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Eliza
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 4:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa barocada ha p`Xna pDtÜ kI laÜk jyaalaa p`oma mhNatat to Krca p`oma Aaho ka Ô> ek ‘saÜyaIskr naatM’ AahoÆ

saÜyaIskr AXaasaazI kI tumacyaa Aa^ÔIsa maQyaoÊ ka^laoja maQyaoÊ XaojaarI jara kuNaabarÜbar jaast vaoL Gaalavalaa kI %yaa vya>Ilaa ‘gala-Í,oMD’ ‘baa^yaÍ,oMD’ laobala icaTklavao jaato AaiNa puZo %yaatUnca lagna AaiNa ... AapNa gallat krtÜ AahÜt ka maO~I AaiNa p`omaatÆ

Is there a Mr. Right or Mr. Right Now??

iktI laÜkM XaÜQa Gaotat kI %yaaMnaa na@kI kaya hvaya AaiNa Aaplyaa so called girlfriend /boy friend maQyao to Aaho kI naahI.

Aajakala AgadI saatvaIÊ AazvaI pasaUna maulaamaulaIMnaa GF/BF Asatat. (acao kaya baro vaašT prINaama hÜtayat samaajaavarÆ irMkU paTIla saar#yaa GaTNaa maga sara-sa hÜ] laagalyaa trÆ Aa[ vaDIla kaya iXaxaNa dotayat maulaaMnaa (a baabatItÆ

(a p`Xnaacao Anaok pOlaU Asau Xaktat. %yaabaabat cacaa- [qao vhavaI hI AaXaa Aaho.



Deepanjali
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 6:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

‘saÜyaIskr naatM’ jaÉr AsaavaÊ AaiNa to manaapasaUna japlaolaM Asaola tr %yaalaa ‘p`oma’mhNaayaahI maaJaI hrkt naahI :-).
Infact dUrcaI ‘saÜya’ pahUna kolaoyaa p`omaalaa maI tr ‘DÜLo ]GaDo zovaUna kolaola p`oma’ mhNaona.
Asao naato kI jyaat ‘kla Aaja AÝr kla’ cyaa ‘sauK saÜyaI’ DÜLo ]GaDo zovaUna paihlyaa Aahot jyaamauLo tumacaI long term relationship sauKIÊ safla hܚla AXaa naa%yaalaa ‘p`oma’ mhNaNao malaa jaast yaÜgya ikMvaa kdaicat ekdma practical vaaTto :-).
naahI tr maga kdMbaáyaa maQalyaa so called p`omaacyaa klpnaaM maQao ‘p`omaI’ ikMvaa ‘p`oimaka’ ekmaokaMnaa imaLNao mhNajao impossible task AsatoÊ kQaI hero AsatÜ taxi driver AaiNa heroine Asato ‘baDo baap kI baoTI’Ê kQaI hero AsatÜ caaMgalaa iXaklaolaa AaiNa heroine Asato ‘AnapZ’ gaava kI CÜrIÊ kQaI dÜGaaM carrier maQalao differences ²²
kQaI ‘tܒ dusarIXaI lagna k$na maÜkLa hÜtÜ tr kQaI ‘tI’ ²
Personaly malaa AXaa extreme cases maQao ta%purto vaaTlaolao ‘p`oma’ ho na@kI iktI idvasa %yaa couple laa sauKI zovato yaa ba_la XaMkaca Aaho²
%yaa poxaa malaa trI ‘saÜyaIskr p`oma’ ikMvaa practical minded hÜ]na ‘p`oma’ krNao AaiNa inaBaavaNao jaast yaÜgya vaaTto ²



Eliza
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 6:53 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I agree with you DJ . isanaImaoÊ TV (at jyaa p`karo ‘p`omaaca marketing ’ krtat %yaamauLo AsaaM ivacaar iktI laÜkM krtatÆ tÉNa vayaat %yaa taxi driver AaiNa ‘AmaIr baap kI baoTI’ cacaM jaastM kÝtuk AsatM. ‘ek dujao ko ilayao’ naMtr naahI ka iktI laÜkaMnaI ‘Pyaar kI KatIr’ jaIva idlao.

