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Arch
Monday, April 07, 2003 - 9:16 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

rajasaI zovaavaI kI naahI Asa naahI ivacaarla. zovaNa barÜbar vaaTt ka Asa ivacaarla AahoÆ

Asami
Monday, April 07, 2003 - 10:15 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

tula kaay vatate arch tehi lihi na tyachbarobar, mhanaje discussion karata yeil.

Wakdya
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 6:18 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maaJyaa kDuna kÜiNaca ksailaca Apoxaa zovat naahIÊ baayakÜca kaya AgadI maulao baaLo pNa.. karNao puiZla p`maaNao Asau Xaktat
1. ha maaNausa ³mhNajao maI hÜ´ sarL Asaola tovha saut naahItr BaUt AXaI sagaL\yaaMcaI Ka~I pTlaolaI AsaavaI
2. jaovatanaaca kayaÆ sakaLI ]zlyaa ]zlyaa tr Aa^ÔIsacyaa kamaacyaa tMd`\saIt jaatÜca pNa ra~I baora~I ]zuna pNa ivacaar krt basatÜÊ baro AahoÊ ivacaar krtÜ tovha inadana XaaMt trI AsatÜ
3. (a maaNasaalaa kÜNatohI saaQao kama saaQyaa saÜPyaa irtInao krta yaot naahIÊ ina sava- kahI Bavya idvya krayacyaa naadat ha maaNausa saaQaI rssaa BaajaI pNa ZÜprBar kÉna zovatÜÊ iXavaaya AÜT\yaavarcaa baakIcaa psaara vaogaLacaÊ %yaa poxaa (anao Garkama na kolaolaoca baro
Ôar kXaalaaÊ Aa^iÔsa maQalao saahoba laÜk trI yaalaa ksaa kaya sahna krtat haca p`XNa Aaho mauLI ²

hܲ pNa yaovhDa pNa maI kahI Takavau naahI bar ka²
Ôarca qaÜD\yaa Apoxaa maaJyaa kDuna kolyaa jaatat %yaa mhNajao
1. maI ina%yainayamaanao Aa^iÔsalaa vaoLot jaavao
2. sakaLI ]zuna lahana mauilalaa AaMGaÜL Gaalauna svatÁ pNa kraiva ina %yaaMnaa XaaLot saÜDavao
3. jamalyaasa mauilaMcaa AByaasa GyaavaaÊ jamaNaar nasalyaasa maQao maQao lauDbauD na krta baahor jaavauna basaavao
4. AazvaD\yaacaI BaajaI ³saaMigatlaolaI tovhiDca´ AaNaavaI Anyaqaa taDp~IcaI ipXavaI Gaovauna naI iKsaa maÜkLa ZakLa kÉna maMDštuna maukaT barÜbar Kroidlaa yaavao ina ksalaohI h+ kÉ nayaot

Co Co ² maI kaya kravao yaa poxaa kaya kÉ nayao yaacaI yaadI Ôarca maÜzI Aaho.. tovha naMtr kQaI trI

jaaNakaraMnaI ina AnauBavaIMina p`itiËyaa sallao maXavaro iTka iTpNyaa Vavyaat

Rajasee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:04 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

navara­ baayakÜ maiQala unemployed vyai>nao employed vyai>kDUna GarkamaacaI / madtIcaI Apoxaa kravaI ik kÉ nayao Æ or vice versa Ê madt kravaI ik kÉ nayaoÆ ha cacao-caa ivaYaya Aaho Asao malaa vaaTt naahI. ha p`Xna %yaa dÜna vyai>MmaiQala mutual understanding caa Baaga Aaho. (a baabatIt kÜNataca inayama " kaL\yaa dgaDavarcaI roGa " mhNaUna vaaprta yaoNaar naahI Asao malaa vaaTto. madtIcaI Apoxaa / madt krNao vaa na - krNao ho sqalaÊ kalaÊ vya>I AiNa Aga`taËma saapoxa Asato.

