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Rshubha: "karan ti paraprantiy sanskruti asali, tari bharatiy ahe" <<<<< Tumche mhananne agadhi barobaar aahe.
Pun maag aapalyala ase ka vatatte ki tyanni hyaa sankrutishi ek rup hou nayee!!! kaa aase vatatte ki tyanna sudhaa apalya kutumbaa baddal oodh aasavi? Kaa ase vatatte ki tyanni apalya apeksha purna karavyaat? Kaa aapan tyanna vayachya 22-24 varsha paryantaa monetarily swatantraa karat nahi? Kaa aapan tyanchya ver yevdhi bandhane thevun aasto?
Hyaa prashnanchi uttare mhanje aapali (bharatiya) sanskruti aase nahi kaa? Aapalya sanskruti madhey ekatra kutumbaa padhati aahe. Aapalyaa sanskruti madhey mothyanna namaskaar karne.....aadrane bolne....ulte naa bolne hey shikavle jaate. Aapalyach sanskruti madhey ayushyaala neet valaan lagave mhanun kahi tharavik bandhaane ghalun dili geli aahet.....aase nahi ka vataat? Bharatiyaach navhe ter asian lokanna "collectivism" behaviourial pattern madhey dharle jaate waa western mhanje (american) lokanna "Indivicualism" hyaa pattern madhey dharle jaate. Me aase nakkich nahi mhannar ki apale culture, tradition and values sarva shreshta aahet pun yevdhe nakkich mhanin ki kahi pramanaat hyanchya culture, tradition aani values peksha nakkich khup changlyaa aahet. Ever good side has a bad side also.....every coin has 2 faces....tevha every sanskruti has some bad things n some good things in it.
Thodkyaat sangaycha mudda yevdhaach aahe ki......lahan paana pasun jer aapan apalya mulanna apalya sanskrutishi thode kaa hoinaa pun jodnyacha prayatna kelaa ter mothe jhalyaver tyanna aase nakkich nahi vatnaar ki "we r not one of them"....karan jevha aashi feeling yete tevhach tumhi teh swikarnyaas tayar nastaa. Jevha tyanna kalaylaa lagel tevhaa heech mule swataha donghi sanskruti madhale je kahi changle aahe teh nahi kaa ghenaar!!!
"Mule rujayala mati lagte" <<<< agadhi barobaar........"tulshi" nusti lavun bagha baher tumchya anganaat.....ti jagnyaasaathi tumhalaach tiche sangopun karave lagte, nahi ka? Mati jari ethaali asli tari tyaa matilaa khatpaani apanach ghalto naa! maag tyaa maticha rangaa aani suwaas apanach ghatlelyaa khaat-panyaa sarkhaa nasnaar kaa? Kiti sundar suwaas aasel tyaa zadanchya fulanchaa waa pausache paani ashya maatit padte tevha kiti sundar suwaas darvalel tyaa matichaa........:)
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aapaN ekach prayatna karu shakato. aaplyala changlya waTNarya bharatiya goshTi aaNi changle local customs donhi mulanparyant pochtil ha prayatna. jyapramaNe mulani career mhaNun kaay niwadawe he palakanni tharawu naye (options matra jarur samjawun saangawyaat) tyachpramaNe koNatya deshabaddal abhimaan waTawa he dekhil ladu naye.
jari aapaN khup involved asalo aaplya mulanmadhye tari ti aapli property nahi he lakshat thewayala hawe (mala dekhil he nehami jamat nahi, paN prayatna asato).
jemvha aapaN bharatabaddal abhiman aahe ase mhaNato, temvha bharatachya paramoarebaddal bolat asato, saddhya tithe kaay suru aahe ya baddal nhave. te je changle sanskar/achar/vichar ahet tyanchyabaddal aapulaki hi pratyaksha bharatabaddal prem na waTatahi waTu shakate.
