anek san aapan tyachi mahiti nasatana karato. kadhikadhi andh shraddhene karato. kahi san keval aaine sangitale mhanun kinva sasubai mhanalya mhanun karato. mala ek don sanchyabaddal mazya eka taine tyanche puranat vachun arth sangitale aahet. tyatala vatpournima ha ek san. matsyapurananusar vat-savitrichi katha khupach vegali aahe. tya kathenusar sawitri hi atyant pragalbh budhhimatta asanari yuvati hoti. tichya vivahachyaveles tichya pityala yogya war milala nahi mhanun tyane tila swata:ch var shodhanyachi paravanagi dili.
satyawan ha ek satat yenarya apayashatun atmavishwas gamawalela kshatriy raja hota. apayashamule khachoon jaun tyane kshatriy dharma anusar vartan na karata sankatapasun pal kadhanyache dhoran awalabale hote. tyatach tyache mata-pita putrapremapoti tyanche kartavya visarale hote. tyala sankatanshi samana karanyache dharya denyaaivaji tyala palayanala sahamati det hote. tyache manobal khachchi karanyacha prayatna karat asat.
asha sthitit sawitrine tyachyashi vivahbadhh honyache dhadas kele. vivahanantar tine satat prayatnasheel rahun tyache mataparivartan kele. putrapremane andha zalelya apalya sasu-sasaryanche dole ughadale. satyawanala atmavishwasane apale rajya parat milawanyachi jidd tine dili. mhanun ti itihasat ajaramar zali.
mi ji paramparik padhhatine sangitaleli katha aikun hote tyat satyawan melela asato, sasu-sarare kharokharach aandhale(physically) asatat aani ti yamapasun varadan milawun satyawanache pran, sasu-sasaryanchi drusti & rajya parat milawate asa hota. jyat sanatun denyacha mul messagech navata.
mi bharatat lagnanatar kahich diwas hote. pan mala mazya sasubaini 'upas nahi kelas tari chalel pan eka brahman(?) sawashnila kahi dan de' asa sangitala hota. tyana mi var lihileli katha tyana sangitali. tyani tyamchya san sajara karanyat badal kela nahi. pan mi te dan amachya complex baherachya zopadpattitalya eka baila neun dete mhanalyawar tya 'chalel' mhanalya. (avivahit muli & purush yana hi charcha vayafal vatel. pan vivahit muli samaju shakatil. sanana virodh karanyapeksha tyanche mul shodhale tar? ani te acharanat ananyache marg kalanurup badalale tar san tikateel nahitar......)
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Limboni
mi mage ek pustak vachale hote "Shastra kay sangate" ya navacha. Tyat tyani apan je je kahi dharmik rudhi/parampara mhanun karto tyamagacha shastriy karan dila hota. Tyat tyani asa dila hota ki vadachya zadamadhye aushadhi gundharm asatat. tyachya sannidhyat rahila tar fayada hoto. jase tulashichya zadamadhye pan asatat.. ajun dekhil jar tulashiche zad/pane jithe asatil tithe das yet nahit... purvichya kali striya divasbhar ghar tyat karun swayampakgharat adakalelya asalyane tyanchyasathi to ek arogyadayi anubhav hota. Pan he shastriy drushtya sangitala tar lokana patayacha nahi mhanun dharmik rudhinchya nave lokana karnyas bhag padale hote.. ani aajkal apan kasalya junat andhashradhdha mhanun te sarv udavun lavat aahot.
ha,tyachbarobar ek ahe sadhya shaharamadhye je vadachi ek chhoti fandi anun gharachya ghari pujan chalalay ani tyadware vadachya zadanchi ji kattal hotey te pahata vatsavitri na kelelich bari asa mhanayachi vel aliy.
tasa pahata jar tu dilelya donhi goshti nit vachalya tar tyat stri/patnichya kartutvamulech navaryala/sasu/sasaryana fayada zalay.. mag ashi patni/sun 7 janma milo mhanun khara tar navaryane/sasu/sasaryane vatsavitrichi puja karayala nako ka? :-)
tula kay vatat?