Arch
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

prvaa kaya JaalaÊ maaJaI maO~INa AaiNa itcaa navara AamacyaakDo Aalao AsatanaaÊ maaJaa navara BaaMDI QaUt Asatanaa pahUna tI Aaplyaa navaáyaalaa mhNaalaIÊ " baGaÊ ihcaa navara ihlaa kamaat iktI madt krtÜ " %yaacaa response hÜtaÊ " tI job krto. tU Garatca Asatosa maI kamaava$na Aalyaavar prt GarathI tulaa madt kravaI AXaI Apo@Xaa kXaI krtosaÆ " . mhNaUna manaat Aala baGaava [traMca kaya mat Aaho to

Maitreyee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:32 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

KrM saaMgaayacaM tr jaI vya>I jaa^ba krt naaihyao itla / %yaalaa Garatlyaa kamaacaI pUNa- jabaabadarI Gyaayalaa kahIca hrkt Asaayalaa nakÜ. kahI laÜkaMcaI hrkt Asato tovha ³bahutok vaoLa´ ‘[gaܒ AaD yaot AsatÜ Asao maaJao observation Aaho....

Adityaranade
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:37 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I agree..jar tumhi job karat nasal tar gharatil sarva kaam karayla harkat nasavi.
Of course jar doghehi job karat astil tar prashnach nahi- both of them should share the workload..Arthat ha sagala understanding cha bhaag zala..which has to be worked on before on gets married.

Abedekar
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:51 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

which has to be worked on before on gets married >>>> just a curious question, do folkd actually talk about these things as issues to sort out before getting married??? im sure there are other things deemed more important to talk about !!!

sorry for the digression

Arun
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:52 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch: baayakÜ idvasaBar Garatca Asato mhNaUna itlaa GarI idvasaBar Aarama imaLtÜ AaiNa navara office maQyao AsatÜ mhNaUna %yaalaa KUp kama AsatM ho barÜbar naahIyao.
baayakaMnaa GarI sauQaa barIca kamaM Asatat. %yaamauLo navaáyaanao saMQyaakaLI GarI Aalyaavar baayakÜlaa madt krayalaa kahIhI hrkt naahI.
AgadI BaaMDI Gaasaayalaa nakÜÊ pNa inadanaÊ baayakÜ saaMgaola tI kamaM krayalaa kahIhI hrkt naahI. inadana malaa trI %yaat kahI gaOr idsat naahI.

Maitreyee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 4:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Abe ...tuJaI XaMka KrI Aaho Ê
maaJao svatÁ cao love marriage Asalao trI maaJyaa maavasa baihNaIÊ maOi~NaI yaaMcyaa arranged marriages cyaa vaoLI maI AnauBavalaya to AsaM kI Ê maulagaa Garkama krtÜ ka naahI ha p`Xna kQaIca ]d\Bavat naahI pNa maulagaI iktIhI ]cca iXaixatÊ high profile job krNaarI AsalaI trI ‘ svayaMpak yaotÜ ka naahI ’ hI cacaa- maa~ hmaKasa hÜto²² pcalao naahI trI ho vaastva Aaho

Sashal
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 5:03 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

[kDo qaÜDo deviation hÜNaar Asao idsato Aaho ..

GarkamaavaÉna Aata arranged versus love marraige var views & comments caalaU hÜNaar AsaM vaaTtMya ..

Rajasee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 5:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch ne sangitalelaa incidence he tya navra-bayko madhala personal matter aahe nahitar mazya kade ashya type chi vaktavya karnarya navryansathi vyavasthit prati-uttar aahe jau de pan pratiuttarancha ha bb nahi tenvha ....

argument kartana jar pratyekane swatala dusryachya bhoomiket thevun baghitale tar brech prashna sutatil

Sashal
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 5:10 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

rajasaIÊ malaa vaaTtM ho mhNaNaM KUp saÜpM Aaho .. pNa AMmalaat AaNaNaM Kup kizNa Aaho ..

malaa naohomaI vaad samplaa AaNaI maaJaM DÜkM XaaMt JaalaM kI ho saucatM ..