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yogi, tyapexa tu tuzi tulas kundit law, thadi wara lahu naye mhanun gharat thew, ani manat ale ki kundi uchalun bharatat gheun ja. :)
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Rshubha: advice awadla, pun teh astitvat karta aale ter kitti chaan hoil naa!!! :)
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Lokaho, amchya balaalaa amhi kasa vadhvave he amhi aadhich tharavala aahe. Pan tumchya ithlya likhanane tyaat bhar - ani mahatvachi bhar - nakkich padali aahe. Kadachit nantar kadhitari - jevha mazyakade maze swatahache kaahi anubhav asateel - tevha mi suddha te ikade maanden.
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Ja@kIÊ naOitktoivaYayaIcyaa saamaaijak QaarNaa (a kalasaapoxa Asatat. ³]da. samailaMgaI saMbaMQaakDo pahNyaacaa dRiYTkÜna´. toMvha tumhI saaMigatlaolyaa GaTnaotlyaa naOitktokDo pahNyaacaa dRiYTkÜna kalaaMtranao kdaicat badlaolahI.
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Hi all,
I happen to read all of this only today. Quite an interesting discussion. Really enjoyed views of all of you. We are going through the same phase here in Europe, with the added problem of language.
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mvelanka....jari naitiktechya kalpana kalsapeksha asalya, tari suddha kanhi goshtinchi yogyata (propriety) abadhit rahayla harkat nasawi. Jase ki lahan mulana nudity kinwa sexual scenes dakhwane, kinwa incestuous behaviour vagaire. yat tya goshti karnyas aai vadilanchi purna sammati aaNi protsahan disun yete. he jar tumhala yogya waTat asel tar goshtch vegLi.
To all
mulana ameriket kinwa paradeshat kase vadhwawe yat mahatwacha mudda ha aahe ki aaplya sanskrutichya kontya goshti aapNaas mahatwachya waTataat. Jevha aapaN yabaabat nakki Tharvu, teva aaplyala tya goshti mulaana shikavnyacha prayatna karta yeyil. jase ki
1. aaplya dharmabaddal aastha aaNi itar dharmabaddal sahishnuta. Gor gariba vishyi daya. Niswarthta(sharing), Bharatiya chaliriti, kapade, jewaN, saN ityadichi mahiti.
2. mothyanbaddal aadar dakhwine. yacha arth asa naahi ki mulani aapli vegLee mate sangu nayet, paN ti sangatana suddha uddhatpaNa nasawa.
sarwana madat karnyachi aaNi sarwanshi, kamitkami natewaikanshi aaplepaNaane vagnyachi shikwaN mulana deNe.
3.majhya mate bhasheche, mag ti koNtihi Bharatiya bhasha aso, tiche bolnyache aaNi lihinyavachnyache dnyan ha bharatiya sanskrutishi sambandh sadhNara motha dua Tharato. jya mulala ekhada dnyaneshwarancha abhang, premchand chi gosht, ravindranathanchi kavita asa kanhi aavaDlel asel tyala ya goshti mahit nasaNarya mulapeksha nakkich bharatiya sanskruti jast javaLchi vatel.
4.Mulana bharataat kahi varsha Thevalyane tyana bharatiya chaliriti, bhasha ityadichi mahiti hoyil kinwa hote yabaddal mala shanka waTat nahi, paN he sarwanach jamel ase nahi, karaN ek tar bharataat ase koni natewaik paahijet. tasech mulana vadhwinyasaaThi aai vadil hyach sarvwat yogya vyakti aahet ase mala waTate. hi jabaabadari dusryawar na Taakleli bari. jar aai kinwa vadil bharataat mulana gheun rahaNaar asateel tar dusrya vyaktine (spouse) ekte rahaNyacha prashna yeto, tenva jethe hi gosta sahaj karNyajogi asel tethe mulana bharataat kahi varshe rahanyacha fayada hoil ase waTate.
5.mi los angeles bhagat rahat asun yethe pushkaL marathi kutumbe aahet jyaanchi mule aata moThi jhali aahet. tyanchya kaDe paahun lakshat yete ki jar tumhala barech bharatiya aahet asha Thikani mulana gheun rahata aale tar tyacha khoop fayada hoto. saN, itar bharatiya samarambh mothya pramanat hot asalyane tyaachi mahati hote. yashiway mulana chinmaya mission, vishwa hindu parishad sarakhya lokani chalvilelya balvihar madhye nele tar tyana dharmachihi pushkaL mahati hote.
