. Aina maga baÜAr hÜ]na maagao laagatoÊ malaa prt jayaacaoÊ itikT kaZuna do..

tuimh ~yastana samaÜr ima maaija, vyaqaa maainDt AahoÊ kdaicat maaja,oih caukt Asaola jao malaa tuimhca saangau Xakala.

Trishanku
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 1:12 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ëupyaa vyaakrNaatIla caukaba_la samasva iXakt Aaho marazI Tayaipga.

Sayonara
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 1:28 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJyaa maaihtIt ek marazI kuTuMba Aaho jao Amaoirkot rahatat AaiNa baayakÜ Aayauvao-idk Da^@Tr Aaho. pNa malaahI na@kI maaiht naahI tI kaya krto pNa maI maaihtI kaZUna [kDoca pÜsT krona.

Savyasachi
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 11:34 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

trishanku, greencard ke chakkarme fas gaya hai tu.. :-)

ani dual citizen vayla tula ajun vel asel. btw, US citizenship milalyavar US baher kitihi kaal rahata yeta ka?

bayko US madhe practice nahich ka karu shakanar? Ashwini (aayurved BB) kadachit yavar kahi sangu shakel.

baki US vastavyala kantalalele kititari apan pahato. visheshtaha H4 muli. bharatatil vatavaran havasa vatata.
mi 1 2 jodapi pahili ahet jyanni GC asun US sodala ani bharatat paratle. can u do that? jar baykocha man ajibatach ramat nasel US madhe tar parat yena changla nahi ka? kutumba jasta mahatvacha ahe. aajkal bharatat bharpur changle jobs ahet. IT madhe tari. U will get/afford lot of things here that u get there. yavar kahi vichar kela ahes ka? 4 5 varsha ahes US madhe mhanje tula bharatat garajechya sukhsoyi vikat ghena mahag padu naye. ek comfortable life jagayla tula adachan padanar nahi asa vatata.
btw, tuza parat na yenyacha karan evadhach ahe ka ki ata US madhe bara vatata? ki dusara kahi ahe? bharatat kuthe rahatos?
(ho, agadich biharchya ekhadya khedyatun ala asel tar nako vatelach parat yayla ekhadyala.. :-)

tar anik kay adachani vatatat tula bharatat yayla? (except bhrashtachar etc.)

Savyasachi
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 11:58 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

shilpa, tuzya profile madhe tula dnyan prabodhini mhanaycha ahe ka? jnana zalay mhanun vichartoy.

Shilpapotnis
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 3:03 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

savyasachi, ho mala jnana / dnyan prabodhinich mhanaycha ahe...actually shalechya navacha spelling te tasa karatat mhanun mi pan tasach kela ahe.

trishanku, mala asa vatata ki tila pharmacy madhe kinva pure life science / botany/ reasearch asa kahi interest nahiye ka? ti tyat pan pudhe shiku shakate je thoda far ayurveda var related ahe.
ithe nakkich opening asanar....
ani otherwise as savyasachi says.....tula pan india madhe openings ahet....shevati aplyala kuthe tari thoda compromise karava lagata na....

Pradnya_us
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 5:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

i~XaMkuÊmaaJyaa AMdajaap`maaNao hI samasyaa vaogaLIca Aaho.maaJyaamato lagnaaAaQaI itnao (a gaÜYTIcaI puropur ivacaar kolaa AsaNaar kI itcyaa kirAr laa [kDo iktI skÜp Aaho to²AnaÜL#yaa vyai>barÜbar AayauYyaacaI saurvaat krtanaa p`%yaok s~I ha ivacaar krNaar.itlaa kuz\lyaa gaÜYTIcaI ]NaIva Baasato Aaho ho jaaNauna Gaota Aalao tr baGa. tulaa itcyaa sauKaivaYayaI evaZI tLmaL Aaho ho itlaa hI kLu dot. eKada rivavaar itcyaa ADcaNaIMkrta baajaulaa zova AaiNa itcyaaXaIca (a ivaYayaI baÜla.baakI iXalpa m*NalaI tsao tuca (avar ]<ama tÜDgaa kaZu XaktÜsa.