Asami
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 5:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I guess housemaking is full time 24-hour job as compared to any other typical work assignments. Under that circumstances, housemaker deserves more than bargain offers her.

Storvi
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 6:05 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Asami well said.
Ashya vidhananmadhye assumption asata ki ghari basun kahich karat nahis... if anyone has ever seen their moms at home they'd know that it's a never ending job, especially jyanna mula ahet tyanchya sathi.
tevha madat karayla kahich harkat nahi. ani sansar mhanje dilya ghetlyacha hishob nahi, there are other things and considerations. kadhi office madhye workload jasti asta, kinva mental tensions astat, under those circumstances, apeksha badlayla havyat, pan ek blanket statement, karna, ki ghari asnaryanni gharatli sagali kaama keli pahijet is a bit irrational. ghar doghancha, asta, ani tyat jyala jevha jamel tas ani tevha haatbhar lavna upayukta ahe.

Storvi
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 6:07 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Abe to answer your question, I have seen girls ask that question before marriage. And people around me who have asked that question, have not done so, to make sure that work-load is divided before marriage, pan hya eka prashna varun tya vyakticha in general approach, ani views kaltat. so girls do ask such questions, and there are deeper connotations to this seemingly vain and superficial question, in the context of arranged marriages.

Abedekar
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 7:00 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

seemingly vain and superficial question >>> interesting ... if the other guy considers it vain and superficial, it says something about that person too.

in today;s context of marrying a guy on an H1B visa - coming to the US on a H4 visa (im citing this case since its probably statistically the most relevant) - having to sit at home for no fault of yours after having given up a promising carerer in india ... one would certainly agree that the girl is entitled to some answers about how life is expected to be .....

ofcourse ... i can only speculate, im sure there are more experienced minds here who could shed more light on this.

this is a small detour from the orifinal subkect at hand - but by no means irrelevant

Maitreyee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 8:02 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aata jara Detail ilaihto. iXalpa tU mhNatosa %yaap`maaNao Aaš laa maulaaMnaI ikMvaa Aaca- nao saaMigatlyaap`maaNao baayakÜ laa navaáyaanao ‘tulaa kaya kama AsatM Garat²²’ Asao mhNaNao AitXaya rude Aaho . ekdma kbaUla. home maker laa dusaáyaa jaÜiDdaranao kmaI laoKNao A%yant caUk Aaho.
pNa dusaáyaahI baajaUnao ivacaar krayalaa hvaa .malaa KrÜKr ca AsaM vaaTtM kI jaÜ / jaI naÜkrI krt nasaola tr itnao / %yaanao GaratlaI sagaLI kamaM krNao kahIca AvaGaD naahI. maI svatÁ dÜnhI AnauBavaatUna gaolaolaI Aaho. %yaava$na saaMgato.. AaQauinak kaLatlaI gaRihNaI³iknvaa gaRhsqa´ Gaotlaa tr KrÜKr 24 hrs kama krt Asato ka tI vya>I Æ cooking, clothes, dishes and house cleaning Ê maulaaMcaa AByaasa / kaLjaI ho sagaLM Qa$na sauwa idvasaalaa actual kamaacao tasa 8-10 tasa poxaa jaast hÜt AsatIla Asao malaa naahI vaaTt²² itcyaa / %yaacyaavar 24 hrs GaratlaI sava- responsibility Asato ho maanyaÊ pNa maga dusaáyaa jaÜiDdaravar pNa Garacaa Aaiqa-k Baar ]calaNyaacaI tsaoca maulaaMcyaa palak%vaacaIhI responsibility 24 hrs Asatoca kI. maga ³sva AaiNa prspr KuYaInao´ yaa p`karo jabaabadaáyaa vaaTUna Gaotlyaa gaolyaa tr %yaat kuzo kuNaavar Anyaaya hÜtÜ Asao malaa naahI vaaTt. [tkoca kI naÜkrI krNaayaa-laa h@kacaI sau+I imaLto ³ikmaana AazvaD\yaat ek´Ê tr maga home maker naohI AazvD\yaat eKaVa idvaXaI sau+I Gao]na svatÁ laa vaoL Vavaa kI²² yaa ivaYayaavar baÜlaavao ittko kmaI Aaho . AsaÜ. pNa p`%yaok jaÜDPyaamaQalyaa sausaMvaad AaiNa understanding var sagaLo AvalaMbaUna Aaho.

