Eliza
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 4:44 pm: |
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malaa barocada ha p`Xna pDtÜ kI laÜk jyaalaa p`oma mhNatat to Krca p`oma Aaho ka Ô> ek saÜyaIskr naatM
AahoÆ saÜyaIskr AXaasaazI kI tumacyaa Aa^ÔIsa maQyaoÊ ka^laoja maQyaoÊ XaojaarI jara kuNaabarÜbar jaast vaoL
Gaalavalaa kI %yaa vya>Ilaa gala-Í,oMD baa^yaÍ,oMD laobala icaTklavao jaato AaiNa puZo %yaatUnca
lagna AaiNa ... AapNa gallat krtÜ AahÜt ka maO~I AaiNa p`omaatÆ Is there a Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now?? iktI laÜkM XaÜQa Gaotat kI %yaaMnaa na@kI kaya hvaya AaiNa Aaplyaa so called girlfriend /boy friend maQyao to Aaho kI naahI. Aajakala AgadI saatvaIÊ AazvaI pasaUna maulaamaulaIMnaa GF/BF Asatat. (acao kaya baro vaaT prINaama hÜtayat samaajaavarÆ irMkU paTIla saar#yaa GaTNaa maga sara-sa
hÜ] laagalyaa trÆ Aa[ vaDIla kaya iXaxaNa dotayat maulaaMnaa (a baabatItÆ (a p`Xnaacao Anaok pOlaU Asau Xaktat. %yaabaabat cacaa- [qao vhavaI hI AaXaa Aaho.
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saÜyaIskr naatM jaÉr AsaavaÊ AaiNa to manaapasaUna japlaolaM Asaola tr %yaalaa p`omamhNaayaahI maaJaI
hrkt naahI . Infact dUrcaI saÜya pahUna kolaoyaa p`omaalaa maI tr DÜLo ]GaDo zovaUna kolaola p`oma mhNaona. Asao naato kI jyaat kla Aaja AÝr kla cyaa sauK saÜyaI DÜLo ]GaDo zovaUna paihlyaa Aahot jyaamauLo
tumacaI long term relationship sauKIÊ safla hÜla AXaa naa%yaalaa p`oma mhNaNao malaa jaast yaÜgya ikMvaa kdaicat ekdma practical vaaTto . naahI tr maga kdMbaáyaa maQalyaa so called p`omaacyaa klpnaaM maQao p`omaI ikMvaa p`oimaka ekmaokaMnaa imaLNao mhNajao impossible task AsatoÊ kQaI hero AsatÜ taxi driver AaiNa heroine Asato baDo baap kI baoTIÊ kQaI hero AsatÜ caaMgalaa iXaklaolaa AaiNa heroine Asato AnapZ gaava kI CÜrIÊ kQaI dÜGaaM carrier maQalao differences ²² kQaI tÜ dusarIXaI lagna k$na maÜkLa hÜtÜ tr kQaI tI ² Personaly malaa AXaa extreme cases maQao ta%purto vaaTlaolao p`oma ho na@kI iktI idvasa %yaa couple laa sauKI zovato yaa ba_la XaMkaca Aaho² %yaa poxaa malaa trI saÜyaIskr p`oma ikMvaa practical minded hÜ]na p`oma krNao AaiNa inaBaavaNao jaast yaÜgya vaaTto ²
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Eliza
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 6:53 pm: |
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I agree with you DJ . isanaImaoÊ TV (at jyaa p`karo p`omaaca marketing krtat %yaamauLo AsaaM ivacaar iktI laÜkM krtatÆ tÉNa vayaat %yaa taxi driver AaiNa AmaIr baap kI baoTI cacaM jaastM kÝtuk AsatM. ek dujao ko ilayao naMtr naahI ka iktI laÜkaMnaI
Pyaar kI KatIr jaIva idlao. AaiNa AXyaa gaÜYTIMmauLoca eKaVa sauroK pNa saÜyaIskr naa%yaaba_la manaat KÜlavar kuzotrI ApraQaI Baavanaa
pNa Asato AsaM maI pahIlaya. maI kuzotrI vaacalaya kI it takes a lot to like somebody but dosen't take much to love . maga tumhalaa AavaDNaaáyaa vya>I barÜbar jar tumhI vaoL Gaalavat Asaala ikMvaa lagna krNaar Asaala
tr %yaa naa%yaalaa p`oma naava doNyaacaI garja kayaÆ at the same time tumhI jar kÜNaavar p`oma krt Asaala AaiNa kahI karNaaNao to saÔla hÜNaar naahI AsaM vaaTt Asaola tr
%yaatuna vaoLIca baahor pDNaM yaÜgya naahI kaÆ
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Yogibear