6. mulana swatantra vyaktimatva wadhwu dyawe ya matacha mi asalo tari mala asehi watate ki mule mothi hoiparyant tyana disha dakhwinyache (giving direction) aaNi tumhala kay yogya waTate te sangaNyache aaNi tyana chukiche nirNay na gheu deNyache kaam aai vadilanchech aahe. lahan mulana moThya maNasapramane vagvun chalNar nahi. jase ki saha varshachya mulala tyane cigarette odhavi ki nahi yacha nirNay aapan gheu deu shakat nahi. mul mothe hoiparayant haLu haLu tyala yogya te nirNay ghyala shikawale pahije. jar tumhi mulana aaplya dharma baddal, chaliritibaddal kahihi sangitle nahi aaNi te sarv tyanchyawar soDun dile tar mule bara tera varshachi jhalyawar ti "i don't want to visit that dirty poor country of India " mhaNaali tar aashchrya watnyache karan naahi.
6.mulana aapan ameriket asalo tari aaplya bharatiya varasacha (heritage) yogya to abhimaan aaNi jaaNiv rahil ase shikshan deNyachi aavashyakata aahe, karaN aaplya sanskruteetlya kityek goshti koNtyahi kaLat aaNi jagaat kuThehi asalo tari abhimaan baLgaNyasarkhya aahet. mule swatahala purNapaNe american samajali tari itar lok tyana indian samajtil he hi visarun chalNar nahi.
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kovaL Amauk gaÜYT BaartIya Aaho mhNaUna tumhI kra Asao mhMTlao tr maulao eokt naahIt. karNa maulaIMnaa vayaacyaa 8..9 vyaa vaYaa-pasaUna ina maulaaMnaa 10..12 vya vaYaa-pasaUna peer pressure caa p`a^blaoma yao} laagatÜ. toMvha BaartIya AsaÜ ikMvaa nasaÜÊ tumhI ho Asao Asao vaagaNao barÜbar AahoÊ Asao saaMgaUnaca kahItrI iXakvaavao laagaola. jaIvanaat Qamaa-laa ma*%va Aaho. palakaMcaa Qama- tÜ maulaaMcaa Qama- AsatÜ. mhNaUna tU ihMdU Qamaa-p`maaNao vaagaÊ karNa maI tulaa tovhZoca iXakvaU Xakona. naMtr tU sa&ana Jaalyaavar tulaa kaya vaaTola to kr. Aata 10 vaYao- jar AapNa %yaaMnaa ihMdU Qamaa-cao naIT baaLkDU pajalao tr to Qama- badlaNyaacaI Xa@yata kmaI Aaho. ihMdU Qamaa-caI [tkI rituals Aahot %yaaMcaa Aqa- AaQaI svatÁ samajaUna Gaotlaa pahIjao. doXakalapr%vao %yaat badla kolaat trI caalaola Asaoca Aaplaa Qama- mhNatÜ. toMvha maulaaMcyaa lahanapNaI hI palakaMcaI jabaadarI Aaho. pNa palakca jar %yaa rituals ba_la ]dasaIna raihlaoÊ ikMvaa %yaacaI caoYTaca k$ laagalao tr ibacaaáyaa maulaaMcaa kaya dÜYaÆ tIca gaÜYT [tr gaÜYTIMcaI. [qalyaaca kayaÊ Baartatlyaa maulaaMnaa doiKla Aaplyaa vaoLcyaaca saaMsaÌtIk gaÜiYTMba_la Aasqaa AsaNao kzINaca. pNa %yaaMnaa inadana maaihtI trI AsaavaI. [qalyaa maulaaMcyaa matoÊ thank you, please [. gaÜYTI tabaDtÜba kolyaa naahItÊ tr %yaaMnaa to AsaMsaÌt vaaTto. maÜz\yaaMnaa lagaoca namaskar kolaa naahI tr Aaplyaalaa to AsaMsaÌt vaaTto. pNa maÜz\yaaMnaa namaskar ka krayacaa yaacao caaMgalao karNa saaMigatlao tr to lagaoca k$ laagatIla.