AaiNa AXyaa gaÜYTIMmauLoca eKaVa sauroK pNa saÜyaIskr naa%yaaba_la manaat KÜlavar kuzotrI ApraQaI Baavanaa pNa Asato AsaM maI pahIlaya. maI kuzotrI vaacalaya kI it takes a lot to like somebody but dosen't take much to love . maga tumhalaa AavaDNaaáyaa vya>I barÜbar jar tumhI vaoL Gaalavat Asaala ikMvaa lagna krNaar Asaala tr %yaa naa%yaalaa ‘p`oma’ naava doNyaacaI garja kayaÆ at the same time tumhI jar kÜNaavar ‘p`oma’ krt Asaala AaiNa kahI karNaaNao to saÔla hÜNaar naahI AsaM vaaTt Asaola tr %yaatuna vaoLIca baahor pDNaM yaÜgya naahI kaÆ



Yogibear
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:18 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Eliza: ‘vaoLIca baahor pDNa’ mhNajao na@kI kayaÆ p`oma kaya zrvauna krtat ka²²²

Eliza
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:24 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

yaÜgaIÊ p`oma 'as we know it' is just a very well marketed commodity. malaa vaaTtM naahI kI AsaM naatM jao tumhalaa kÜNa%yaa ka karNaanao hܚnaa ~asadayak hÜtyaÊ to saMpvaayalaa hrkt AsaavaI.

Yogibear
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:36 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Eliza: tu var namaud kolao Aahosa kI ‘saÔla’ hÜNaar nasaola tr... ‘~asadayak’ Aaho Asao ilaihlao naaihyaosa... tsaoca ‘p`oma’ (a Baavanaolaa commodity mhNana malaa trI pTt naahI...

Eliza
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:39 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

pTt malaa doKIla naahI pNa Aaja hoca sa%ya Aaho. AaiNa maI p`omaalaa ~asadayak naahI mhNatoya tr %yaa naa%yaalaa ~asadayak mhNatoya jao ‘p`omaacaa’ pDda DÜL\yaasamaÜÉna hlalaa kI ]rtM.

Deepanjali
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:44 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

‘ I guess vaoLIca baahor pDNao mhNajao %yaa gaÜYTIcaa ’AMjaama‘ kya Aaho maaiht AsalyaamauLo vahavat na jaaNao ²
nakLt tumhI AXaa maulaacyaa / maulaIcyaa p`omaat pDta ijacao lagna hÜ]na tI vya>I sauKI Aaho ikMvaa jyaa vya>Icao dusaáyaavar p`oma Aaho ikMvaa any reason jyaamauLo tI vya>I tumhalaa imaLNaar naahI ho maaiht Aaho²
AXaa vaoLI Jaurt basaNyaa poxaa vaoLIca baahor pDNao yaÜgya naahI kÆ
I think one should move ON if you know 'it won't work' !!

yaÜgaIÊ
malaa trI vaaTto ’p`oma zrvaUna krta yaoto‘ ²
Infact Baarta maQaoca iktI trI arranged marriages caI ]dahrNao AjaunahI idsatatÊ ijaqao navara baayakÜ lagnaa AaQaI ekamaokaMnaa AÜLKthI nasatat AaiNa trIhI jaI couples ekamaokaM barÜbar vaYaa-nauvaYao- sauKI Aahot ²
AXaa p`karo ’zrvaUna‘ kolaoyaa lagnaaM maQao p`omahI eka p`karo ’zrvaUna‘ ca hÜto kI²
AXaa p`karo ’yaXasvaI‘ arranged marriage maQao p`oma sahvaasaanao inamaa-Na hÜto ho izk Aaho pNa lagnaa pUvaI- QyaanaImanaI nasatanaa eKaVa vya>Icyaa sahvaasaalaa ’hÜkar‘ doNao AaiNa %yaa zrvaUna kolaolyaa naa%yaalaa ijavaapaD japNaoÊ ho eka p`karo ’zrvaUna kolaolao‘ p`omaca naahI kaÆÆ
ek qaÜDo ivaYayaalaa Qa$na nasalaolao pNa ’zrvaUna‘ kolaoyaa p`omaacao ]daœNa Vayacao Jaalao tr Child adoption ²
ijaqao eKado couple svat : janma na idlaolyaa baalakaMnaa ijavaapaD p`oma dotoÊ to hI ek p`karcao ’zrvaUna‘ kolaolao p`omaca²


