Mona
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| | Sunday, January 18, 2004 - 4:28 am: | 
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maMDLIÊ kuNaalaa BaartIya Nanny caa AnauBava Asalyaasa [qao Taka. ima maaJyaa 2 maulaaMnaa Day Care laa pazvaavao kI Nanny try kravaI yaa saMBa`maat Aaho . If any of you have had an experience, I would really appreciate your input. Are Indian nannies safe ? WHat is the approximate monthly/weekly pay for 2 kids age 3.5 and 5 months for live-in, live out nanny? What tasks are included , I have heard some nannies do household chores like cooking, cleaning etc ? Thanks for all your input.
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Mona
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| | Wednesday, January 21, 2004 - 2:57 pm: |
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Working women with kids!!! Please respond...
[qao kuNaalaaca nanny caa AnauBava naahI ka Æ
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Keshar
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| | Friday, March 12, 2004 - 1:12 am: |
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mona mi ha bb aatach vachala....mala personal anubhav kahich nahi pan baryach puneri maitrini aani bhaini aslyane ...mala je mahit aahe te hech ki nannies peksha tu mulana ekhadya mantyaprapt daycare madhe thev tyayoge mul jara char mulamadhe rahtat aani chan develop hotat...
above all tu jar nanni thevayacha nirnay ghet ashashil tar tu wayavsthit chaukashi karun ,khatri karun thev...i can tell you this much only!
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Dswati
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 6:02 pm: |
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maÜnaaÊ
yaoqao barIca vaYao- raihlaolyaa maMDLIMmaQao ha AnauBava tulaa kmaIca saapDola.
malaahI first-hand AnauBava naahIcaÊ karNa malaa Aaplyaa Garat idvasaBar baahorcaI vya>I yao}na kama krNyaacaI savaya
raihlaolaI naahIÊ pNa [tr maOi~NaIMcao kahI AnauBava saaMgato.
1. BaartIya na^naIÊ Garat qaÜDI svayapakat AaiNa saaÔsaÔat madt AaiNa idvasaBar maUla saaMBaaLto. GarI
jaayacyaa AaQaI saMQyaakaLcaI BaajaI icarNaoÊ vaoL Asalyaasa pÜL\yaahI k$na zovato. ek maUlaÊ maihnyaacaa
pgaar 1500Ê irsaIT naahI. yaa baaMnaa %yaaMcyaa Garcao kÜNaItrI sakaLI saÜDtatÊ va saMQyaakaLI Gao}na
jaatat. maO~INaIlaa %yaaMcao kama ekdma psaMt.
2. Live-in nanny naopaLI baaÊ qaÜDo varcao kama krtatÊ va maulaaMcao kpDo vagaOro QauvaUna zovatat. maulaaMcao duparcao
jaovaNa banavatat va saMQyaakaLsaazI BaajaI ica$na doNaoÊ pÜL\yaa krNao ho maO~INa Aalyaavar itcyaabarÜbar
krtat. tsaoca maulaaMnaa saMQyaakaLI iÔrayalaa naotat. saÜmavaar to XauËvaar GarIca rhatat. 2 maulaoÊ
1 ek vaYaa-KalaIlaÊ dusaro 4 vaYaa-Mcao. maihnyaacaa pgaar 2500Ê vaya saaQaarNa 55Ê irsaIT naahI. 4 vaYaa-cao
maUla AazvaD\yaatUna dÜna idvasa sakaLI dÜna tasa pre-school laa jaato. Garcyaasaar#yaa rahtatÊ pDola %yaa varcyaa kamaat madt krtat. yaa maO~INaIcyaa matoÊ QaakTo
maUla dID vaYaa-cao hÜpya-Mt tI ho caalaU zovaNaar Aaho.
3. AaNaKI ek maO~INa AahoÊ itcaa AnauBava Ôarsaa caaMgalaa naahIÊ itlaa dÜna jauL\yaa maulaI Aahot. vaya
saaGaarNa 50Ê pgaar 2500 maihnaaÊ irsaIT naahIÊ live-in nanny BaartIya baa. %yaaMAa GaratlaI kamao jamaayacaI naahItÊ tI maQaoca kQaI duparI vagaOro AalaI tr Garat
gaÜMQaL Asaayacaa. saMQyaakaLI tI Aalyaavar %yaa Ô> baaLaMkDo baGaayacyaa. maulaI 2 maihnyaacyaa Jaalyaavar
%yaa yaayalaa laagalyaa hÜ%yaaÊ va %yaanaMtr 2 AazvaD\yaaMnaI tI kamaalaa jaayalaa laagalaI hÜtI. itnao
2 maihnyaatca naÜkrI saÜDUna idlaIÊ va Aata 3 vaYao- GarIca Aaho.
ho AnauBava vaogavaogaL\yaa izkaNacao va vaoLcao Aahot %yaamauLo pgaarat tÔavat AsaU Xakto.