Parijat
Tuesday, January 20, 2004 - 6:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

bay areat aayurvedic clinic ahe anee I think tithe indian ayurvedic doctors kaam karatat.
one of my friends is a homeopathic doctor but she is doing masters in public health after coming here and is happy about it.
but best thing is that you should talk to her about this ...living apart for 6 months doesn't sound very healthy .



Trishanku
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 12:38 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tumha savaa-ncao manpuva-k AaBaar. p`&a mhnto %yaa p`maanao malaaih Asao vaaTto ik samasya vaogaiL Aaho. itlaa jar kirer ba_la evaiZ kaLjaI AsatI tr itnao Baartat gaolyaabarÜbar
P`yai>sa sauÉ koila AsaitÊ pna it tsao kirt naihÊ maja,a kÉna knTaLlaI ik [qao prt yaoto. [qao Aalyaavar saahijakca sagLanalaa Asao vaaTto ik prt jaavao. pna kih idvasaat Aapna [qao ÉLuna jaatÜÊ pna ihcao tsao naihÊ it prt jaayacyaa maagao laagato. mala Asao vaaTto ik itlaa itcya Aa[ baabaana pasauna laamba rahayaacao naihÊ hoca mau#ya karNa AahoÊ pna it to kbaula kirt naih. it mhnto ik itla [qao kirer naih mhnauna prt jayacao Aina Aata mhnto ik maulaalaa Baartat iXa@vaayacao [qao iXa@Xana caangalao naaih. Aamhalaa ek dÜna vaXaa-ncaa maulagaa Aaho [qaoca jalma ja,alaa %yaacaa. maaja,o mhnanao ik tÜ [qao paca vaI pya-nt iXaku XaktÜ Aina nantr Aapna prt jaavau. maaija, bayakÜ punyaacaI Aina ima saangalaI caa AahoÊ punyaat iXaklaÜ Aina naÜkir pna punyaatca koila kih vaXa-. baayakÜlaa ek Baa] ek baihna Aaho dÜgaoih itcya Aa[ baabaana barÜbar rhtt.
bayakÜ ba_la maaija, baaik kaih tËar nahIÊ it e@dma sajjana Aaho Aina ]igaca kÜnacya maQao pDt naaih. rahainamaana e@dma saaQao Aaho itcaoÊ ]igaca XaÜ kirt naih kuQlyaaih gaÜistcaa.
itla [qao kÜintih kmaI naihÊ svatcao Gar AhoÊ gaaD\yaa Aahot. jaÜ[nT naavaavar Ëoidt kaD- Aahot. Ê pna itla XaÜiPpnga caa naad ibalkula naaih. kmaI Ô> ihca ik itcao Aa[ baabaa javaL naaih. to tsao dÜnda [qao yao]na rahuna gaolao tIna maihnya kirta ³pna naÜkrI mauLo to jaast rahu Xakt naahIt´ pna tovZ\yaa purtI ih KuXaÊ to Baartt gaolyavar prt rD\gaanao sauÉ.. saQyaaih it mhnto ik Baartat jaayacaoÊ it [qao maaca- maQao Aaila Baartat saha maihnao rhuna. itla ksao samjaavauÆ

Sayonara
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 12:59 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maga i~XaMkUÊ malaa vaaTtM kI tU mhNatÜsa %yaap`maaNao itlaa kirAr vagaOro krNyaat kahIhI [MTrosT nasaUna f> AašvaiDlaaMbarÜbar rahNao ha ekmaova ]_oXa Asaavaa. itcao AašvaiDla itlaa samajaavat naahIt kaMÆ %yaaMcyaaXaI tU baÜlalaa Aahosa kaMÆ

Parijat
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 1:04 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tine itke varsha jar practise keleli nahee tar mag tiche skills uptodate kase rahateel?
tila tyachee kaljee vatat nahe ka ?
Trishanku tu tichyashee hya babtit seriously bolala pahije.
Tila kadachit ithe rahayala avadat nasava ...tiche kaay problems ahet te tu samjun ghe and then it will be easy


Naatyaa
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:20 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I think the place where you would like to settle down / spend majority of your life is a very important issue. In case of arranged marriage, this issue should be discussed before going ahead. I know that over the time, priorities can change, people can change their mind, but this issue is as important as education, family background etc. Trishanku, you can't go back in time but had you discussed this issue with your wife before getting married? I don't think it will help in 100% of the cases, but it can in many cases.