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:18 pm: |
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Eliza: vaoLIca baahor pDNa mhNajao na@kI kayaÆ p`oma kaya zrvauna krtat ka²²²
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Eliza
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:24 pm: |
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yaÜgaIÊ p`oma 'as we know it' is just a very well marketed commodity. malaa vaaTtM naahI kI AsaM naatM jao tumhalaa kÜNa%yaa ka karNaanao hÜnaa ~asadayak hÜtyaÊ to saMpvaayalaa
hrkt AsaavaI.
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Yogibear
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:36 pm: |
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Eliza: tu var namaud kolao Aahosa kI saÔla hÜNaar nasaola tr... ~asadayak Aaho Asao ilaihlao naaihyaosa...
tsaoca p`oma (a Baavanaolaa commodity mhNana malaa trI pTt naahI...
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Eliza
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:39 pm: |
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pTt malaa doKIla naahI pNa Aaja hoca sa%ya Aaho. AaiNa maI p`omaalaa ~asadayak naahI mhNatoya tr %yaa
naa%yaalaa ~asadayak mhNatoya jao p`omaacaa pDda DÜL\yaasamaÜÉna hlalaa kI ]rtM.
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I guess vaoLIca baahor pDNao mhNajao %yaa gaÜYTIcaa AMjaama kya Aaho maaiht AsalyaamauLo vahavat na jaaNao ²
nakLt tumhI AXaa maulaacyaa / maulaIcyaa p`omaat pDta ijacao lagna hÜ]na tI vya>I sauKI Aaho ikMvaa jyaa vya>Icao dusaáyaavar
p`oma Aaho ikMvaa any reason jyaamauLo tI vya>I tumhalaa imaLNaar naahI ho maaiht Aaho² AXaa vaoLI Jaurt basaNyaa poxaa vaoLIca baahor pDNao yaÜgya naahI kÆ I think one should move ON if you know 'it won't work' !! yaÜgaIÊ malaa trI vaaTto p`oma zrvaUna krta yaoto ² Infact Baarta maQaoca iktI trI arranged marriages caI ]dahrNao AjaunahI idsatatÊ ijaqao navara baayakÜ lagnaa AaQaI ekamaokaMnaa AÜLKthI nasatat AaiNa trIhI
jaI couples ekamaokaM barÜbar vaYaa-nauvaYao- sauKI Aahot ² AXaa p`karo zrvaUna kolaoyaa lagnaaM maQao p`omahI eka p`karo zrvaUna ca hÜto kI² AXaa p`karo yaXasvaI arranged marriage maQao p`oma sahvaasaanao inamaa-Na hÜto ho izk Aaho pNa lagnaa pUvaI- QyaanaImanaI nasatanaa eKaVa vya>Icyaa
sahvaasaalaa hÜkar doNao AaiNa %yaa zrvaUna kolaolyaa naa%yaalaa ijavaapaD japNaoÊ ho eka p`karo zrvaUna
kolaolao p`omaca naahI kaÆÆ ek qaÜDo ivaYayaalaa Qa$na nasalaolao pNa zrvaUna kolaoyaa p`omaacao ]daNa Vayacao Jaalao tr Child adoption ² ijaqao eKado couple svat : janma na idlaolyaa baalakaMnaa ijavaapaD p`oma dotoÊ to hI ek p`karcao zrvaUna kolaolao p`omaca²
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I don't think kI Aajakala Mr Right or Ms Right Asatat. love at first sight Aist%vaatca nasaava. Its very hard to fall in love.. kÜ^laojacyaa idvasaat p`omaat pDNa jaama saÜp hÜt. Aajakala tsa p`omaat pDta yaot naahI hI caaMgalaI gaÜYT
kI vaaT kLt naahI. pNa DÜLsa p`oma k$ nayao eikkDo mhNatanaa AaMQaL p`oma krtaca yaot naahI ho hI samajalao
AnauBavaanao saQyaa p`oma kolao mhNajao lagna kolaoca paihjao Asao naahI ha T/oMD Aalaaya mhNatat tÜ ]gaIca naahI.