mau#ya mhNajao AaplyaakDo sava-~ Aaplyaa saMsaÌtIcao jasao vaatavarNa Asato tsao [qao AaNaNao kzINa AahoÊ hohI ek karNa Aaho kI [qalyaa maulaaMnaa Aaplyaa saMsaÌtI cao &ana naahI. Qaak dpTXaa k$na maulaaMnaa iXakvaayacaa jamaanaa gaolaa.
AsaÜ. maI Aaplao maaJao mat saaMigatlao.
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Zakki,
If I am not mistaken, tumachi mule ithech janmali va vadhali. Tyana American va Bharatiya mhanunhi vadhavatana tras jhala asel. If you don't mind jar tumache anubhav tumhi share kelet tar aamhala madat hoil.
Mala 15 mahinyachi mulgi aahe. We are proud to be Indians but at the same time we think that there are so many good things here also. In this world, nothing is perfect. You have to choose whatever you feel is good for you. If anybody tries to say something bad about India we don't like it. Similarly if anybody tries to say something bad about USA on the basis of ignorance we do not agree with that. Our culture is definitely a great culture. But telling our kids to do certain things blindly is not right. As Zhakki says we have to explain that to them, why he/she needs to do certain things. I think they will definitely follow that.
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koyaÊ maI kuNaI baala maanasa Xaas~acaa t& naahIÊ mhNaUna maI jao saaMgatÜ to tulaa pTlao trca tU maanya kr. maaJyaa matoÊ jaÜpya-Mt maulaaMnaa svatÁ ivacaar krNyaacaI A@kla yaot naahI tÜpya-Mt khI caaMgalyaa savayaI AapNaca laavaayalaa paihjaot. jasao maaJaa Qamaa-varÊ dovaavar ivaXvaasa Aaho. mhNaUna sakaLI ]zUna dovaalaa namaskar krNaoÊ kahI p`aqa-naa mhNaNaoÊ saMQyaakaLI dovaasamaÜr idvaa laavaNao ina punaÁ p`aqa-naa mhNaUna namaskar krNao AXyaa gaÜYTI AapNahI kravyaatÊ naI maulaaMnaa AaplyaabarÜbar Gao}na kravyaat. lahana maulaaMnaa jagaatIla yaccayaavat\ gaÜYTIMba_la p`caMD AÝ%sau@ya AsatoÊ puZohI maulao AapNa krtÜ tsaoca krtatÊ AapNa saaMgatÜ tsao naahI² AamhI Baartat jaatÜ to Aamacao naatovaak AaiNa ima~ yaaMnaa BaoTUna Aamhalaa KUp AanaMd hÜtÜÊ Aamacyaa jaIvanaatlyaa jaagaaÊ Aamacyaa itqalyaa AazvaNaIMcaa punaÁp`%yaya yaa saazI jaatÜ. mhNaUna Aamhalaa p`dUYaNaÊ gadI-Ê laaca laucaptÊ dairV` Asalyaa gaÜYTI jaaNavalyaa trI %yaa manaavar Gaot naahI. pNa maulaaMcao tsao nasato. Ku_ maaJyaa AaiNa maaJyaa ima~aMcyaa maulaaMcyaa kanaavar f> BaartatIla laaca laucaptÊ [. vaa[T gaÜYTIca kanaavar pDlyaaÊ AaiNa Aata baroca maÜzo Jaalyavar %yaaMnaa sau+I Gao}na Baartat jaaNyaapoxaa BermudA cruise laa jaaNao AavaDto. hI AamacaI caUk. svatÁlaa jar pirisqait sauQaarNyaacaI [cCa nasaola tr ]gaIca naavao zovaNyaat kaya Aqa- AahoÊ ho maI far ]XaIra iXaklaÜ.