I think your wife prefers to stay close to her parents and you prefer to stay in US. Both of you look adamant on this issue. You need to sit down and talk about it and one of you need to take a step back. I know the quality of life is better is US but it won’t take much time to get adjusted to the life back home. Don’t forget that you have spent lot of time there before coming here. If you are ready to accept some inconveniences, it won’t be that difficult to go back. If you work in IT field, the opportunities are a plenty. If not, your US experience will definitely help you get a better job in your field. You need to think about what you will be getting back for giving up the things that you like about US. Its upto you to make the right decision that will make you happy. Maybe you have to be a bigger person in the relationship to make yourself and your family happy.

Lot of people talked about your wife not practicing medicine while she is in India. But I don't understand how you can practice medicine in such shorter spans. How would she establish a clientele if she is not going to be there for most of the time. It’s not like a temp job like working in a store or something.


Sami
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:23 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

i agree with sayo. i~XankUÊ tumhI itcyaaXaI yaabaabatIt Aa<aapya-Mt baÜlalaahI Asaala kdaicat. pNa maga tumhI itcyaa Aaš­vaiDlaanaa ha problem saaMigatlaa Aaho kaÆ toca itlaa kdaicat samajaa} XaktIla. tumacyaa saaMgaNyaava$na tI jar ka %yaanaa KUp attached Aaho tr %yaaMcao na@kIca eokola.

Trishanku
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:24 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

pairjaatÊ tuja,o mhnanao barÜbar Aho itlaa [qao rhnao AavaDt naaihÊ AanaI tI saarKI mhnto ik tI jao paca vaXa- iXakila to it ivasa`una jaa[la. pna p`%ya@Xaat it %yaasaaqaI svata kahI p`ya%na kirt naaih ³[qao iknvaa Baartat gaolyaavar´. itlaa [qalao Gar AavaDt naahI karna [qao Gart Í,oXa hvaa yaot naaih mhnaoÊ Aaina baahor jaat naih krna Kup zinD iknvaa Kup ]na Asato ³To@saasa´. itlaa [iqla iXa@Xana Aaina maoiDkla isaisTma Aijabaat AavaDt naaih. itcao garja nasatna [qao isaja,oirAna kolao Asao it mhnto. it Garatca Asato ³itlaa XaÜiPpnga ica AavaD naihÊ ga`ÜsarI sauQha imaca AnatÜ Aina svayampk pna imaca krtÜÊ dr vaIkonD la baahor KatÜ´Ê it Ô> TIvaI baGanaoÊ Baartat cyaaT krnao Aina Gar saaÔ krnao evaZo krto. maulagaa Do ker maQao jatÜ. itca Baa] pna yau esa maQao tIna vaXa- hÜt ³Aimh [qao yaayacyaa AaiQa´Ê tÜ prt gaolaa karna %yaalaaih [qalao laaeÔ AavaDt naahI. itcyaa Aa[ baabaainXa pna baÜlalaÜÊ pna to isairyasalaI Gaot naaiht.

ima Ôarca rD\gaaNao gaatÜ Asao tr vaaT\t naahI naaÆ kdaicat kahI janaanlaa ha Ôar maÜza p`Üblaoma vaaT\t nasaolaÊ ima pNa AaQaI [gnaÜr kolao pNa dr vaiYa- saha maihnao maulaapasauna laamba ekTo rhayaacao mhNajao nakÜsao vaaTto.

Sayonara
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:38 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

naahI i~XaMkU ho rDgaaNaM nasaUna KrMca p`a^blaoma Aaho AsaM vaaTtMya. karNa tI svatÁ vaoL Gaalavaayalaa ikMvaa s%karNaI laavaayalaa kahIhI p`ya%na krt naahIyao AsaM idsatMya. AaiNa tI GarI AsaUnahI svayaMpak tumhaMlaa³ regularly? ´ ka kravaa laagatÜ. mhNajao madt krNaM ikMvaa itlaa kMTaLa Aalaa tr @vaicat tumhI krNaM maI samajaU Xakto pNa tsaM nasaola tr na@kI problem Aaho. AaiNa maulaaMpasaUna [tko idvasa laaMba rahaNaM KrMca nakÜsaM hÜtM.