maturity vaaZlaI Aaho. AaiNa p`%yaok naa%yaakDo baGatanaa ho naat AjaUna kahI vaYaa-nao tsaca Asaola ka ho baGaNyaacaI
p`va`u<aI doiKla vaaZlaI Aaho. AaiNa samaja naahIca pTla qaÜD\yaa kaLanao tr vaogaL hÜNyaat kaya vaaT
Aaho. Baavanaa tXaaca rhavyaat ha A+hasa doiKla caukIcaa Aaho Aqaa-t maaJa mat ho. %yaamaULo p`omaivavaah Aajakalacaa baraca DÜLsa AsatÜ Asao vaaTto AaiNa tÜ Asaavaa. maO~ItUna puZo p`oma
vagaOro ho sahajaIk Aaho pNa %yaathI tÜ ima~ caaMgalaa Aaho mhNaUna relationship successful hÜla AsaohI naahI. kaya Asaola to AsaÜ pNa emotions kmaI Jaalaot ka AsaahI p`XNa pDtÜ. AsaolahI. AnauBavaanaoÊ AaNaI [traMca baGaUna maaNaUsa saavaQa hÜtÜca
naahI kaÆ
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Yogibear
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 8:40 pm: |
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punha maI Asaca mhiNana kI p`oma zrvauna krta yaot naahI. sahvaasaanao p`oma hÜlaca Asaa kahI rule naaihyaoÊ tovha not every arrange marriage has 'LOVE' as their base . tu jao adoption cao ]dahrNa idlao Aahosa %yaat sauwa zrvauna p`oma kolao jaat naahI tr tI jaÜDPyaacaI garja Asato AaiNa
mhNauna maulaacyaa sahvaasaacyaa AÜZIpayaI inamaa-Na JaalaolaI p`oma Baavanaa AsatoÊ %yaalaa zrvauna kolaolao
p`oma mhNaayacao ka²²² AsaÜ... ivaYaya BarkTt jaatÜya...
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Jit
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| Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 9:06 pm: |
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malaa trI vaaTt p`omaacaI vyaa#yaa p`%yaokacaI vaogaLI Asato. maaJyaapurt saaMgaayaca tr Ms. Right would be someone whom I can tell my mind without any hesitation. maJyaasaazI p`omaacaa savaa-t mah<vaacaa GaTk Aaho ivaXvaasa. maga Asaa ivaXvaasa inamaa-Na vhayalaa
AaQaI mao~I nakÜ ka vhayalaa Æ
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Gs1
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 4:59 am: |
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ksalao JaurNao kuzlao marNao saaro kovaL ga`MqaIMcao s~vaNao...