Baartat XaojaarIÊ AaiNa sava- samaaja Aaplyaaca saMsaÌtIcaa Asalyaanao maulao baahor gaolaI trI frk pDt naahIÊ pNa [qao ]laT AahoÊ mhNaUna maulaaMkDo jaast laxa doNao AaiNa cacaa- krNao jaast AavaXyak Aaho.
ho sava- laÜka saaMgao ba`*m&ana. yaa svaÉpacao Aaho ho laxaat Gyaa.
jaata jaata..idvaa Gao}na vaacaa.. puNaokraMvar TIka krayalaa ha inayama laagaU naahI.
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Zakki,
Tumhi mhanata te agadi barobar aahe. Joparayant mulana swat: vichar karata yet nahi, toparyant ti aapale blindly anukaran karatat ha anubhav mi sadhya ghete aahe. Majha swatacha devavar, changlya chaliritinvar vishwas aahe. Roj dewala diwa lawun namaskar kartana majhi mulagi na shikavita namaskar karu lagali aahe. Hi goshta barech kahi shikawun geli! Pan kalatya vayat aalyavar ti ha prashna jarur vicharnar ki aapan ase ka karayche? Tevha tila jar 'mi mhante mhanun' ase uttar na deta yogya uttar dile tar ti nakkich aapanhun follow karel.
>>Aapan karto tech mule karatat, aapan sangto te nahi... 100% maanya! Tumach salla jarur laksht tevin. Thanks
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maaJaI maulao [qaoca janmalaI AaiNa [qaoca vaaZlaI Aahot. Aataca maI puNyaalaa jaa}na Aalao maaJyaa AnauBavaaMva$na ilaihto Aaho
AamhI 10 families nao imaLUna ek saMskar maMDL naavaacaa group kolaa. dr rivavaarI AamhI BaoTtÜ. maula lahana Asatanaa %yaaMnaa Baartacyaa gaÜYTI saaMgaayacaÜÊ AaplaI ilapI iXakvalaIÊ Bajana AaiNa XlaÜk iXakvalao. lahanapNaIca ho sava- sau$ kolyaamauLo ]ccaar caaMgalao Jaalao. ha class Ô> maulaaMkrta nhvata. AavaiDlaaMnaIhI %yaat compulsary qaaMbaayalaa laagaayacao. it is a family commitment and not just a baby sitting class maaJaI maulao vyavasqaIt marazI ilahU va vaacaU Xaktat. ha group maulaaMnaa Aaplyaa saar@yaa [tr maulaaMXaI social interaction krayalaahI caaMgalaa Jaalaa.
Garat lahanapNaapsaUna maulao jao phatat %yaacao to AnaukrNa krtat. %yaamauLo Garat BaaYaa AaiNa Aapla culture caalaU zovala tr maula to caalaU zovatat.
AapNa [qao vaaZNaayaa- maulaaMcaI kaLjaI krtÜ. maI tr hllaI India tlyaa maulaaMcaI kaLjaI krto karNa Aaplyaa [qalyaa maulaMpo@Xaa tIca jaast western AnaukrNa k$ laagalaI Aahot. AapNa [qao AsalyaamauLo maulaaMkDo jaast kaTokÜrpNao la@Xa zovatÜ. kuzo gaolaaÊ kaya krtÜÊ %yaacao ima~ kÜNaÊ %yaaMnaa tÜ GarI AaNatÜ ka ...vagaOro
prt maaJao AjaUna ivacaar ilahIna.
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Arch: farach chaan....agadhi surekh kalpana..."Sanskaar Mandal" me jaar jawal rahat aasto ter me sudhaa join zaalo aasto :) Tumhi families hey sarva milun kartaa hey me ekamev udaharan baghitle aahe aata paryantchya US trip madhey, baaki sarva thikaani its more of baby sitting type things......haa upakram jaar US bhaar sarva maharashtrian families ne (not any mandals like maharashtra mandal) haati ghetlaa ter maag culture aani tradition baddal je prashna aapalya sarva US waasiyannaa bhedsavtaat teh rahanarach nahit....nahi kaa!