Trishanku
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:44 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tI maagacyaa vaYaI- [qao Aalyaavar itlaa TayaÔa[D ja,alaa hÜtaÊ itlaa [qalyaa hÜispT\lanao Kup Apmaanaaspd vaagaNauk imaLalaI ³sasa`gajanya rÜga Aaho Dasa psaiva-tat mhNauna´ itlaa ekTo zovalaoÊ kÜnaalaa BaoTu idlao naahI ³maulaalaa sauQha´ AaNaI ek maihnaa Gair saÜDlao naahIÊ ihcao [qlyaa DÜ@Tr nao kaih eoklao naaihÊ %yaamauLo tI jaastca vaotagalaI hÜtI.

Parijat
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 3:36 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

trishanku,
as Savyasachi has suggested..maybe Ashwinin from the Ayurved BB can help her.


Ashwini
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 5:02 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

i~XaMkuÊ
maI Aa<aaca ha BB pahIlaa. maI varcao sagaLo comments vaacalao naahIt %yaamauLo kahI mau_o irpIT hÜNyaacaI Xa@yata Aaho. maI svatÁ yaa sagaL\yaa pirsqaItItUna gaolaolao Aaho. AaiNa tuJaI AaiNa tuJyaa baayakÜcaI dÜGaaMcaIhI manaisqatI samajaU Xakto.
maI pNa AXaIca nauktIca B.A.M.S. Jaalyaavar lagna hÜ]na [kDo Aalao hÜto. Aalyaavar Aayauvao-dalaa [kDo kahIhI skÜp naahI mhMTlyaavar KUp inaraXa Jaalao hÜto. [qao Aayauvao-dacaM p`sqa KUp vaaZto Aaho ho sagaL\yaaMkDUna eoklaM hÜtM. %yaamauLo manaat KUp Apoxaa hÜ%yaa. pNa p`%yaxaat maa~ pirsqaItI yaacyaa ]laT hÜtI AaiNa AjaunahI kahI ivaXaoYa frk pDlaa Aaho Asao vaaTt naahI. ho KrM Aaho kI ekMdrIt preventive medicine ba_la laÜkaMcyaa manaat Aasqaa inamaa-Na vhayalaa laagalaI Aaho. prMtu AjaunahI Aayauvao-dIk Da^@Trlaa kovaL BaartatIla @vaalaIifkoXanavar [qao p`^@TIsa krta yaot naahI. [qalyaa Da^@Tsa-naa (MD) Ê nasao-sanaa Aayauvao-dIk AÝYaQao Vayalaa prvaanagaI Aaho pNa Baartatlyaa Káyaa Aayauvao-dIk Da^@Tsa-naa Aayauvao-dIk p`^i@Tsa krNaM allowed naahI. :-)
tsaM Baartatlyaa MBBS naa sauwa [qao roisaDnsaI kravaI laagatoÊ board exam GyaavaI laagatoca. pNa %yaaMnaa to k$na puZo modern medicine maQyaoca kama krNyaacaI saMQaI Asato.
Aayauvao-dIk Da^@Tsa-naa AXaa p`karcaI saMQaI ]plabQa nasato. maga %yaaMnaI kaya kravaoÆ
malaa svatÁlaa maaga-dXa-na krayalaa %yaavaoLI kÜNaIhI navhto. %yaamaULo maI malaa jamaola itt@yaa gaÜYTI krta yaotIla ka to pahIlao. Aayauvao-dalaa sagaL\yaat javaL jaaNaarI gaÜYT mhNajao naocarÜpqaI. dudO-vaanao toMvha f> naocarÜpqaIcaI 3 ka^laojaosa hÜtI AaiNa ithI vaosT kÜsTvar. ³Aata connecticut maQao ek naivana Jaalao Aaho.´ %yaamauLo maI maaJao fIlD caoMja kolao AaiNa Masters in Information Systems kolao. toMvha to AitXaya hot field Asalyaanao dÜna vaYaa-cyaa Aatca malaa even degree imaLayacyaa AaQaIca jaa^ba laagalaa. Aa<aa dÜna vaYaa-pUvaI- malaa dusara maulagaa Jaalyaavar maI job quit kolaa. toMvha maayabaÜlaIcaI AÜLK JaalaI AaiNa Aayauvao-dacao qaÜDofar ?Na foDNyaacyaa ]_oXaanao maI Aayauvao-dacaa BB sau$ kolaa.