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yaÜgaI AaiNa ijatcyaa mataXaI maI pUNa- sahmat Aaho. p`oma Asa zrvaUna vagaOro krta AalaMM Asat tr to
zrvaUna saÔlahI krta AalaMM Asat. AsaÜ. saÔla Aqavaa AsaÔla p`omaat pDNao hI Kup BaagyaacaI gaÜYT Aaho
AaiNa tI satt maaNasaalaa tÉNa AaiNa AanandI zovaayalaa madt krto. p`omaacaI khaNaI iktIhI k$Na AsalaI
trI to AnauBavalaolyaa vya>Ilaa to AmaÜla xaNa AazvaunaÊ %yaacaa prt prt AnauBava Gaotlyaacaa Aanandca
imaLtÜ. p`oma ksa hÜtÊ kQaI hÜt ho kLt doKIla naahI. AaiNa Kr p`oma kQaIhI ivasarta yaot naahI. %yaatUna
vaoLIca baahor pDNao vagaOro (a gaÜYTI %yaavaoLI saucathIÊ kLthI naahIt AaiNa kLlyaa trI vaLt naahIt.
puZomaagao jaonvha pTtat tonvha tovhZI pirp@vata AalaolaI AsatoÊ %yaamauLo AXaa vaoLI vaÜ AÔsaanaa ijasao Anjaama tk laanaa na hÜ mauimkna ]sao ek KUbasaUrt maÜD dokr CÜDnaa AcCa² mhNauna %yaat kTuta na AaNaNao ho konvhahI baro² samajaa kQaI caukuna ragaacyaa Barat ekmaokavar dÜYaarÜpNa
kolao Asaola tr sarL maaÔI maagauna XaovaT gaÜD krNao hoca Kro p`oma² p`omaaba_la AgadI svaPnaaLU naahI baÜlalaMM trI [tk [nsaoinsaiTva trI nakÜ vhayalaa maayabaÜilakaranaI²
naahI kaÆ
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Tulip
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 2:18 pm: |
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Mr.Right hI saMklpnaa p`%yaokca maulaIcyaa manaat Asatoca. Ô> vayaa barÜbarÊ yaoNaaáyaa maturity barÜbar tI klpnaaÊ %yaa Mr. Right cao svaÉp badlat jaato ho na@kI. AaiNa to tsa badlaayalaaca hva naahI kaÆ eka ivaiXaYT saMskaraMmaQaoÊ
Aaplyaa kDUna Aaplyaa kuTUMibayaaMcyaa kahI Apoxaa Aahot (acaI klpnaa AsaNaaáyaa Aajacyaa Aamacyaa ipZIcyaa
maulaIMcyaa svata : kDUna pNa kahI inaiXcat Apoxaa Asatat. p`omaat pDNaM hÜtca.. pNa kahI kimaTmaonT krayacaI vaoL AalaI kI
maa~ pa}la pUNa- ivacaar kolyaa iXavaaya ]calalao jaat naahI ho na@kI. Aata (alaaca jar saÜyaInausaar
p`oma krNao mhNaayacao Asaola tr Aa<aacyaa kirAr AaiNa [tr [XyaUja ma*%vaacao maanalao gaolaolyaa kaLat
%yaa saMdBaa-t naIT ivacaar krNao musT Aaho. kQaIkQaI (a maQaoÊ svat : varÊ samaÜrcyaa maulaavarÊ Aaplyaa p`omaavar pNa Anyaaya hÜt Aaho ho kLtoÊ nakÜ [tka vyavaharIpNaa AMgaat
kuzUna Aalaa (acaohI AaXcaya- vaaTto pNa AvyavaharIpNao long term commitment kolaI jaat naahI hohI ittkoca Kro. AgadI Aaplaa svaBaava hopelessly romantic Asalaa trI p`%yaxa vaagatanaa maa~ paya jaimanaIvar zovaavao laagaavaot ho kovhahI vaaTca\ ikMmatca
cauktI kolaI jaat Aaho mhNata yaola pNa lagnaa naMtr Gar kI kirAr ho p`XNa saÜDvat basaNyaapoxaa AaQaIca
naIT ivacaar kÉna saÜyaInao p`oma krNao caaMgalao Asaca mhNaava laagatM. p`oma kI kirAr ha caa^sa
krNyaacaI vaoL yaoNyaapoxaa kirAr laa saaMBaaLUna GaoNaaro p`oma XaÜQaNao jaast caaMgalao. barocada AsaaXaI AarÜp AaQaIcyaa ipZIkDUna Aa<aacyaa ipZIvar kolaa jaatÜ kI hI maulao maulaI p`omaat