Tumhi sangitlyaa pramane....kharach aaj bhartaat jee pidhi college aani schools madhey ahe tee matra western culture agadhi sarraas paane naa vichar kartaa accept karte aahe tyanna konitari patvun dile pahije ki dont accept things blindly nahiter Indian Rich Culture will be very soon known as Upgraded to American Culture....arthaat he matra khantechi baab aasel :((
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Arch,
Khupch chan kalpana. Mi ithe ase kahi karata yete ka baghate. Pan sangatana khed hoto ki asha vicharnachi marathi kutumbe phar kami aahet. Ganesh Chaturthi sajari karavi mhanun marathi kutumbe ekatra aantana khup kashta padale. Mahinyatun ek diwas jamane yanna avaghad watate, te aathavadyatun ek diwas kay jamanar? Pan me tarihi prayatna karanar aahe. Baghu kiti yash yete te.
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Aaca-Ê tumacaI klpnaa ekdma sauMdr. AamhI f> dÜna AazvaD\yaatUna ekda maulaaMnaa marazI iXakvatÜ. pNa %yaapoxaa ho Cana Aaho. ekMdrIt caar mahraiYT/ya kuTuMbao ek~ yao}na %yaaMcyaatÊ Qama-Ê saMskar yaabaabatIt ekmat hÜNao kzINaca. pNa kolyaanao hÜt Aaho ro.....maI hI klpnaa Aamacyaa mahraYT/ maMDLat maaMDtÜ. Qanyavaad.
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well... i agree with almost all of u guys' views. some ppl agree with keeping children away from bad things as much and as long as possible. this works only if parents r going to stay with their children forever. because then they can prevent their kids from coming across these situations whenever they want. but if.... if ur kids r not with u... away from u. then the only thing that helps them in these situations is the exposure to the similar situations when u were around. this all may seem a little bit confusing as i am not that articulate or good to explain. but the best way to prepare ur children against anything is to expose them to those things and see how they treat it... then understand why they treat those things that way, and then u might catch their stream of thoughts. then discuss those things, make them reason their response on such things and after this u PROPOSE (i stress on this word as it is totally different than TEACH as there is no force applied in PROPOSING) ur views which u think r right according to u... and then let ur kids choose which one is better from those views. now i understand that this is way too complicated while dealing with small kids. but if u take a look at kids (new generation) nowadays, u'll find that they r catching up with all things much faster than the previous generations used to do. they take decisions much faster than we used to do. they think faster than we did at their age. so i don't think it is difficult to use this kind of strategy to deal all things (positive as well as negatives, because main thing here is being impartial while dealing with things). now i am in united states since last yr studying Ph.D. in chemical engg. my parents r not very educated.. just matric passed. but instead of stressing us (me and my younger bro and elder sis)they just explained importance of education thru their own experience... gave us the education which was outside the books that we had in our schools... and i guess that's all that we needed to reach where we are now and live in a way that they r not worried about how i react to teh things that come across me here... coz they already know that. i know, still long way to go.
so the point i wanted to state is instead of putting ur kids inside a cocoon till it develops wings inside that cocoon... let them realise what kind of air they r going to fly in... and that will make it easier for them as well as u to fly... without any care. i might have said the things that may not relate to this issue... but after reading all ur people's views realised that it's the right place to put my views too, and get an opportunity to correct myself if needed.
this paragraph my seem a bit idealistic... but it is true, because if i had to write about the same thing few yrs back, i couldn't have thought about all these words and analogies. it's just the things i saw and read in past few yrs that made me able to find such analogies... and to best of my knowledge these are the closest to the reality.
i would like to be corrected as i am still on the track of learning a lot of things.
thanx a lot.
take care. bye.
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Shriniwas, it was a pleasure to share your views. I hope you'll be sharing them more often.
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Shriniwas, it was indeed to nice to know your views.
Quite an intersting discussion.
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thanx guys. but let me know ur views too... coz as i have seen everybody has somethings that is good to know about. take care.
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Rati
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hi everybody,
does anybody have more than one child?
how is it like taking care of two kids in USA? right now i've one daugther (21/2yrs)with whom i already have tough time, but we also have to think of a company for her in the long run and also want to complete my family .
are there any suggestions?