tuJyaa baayakÜpuZo KalaIla pyaa-ya AahotÁ
1. CNME accredited Naturopathy school maQyao ND krNao. ha program 4 vaYaa-caa AsatÜ. pNa %yaanao itlaa baáyaacaXyaa sToT\samQyao p`^@TIsa krNyaasaazI license imaLU Xakola.
2. Dietitian or Nutritionist caa course krNao. ha saaQaarNapNao 2 vaYaa-caa program AsatÜ. yaanao itlaa qaÜD\yaafar p`maaNaat inadana Diet maQalao Aayauvao-dIk Aaharacao mah%va [. gaÜYTI krta yaotIla.
3. Chiropractic - ha 4 to 5 vaYaa-caa program kolyaanaohI Aayauvao-dIk qaÜiDfar p`^@TIsa krta yaoto.
4. Acupuncture - k$nahI herbal medicines dota yaotat.

Aata sauwa itlaa GarI Asatanaa javaLpasacyaa marzI laÜkaMnaa AÝYaQao dota yaotIla. maI dr vaYaI- Baartat gaolao kI BarpUr AÝYaQao Gao]na yaoto. jar tI evhZ\yaa frequently Baartat jaat Asaola tr itlaa dr vaoLosa AÝYaQaohI AaNata yaotIla.

Hope this helps.

Savyasachi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 7:35 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Naatyaa, nice post.
as naatya said, 6 mahinech ti jaat asel bharatat tar tila clients kuthun milanar? tyamule 6 mahinyat tithe practice karane mala pan shakya vatat nahiye. it takes lot of time to build client pool.
ti USA madhe swayampak karat nahi pan bharatat gelyavar karte ka? ithe tila kashabaddalach utsah vatat nasalyane ithe karat nasel kashatach madat. pan bharatat kadachit vegale chitra asel.
kahi lokanna ajibat karamat nahi bharat sodun. maza ek mitra hota jo almost roj radaycha ratri mala ghari jayche ahe mhanun. ani atahvdyala 2 divas 1 1 tas bolaycha gharchyanshi fonevar. bahutek tyachi sagli salary calls var kharcha hot asavi. he 1 2 varsha chalala. mag tyacha lagna zala, mulga zala ata majet ahe GC gheun. :-)
pan sangaycha mudda ha ki tuzya baykola tevadhyach intensity ne ithe karamat nasel. ticha bhau dekhil mhanunach parat gela mhantos. so it seems to be really normal feeling of her/ her family. ani ekhade thikan avadle nahi ki tyat sagla vaitach dista. jasa ekhadya vyaktibaddal hota. (navadticha mith alani :-) )
ashwinine changli mahiti/disha dili ahe. she can try if she is willing to. pan tuzya bolanyavarun mala vatata tila kharach ithe kahihi karanyat ras nahi.
ti sadhya ithe ahe mhantos. tila maaybolivar yenyachi idea kashi vatate? ticha pan post ala tar jasta kalu shakel problem kay ahe to.
ani tuza radgana nahi tar kharach major problem ahe. varshatun 6 mahine mul ani bayko pasun dur rahana he trasdayak ahe. arthat tilahi 6 mahine tuzyapasun dur rahana trasdayak vatat aselach. pan tari ti te karate ahe mhanjech tila bharatatlya vatavaranachi odh prachanda ahe.
baki tula bharatat paratnyat kay adchani vatatat te lihila nahis. I guess u will be making Pune as base if u return. ani punyat tas sadhya khupach lucrative opportunities ahet IT madhe. ani Pune tithe kay Une.. :-)