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1500 AaiNa 2500 DÜ^lasa-Æ baapro 
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Arch
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 7:42 pm: |
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rcanaa AiNa to pNa tax free .
iXairYa kNaokrcyaa pustkat vaacala hÜt. %yaaMcaa Florida t kaya-Ëma hÜta. kaya-Ëma sau$ vhayacyaa AaQaI announcement JaalaI kaya-Ëmaaca itikT 3 dollars Aaho. lahana maulaaMsaazI baby sitting arrange kolaola Aaho p`%yaokI maulaasaazI 5 dollars kNaokr manaat mhNaalao maI baby sitting ca krtÜ. kaya-Ëma tumacyaapOkIca kÜNaItrI saMBaaLUna Gaola 
maÜnaaÊ rcanaanao ho vaacala kI maI delete krona
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KI KI Aaca-.. Krya.. mhNajao inammyaapoxaa jaast pgaar (a babysitting laa Vayacaa. sorry maÜnaa ivaYaya BalatIkDo naolyaaba_la
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Dswati
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 8:57 pm: |
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rcanaaÊ
maulaaMnaa child-care center ikMvaa babysitter kDo zovatanaa maI svatÁ 1000-1200 maihnaa p`%yaok maulaacao idlao AahotcaÊ %yaamauLo kdaicat malaa 1500 AaiNa 2500 cao AakDo eokUna Qa@ka
basalaa nasaola.
naahI mhTlaM trI Aaplyaa GarI yao}na %yaaMnaI kama kolaM AaiNa svayapak va varkamaat madt kolaI tr qaÜDosao
trI jaast Asaavaot mhNaUna barÜbar vaaTtat. Aqaa-t ha maaJaa svatÁcaa AnauBava naahIÊ eokIva Aaho.
Nanny service ikMvaa au-pair (a AaNaKI mahaga Asatat Asao eoklao AahoÊ pNa %yaaMcaa insurance vagaOro %yaaMcaI agency saaMBaaLto.
irsaIT na Gaota AXaI vyavasqaa kolaI tr nanny laa tax-free AaiNa Aaplyaalaa after-tax mhNajao tsao mahagaca vaaTto.
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Abedekar
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 9:59 pm: |
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swati: this whole point about "receipted" payment seems to be over-rated, doesnt it?
how does it matter to you as an individual whether the nanny expense is a receipted one or not - its entirely between her and the IRS (or is there a resentment that you pay income tax and she probably doesnt??)- its not like you get a tax break for hiring a nanny, if you were indeed able to providfe a receipt ?
unless someone evaluates your financial records and finds a monthly deduction of 1500 or 2500 from your account, it really doesnt matter, does it?
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Arch
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 10:38 pm: |
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Aaid%yaÊ married couple with children naa child care ca deduction Gaota yaot. %yaasaazI Kca- kolaolao pOsao day care cyaa id var ikMvaa baby sitter cyaa SSN daKvaavao laagatat. jar cash payment Asaola AaiNa receipt nasaola mhNajao to laÜk report krNaar naaiht Asaaca Aqa-. mhNajao to laÜkaMnaa%yaaMcyaa SSN var report krayaca naahI Asa saaMgat AsatIla naahI kaÆ maga ho parents deduction ksa Gaot AsaNaarÆ. inadana maaJaI trI AXaI samajaUt JaalaI Aaho. baakI maaiht naahI
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I agree with abedekar.
Moreover, you can contribute upto $5000 per year in dependent care flex account. So I think you will save tax on $5000 at the most. If you want to claim that tax benefit, then you have to give daycare provider's EIN number. So you can send the child in daycare until you get the benefit upto amount $5000. However, do not forget to adjust your flex account deduction accordingly, as the money to be claimed for dependent care must be in the FSA account first.
Whether to declare the amount earned to IRS is Nanny's problem. If you are "really" worried about that, then pay upto $11,000/- from husband's account and pay $11,000/- from wife's account. As per IRS, there is no gift tax upto $11,000/- so you need not worry about the gift tax (which is payable by you) if Nanny claims that amount to be a gift.
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Abedekar
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| | Tuesday, March 16, 2004 - 11:11 pm: |
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ok - fair enough, my statement was based on the assumption that then there no tax benefits for money spent on childcare/nannies etc. but if there are as you say, then its a whole different ballgame. on a totally different note, is there anything that folks with kids cant take a tax break on ?
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Dswati
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| | Wednesday, March 17, 2004 - 5:45 pm: |
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pgaar ksaa Vayacaa va tax ksaa Barayacaa ho p`%yaokanao Aapaplao zrvaavao.
maulao saaMBaaLNyaacaa AaNaKI ek maaga- kahI laÜkaMnaI AnauBavalaa AsaolaÊ tÜ mhNajao babysitter cyaa GarI maulaaMnaa zovaNao.