Arch
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 8:10 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

AÉNaÊ ka ro navaáyaanao BaaMDI ka GaasaU nayaotÆ Is it below their dignity? infat XaairrIk kYTacaI kama navaáyaaMnaI AapNahUna ]calaayalaa hvaItÊ jasa Garatlyaa bathrooms QaUNao vagaOro. baayakaMpo@Xaa %yaaMcyaa muscles maQyao jaast takd Asato mhNatat na²

Aaid%yaÊ maulaI jaoMvha H1 barÜbar lagna k$na yaotat toMvha tU mhNatÜsa tXaa so called promising career vaalyaaMnaa tovaZI maaihtI hvaI kI %yaaMnaa GarI basaayalaa laagaNaar Aaho to. AaiNa India t promising career hÜt mhNaUna [qao maI Garat basaUna Asalao trI navaáyaanao maaJyaa barÜbarInao Garkama krava Asa mhNaNyaat tulaa tqya vaaTtÆ

Arun
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 8:25 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch: BaaMDI QauNyaasaazI ksalao XaairrIk kYT laagatayatÆ dish washer AsatÜ naaÆ mhNaUna mhTlao..... ~D

maagao ekda maI BaaMDI GaasalaI hÜtI. pNa maI GaasalaolaI BaaMDI baayakÜlaa psaMt pDlaI naahIt. %yaamauLo to kama maI vagaLlaM. baakI bathrooms QauNaoÊ maulaIMnaa saaMBaaLNaoÊ baajaarhaT krNao yaasaarKI kamaM maI krtÜ AaiNa %yaacaI baayakÜlaa jaast madt hÜto.

iva. saU. - kitchen maQyao lauDbaUD kryaapoxaa hI AsalaI kamao kolaI tr baayakÜ KuXa hÜto ha maaJaa ek AnauBava ...

Storvi
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 8:58 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Arun that depends, bayka kahi janmatah bhandi dhunyacha dnyan gheun yet nahit, they learn over time. ekda dhutlela avadla nahi tar te improve kela tar pudhe vyavasthit hou shakel. Arthat mhanoon tumhi kara asa maza mulich mhanna nahiye, tumchya sansarat je work hota te tumhi kelela barobar, after all ekacha solution dusryala chalat asata tar pratyekacha ayushya sachyatlya cake sarkha eksarkha zala asta...
Maza navra kitchen madhye agadi safaidar kama karto, bhandi ghasne aso, polya karne aso athva ankhi kahi... but he was not always like that(as a matter of fact neither was I ):-)

Maitreyee, prashna attitude cha ahe,swatah rikama ghari basoon mag navryala alyavar kamala lavnarya kiti bayka tu pahilya ahes? Mazhya tari pahanyat ashya bayka nahiyet. sangnyacha mudda jamel tevdhi kama karoon zalyavar pudhchya kamat madatichi apeksha karnyat kahi chuk ahe asa mala watat nahi, pan resh akhun hi kama mazhi hi kama tuzhi hyala sansar nahi sauda mhanta yeil. mag ek diwas apan lavkar ghari gelo, tar swatahcha chaha swatah karoon ghyaycha nahi, tar te chuk ahe.
MAzhya office madhye ahe ek bandya... tyachi bayko epecting ahe, ani 2 varshancha mul ahe tyanna. asa astanna tila hyane thodi madat keli tar kahi bigadel ka? ti kadhihi mhanat nahi yala madat kar, pan ekhad diwashi kaam lavkar atopla tar ha manus office mazhyashi gappa marayla yeto, ani mala vel nasel tar surfing karat basto. kaa mhanoon vicharla tar mhanto ghari gela ki lekashi khelava lagata. mhatla are diwas bhar tuzhi bayko karte na entertain tyala? mag ek diwas ardhatas tula karava lagla tar bighadla kuthe? Ya ulat ithe ek angla manus ahe, to bayko la mhanto, aaj tu ja maitrinin barobar jevayla baher, me mulinsathi jevan karoon tyanchi kalji gheto... tyala mulin barobar ani bayko barobar vel ghalavta yava mhanoon to office madhye lavkar yeto ani lavkar jato...
ha attitude cha farak ahe...