pDtat ÔasT AaiNa %yaahUna ÔasT p`omaatUna baahor pDtat. kdacaIt job hopping cyaa baabatIt jao t%va DÜ@yaat Asato toca t%va naatosaMbaMQaaMbaabat hI paLlao jaato AaiNa (atUnaca relationship hopping GaDto. AQaIk caaMgalaa Mr. Right ikMvaa AiQak XaÜBaoXaI Ms. Right imaLNyaacyaa AaBaasaatUna. pNa lavakrca stability cao ma*%va va Ôayado ]magatat AaiNa naatosaMbaMQaaMkDo maturity nao pahIlao jaa} laagato. g/f b/f AsaNaoÊ p`omaBaMgaatUna jaaNaoÊ (a sava- payaáyaa as a person tumhalaa jaast mature krt naoNaaáyaa Asaavyaat. (atUnaca kdacaIt life long commitment DÜLo ]GaDo zo}na krNyaacaI pirp@vata AMgaat yaot jaato.
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Jit
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 2:43 pm: |
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I agree with Tulip. AaiNa malaa vaaTt (a sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI Aaplyaa life partner ba_la kLayacyaa AsatIla tr %yaalaa ikMvaa itlaa pUNa-pNao AÜLKNao garjaocao Aaho. AaiNa malaa vaaTt Aajacyaa
yaugaat (a sava- gaÜYTIMcaa ivacaar k$na p`oma krNa kahI kizNa naahI 
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Chandya
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 5:49 pm: |
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side A p`omaalaa ]pmaa naahI ho dovaaGarcao doNao... side B saÜya mhNajao saÜya mhNajao saÜya Asato tumacaI ina AamacaI AgadI saoma Asato kaya mhNata yaa AÜLI icallar vaaTtat BaivaYyaacyaa dRYTInao iqallar vaaTtat Asalyaa tr AsaU do Ôsalyaa tr ÔsaU do trI sauwa trI sauwaÊ saÜya mhNajao saÜya mhNajao saÜya Asato tumacaI ina AamacaI AgadI saoma Asato marazIt lagna k$na saÜya krta yaoto ]dU- maQyao inakah k$na saÜya krta yaoto vyavaharat Ôsalaat trI saÜya krta yaoto ÔÜrona maQyao iXaklaat trI saÜya krta yaoto planning ho %yaacaca dusarM naoma Asato...
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Rangy
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 6:07 pm: |
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canVa barÜbar Aaho roÊ maI Aaho saaD A maQyao. hI dÜnhI p`oma vaogavaogaLI Aahot. ekacaI tulanaa dusaáyaaXaI hÜ]ca Xakt naahI. saÜyaI p`maaNao
ekacyaa p`omaatUna baahor yao}na pT\kna dusaáyaacyaa p`omaat pTkna pDNaarI laÜk paihlaI Aahot. %yaa Baavanaolaa
p`oma mhNaava kI iqallarpNaa to jyaaca %yaanao zrvaava AiBaEautIÊ yaÜgaI tumacyaa mhNaNyaalaa maaJao pUNa- AnaumaÜdna.
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Eliza
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| Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 6:45 pm: |
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Aajakala naÜkrIÊ vyavasaaya AaiNa iXaxaNaamauLo maulaa maulaIMcaM interaction AaQaIcyaa maanaato iktItrI pT vaaZlaIyao. AsaM AsataMnaa DÜLsapNao (a AXyaa gaÜYTIMkDo baGaayacaI garja
Aaho. svaPnaaLU va`utI baaLgauna XaovaTI duÁKca jar vaaTI yaoNaar Asaola tr kaya Aqa- Aaho. p`oma kravaM pNa to p`oma na@kI p`oma Aaho kaÆ maI AaQaIca mhMTlyaa p`maaNao Aajakala ek naaTkÊ dÜna isanaImao
ek~ phIlao kI to p`oma hÜtM AaiNa Aaja pUjaa kla kÜ dUjaa (a p`maaNao lagaoca maÜcaa- dusayaa- p`omaakDo
vaLtÜ. maaJyaa mato ho kahI barÜbar naahI.