Rachana_barve
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 7:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I don't think kI Aajakala Mr Right or Ms Right Asatat. love at first sight Aist%vaatca nasaava. Its very hard to fall in love.. kÜ^laojacyaa idvasaat p`omaat pDNa jaama saÜp hÜt. Aajakala tsa p`omaat pDta yaot naahI hI caaMgalaI gaÜYT kI vaašT kLt naahI. pNa DÜLsa p`oma k$ nayao eikkDo mhNatanaa AaMQaL p`oma krtaca yaot naahI ho hI samajalao AnauBavaanao :-) saQyaa p`oma kolao mhNajao lagna kolaoca paihjao Asao naahI ha T/oMD Aalaaya mhNatat tÜ ]gaIca naahI. maturity vaaZlaI Aaho. AaiNa p`%yaok naa%yaakDo baGatanaa ho naat AjaUna kahI vaYaa-nao tsaca Asaola ka ho baGaNyaacaI p`va`u<aI doiKla vaaZlaI Aaho. AaiNa samaja naahIca pTla qaÜD\yaa kaLanao tr vaogaL hÜNyaat kaya vaašT Aaho. Baavanaa tXaaca rhavyaat ha A+hasa doiKla caukIcaa Aaho Aqaa-t maaJa mat ho.
%yaamaULo p`omaivavaah Aajakalacaa baraca DÜLsa AsatÜ Asao vaaTto AaiNa tÜ Asaavaa. maO~ItUna puZo p`oma vagaOro ho sahajaIk Aaho pNa %yaathI tÜ ima~ caaMgalaa Aaho mhNaUna relationship successful hܚla AsaohI naahI. kaya Asaola to AsaÜ pNa emotions kmaI Jaalaot ka AsaahI p`XNa pDtÜ. AsaolahI. AnauBavaanaoÊ AaNaI [traMca baGaUna maaNaUsa saavaQa hÜtÜca naahI kaÆ :-)


Yogibear
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 8:40 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

punha maI Asaca mhiNana kI ‘p`oma’ zrvauna krta yaot naahI. sahvaasaanao ‘p`oma’ hܚlaca Asaa kahI rule naaihyaoÊ tovha not every arrange marriage has 'LOVE' as their base . tu jao adoption cao ]dahrNa idlao Aahosa %yaat sauwa zrvauna p`oma kolao jaat naahI tr tI jaÜDPyaacaI garja Asato AaiNa mhNauna maulaacyaa sahvaasaacyaa AÜZIpayaI inamaa-Na JaalaolaI p`oma Baavanaa AsatoÊ %yaalaa zrvauna kolaolao p`oma mhNaayacao ka²²²

AsaÜ... ivaYaya BarkTt jaatÜya...


Jit
Wednesday, March 23, 2005 - 9:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

malaa trI vaaTt p`omaacaI vyaa#yaa p`%yaokacaI vaogaLI Asato. maaJyaapurt saaMgaayaca tr Ms. Right would be someone whom I can tell my mind without any hesitation. maJyaasaazI p`omaacaa savaa-t mah<vaacaa GaTk Aaho ivaXvaasa. maga Asaa ivaXvaasa inamaa-Na vhayalaa AaQaI mao~I nakÜ ka vhayalaa Æ

Gs1
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 4:59 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

ksalao JaurNao kuzlao marNao
saaro kovaL ga`MqaIMcao s~vaNao...