Abedekar
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 9:23 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

arch: is that a rhetorical question? and .. is that what my posts seem to suggest?

Rajasee
Tuesday, April 08, 2003 - 9:59 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

kharokharach storvi ne sagitala tasa manus lagna karoon sansaar karayla agadi nalayak aahe

Yogibear
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 2:05 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Storvi: "swatah rikama ghari basoon mag navryala alyavar kamala lavnarya kiti bayka tu pahilya ahes" <<< tujhe he vakya vaachun dolya samor faar javaLun baghitleli 3-4 "marathi" families aalya, all families are well settled in 'USA'.

tatpya- : vya>I itt@yaa p`ËutI tsaoca jaÜD\yaa tovhD\yaa tDjaÜDI ....

Wakdya
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 3:21 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aamacyaa baabatIt Asao GaDlao kI lagnaa naMtr saurvaatIlaa baayakÜnao naÜkrI krayacaa p`ya%na kolaa kahI kÜsao-sa pNa kolaoÊ pNa yaoiqala maÜbadlaa laxaat Gaota Aamacao Asao zrlao kI yaovhD\yaa kmaI ³mhNajao 300´ ÉpyaaMkrta AapNa Garacao ina tbyaotIcao svaasqya ka ibaGaDvaayacaoÆ iXavaaya jar puZo maulao baaLo hÜ] VayacaI AsatIla tr itlaa GarI qaaMbaNao Ëmap`aPt Aaho. ivacaaraMtI ho ekda sauinaiXcat Jaalyaavar kamaacyaa vaaTNaIcaa vagaOro saMbaMQaca navhta. ho Gar AahoÊ ho Gar Aaplyaa dÜGaaMcao AahoÊ [qao kahI baro vaašT kolao tr to AapNaca krayacao ina inastrayacao pNa AapNacaÊ tovha inaT pNao eka ivacaaranao rhaNao ho ]<ama ho vaogaLo iXakuna Gyaayalaa laagalao naahI. Aqaa-t trIhI eKaVa eMD irJalT krta ekcaalakanauvait-%va Asaavao laagato ho Aamhalaa maanya Asalyaanao jaÜ jyaa ivaYayaat parMgat Aaho itqao %yaacyaa vaa itcaa inaNa-ya AMitma AsatÜ.
rahta rahIlaa Garkamaacaa p`XaNaÊ Kro tr tÜ p`XNa Asaa naahIca. jaI jaD vaa QaÜ@yaacaI kamao Aahot it puÉYaanaoca kolaI paihjaotÊ jaovaNa vaa baala saMgaÜpna (a xao~avar is~yaaMcaIca ma>o darI Aaho ina AsaavaI iXavaaya baahorIla kÜNa%yaahI ha^Tola vaa lagna samaarMBa [%yaadI izkaiNa AacaarI jarI puÉYa Asalaa trI Garcyaa s~I ³Aaš vaa baayakÜ vaa maulagaI´ cyaa hatcyaa svayaMpakacaI gaÜDI %yaa baahorIla pdaqaa-sa nasato
ho ek mau> icaMtna baro ka ²

Arun
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 1:14 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

storvi: tuJaM mhNaNaM pTlaM. tsaa p`yaMt sauwa k$na paihlaaÊ pNa jamalao naahI. mhNaUnaca maI kitchen maQyao lauDbaUD na krNao caaMgalaoÊ ho Aamha dÜGaaMcao mat Aaho


kÜNaI kuzcaI kamaM kravaIt yaavar malaa maaiht AsalaolaI ek gaÜYT saaMgatÜ...