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Aajakala p`omaacao Xaarirk vaya kmaI Jaalaya... career Êjabaabadaáyaa yaa gaÜYTIMcaI tÜMDAÜLK hÜNyaaAgaÜdrca barIca p`oma jauLlaolaI Asatat... yaa vayaat kaya
criterian laavaNaar... AXyaa vayaat jamalaolao p`oma ho f> imarvaNyaasaazIca AaiNa ima~aMnaa TIJa krNyaasaazIca
Asat... i have a girlfriend/boyfriend and u don't have mhNauna maI kÜNaItrI vaogaL LI Aaho ho daKvaNyaasaazI jaÜDlaola naat.... that's all
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aajkaal he prem vagaire kamich asate ase mala vatate... i am not talking about 15-16 varshi zalele prem. karan tyachya vishayi comment karayala knowledge nahi.:-) but this is more about when it comes to marriage. and what i have seen, observed from my friends ,people around..it is more "soy" lagnat tharvatana "soy" baghatat asech vatate mala.. aani vishesh karun couple madhe ek manus jara jyast efforts gheto aani purnapane emotional asato..tar dusara phakta "soy" aahe manun "drustikon" asato.. this may sound controversial...but this is what i obeserved. relationship madhe...aajkaal "soy" ch asate ase naahi...after sometime it may be love but more often it is "habit" or " soy" I guess. and again, one person is more involved emotionally and taking efforts and other is just takes it for granted...thik aahe she or he will care enough....kind of. Lastly, this is what my thoughts.
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Sashal
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| Saturday, July 09, 2005 - 5:42 pm: |
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p`oma AsaNao (acaa na@kI Aqa- kaya AahoÆ malaa vaaTtM barocada jaovha AapNa p`oma yaavar cacaa- krtÜ tovha to t$Na t$NaI caM p`oma AsatM AaiNa
AaplaI samajaUt Asato kI %yaacaI pirNatI hI lagnaat hÜNaar .. pNa lagna AaiNa p`oma yaa dÜna vaogaL\yaa
gaÜYTI Aahot .. lagna JaalaM trI p`oma Asaolaca AsaM naahI ikMvaa AsalaMca trI to naYT hÜNyaacaI Xa@yata
AsaU Xakto .. maaJyaa matap`maaNao Aaplyaa saMskRtI mauLoÊ Aaplyaavarcyaa saMskaraMmauLo AapNa yaa dÜna
gaÜYTIMcaI baroca vaoLa saaMgaD GaalatÜ .. Aaplyaa samaajaat mhNajao AXaa laÜkaMcyaa kI ijakDo vayaat yaoNaMÊ eKada jaÜDIdar imaLUna lagna hÜNaMÊ
puZo maulaM baaLM hÜNaM and so on and so forth Ê AXaa samaajaat p`omaalaa Ôar sqaana idlaM gaolaMya AsaM malaa vaaTt naahI .. ikMvaa maga AaplaI jaI
klpnaa Asato kI eKadI gaÜYT ikMvaa vya>I Aaplyaalaa AitXaya AavaDlaI kI tI Aaplyaalaa imaLNaM mhNajaoca
Aaplyaa p`omaacaM yaXa hI klpnaa caukIcaI Aaho .. AaiNa AaplaM mana jar ho samajaUna Gaot nasaola tr jao
Aaho to sagaLM saÜyaIskr AsatM AsaMca mhNaayalaa hvaM .. Aaplyaa AaiNa western samaajaatlyaa p`oma (a concept maQyao baraca Ôrk Aaho AsaM malaa vaaTtM .. p`oma basalaM AaiNa lagna kolaM AaiNa naahI pTlaM tr idlaM
saÜDUna ho Aaplaa samaaja ikMvaa AaplaI saMskRtI approve krt naahI whereas [kDo yaabaabatIt barMca freedom Aaho .. %yaamauLo pTt nasalaMÊ ~asadayak AsalaM trIhI to vaYaa-nauvaYa-. inaBaavaUna naoNaM mhNajao p`oma
kI jaovha jao jasaM AavaDola tsaM krNaM mhNajaoca p`oma ho KUp vya>Isaapoxa Aaho ..