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Yes. I have 2 kids. However, our daughter is just 1 week old, so no such experience yet.
yaa ivaYayaavar malaa pNa mat ilahayacao AahoÊ naMtr jamaola tovha saivastr ilaihna.
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Simran
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manDLIÊ malaa palak%va (parenting) yaa ivaYayaavar maaga-dXa-na krNaaryaa marazI vaobasaaT\sa hvyaa Aahot...kÜNaalaa maaiht Asalyaasa Ëupyaa
kLvaNao....
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sausvaagatma\ !!!
Rati,
ihtgaujavar Aaplao haid-k svaagat. ihtgaujatfo- Aaplyaalaa hI CÜTIXaI BaoT .
ihtgaujavarIla sava- ivaBaagaaMnaa AvaXya BaoT Va .
dovanaagarI laoKnaasaazI ]pyau> maaihtI yaoqao pha. dovanaagarI
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rati Ê yaa doXaat AalyaanaMtr dÜna maulaM AsaNaM AavaXyak Aaho (acaI malaa jaaiNava JaalaI. lahana maulaaMcaM
ek vaogaLM ivaXva AsatM . maÜz\yaa maaNasaanaI %yaat saaimala hÜNyaacaa iktIhI p`ya%na kolaa trI %yaalaa
mayaa-da Asatat.
%yaatUna hvaamaana Asao kI vaYaa-tUna saha saha maihnao Garat basaayacaoÊ XaojaarI pajaarI ksao AsatIla
%yaacaI Ka~I naahIÊ kayado kanaUna Asao kI maulaanaa maÜkLIk VayacaI mhTlaI trI dota yaot naahI.
AXaa vaoLI jauLM nasalaM trI maagacaM puZcaM ek BaavaMD Asaola tr KoLNyaat naahI tr BaaMDNyaat vaoL jaa}
XaktÜ.
kuzo ifrayalaa jaavaM mhTlaM trI caar caar tasa gaaDIt kaZavao laagatatÊ maga Aa baap puZo Driving AaiNa Navigation krtÊ AaiNa maulaM maagao basatat. dÜGaM AsatIla tr dMgaa trI krtIla.
yaa ivaYayaavar ilahavaM tovaZ qaÜDM Aaho. AaiNa maulaanaa janmaalaa Gaalatanaa puZo %yaaMcao saMgaÜpna
AaiNa Kca- ivacaarat Gyaavaoca laagatat. pNa tÜ p`Xna nasaola tr ek sao dÜ Balao Asao malaa vaaTto.
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Vinay, samja 2 bhinna lingachi mula jhali mhanje 1 mulga ani dusri mulgi, tar tyanna ekmekanchi mhanavi tashi company milat nahi. karan americet certain things are girl things and certain things are boy things asa janma pasunach bhed asto shivay 2 mulanmadhye 3-4 varshacha antar asel tar mug bolaychach nahi. in this scenario mulanna company ha hetu sadhya hot nahi asa tula watat nahi ka?
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Abedekar
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thought it might be relevant on this BB
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Rangy
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| | Saturday, July 10, 2004 - 5:46 am: |
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lol, aditya:-) yes, very relevant!
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ivanayacyaa mataXaI maIhI sahmat AahoÊ jar pirisqatI Anaukula Asaola tr koMMvhahI eksao Balao dܲ tI
iBaÙailangaI AsalaI tr Ôarsaa Ôrk pDtÜ Asao malaa vaaTt naahI karNa Aata hI gaÜYT maulaInaI krayacaIÊ
hI maulaanaI krayacaI Asaa BaodBaava kÜNaI krt naahI³k$ nayao´. maI sauÉvaatIlaa Amaoirkot AaiNa Aata
Baartat dÜna maulaaMMnaa vaaZvatoyaÊ dÜGaaMMmaQao AntrhI baáyaapOkI Aaho trI to ekmaokaMMnaa caangalaI
kmpnaI dotat AaiNa dngaaÊ BaanDNahI BarpUr krtat. AaiNa ivanayanaI saaingatlyaap`maaNao p`vaasaat iknvaa
TUirngacyaa vaoLI tI baÜAr hÜt naahIt. maI baáyaaca vaoLa ekTIca %yaaMMnaa Gao}na doXaÜdoXaI jaato. %yaat
maÜ{I maulagaI Asalyaanao QaakT\yaalaa saamBaaLayalaa tI malaa KUp madt krto. iXavaaya Aata malaahI itcaI
caangalaI kmpnaI imaLto.