Ka~IcaI caaMgalaI babysitter XaÜQaUna kaZNao tsao mauYkIlacaÊ pNa jyaaMnaa tI saapDtoÊ %yaa AavaiDlaaMcaI maulaaMcaI kaLjaI barIca
kmaI hÜto.
malaa kahI kaL AXaI ek baa caukUnaca saapDlaI. tI maaJyaa maulaacyaa day-care maQyao naÜkrI krt hÜtI. itlaa nauktoca private babysitter license imaLalaM hÜtM. itnao tI naÜkrI saÜDlaI tovha itnao malaa ÔÜna k$na ivacaarlaM kI maaJyaa maulaalaa maI
itcyaakDo pazvaona kaÆ itcyaakDo maulao 5Ê maaJaa maulagaa tovha 2 vaYaa-caa hÜta. tI %yaacaI KUpca caaMgalaI
doKBaala krayacaI. tÜ jaovat nasalaa kI tI BarvaayacaI doiKla. maI Aa<aapya-Mt Anaok maO~INaIMnaa itcao
naava saaMigatlao va %yaaMnaahI itcaa caaMgalaa AnauBava Aalaa.
AXaa day-care maQao malaa dÜna ADcaNaI idsatat.
1. ivaXvaasaU babysitter XaÜQaUna kaZNao.
2. backup nasaNao.
dÜnhI saÜDvaNao kzINa AahoÊ pNa day-care XaÜQatanaa yaacaahI ivacaar kravaa.
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There is an inquiry number in each area where u can call and find out the reports about different daycares(especially whether they r blacklisted because of some bad events/cases). I also paid lot of money when I was in Mass,USA to a private day care but the day care was good and the baby-sitter/lady was president of Mass' Day care asociation( what I mean to say is she was experienced). At that time my daughter was just completing 2 and I had a bad experience with indian/gujju baby-sitter. My daughter was not speaking english but still the american lady made a nice try to understand her words, she asked me and wrote down some of the key-words in english. Then after my daughter completed 3 yrs I put her in a nursery school which had attached day-care. That worked out nicely. She was there till she completed her kinderGarten. But I have no experience of putting an infant baby in day-care as I took one and a half year break after my delivery.
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Mita
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| | Tuesday, January 30, 2007 - 6:14 pm: |
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माझी ड्यु डेट १४ मार्च आहे. आई येणार होती पण तिची अचानक ब्रेन surgery झाल्यामुळे ती येऊ शकत नाही. आणखी कोणी येण्यासारखे नाही. माझ्या २ जवळ्च्या मैत्रिणी पण देशात गेल्या आहेत ३-४ महिन्यांसाठि. 
आता मी cooking help आणि थोडिफ़ार baby-care help बघते आहे. मला वाटते बाळाला आंघोळ घालण्यासाठि जरि मदत मिळाली तरि पुरेशी आहे. exp. moms चे काय मत आहे यावर? साधारण कशाकशाला मदत लागेल? माझ्या नवर्याला लहान मुलांना हाताळण्याचा अजिबात अनुभव नाही, आणि मीही फ़ारशी expert नाही.
२ जणांचे जेवण्-नाश्ता आणि बाळाला आंघोळ घालणे एवध्या कामाचे किती rate आहेहोईल? मला फ़क्त १ महिना मदत हवी आहे. मी बे एरियामधे रहाते.
तुम्हाला कोणी असे माहित असेल तरी सांगा.
please help.
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Ishita
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2007 - 3:34 am: |
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bayarea madhe kuthe ahes tu Mita?
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Mita
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2007 - 10:01 pm: |
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नेहमीप्रमाणे कोणीच उत्तर देणार नाही का??
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Maitreyee
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2007 - 10:29 pm: |
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मिता तू सुलेखा वर का नाही जाहिरात देऊन पहात? तिथे चटकन प्रतिसाद मिळेल तुला
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Seema_
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| | Wednesday, January 31, 2007 - 11:46 pm: |
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मिता एक नजर वर पण बघ .
bay area ची link आहे पहा .
http://bayarea.eknazar.com/
BTW मी माझ्या experience वरुन सांगेन कि व्यवस्थित पुर्वतयारी अगोदर करुन ठेवली तर ( मदतीशिवायसुद्धा ) शक्य आहे ग सगळ . Don't Worry.
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Mita
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| | Thursday, February 01, 2007 - 12:35 am: |
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thanks maitreyee,seema
मैत्रेयी, दिली आहे सुलेखावर जाहिरात. पण नक्कि बाळाच्या कोणत्या कामांसाठि मदत लागेल त्याची मला माहिती हवी होती.
सीमा मला माहित नव्हतं एकनजर बद्दल. बघते तिकडेसुध्हा.
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Hi Mita, There are some Punjabi ladies I have heard who work as a nanny or any kind of help in house but their rates are high like $15/hr or more.
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Manuswini
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| | Saturday, February 03, 2007 - 11:21 pm: |
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आज मी इथे येवुन वाचले, आई ग, महिना २५००?? ...... नोकरी करुन काय फायदा?
त्यापेक्षा, स्वःताच घरी बसुन नवर्या कडुन घ्यायला हवेत. 
पण मला अजुन कळले नाही की जर receipt नसेल तर prove कसे करणार अशी nanny hire केली असेल तर tax filing वेळी?
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