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Mrunmayi
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| Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 7:53 am: |
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prem tharvun karata yete ka ? I doubt. pan sahavasatun apoaap prem nirman hote. Jasa apalyakade arrangemarriagemadhe disate. Aaj kal g/f kinva b/f asana he khup common zalay. Pan g/f kinva b/f aahe mhanje prem aahe asa nahi. Karan senapati mhantat tyapramane aajkal hi concept itakya lahan vayat aayushyat yete ki tyavayat prem ani attraction hyatil farak kalatach nasato. Ekhadya vyakti baddal prem asane mhanje tya vyaktivar purna vishwas asane ase mhanu shakato. ti ashi vyakti ki jichyakade aapan aaple man purna mokale karu shakato, jichyakade aapan relax hou shakato. Pan ekmekat vishvas nirman honyasathi sahavas tar havach na... mala nahi vatat first sight love mhanjech prem. Jenva tumhala samorchi vyakti kalu shakate tenvach tumhi tichyashi kahi nate bandhu shakata.. nusata baghun kasa kay prem hota kay mahit. Ani sahavasanantarche prem jar longterm relationship madhe badalat asel tar soyhi nakkich baghitali jail aapoaap ase vatate. Because there is a reason to adjustment. Tenva aadhi prem ani nantar soy hech mala barobar vatate. Keval soy mhanun konavarhi prem karata yena avaghadach aahe.
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it is well said in one sanskirt shloka: "pinde pinde matirbhinna " tyamule ekach relationshipkade aalpali baghanyachi drushti wegali aste. .mala ase watate.... 1)prem he ekk ehadya goshtiwishayi watanarya aapulakitun tya goshticha wichar karanyacha manawi swabhav aahe tychyashi nigadit bhawana aahe. 2)obviously hi ji aapulakichi bhawana aahe ti 2 goshti,wyaktinchi ji chemistry julate tyatun nirman hote.aapan sarwani yacha anubhav ghetala aasel ki kahi manasa aaplyala pahilya bhetit aawadtat ,kahinchyashi bolawasasudha watat nahi. & sahawasatun prem wadhat jate pan tylasudha thodi ka hoina wavelenght julawi lagate. & considering @ the prem which is resulting in the marriage ,i think it is really difficult to justify how that is taking place,...bus "click" ho jata hai & u r finding someone very beautiful on the earth. ya "click" honyawishyi adhik abhyas karane aawashyak aahe. hence the conclusion mala ase watat nai ki prem he soyikar nata nahi ,tar toomhala ekhadya goshtibaddal watnari oodh aahe. karan soy baghayala suruwat keli ki mag toomhi boundry tharawata. & hi watanari aapulaki hi tya manasawar lahanpanapasun honarya sankaranwrdekhil awalambun asate.
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Rajju
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Koni sangel ka he prem mhanje nakki kaay aasate? aani khaar prem he oolakhayach tari kaasa? Maala MJ & yogi che vichar patatat, Char bhinti ubharlya aani chul mandali ki ghar hot naahin, tyasathi ekmekhanchya oodichi ubechi garaj aahe. Garati tar saglech bandhatat paan sugarni sarakhe gharte tich bandhu shakte. prem sagalech karatat maag te manatun aase wa aakarshan aaso, mahatvach kaay ki te nibhavane!
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Radha_t
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