Saee
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 9:42 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

pNa itnao lagna krtanaa ha ivacaar kolaolaaca idsat naahI kI Aaplyaalaa Garapasauna dUr rhaNa JaopNaar naahI. saa^rI i~XaMkUÊ pNa tumhI itlaa jara jaastca samajauna Gaotaya kaÆ iXavaaya saar#yaa BaartKopaÊ Aaš Garat Asauna paLNaaGarÊ yaa sagaL\yaat %yaa CÜT\yaa jaIvaacaI AÜZataNa hÜtoya %yaakDo ek Da^@Tr mhNauna itcao iktpt laxa AahoÆ

malaa vaaTtM kirAr vagaOro itcyaasaazI sagaLM iktIhI mah%vaacaM AsalaM trI saQyaa maulaakDo laxa doNaMhI ittkMca A%yaavaXyak Aaho. naahItrI yaa naa %yaa karNaaMmauLo kirArkDo [tkI vaYao- dula-xa Jaalaoca Aaho naaÊ maga maulaavar laxa kond`It kr mhNaavaMÊ to tr sagaL\yaat maÜ{ kirAr Aaho. %yaamauLo tumhalaahI qaÜDI XaaMtta AaiNa samaaQaana imaLola. AiXvanaI mhNato tsaM %yaalaa kLayalaa laagaopya-Mt dusarMhI kahItrI iXakuna maga itlaa svatÁlaa hvaM to krta yaošla.

Sayonara
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 12:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

barÜbar Aaho saš tuJaM.

Trishanku
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tumh savaa-ncao punha manapuva-k AaBaar. AiXvaina maI nacarÜpqaI caa ÔÜma- pna Aanalaa hÜta pna it mhnato PyauAr Ayauvao-d maQaoca kama krnaar. tu saingatlaolao caarih pyaa-ya maala maaiht AahotÊ pna to baayakÜlaa maanya naiht. maj,yaa mato itca p`Üblaoma Kra krIAr caa naaih.

maj,(a ba_la qaÜDo ilaihtÜ. ima Aaya TI maQao Aaho. maaja,o lahanpna e@dma kYTaT gaolaoÊ XaaLot jaayala payaat caPpla ih nasao. iXasva`ui<a var AiBayanta jaalaÜ. %yaamaulao pOXyaacaI ikmmat caangailaca kLalaI. ( ]laT baayakÜ iEamant Garat laaDavalaoilaÊ itcyaa Gair svayampklaa baa[Ê Gair naÜkrÊ gaD\yaa vaOgaro. itcao baabaa maÜzo sarkarI AiQakarIÊ mhnjao tumhalaa kLLo Asaola pOsaa ksaa imaLtÜ to. %yaamauLo tInao kiQa Gair kama kolao naihÊ Aina [qao sava- kama kravao laagatoÊ to itla AavaDt naahI. maj,ho tagao-T
javaL\pasa ek krÜD saacaivanyaacao Aaho ³ Aqaa-t ikitih pOsaa imaLalaa tir kimacaÊ pna ek krÜD ka to puZo kLolaca ´

tr baayakÜ cao mhnanao Baartat jaavauna Aa[ baabaancyaa Gara javaL bangalaa Gao]na GarI svayampk Aina kamaalaa baa[Ê karÊ D/ayavar zovaayacaa. itcao mhnanao it DÜ@Tr Aaho paca vaXa- iXakila mhnauna Gar kama karnaar naih. Garjavala ek gaaLa Gao]na i@lainak ]GaDuna Vayacao Aina maga it jamaola tsao i@lainak karnaar. i@lainak maQao kama krayalaa ek baa[ zovaayacaI. maulaalaa Baartat Ôulla idvasa XaaLot zovanaar. Ata (a sava- gaÜisTna saiqa maj,yaakDo purosao pOsao nakÜ kaÆ mala punyaacyaa AÜF,Ôosa- imalaitla Ê pna ek krÜD punyaat saacvaayalaa Baartat raihlaÜ tr Ajauna dha vaXa- laaigtla iknvaa kja- Gyaavao laagaola. %yapo@Xaa paca vaXaa-t ima [qao tovaZo jamavau XaktÜ. Aina evaZo kÉna itnao Bartt jaavauna punha Aa[ baabaana javaL rahanao vaOgaro malaa pTt naaih. %yaamauLo Baartat jaavauna kih naivana p`Üblaoma kdaicat inamaa-na hÜtIla.