gaÜYT Aaho maaJyaa eka maOi~NaIcaI. Aaš AaiNa vaDIla dÜGaohI naÜkrI krNaaro AaiNa hI college maQyao jaaNaarI. saMQyaakaLI GarI prt AalyaanaMtr caha saazI %yaaMnaI ek sauroK inayama kaZlaa hÜta.
jaÜ kuNaI sagaL\yaat AaQaI GarI yaošla %yaanao sagaL\yaaMsaazI caha krayacaa.. AgadI baabaa lavakr GarI Aalao ikMvaa sau+I Aaho mhNaUna GarI Asalao kI saMQyaakaLI to caha k$na zovat Asat.
%yaamauLo p`%yaok vaoLosa kuNaalaahI AašcaI vaaT baGaavaI laagat nasao AaiNa Aašlaa sauwa office maQaUna Aalyaavar caha imaLayacaa ...

Abedekar
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 3:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

are we digressing too much from the topic at hand?

Rajasee
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 4:35 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

abe : I think you are right, I am deleting my post ..

Storvi
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 4:48 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

maybe a little. My point is it's a family and we all work towards it, weldodya, tuza kahi mhanana patla sagla patla nahi, ghari baykanchya hatchya swaypakachi godi purushanchya hatala nahi he mhanane mulich suddha nahi patle.. ekach khara ahe, gharchya annachi godi baherchya la nahi, mag swayapak kunihi ka karena... ha ata Arun mhanto tase, praytna karoonahi swayapak, jamat nasel tar goshta nirali, pan prayatnala mahatva ahe, after all it's the thought that counts. me mazhya tya colleague la hajar da sangitla, tu gharat agadi swaypak kela pahijes asa mulich nahi. pan ghari porala sambhalat tuzhi bayko swayampak karte ashya veli tu ghari aslas tar fakta pora kade baghitlas tari tila kevdhi tari madat hoil. tu nusta tila mhanalas ki me aaj bhaji nivdun deto, kinva ti swayapak karat astanna tv baghnya peksha tichyashi gappa marlyas tari ti kevdhi khush hoil. madat karne mhanje agadi ek diwas tu swayapak dusra diwas me ashi watani karaychi garaj nahi... it's the thought that counts. pan jevha lok, tu ghari astes tula madatichi garaj kay ase mhantanna adhaltat, tevha madatichi icchaa hi manat naste asa maza mat ahe.
I have seen far too many cases where men, even on holidays, festivals etc. when women are busy making festival arrangements etc. will demand that tea be served to them wherever they are, instead of enquiring whether the women might appreciate a gesture of offering tea to them.

Rajasee nusta chaha suddha khup kahi sangun jato. apan jevha officeatun yeto, tevha agadi chaha suddha apanach karoon ghyaycha asel tar far kantala yeto. pan to jar koni ayta karoon dila tar bakichi kaama karayla hurup yeto, ani shivay the other person in the family cares, hi bhavana khup mothi asate..

Nirakar
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 6:17 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I think solution is very simple: discuss with your spouce/partner and agree on responsibilites and shre work load. If in agreement one gets more things to do so be it as you agreed. No question of ego and men like/ girl like work. It is very simple for those who are matured enogh to undersatnd each other. If you can not reach to agreement then i thing it is BMR ! work on that first !

Storvi
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 6:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

BMR lol, nirakar... he baki khara... :-)

Yogibear
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 8:22 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Nirakar: "solution is very simple: <<< If that was the case in practical life then this BB would not have opened in the 1st place...Isnt it!!!

Nirakar
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 8:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aho Yogi maharaj hyalach amhi BMR mhanato .. :-)

Abedekar
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 10:34 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

BMR = ?? ?? ??

Storvi
Wednesday, April 09, 2003 - 11:27 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

baoisak maoM raDa .. :-)
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