Abhishruti
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 1:33 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

yaÜgaI AaiNa ijatcyaa mataXaI maI pUNa- sahmat Aaho. p`oma Asa zrvaUna vagaOro krta AalaMM Asat tr to zrvaUna saÔlahI krta AalaMM Asat. AsaÜ. saÔla Aqavaa AsaÔla p`omaat pDNao hI Kup BaagyaacaI gaÜYT Aaho AaiNa tI satt maaNasaalaa tÉNa AaiNa AanandI zovaayalaa madt krto. p`omaacaI khaNaI iktIhI k$Na AsalaI trI to AnauBavalaolyaa vya>Ilaa to AmaÜla xaNa AazvaunaÊ %yaacaa prt prt AnauBava Gaotlyaacaa Aanandca imaLtÜ. p`oma ksa hÜtÊ kQaI hÜt ho kLt doKIla naahI. AaiNa Kr p`oma kQaIhI ivasarta yaot naahI. %yaatUna vaoLIca baahor pDNao vagaOro (a gaÜYTI %yaavaoLI saucathIÊ kLthI naahIt AaiNa kLlyaa trI vaLt naahIt.
puZomaagao jaonvha pTtat tonvha tovhZI pirp@vata AalaolaI AsatoÊ
%yaamauLo AXaa vaoLI
‘vaÜ AÔsaanaa ijasao Anjaama tk laanaa na hÜ mauimkna
]sao ek KUbasaUrt maÜD dokr CÜDnaa AcCa²’
mhNauna %yaat kTuta na AaNaNao ho konvhahI baro² samajaa kQaI caukuna ragaacyaa Barat ekmaokavar dÜYaarÜpNa kolao Asaola tr sarL maaÔI maagauna XaovaT gaÜD krNao hoca Kro p`oma²
p`omaaba_la AgadI svaPnaaLU naahI baÜlalaMM trI [tk [nsaoinsaiTva trI nakÜ vhayalaa maayabaÜilakaranaI² naahI kaÆ


Tulip
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 2:18 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Mr.Right hI saMklpnaa p`%yaokca maulaIcyaa manaat Asatoca. Ô> vayaa barÜbarÊ yaoNaaáyaa maturity barÜbar tI klpnaaÊ %yaa Mr. Right cao svaÉp badlat jaato ho na@kI. AaiNa to tsa badlaayalaaca hva naahI kaÆ eka ivaiXaYT saMskaraMmaQaoÊ Aaplyaa kDUna Aaplyaa kuTUMibayaaMcyaa kahI Apoxaa Aahot (acaI klpnaa AsaNaaáyaa Aajacyaa Aamacyaa ipZIcyaa maulaIMcyaa svata : kDUna pNa kahI inaiXcat Apoxaa Asatat. p`omaat pDNaM hÜtca.. pNa kahI kimaTmaonT krayacaI vaoL AalaI kI maa~ pa}la pUNa- ivacaar kolyaa iXavaaya ]calalao jaat naahI ho na@kI. Aata (alaaca jar ‘saÜyaI’nausaar p`oma krNao mhNaayacao Asaola tr Aa<aacyaa kirAr AaiNa [tr [XyaUja ma*%vaacao maanalao gaolaolyaa kaLat %yaa saMdBaa-t naIT ivacaar krNao musT Aaho. kQaIkQaI (a maQaoÊ svat : varÊ samaÜrcyaa maulaavarÊ Aaplyaa p`omaavar pNa Anyaaya hÜt Aaho ho kLtoÊ nakÜ [tka vyavaharIpNaa AMgaat kuzUna Aalaa (acaohI AaXcaya- vaaTto pNa AvyavaharIpNao long term commitment kolaI jaat naahI hohI ittkoca Kro. AgadI Aaplaa svaBaava hopelessly romantic Asalaa trI p`%yaxa vaagatanaa maa~ paya jaimanaIvar zovaavao laagaavaot ho kovhahI vaašTca\š ikMmatca cauktI kolaI jaat Aaho mhNata yaošla pNa lagnaa naMtr Gar kI kirAr ho p`XNa saÜDvat basaNyaapoxaa AaQaIca naIT ivacaar kÉna saÜyaInao p`oma krNao caaMgalao Asaca mhNaava laagatM. ‘p`oma’ kI ‘kirAr’ ha caa^šsa krNyaacaI vaoL yaoNyaapoxaa kirAr laa saaMBaaLUna GaoNaaro p`oma XaÜQaNao jaast caaMgalao.