Shilpapotnis
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 3:11 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

i agree with naatya and the information provided by ashwini should provide some light on the career options ur wife can have here. Pna tyachya sathi tila kharach ithe rahaycha ahe ka ani career karaycha ahe ka he tula tichyashi bolayla hava...ani bolana mhanaje it should not be a debate but an open discussion where you can tell her what your opinions are and what are her ideas.
tu tuzhya pahilya posting madhe asa lihila ahes ki aadhi tumcha asa tharala hota ki 2 yrs ithe rahaycha ani paisa kamvun parat jaycha....tini probably ha vichar kela asel ki tya velela ticha bhau pan US madhe yeun gela hota tar ata aplyala US baghaychi oppotunity pan ahe...probably mhanun pan tini jasti vichar kela nasel tichya career cha ani lagna kela asel...ani mag nantar tula ithe rahavasa vatat rahila pan tila avadala nahi.
tila ithe pudhe shikaychi icha ahe ka? jarka ti diwasbhar ghari asel tar nakkich bore hoil. ticha man kashat ramta? i mean something creative? tichya hobbies kay ahet? mi kahi H4 var alelya muli baghitlya ahet jya cooking/ painting/ stitching/crafts etc madhe apala vel ghalavatat.....
sagalyacha best solution is tu tichyashi sagala vyavasthit bol, tila samjun ghe, ani dogha milun kahitari nirnay ghene

Nirakar
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 7:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mazya mate mul mudda fakt tila Indiyat jayache aahe karan tithali lifestyle tila avadate. Ayurvedic vagire keval karane aahet. Tula US madahli lifestyle avadate ani tila Indiyatali evadhech fakt khare.
ethe 4-5 varshe rahilas ata 2-3 varshe Indiyat jaoun raha ani bagh. Nahi patale tar parat US hai kya aur nahi kya :-)


Nirakar
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 7:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Ashwini: Tu ethe changlaya bhavanene lokkana aushadhe detes pan jar chukun dusryach karanamule koni ajari padala ani tyane hospitalmadhe tu dilele aushadha pan sagitale tar kay hoel hyacha vichar kela aahes ka? Just tuzya changulpana mule tula kahi tras hou ase vatate mhanun lihile

Storvi
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:38 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

nirakar, agadi mazhya manatla bolalas...
(donhi posts:-))

ashwini seriously think about this...kahi mhanta kahi angalati yeil ... just be very cautious.

Rimzim
Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 8:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

sto nirakar
me pan tech sangayacha vichar karat hote ashwini tula.
ofcourse mala hi adhi navhate janavale, attach kahi diwasanpurvi laxat ale.pan mala phone karane jamale anhi. sorry.

Saee
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 4:48 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ekuNa tumha dÜGaaMcyaahI dRYTInao maulaalaa kahIca mah%va idsat naahI... kovaL pOsao kmaavaNao evaZoca ]i_YTÊ tohI puZo eoYa krta yaavaI mhNauna... qaÜDI kzÜr Aaho pNa vastuisqatI AXaIca idsatoya...

ek kÜTI tumhI f> itcyaasaazI kmaavatayaÊ itcyaa sauKasaazI evaZa ivacaar krtayaÊ yaa tumacyaa kYTat itcaM kahIca kaÐT/IbyauXana naahIÊ tI naMtr %yaacaI f> ]QaLp+I krNaar ³Aa<aahI krtoca Aaho´ ho pTNyaasaarKo naahI. iXavaaya ho ek kÜTI saMplyaavar puZo kaya hahI p`Xna ]rtÜca. baayakÜcao kÜNato h+ AaiNa iktI mayaa-dopya-Mt purvaayacao to tumhIca zrvaayalaa hvaM...