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Ashu
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| | Tuesday, February 01, 2005 - 9:26 pm: |
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maI ga tIna vaXao- [qao Amaoirkot Aaho.Aata maaJaa maulagaa 4 maihnyaancaa Jaalaa.maI saÜF,T\vaoAr einjanaIr
Aaho pNa Aatapya-nt naÜkrI krt nav*toÊ Aata krayacaI AahoÊ tr maulaalaa kovhapasauna [qalyaa Do koAr maQao
zovaNao caangalaoÆ Ajauna tÜ ek vaXaa-caa hÜ[pya-nt malaa saasaubaa AaiNa AacaI madt Aaho pNa %yaananatr
%yaalaa Baartat paz\vauna prt [kDo AaNalao tr maulao rahtat kaÆ AnauBavaI AayaaÙI Ëupyaa maaga-dXa-na
kravao
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AaXauÊ malaa Aajauna parenting ca AnauBava naahIÊ pNa tumhI mhNata tsa maaJyaa eka AÜLKI cyaanaI kola mhNajao maulaI laa AajaI kDo
³Aa[ cyaa Aa[ kDo´ 4 maihnyaacaI Asalyaa psauna dID vaXaa-caI hÜ pya-nt zovalao. maga AajaI itlaa prt
Amaoirkolaa Gao}na AalaI AaiNa maihnyaa Barat Baartat prt gaolaI.
%yaa icamaukila caI Avasqaa kaihXaI AXaI hÜtI.. pihlyaa pihlyaaMda it itcyaa Aa[ baabaaM pasauna lapayacaIÊ
maga hLU hLU %yaaMcaI savaya JaalaI tXaI tI %yaaMcyaa barÜbar na rDta rhatoÊ pNa Aaja tI ADIja vaXaa-caI
Aaho AaiNa tI AajaunahI baÜlat naahI. shyness naI na baÜlaNa vaogaL its like she doesn't know how to talk. all her talking is through her very expressive eyes.
I think each person has to decide for themselves what they want to do, but I would have kept my child with me (and at daycare) even if I worked, because I think its important for children to see / be /stay with their parents at least part of the day, if not all of the day.
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Lalu
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| | Wednesday, February 02, 2005 - 6:29 pm: |
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Kids go to the day care from as early as 3 weeks! My son started full-day day care when he was 6 months old. Ashu, you are lucky that you have support for at least a year. Then you can send you child to a day care. Actually, start sending him part-time when you still have support of your mom/mom-in-law so he will get used to it.
Kids need to stay with their parents. period!
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Storvi
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| | Wednesday, February 02, 2005 - 9:42 pm: |
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I started daycare for Aarohi when she was 2 mos old. What I did for her is, started her on a couple of hours at daycare when I was still on maternity leave and mom was around to help me. Then I gradually increased that time to 4 hours, and I started working part time. (I would drop her off, and KT would pick her up and drop her off so Mom could take care of her for the next half hour since it took me that long to commute).
Then after a few weeks from then on I have been sending her for 5 hours everyday. I work from 6 to 3 and kt works from 10 to 7. That way KT drops her off at 10(may I add that he is very good at take care of cleaning and getting her ready) and I pick her up at 3. This works for us. It's standard practice these days for S/W companies to have flexi-hours. You can figure out what works for you.
As for Aarohi, she loves it at the day care. She can't wait to go there in the mornings, and can't wait for me to pick her up in the evenings.
She goes there excited and comes home excited.
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Ashu
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| | Friday, February 04, 2005 - 7:07 pm: |
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Thank you very much for all the support
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