barocada AsaaXaI AarÜp AaQaIcyaa ipZIkDUna Aa<aacyaa ipZIvar kolaa jaatÜ kI hI maulao maulaI p`omaat pDtat ÔasT AaiNa %yaahUna ÔasT p`omaatUna baahor pDtat. kdacaIt job hopping cyaa baabatIt jao t%va DÜ@yaat Asato toca t%va naatosaMbaMQaaMbaabat hI paLlao jaato AaiNa (atUnaca relationship hopping GaDto. AQaIk caaMgalaa Mr. Right ikMvaa AiQak XaÜBaoXaI Ms. Right imaLNyaacyaa AaBaasaatUna. pNa lavakrca stability cao ma*%va va Ôayado ]magatat AaiNa naatosaMbaMQaaMkDo maturity nao pahIlao jaa} laagato.

g/f b/f AsaNaoÊ p`omaBaMgaatUna jaaNaoÊ (a sava- payaáyaa as a person tumhalaa jaast mature krt naoNaaáyaa Asaavyaat. (atUnaca kdacaIt life long commitment DÜLo ]GaDo zo}na krNyaacaI pirp@vata AMgaat yaot jaato.


Jit
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 2:43 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

I agree with Tulip. AaiNa malaa vaaTt (a sagaL\yaa gaÜYTI Aaplyaa life partner ba_la kLayacyaa AsatIla tr %yaalaa ikMvaa itlaa pUNa-pNao AÜLKNao garjaocao Aaho. AaiNa malaa vaaTt Aajacyaa yaugaat (a sava- gaÜYTIMcaa ivacaar k$na p`oma krNa kahI kizNa naahI :-)

Chandya
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 5:49 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

side A
p`omaalaa ]pmaa naahI
ho dovaaGarcao doNao...

side B
saÜya mhNajao saÜya mhNajao saÜya Asato
tumacaI ina AamacaI AgadI saoma Asato

kaya mhNata yaa AÜLI icallar vaaTtat
BaivaYyaacyaa dRYTInao iqallar vaaTtat

Asalyaa tr AsaU do
Ôsalyaa tr ÔsaU do
trI sauwa
trI sauwaÊ

saÜya mhNajao saÜya mhNajao saÜya Asato
tumacaI ina AamacaI AgadI saoma Asato

marazIt lagna k$na saÜya krta yaoto
]dU- maQyao inakah k$na saÜya krta yaoto

vyavaharat Ôsalaat trI saÜya krta yaoto
ÔÜrona maQyao iXaklaat trI saÜya krta yaoto
planning ho %yaacaca dusarM naoma Asato...


Rangy
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 6:07 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

canVa barÜbar Aaho roÊ maI Aaho saašD A maQyao. hI dÜnhI p`oma vaogavaogaLI Aahot. ekacaI tulanaa dusaáyaaXaI hÜ]ca Xakt naahI. saÜyaI p`maaNao ekacyaa p`omaatUna baahor yao}na pT\kna dusaáyaacyaa p`omaat pTkna pDNaarI laÜk paihlaI Aahot. %yaa Baavanaolaa p`oma mhNaava kI iqallarpNaa to jyaaca %yaanao zrvaava

AiBaEautIÊ yaÜgaI tumacyaa mhNaNyaalaa maaJao pUNa- AnaumaÜdna.


Eliza
Thursday, March 24, 2005 - 6:45 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aajakala naÜkrIÊ vyavasaaya AaiNa iXaxaNaamauLo maulaa maulaIMcaM interaction AaQaIcyaa maanaato iktItrI pT vaaZlaIyao. AsaM AsataMnaa DÜLsapNao (a AXyaa gaÜYTIMkDo baGaayacaI garja Aaho. svaPnaaLU va`utI baaLgauna XaovaTI duÁKca jar vaaTI yaoNaar Asaola tr kaya Aqa- Aaho.

p`oma kravaM pNa to p`oma na@kI p`oma Aaho kaÆ maI AaQaIca mhMTlyaa p`maaNao Aajakala ek naaTkÊ dÜna isanaImao ek~ phIlao kI to p`oma hÜtM AaiNa ‘Aaja pUjaa kla kܚ dUjaa’ (a p`maaNao lagaoca maÜcaa- dusayaa- ‘p`omaakDo’ vaLtÜ. maaJyaa mato ho kahI barÜbar naahI.