Ajjuka
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 7:45 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

mala ek mulabhoot shanka upasthit karavishi vatatey..
varil kathetali kahi thalak loopholes..
doghanchya gharachya arthik paristhititil tafaavat baghata he arranged marriage kase kay asu shakate?
mala nahi vaatat atyant sadhan gharatil aaivadil jaanun bujun aapalya mulila atishay garib gharat detil...

trishanku chya baayakoche varnan vachata tyatahi anek goshti illogical vatatat..
ti sajjan aahe mhanata, tila shopping cha naad nahi mhanata pan tarihi tila aishoramat rahayachi savay ani ichha aahe asehi mhanata... something does not fit in...
ani aishoramachi savay aahe tar tine tumhala pasant ch kase kele?
bar ya sagalya paristhit ti mool hou dyayala tayar zali hehi ek navalach...
varache varnan 100% khare maanale tar mala ti some kind of mental disorder chi case vatate... try a shrink
maze spasht mat ase ki trishanku aapalyala thode vaadhavun sangat aahe karan tyache pahile post ni nantarachi posts pahata bayakobaddalache anudaar udgaar vadhat gelele disate..
not that i have sympathy for her.. pan mala trishanku la sypmathy dyaavi asehi vaat nahi. there is lack of 'sachchepanaa' somewhere in the whole story.... ase feeling aahe.
ani varahci sagali story jar khari maanali tar mag psychitrist la bheta ani te nako asel tar ektar tumhi divorce gheun mokale vha kinwa bharatat parat ya. sarva dagadanvar haat thevun jamat nahi...

Saee
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 9:14 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AjjaukaÊ malaahI qaÜDIXaI trI AitXayaÜ>I Aaho AsaM vaaTtMya... tsaM nasaola tr tu mhNatosa tXaI tI maanasaIk AajaarI AsaavaI AaiNa hohI nasaola tr tI mau_ama ~asaca Vayacaa mhNauna hokoKÜrpNao vaagatoya...

%yaa baašlaa jara jaastca mah%va dotÜya AapNa sagaLo.. AsaÜ. i~XaMkUÊ puZo jaÜ kahI inaNa-ya Gyaala tÜ maa~ [qao saaMgaayalaa ivasa$ naka mhNajao JaalaM karNa ha sagaLa kaqyaakUT tumhalaa kahI madt vhavaI yaa sad\hotUnaMca kolaaya sagaL\yaaMnaI.

Sayonara
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 10:55 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa maaiht naahI hI AitXayaÜ>I Aaho kI naahI ikMvaa itlaa maanaisak Aajaar Aahot kI naahIt. pNa tumhI mhNata %yaap`amaaNao tI jar laaDavalaolaI AahoÊ itlaa kamaacaI savaya naahIÊ tr yaa sava- gaÜYTIMcaa ivacaar tumhI lagnaapUvaI- kolaa navhta kaMÆ lagnaacyaa AaQaIpasaUna jar Amaoirkot Asaala tr itlaa itkDcyaa life style caI puropUr klpnaa idlaI naahIt kaMÆ karNa itcyaat samajaUtdarpNaacaa ABaava idsatÜya.³jar tumacaM saaMgaNaM 100 % sa%ya QarlaM tr´. AaiNa tumacaI kahIca authority idsat naahIyao tumacyaa Garat. yaavar maaJyaamato ekca ]paya Aaho AaiNa tÜ mhNajao marriage counselling krNaM. jyaat tumacaI dÜGaaMcaIhI baajaU samajavaUna GaotlaI jaašla. karNa [kDo f> tumacyaaca tËarI AamhaMlaa kLtayat. yaat tumacaa lahana maulagaa maa~ BarDlaa jaatÜya ho dÜGaaMnaIhI laxaat zovaa.

Savyasachi
Thursday, January 22, 2004 - 11:48 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ajjuka well said... mhanunach mi asa suchavla hota ki ticha kahi post yeu shakel ka? if trishanku really wants to solve the problem. apalyala facta ek baju diste ahe. ani shrimant ani madhamvargiy asa prashan mala padla hota pan kadachit US cha navara mhanun lagna zala asel itar goshtinkade durlaksha karun.
baki mala vatata trishankula kadhich parat yavese vatanar nahi karan GC ahe. te bharatat parat ala tar sodun dyave lagate asa mala vatata. besides, to mulat sanglicha ahe pan bharatat tyala punyala sasarchya mandalinjaval (aajubajula bangla gheun) rahava laganar ahe je tyala nakkich nako vatat asel.
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