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svs, tu lihilele mi vadachya babatit aikale nasale tari te khare asu shakel yawar maza vishwas aahe. mi ashich katha mangalagourichya pujebaddal aikali aahe. mazya mahitit ek ayurvedik doctor aahe. ji apalya vadilanchya ayurvedik pharmacitical co. kam karate ti mangalagourichi puja ashi sajari karate. ti bayakana jama karun sola aushadhi vanaspatinche gun sangate. bass! mangalagourichya poojela sola prakarachi patri ka lagatat tyache ti karan tenva sangate.
mala watate ki bayakani sajare karanyachya sananche swaroop sadhyachya kalat nivval cheshteche vishay kinva bayansathi mirawanyache nimitta(ki tyamulech cheshteche?) itakech houn rahile aahet.
tu mhanatoyas te kharay. pan apalyakadachya tyakalachya purushpradhan sauskrutimadhe junya goshtitahi sawitriche shrey tiche tila thewale aahe he tari kahi kami aahe? :)
(mi ithe stri-purush samanatebaddal vad suru karate aahe asa arth yatun koni kadhu naka. adhunik jagat, tumachya mazya vishwat 'maza baicha janma...' mhanun gala kadhanyachi sthiti rahileli nahi asa maza mat aahe. aani samasta strijatichi samjik sthiti ha vishay ithe charchela nako. :))
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parawa maza mulaga Teletubbies baghat asatana mihi tyachya shejari basun pustak wachata wachata maza laksha chalawala gela. karan Teletubbies madhe Indian kids & Diwali festival dakhavat hote. tin chhoti mule madirat jatat. arati karatat. prasad ghetat. vagaire vagaire. Microsoftla diwalichi sutti asate.
bharatalya madhyam vargatalya tumha-amhala attaparyantachya ayushyat san-war, riti-riwajanche mahatwa naselahi kadachit. pan kadachit pudhachi pidhi cartoon films madhun bhaghun tyachi story tumha-amhala sangu lagel ekhade diwashi asa apala mala watal!
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Check this : Narli Pornima ani Raksha Bandhan
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limboni: mi tuzya matashi sahamat ahe, jari barech ABCD Bharatala ghaN mhaNat asale tari Hindu Dharm aNi aplya chaliriti yabaddal tyanna nakkich utsukata ahe. Mi marathi shaLet 4-5 varsh shikavat ase, temva mala hach anubhav ala, paN nusati goshT sangaNyaeivaji tyamagil hetu, tyatun ghaDNare sanskrutiche darshan he jar spashT kele tar jast bare.
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Where can I see the Hindu Calendar for the month of Sept. 2000 ?
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hemant, a broad and basic cal. is available at
www.boloji.com/hinduism/calendar2000.htm.
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KalNirnay chi site ahe na kalnirnary.com
Limboni : Tuze mhanane agadi barobar ahe apalyakade Hindu dharma madhe (ani itar dharma madhe suddha) aajvar jya goshti rudhi parampara chalat alya ahet tyachi pale mule tapasun pahili ani mul drushtikonatun jar ya sarv goshtinche anukaran kele tar kharya arthane san sajare hotil.
Konatahi Upas apan ka karato ? barechda upasachya divashi jast khalle jate. pan upasacha mul arth samajun ghene avashyak ahe.
Mi ithe mala mahit asalela ekadashicha mul arth sanganyacha prayatn karato. Ekadashi hi dar 15 divasanni yete. Upas mhanaje Upvas mhanaje javal rahane devachya javal rahane. sharir he ek yantr ahe tyachya antar shuddhi sathi simit ahar ghyayacha. Tasech samajala dev manun tya divashi apalya swarthache konatehi kam n karata purn niswarthi pane samaj hitachi kame karayachi mhanaje manasik shuddhi pan hote. Ya madhe apale je koushaly asel mhanaje apan apalya upjivike sathi ji gosht karat asu ti tya divashi samaja sathi karayachi. e.g. shikshakanni tya divashi shalet jau shakat nahit asha mulanna kahihi apeksha n thevata shikavayache, etc. asha ritine samajachya javal jane mhanaje khara upvas.
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ek prashna-
apalyakade pitru pandharavada ashubh ka manatat? mala je karan mahiti aahe te tya pandharavadyat apalya purvajanche shraadhha karanyachi prathaa aahe. pan mag tase asale tari tyala ashubh ka manatat? shraadhha hi sankalpana kay aahe? apalya purvajanachyababat asaleleli shradhhaa vyakta karane ase aahe ki tyala ajun kay arth aahe? nusatich shradhhaa ase asel tar mag tyat ashubhapana kay aahe?