Senapatee
Thursday, July 07, 2005 - 8:47 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Aajakala p`omaacao Xaarirk vaya kmaI Jaalaya... career Êjabaabadaáyaa yaa gaÜYTIMcaI tÜMDAÜLK hÜNyaaAgaÜdrca barIca p`oma jauLlaolaI Asatat... yaa vayaat kaya criterian laavaNaar... AXyaa vayaat jamalaolao p`oma ho f> imarvaNyaasaazIca AaiNa ima~aMnaa TIJa krNyaasaazIca Asat...
i have a girlfriend/boyfriend and u don't have mhNauna maI kÜNaItrI vaogaL LI Aaho ho daKvaNyaasaazI jaÜDlaola naat.... that's all


Manuswini
Friday, July 08, 2005 - 5:06 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

aajkaal he prem vagaire kamich asate ase mala vatate...
i am not talking about 15-16 varshi zalele prem. karan tyachya vishayi comment karayala knowledge nahi.:-)

but this is more about when it comes to marriage.
and what i have seen, observed from my friends ,people around..it is more "soy"

lagnat tharvatana "soy" baghatat asech vatate mala..
aani vishesh karun couple madhe ek manus jara jyast efforts gheto aani purnapane emotional asato..tar dusara phakta "soy" aahe manun "drustikon" asato..
this may sound controversial...but this is what i obeserved.

relationship madhe...aajkaal "soy" ch asate ase naahi...after sometime it may be love but more often it is "habit" or " soy" I guess.

and again, one person is more involved emotionally and taking efforts and other is just takes it for granted...thik aahe she or he will care enough....kind of.

Lastly, this is what my thoughts.

Sashal
Saturday, July 09, 2005 - 5:42 pm:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

p`oma AsaNao (acaa na@kI Aqa- kaya AahoÆ

malaa vaaTtM barocada jaovha AapNa p`oma yaavar cacaa- krtÜ tovha to t$Na t$NaI caM p`oma AsatM AaiNa AaplaI samajaUt Asato kI %yaacaI pirNatI hI lagnaat hÜNaar .. pNa lagna AaiNa p`oma yaa dÜna vaogaL\yaa gaÜYTI Aahot .. lagna JaalaM trI p`oma Asaolaca AsaM naahI ikMvaa AsalaMca trI to naYT hÜNyaacaI Xa@yata AsaU Xakto .. maaJyaa matap`maaNao Aaplyaa saMskRtI mauLoÊ Aaplyaavarcyaa saMskaraMmauLo AapNa yaa dÜna gaÜYTIMcaI baroca vaoLa saaMgaD GaalatÜ ..

Aaplyaa samaajaat mhNajao AXaa laÜkaMcyaa kI ijakDo vayaat yaoNaMÊ eKada jaÜDIdar imaLUna lagna hÜNaMÊ puZo maulaM baaLM hÜNaM and so on and so forth Ê AXaa samaajaat p`omaalaa Ôar sqaana idlaM gaolaMya AsaM malaa vaaTt naahI .. ikMvaa maga AaplaI jaI klpnaa Asato kI eKadI gaÜYT ikMvaa vya>I Aaplyaalaa AitXaya AavaDlaI kI tI Aaplyaalaa imaLNaM mhNajaoca Aaplyaa p`omaacaM yaXa hI klpnaa caukIcaI Aaho .. AaiNa AaplaM mana jar ho samajaUna Gaot nasaola tr jao Aaho to sagaLM saÜyaIskr AsatM AsaMca mhNaayalaa hvaM ..

Aaplyaa AaiNa western samaajaatlyaa ‘p`oma’ (a concept maQyao baraca Ôrk Aaho AsaM malaa vaaTtM .. p`oma basalaM AaiNa lagna kolaM AaiNa naahI pTlaM tr idlaM saÜDUna ho Aaplaa samaaja ikMvaa AaplaI saMskRtI approve krt naahI whereas [kDo yaabaabatIt barMca freedom Aaho .. %yaamauLo pTt nasalaMÊ ~asadayak AsalaM trIhI to vaYaa-nauvaYa-. inaBaavaUna naoNaM mhNajao p`oma kI jaovha jao jasaM AavaDola tsaM krNaM mhNajaoca p`oma ho KUp vya>Isaapoxa Aaho ..


Mrunmayi
Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 7:53 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

prem tharvun karata yete ka ? I doubt. pan sahavasatun apoaap prem nirman hote. Jasa apalyakade arrangemarriagemadhe disate. Aaj kal g/f kinva b/f asana he khup common zalay. Pan g/f kinva b/f aahe mhanje prem aahe asa nahi. Karan senapati mhantat tyapramane aajkal hi concept itakya lahan vayat aayushyat yete ki tyavayat prem ani attraction hyatil farak kalatach nasato. Ekhadya vyakti baddal prem asane mhanje tya vyaktivar purna vishwas asane ase mhanu shakato. ti ashi vyakti ki jichyakade aapan aaple man purna mokale karu shakato, jichyakade aapan relax hou shakato. Pan ekmekat vishvas nirman honyasathi sahavas tar havach na... mala nahi vatat first sight love mhanjech prem. Jenva tumhala samorchi vyakti kalu shakate tenvach tumhi tichyashi kahi nate bandhu shakata.. nusata baghun kasa kay prem hota kay mahit. Ani sahavasanantarche prem jar longterm relationship madhe badalat asel tar soyhi nakkich baghitali jail aapoaap ase vatate. Because there is a reason to adjustment. Tenva aadhi prem ani nantar soy hech mala barobar vatate. Keval soy mhanun konavarhi prem karata yena avaghadach aahe.

Mjwatharkar
Sunday, July 10, 2005 - 8:18 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

it is well said in one sanskirt shloka:
"pinde pinde matirbhinna " tyamule ekach relationshipkade aalpali baghanyachi drushti wegali aste. .mala ase watate....
1)prem he ekk ehadya goshtiwishayi watanarya aapulakitun tya goshticha wichar karanyacha manawi swabhav aahe tychyashi nigadit bhawana aahe.
2)obviously hi ji aapulakichi bhawana aahe ti 2 goshti,wyaktinchi ji chemistry julate tyatun nirman hote.aapan sarwani yacha anubhav ghetala aasel ki kahi manasa aaplyala pahilya bhetit aawadtat ,kahinchyashi bolawasasudha watat nahi. & sahawasatun prem wadhat jate pan
tylasudha thodi ka hoina wavelenght julawi lagate. & considering @ the prem which is resulting in the marriage ,i think it is really difficult to justify how that is taking place,...bus "click" ho jata hai & u r finding someone very beautiful on the earth. ya "click" honyawishyi adhik abhyas karane aawashyak aahe.
hence the conclusion mala ase watat nai ki prem he soyikar nata nahi ,tar toomhala ekhadya goshtibaddal watnari oodh aahe. karan soy baghayala suruwat keli ki mag toomhi boundry tharawata. & hi watanari aapulaki hi tya manasawar lahanpanapasun honarya sankaranwrdekhil awalambun asate.

Rajju
Monday, July 11, 2005 - 9:18 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message

Koni sangel ka he prem mhanje nakki kaay aasate? aani khaar prem he oolakhayach tari kaasa?

Maala MJ & yogi che vichar patatat,
Char bhinti ubharlya aani chul mandali ki ghar hot naahin, tyasathi ekmekhanchya oodichi ubechi garaj aahe.
Garati tar saglech bandhatat paan sugarni sarakhe gharte tich bandhu shakte. prem sagalech karatat maag te manatun aase wa aakarshan aaso, mahatvach kaay ki te nibhavane!


Radha_t
Thursday, July 14, 2005 - 4:33 am:   Edit Post Delete Post Print Post  Link to this message


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