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smita,
shradhdha karane hyat kahihi ashubhapana nahi.
pan apalyamadhe pratyek prakarchya goshticha tharavik kaal asto. gelelya vyaktinbaddal karaychya goshti tya pitru pandravdyat kelya jatat. jenva san yetat tenva tyanchya madhech pitaranche kahi karaycha divas yet nahi.
ani vice versa.
shevati maran ani tyanantarche jivan he ashubhach manlele ahe.
mhanun pitrupandhravdyat konatehi shubh karya kinva survaat karaychi nahi.
shradhdha mhanje facta apali shradhdha vyakta karne nahi.
apalya gelelya pitaranchya kahi aasha tashach rahun gelyachi shakyata aste. tase asel tar to atma swargaat na pochata pruthvivarach tya aasha purna honyachi vaat pahat rahato. tar tya aasha jya kahi astil tya purna vavyat ani mazya pitarala moksha milava asa apan tyaveles devakade magato.
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tarihi ashubh mananyaitake tyat kahi aahe ase mala vatat nahi. ajun kahi vichar pravah aahet ka yat? karan ekhadyala(jivant athava mrut) ekhadi changali goshta milo yasathi prarthana karanyat ashubh kay te kalale nahi.
arthat savyasachi mi tuzyashi kinva anakhi konashi vaad ghalanyachya hetune ha prashna vicharat nahiye. pan mala purna mahiti karun ghyayachi aahe mhanun punha ekada lihile.
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mrutyu ani tya sambandhi itar kahi, ya baddal kahi karane mhanjech ashubha manale gele ahe.
mrutatmyachi ekhadi aihik ichcha rahane ani tyasathi to mokshakade na jata ithech rahane hech mulaat ashubh ahe. mag tya sathi apan kadhitari karne he ashubhach nahi ka?
mantra pathanane ek tharvik vatavaran nirmaan hote. vegvegalya mantrane vegvegale. shradhdhachya kalat je vatavaran nirmaan hote te shubh karyala changle nahi. mhanun...
ata he sagla purvichya lokanche vichar. ani purviche mhanje paar hrushi muni astanache. purvi ekhadi goshta sadhya karayla tharavik vatavaran nirmaan karayla faar mahatva hote.
ata apan tyat kaay ashubh asa mhanto. ekhadyache changle hovo hi ichcha ashubh nahi, pan ti melelya asantushta atmyanbaddal ahe mhanun to kaal ashubh.
arthat, shevati sagali relativity ahe. udya smashaanat basun mi sandhya , munj ityadi goshti karnyat kaay ashubha ahe asa mhanen. kinva GA nchya eka kathemadhe ahe tya pramane , chitevar bhajlele anna khanyat kay vait ahe asa mhanen.
tuza vaad ghalaycha hetu nahi mala kalate. ani ghatlaas tari mala kahich farak padnar nahi..:)
tevadhich ek vegalich gammat...:)
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Bandhu ani Bhagininno
ya BB ch nav Amache San ani tyanche Hetu as ahe. Apan Shraddh vagaire goshti San mhanun sajarya karat nahi. Tyamule ek tar ya BB ch nav badalav kinva ya vishaya sathi vegala BB shodhava kinva create karava hi Namr Vinanti.
Ya vishaya var bolanya sarakhe barech cchan points ahet. e.g. Mandir kasha sathi ? Upavas ka karayacha ? Ekadashila evadhe mahatv ka ? etc.
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Up + vaas =upvaas.
Up mhaNje javaL aaNi vaas mhaNje rahaNe.aapaN jyadivshi upvaas karto tyadivshi devachyaa javaL vaas karaNe . mhaNje puja-path,naamsmaraN karaNe etyaadi. aaNi tyadivshi fakt falahaar karaNe. uddesh haach ki nisargani dilele anna tyachya muL swarupaat khaNe tyaavar kahihi prakriya na karata.
ashamuLe swayampak vagaire cha veL vaachto aaNi adhikadhik veL devpujelaa deta yeto.
Dusre shaastriy kaRan ase ki tyadivshi shariratil pachansansthela vishraanti miLaavi . mhaNje urlelya divshi tyana vyavasthit kaam karata yaave.
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jari shraddha ha san nasala tari pitrupandhravadyat san sajare ka kele jaat nahit asa prashna aslyamule ya BB la dharunach mhanava lagel.
> apalyakade pitru pandharavada ashubh ka manatat?
maazhya mate, tya darmyan anek atme tyanchya urwarit icchha shraddhadware purna karun ghenya sathi aajubajula ghutmalat aslyani itar shubh goshti sajrya kelya jaat nasawyat (aapan shraddha aaplya purwajanche karato pan itaranchya purvajanchya aatmyache kaay?).
BTW, pitrupandhrawada aala he aaplyala calendar muLe kalate. aatmyanna kase kalat asawe?
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